Dan 13 Nov 2017, 06:47
Has anybody ever found a fellow optic obsessive by scrolling through Tinder or using a dating app?
The Glasses Lover 23 Oct 2017, 20:03
Glasses are very sexy. I have a fetish for licking thick myopic glasses. If anyone else does, then you can email me at: scattoaster@gmail.com
Gerry 02 Sep 2017, 08:32
Where are all those sexy ladies who have high RX magnification glasses, i find those big warm loving sexy eyes a real turn on. I would love to date such a lady. If your interested please contact me at arnoldmartinjock@hotmail.com. Lets get to know each other first. Have fun Gerry xx.
281 29 Aug 2017, 23:20
Fictional story
Gabrielle : These are the glasses I had before. Looking through both of them is like drunken vision for me. They drove me nuts. I hate these glasses. (But she was wearing her new, moderate minus glasses at 6.5 diopters )
281 10 Aug 2017, 02:21
I normally prefer to be dominant.
Short story begins.
Object came in to my room, with her submissive atmosphere emanating.
Object is a gwg wearing minus glasses.
I said, "you are beautiful today" .
Object does not reply. I love her silence.
I said, "glasses are good for you. "
I remove objects glasses , gently , quietly , with her submissive personality, she agreed to remove for me.
I said, " So you have moderate minus "
Object provided a childhood image without glasses via email, before entering my room.
I said, " So you can see without glasses back then"
I said, " You watched too much TV , here is the result"
I press her glasses on her nose, back and forth her nose, varying the vertex distance by 10 cm every second.
I said, " See the effect of your glasses ? "
I said , " You watched too much TV that night , now this is you so blind "
Object have blissful tears on her face.
I said, " Well done."
I place her glasses which she wears every day since January 2016 , onto her "entrance" , rubbing at her "entrance" ,
I said "You now have your glasses moving at your entrance"
I said "Now you can sense your miopia at entrance"
I said , " Miopia Alta , you are so lovely "
Johnny 02 May 2017, 10:54
I've recently started wearing my glasses during sex, rather than whisking them off straight away. I'm -2.5 in both eyes, so I don't need to wear them, but it definitely adds an extra thrill (plus my girlfriend seems to like it too "it's like having sex with a different person"). Am just wondering - who else keeps their specs on during lovemaking?
Glasses Lover 21 Jun 2016, 03:08
Glasses are very sexy. I have a fetish for licking thick myopic glasses. If anyone else does, then you can email me at: scattoaster@gmail.com
Likelenses 12 Apr 2016, 19:17
My girlfriend Cheryl is coming up on a year since getting bifocals,and a small increase in her distance Rx.
She has said that she thinks that she needs more in the bifocal,but I think,and hope she gets a bit more minus also.
Lately she seems to prefer wearing her over minus glasses,and there is a little squinting going on ,for both near and distance,similar to before her last exam.She says she is not squinting though.
Although she is OK with wearing strong glasses,she still is upset with needing any increases,as she feels defective,and that goes back to her early days in glasses.She is embarrassed when she can not see the eye chart,that she thinks the doctor expects her to see.
Within the next few days we are going to test her eyes with my trial lense set.We did that about six months ago and at that time, it appeared that she needed about -.50 in her better eye.Perhaps that will relieve some of her anxiety,over getting the exam.
Pablo 24 Jan 2016, 21:06
I have a similar story as Tom. My wife is 33 years old. I started dating her when she was 20. She has perfect vision. Her sister is 3 years younger than her. When her sister was 18, she (her sister) was prescribed with -0,50 glasses. She was very shy about wearing them and used to wear them only when studying or reading at home. By that time my wife (who was my girlfriend), lived with her. Frequently her sister studied in the living room. After studying she used to leave the books, notepads and her glasses over the table. Many times, after having dinner with my girlfriend, I used to go to her house to watch a movie together, play card games or just to have some intimate moment. I've always have had a glasses fetish. But I've never told anybody about it. I remember watching those black rectangular frame with wide arms over the table dreaming about my girlfriend wearing them.
Once they were over the couch. When my gf was almost seating over them I told her to be careful. So she grabbed the glasses and joked about that if she had broken them, her sister would be happy because she hates wearing glasses. After that she tried them on and was surprised of the weak prescription. She thought her sister was more myopic. I told her that her green eyes looked even better with glasses and that I really loved her look wearing them. Since that, every time we were alone in her house, she used to wear the glasses. Even once, when her sister was on a trip over Europe, and her glasses at home, my girlfriend stayed in my house and wore the glasses for a whole week.
Time passed and gradually she stopped wearing the glasses.
Last year when her mother was cleaning her house, my wife went to see if she wanted something of the packed boxes she was about to dump. And when we were opening a box, she found those glasses. She put them on and asked me if I remembered those. I answered I could never forget that lovely glasses girl. So she smiled, took them off and put them in her purse. Since then, she is wearing those glasses again sometimes when we are alone at home and I love it!
Rick 23 Jan 2016, 09:26
I personaly always found glasses sexy. My wife was nearsighted, and she had astigmatism. Her prescription was -8.5 in both eye, and I her astigmatisim was around -1.75 and -2.25. I loved how they made her eyes look. I mean her eyes were do pretty already, but when she put on her glasses, they got prettier. I loved the rings in her lenses. For me they made her and her glasses look that much more sexy. While I do think glasses are sexy, I also thought it was so sexy when she would take them off or would not have them. One time our then youngest son broke her glasses and she always gave away her old glasses, so she was squinting and holding stuff up to her nose. When we would go out she was dependent on me, and it made us closer.
Likelenses 06 Jan 2016, 01:21
Tom
Since you said that your wife's sister's glasses are from twenty years ago,that would date them to about 1995.
The glasses that Cheryl has go back to the late 1920's,to 1930's.They are 12K Gold,and have very thick glass lenses,and are very close to Cheryl's minus nineish actual Rx.We found them at an antique show last summer,and initially Cheryl liked the frames,but was elated that she could see very well through them.She affectionately calls them her " Goldies ".
This past Thanksgiving Day holiday weekend we went to her mom's home,and like your wife mom,Cheryl's gave her all of her old glasses,complete with all of their prescriptions, way back to her first pair.I am in the process of making a nice display case for them.
When Cheryl tries on her old glasses,she can not believe how weak they are,and it makes her a little sad that her Rx is as strong as it is now,and that several months age she went into her first bifocals.
Tom 03 Jan 2016, 13:34
Likelenses, fully agree, those "12k gold" frames are very special.
When my wife's parents sold their house a few weeks ago to move to a new flat, they asked their children to come to the house where they grew up and collect belongings their parents had found and packed for them.
I helped my wife carry her boxes into our house, and together we started unpacking and found old schoolbooks, photographs, dolls,... Much to her surprise she also opened a box in which she found several pairs of glasses she had worn since her youth, all of them in excellent state. By mistake her parents had also packed some of her older sister's glasses in the same box, and one pair was very delicate metal gold looking frames with rather thick lenses in them (before the hi-index lenses were launched). My wife laughed as she immediately recognized those as Amy's (her sister, who is 5y older) when she went to college, and told me she had been jealous at the time about her sister's high-end frames. She took off her own glasses to try on her sister's from 20y ago, told me "wait, those are reaaaaally strong", but was surprised and bit shocked at how well she could see through them, while she had always thought her sister's prescriptions were much stronger than hers. She came to the conclusion that her own eyesight deteriorated over the past 20y to the same level as her sister's 20y ago. But the frames fit her really well and she looked very sophisticated in them.
Later that evening she called Amy, told her about finding her old glasses and asked whether she could keep them and fit them with her own prescription, which her sister readily accepted!
Likelenses 01 Jan 2016, 01:15
Cheryl and I went to a great New Years eve party.
When I went to pick her up,she was just putting the finishing touches on her makeup.
She was in a dither as to which glasses to wear.She looked lovely in a little black dress and heels. She was wearing her rimless bifocals,but was not totally decided that they were right for the occasion.Her blue cat eyes myos were out of the question,and her Wayfarer type didn't cut it as far as I was concerned.I suggested she wear her antique 12 K Gold ,with the original glass lenses that are very close to her Rx,but are not bifocals.She slipped them on,and it took my breath away how beautiful she looked.
When we got to the event all of the women that were bespectacled were envious,and wanted to know where she got those glasses.The lighting was subdued,supplemented by candlelight,and the Gold frames,and thick glass lenses made her face radiant.
I had to read the menu to her because they are single vision lenses.Even though she had her backup bifocals in her purse,she did not want to wear them and tarnish the image that she had created.( How vein is woman )
Everyone on the dance floor was sneaking a peek at her.She was truly the belle of the ball!
Marco 08 Nov 2015, 18:42
Post deleted - spam
The Glasses Lover 24 Apr 2015, 21:55
Here is a link to a site showing some of the thick glasses I enjoy.
http://public.fotki.com/lens-lover/
murky 04 Apr 2015, 00:22
At a local opshop I found a gorgeous pair of Hary Lary ( brand Invady)made in France big bold womens red and blue glasses, by coincidence they are +1 with +2.0 for reading, multifocal, must have cost well over $1000, got them for 20 dollars, fantastic things. I can see perfectly through them.
Went overseas for 3 weeks are wore them everywhere, on the plane the Stewardess called loudly," and now to serve the gentleman with the wonderful glasses!"
To see people looking at me with vague wonder, shop assistants hesitate, wide mouthed, was so exciting, and to put them on, and go down to a meal was arousing++. Sadly when I came home, had not the courage to wear them to work, or with family.
High Myopic 20 Dec 2014, 19:42
@Likelenses, You said you have a pair of glasses that you can sell me? I cannot afford to pay 350 dollars for that pair. I will be much much more willing to pay like 40 or 50 dollars for your pair. Can you accept preloaded gift cards?
Likelenses 09 Jul 2014, 18:06
I think that it is a fair question due to the fact that Carrie seems to enjoy flaunting her lesbian affair with a great amount of detail.So she has created some questions.
I have wondered what role she plays in this affair.
Dave 09 Jul 2014, 01:37
Anonymous Troll:
I couldn't agree more with Curt, you bitter s.o.b. It's as if something grotesque crawled up inside of you and died leaving you with a toxic residue which you feel a need to spread.
Carrie's posts are insightful, charming, and grammatically correct. (Please note, I used the Oxford comma.) Go away and stay away if you've nothing positive to say.
Dave
09 Jul 2014, 01:20
It is a legitimate question, Curt. Does Carrie wear a strap-on? But never mind about that. I really don't want to suffer through three paragraphs of rambling to get a bullshit answer from some grammatically challenged flunkie. Let's discuss something more pressing such as this site does not have better controls to vet stupid discussions like whether a lesbian likes a fake cock inside her?
Curt 08 Jul 2014, 20:58
Assh@le...go away!
08 Jul 2014, 00:44
Carrie
Your last post,with all of the details,got me curious. Is it your girlfriend that wears a strap on,or is it you,or do your switch?
Mark 05 Jul 2014, 07:53
It was Tom's wife the one who sneaked around the house.
My sister in law glasses were -1,50, she used to wear them only when studying because she was a little shy about them. I remember once I was driving and she was in the car that she was squinting a lot to see through the window. After some time, my girlfriend (who also was in the car) suggested wearing the glasses. She put them on, but as soon we arrived the family meeting we were going she took them off.
As time passed and she became more myopic (I think around -2,50) she became a full time wearer, but most of the time she wears contacts.
The glasses I bought for my wife are not all OTC readers, she has a range going from -5,50 till +3,50. Obviously, the ones she prefer are a -0,25 black cat eyes with orange inside. When we go to the movies she always takes those glasses because she enjoys driving me crazy in public spaces.
Soundmanpt 04 Jul 2014, 15:50
Mark
Clearly your wife has much more than a passing interest in glasses and it doesn't even seem that she is only trying on and wearing glasses for your pleasure, but more for her own pleasure. We have seen in here from time to time where people will often nosy around someone else's bathroom maybe checking the prescription of unopened contacts or even trying on a pair of glasses left in the bathroom. But your wife is way more daring by actually going into some of her friends handbags and drawers looking for glasses to try on. If she were ever caught it could be very embarising and she could even be arrested for stealing because they would probably think she was looking for money. No doubt since you know about these things your wife has told you about doing these things? Since she does know how much you enjoy seeing her wearing glasses have you ever suggested getting her her own glasses to wear so she maybe would stop going through other peoples things before she gets caught. Nowadays many people have video equipment all over their house in case of robbery. I'm sure she wouldn't want to end up a star in such a video.
The glasses she "borrowed" for a week, were they weak enough that she could wear them and see okay with them or weer they a bit too strong for her eyes? Maybe sit down with her and have her look at all the great glasses she could get from Zenni. They even have an option she may enjoy playing with as well. She can post her picture in there and actually try on glasses that way to see how they look on her.
Crystal Veil 04 Jul 2014, 04:36
Mark,
a small contribution to your survey. The word "fetish" is never used in my relation. To me, glasses are the proverbial cherry on the cake - I simply love it when my life partner wears her -12 glasses during the day. It's great to have a partner with two entirely different faces (daytime vs night time). There is nothing like a fetish from her side but she enjoys the luxury of having the choice between half a dozen glasses nowadays. When we first met, she simply used her glasses because dry eyes made the use of contact lenses problematic. She was reassured that I liked her in glasses. When my photography project started, she was my first model and she never stopped supporting me. Gradually I noticed that the project gave her a more self assured attitude towards her looks in glasses and she now says that she would never switch back to contact lenses. She will have her 60th birthday on Sunday, a big garden party with a lot of live music, and she asked me to bring along a nice pair of green cat eye glasses to match her green dress. So far, these cat eye glasses are only used for photo shoots but they have her prescription for long distance. She now uses half a dozen Zenni pairs in daily life and enjoys having so much choice, a luxury unknown to her before the project started. I look forward to see her in the extravagant cat eye glasses at the garden party, especially as she requested me to bring them along. Nice!
Tom 04 Jul 2014, 03:14
Mark
My wife does not exactly have a glasses fetish herself, in the sense that she is especially attracted by guys in glasses, but she gets very excited by trying on other people's glasses. Either by commenting ladies on their glasses, and eventually be in a position they are handed over to her for a try, or by doing so more secretly.
For example, when at friends of whom she knows they wear glasses, she always looks for spare glasses in the houses (handbags, kitchens, bathrooms and bedrooms are the best places) to quickly try on. Now that some friends of hers are in their late thirties or early forties, reading glasses become a more common item also.
A good friend of hers, who is a full time wearer of moderately minus glasses, is very fashion conscious and buys a new pair almost every year. She van be seen in different pairs often, as she also still uses her older specs. Meaning her house, handbag, car,... are good places to find glasses, and because there are so many of them, my wife even managed to "borrow" a nice pair of glasses recently for a week. She returned them of course, but her friend never noticed. We had some fun evenings with those specs at home :)
Soundmanpt 28 Jun 2014, 11:42
Mark
From what you described back when you were still dating your future wife it seems like you both had a glasses fetish and still do? But having her wear over the counter readers i'm sure only blurs her vision for anything more than a couple of feet away. If you like how your wife looks wearing glasses and want her to even wear them more often you should probably go on line and order her some glasses in either a -.75 or -1.00 prescription. Her eyes would have no problem at all adjusting to them.
Was she sure her sister's glasses were -1.50 and not +1.50? If she only wore them when she was studying they were more likely +1.50. A -1.50 she would need for distance and certainly for driving.
Carrie 28 Jun 2014, 10:11
Mark - my girlfriend doesn't know about my fetish although she knows that glasses certainly don't put me off a woman as she wears glasses full time. She uses her glasses as a signal to me that she wants more than just cuddling on the sofa! She will just give me a certain look and then the glasses come off. Sometimes she takes them off quickly sometimes it's slowly. Then she goes a bit feisty and assertive (quite unlike how she is the rest of the time) and I have to quickly take my glasses off as we don't always bother to wait until we get to our bedroom! She knows all of that is a massive turn-on for me. I do a similar thing to her except I go all submissive (I am quite a feisty lady, so I've been told) and she loves that!
Most of the women I fancy wear glasses but no one seems to have noticed that so I do deliberately get seen checking out non-glasses wearing women just make sure the balance of glasses to non-glasses seems about right.
I consider myself very lucky to have a beautiful and sexy girlfriend who wears (and needs) glasses. As I've said on Eyescene before, I'd still fancy her as much if she didn't wear glasses.
Mark, you should also consider yourself very lucky that your wife understands your fetish and is happy to wear glasses she doesn't need for you. Several people on Eyescene have partners who wear glasses because they need them but I don't know if anyone else has a partner like your wife. May you both have a very long and happy marriage!
Mark 24 Jun 2014, 04:04
Little survey: Does your partner knows about your glasses fetish? How did she/he reacted when you told him/her about it?
In my case, both my wife and I have perfect vision. She knows I love how she looks in glasses but the word "fetish" was never mentioned.
It all started years ago when we were dating. We were in her house where she lived with her parents and sister. Her sister wore -1,50 glasses and used to wear them when studying.
It was about 2 AM, my girlfriend and I were watching a movie in her house. I told her I had my sight a little tired and she replied that maybe I needed glasses. In the table near the couch were her sister's glasses so I took them and tried them on. My gf told me I looked funny, so I replied her to try them and she answered that her sister didn't want anyone to try her glasses. I said "come on!" and put them on her. I remember her saying that she thought the glasses were weaker. When she was going to remove them I told her I loved how she looks with them and asked her to leave them. We watched the movie till the end with my girlfriend wearing those glasses. The next times we were alone in her house she used to have fun wearing the glasses. After a few weeks I bought her some OTC readers. I remember her saying I was crazy but she liked them.
Since then, time has passed, we married, we have a collection of about 10 glasses and she sometimes wears them when we are alone.
GL 25 May 2014, 23:47
Glasses are sexy. Licking thick myopic glasses is 'fun'. If you agree, then you can email me at: thickglass@hushmail.com
Mike 30 May 2013, 06:38
Hi,
sexy sighting yesterday. Young girl about 18 years in sexy clothes and 4 inch heels borrowed glsses from a friend in a cafe. I sit the table next to them. The power of the glasses were about -3/-4. She try them on for more than five minutes and she looks very nice in them. She said to her friend that they made her sighting not very comfortable but she was able to see things in distance very clearly.
Very sexy.
Mike
smithie 20 May 2013, 01:23
same for me, jak
Bill 18 May 2013, 01:23
jak, I certainly have one!
jak 17 May 2013, 10:41
matthewson, it's not unusual to have a fetish, a glasses fetish, many on here are the same
matthewson 17 May 2013, 10:36
ordered a pair of bifocals online, i don't need them but I LOVE wearing them when I don't know anyone. Don't know why that's such a turn on, but being around strangers wearing lined bifocals is a good feeling
Astra 15 May 2013, 05:28
previous post is by me.
15 May 2013, 05:28
Re: Cactus Jack 27 Mar 2013, 11:50
I agree it is nothing mysterious. We can calculate the value using this online calculator, the method is the same:
http://www.opticampus.com/tools/vertex.php
If my post before felt like a bit mysterious, it's because I described the feeling seeing thru the image. my feelings are subjective , varies with time and not always rational.
lazysiow 06 Apr 2013, 12:18
I've started using this line ;)
"Your glasses are not a bug, they're a feature"
Chad 27 Mar 2013, 13:31
That's why progressives are so good. You don't have to slide the glasses down and your eyes and brain coordinate as to what part of the lens to look through. I think they were an inqenious invention.
Cactus Jack 27 Mar 2013, 12:00
Come to think of it, sliding your glasses down your nose can also help a person who wears plus glasses read also, again if the prescription is high enough. Anything to avoid the dreaded bifocals or, horror of horrors, trifocals.
C.
Cactus Jack 27 Mar 2013, 11:54
Another thought. Letting minus glasses slide down your nose has the same optical effect as wearing the dreaded bifocals to help you read, IF you have a significant MINUS prescription.
C.
Cactus Jack 27 Mar 2013, 11:50
If your prescription is more than +/-5.00 vertex distance (the distance from your cornea to the back surface of your glasses) begins to play a role in the "effective" power of your glasses. The magnitude of the effect is the square (^2) of the sphere prescription, though cylinder can come into play if it is over 5.00.
When your glasses slide down your nose, you are increasing the vertex distance from the usual 12 mm or so, which is pretty close to the vertex distance for either trial lens frames or phoropters, you are DECREASING the effective power of your glasses if you wear minus lenses and INCREASING the effective power of your glasses if you wear plus lenses.
You can calculate the approximate power change by squaring the sphere power and dividing the result by 1000. This number is the amount of the effective power decrease or increase per mm.
For example, with Astra's -5.5 it would be (5.5 x 5.5 = 30.25 / 1000 = .03025) 0.030 x 20 mm or effectively 0.60 diopters LESS if the glasses slid down the nose 20 mm or -4.90 diopters. With JD's -10.75 the effect is significantly greater because of the square function at work. Here is the math. 10.75 x 10.75 = 115.5625 / 1000 = 0.116 per mm. If JDs glasses slid down the nose 20 mm the effective power of the glasses would be -8.43 (0.116 x 20 = 2.32).
Remember when doing the calculations the - or + on the prescription is lost and you have to reapply the correct sign on the final result. Just apply the vertex distance effects to the original prescription as described above by DECREASING or INCREASING the number as appropriate.
BTW, this is the same calculation used for determining the difference between a refracted or glasses prescription and a Contact Lens prescription and the reason CL prescriptions are LOWER for minus prescriptions and HIGHER for plus prescriptions.
Probably more than you wanted to know, but there it is anyway. Nothing mysterious going on, just optics at work.
C.
varifocals 27 Mar 2013, 11:44
JD very true.
Much easier with minus lens too.
JD 27 Mar 2013, 10:09
Astra, I agree with you. I really like to let my glasses slide down my nose often to notice things get blurry. I find it very stimulating as well (I'm -10.75). I wear my glasses fairly loose just so they will slide down. I also like to see other people (women) that do the same. Obviously the higher the Rx the better, as it is obvious to me how much different the acuity of their vision will be. Fascinating!
Olek 26 Mar 2013, 15:28
Smoking GWG from Norway
Astra 26 Mar 2013, 05:19
Have not talk about my own fetish for a while.
we all know when myopia increases we would become more dependent on the lenses. When we have lower rx we can have the lenses farther away and still see okay (maybe still 20/25 or 20/30) ...
I have around -5.5 right now it is a lot more restricted (dependent) , even pulling the lenses 2 cm away the image are already noticeably distorting and shifting in position, with the acuity drops down to roughly 20/50 , and i can feel the lenses become a lot weaker by positioning it 2 cm away, or simply let it slide down and sits at the nose tip.
We have seen in some slutty poses, gwg sliding their frame to the nose tip, or adjusting lenses deliberately..
but some gwg use low minus rx or plano lenses, most important is the image shift being very mild. also the wearer can see more than 30 cm good enough without their glasses.
when the rx is higher we can have more image shift with the minus lenses.
onlookers may be unable to experience the feelings of the wearer. when the rx is higher even a slight push around the lenses the image would shift a lot, also with some peripheral distortion.
so that the gwg herself would feel like her vision are really distorting, when her glasses is shifted (either by herself or her partner) it is such a "massage" to her eyes. In my own experience I feel very stimulating, I feel surprised and excited, as if pulling my eyeballs away from and back to my body, and threatened to be back to the unfamiliar blur.
most people at such rx would not be familiar with the blur unless they spend a lot of time without glasses. it is such an emotional shock or stimuli ...
Soundmanpt 15 Jan 2013, 18:30
gwg-lover
So they were going for a sisters look it sounds like. Yeah i'm sure her eyes were able to adjust to the glasses without any problem. By the end of each day i'm sure when she took them off everything was blurry at least for a while. At least she knows that if she wants to wear glasses her eyes can tolerate that much prescription, Maybe her friend will let her just keep the glasses if they are a past pair for her?
By the way what you witnessed happens quite often that someone likes the glasses that a friend is wearing and when that person gets new glasses will pass them on to her friend.
gwg-lover 15 Jan 2013, 17:30
Soundmanpt,
I think she wanted to look like her friend because she also wore the same kind of clothes like her. I don`t know if she got glasses herself after wearing her friends but I know that she had no problem with her vision while wearing the glasses.
Soundmanpt 15 Jan 2013, 10:39
gwg-lover
You didn't say, but any idea why she wore a friends glasses for 3 days while on of town. It sounds like she kinda wanted to be able to wear glasses but didn't want family and other friends know of her desire? Too bad -1.00 is a very good prescription for someone with perfect vision to wear as first glasses. At the end of 3 days her eyes should have been completely adjusted to them.
gwg-lover 14 Jan 2013, 17:32
Best of all for me is a nice girl who tries on foreign glasses, best with minus-lenses between -2 and -5 diopters and wants to wear them more time.
Once I met a girl who wear glasses from a friend for more than three days during a journey. But they were only about -1 diopter.
lazysiow 12 Dec 2012, 18:15
No THIS is the right idea :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v;=pkSESOtkRj8&feature;=endscreen
lazysiow 12 Dec 2012, 18:15
No THIS is the right idea :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v;=pkSESOtkRj8&feature;=endscreen
gwgs 12 Dec 2012, 04:04
Drat! Only available in the US :(
Can someone download it and upload it to YouTube or somewhere similar so us viewers not in the US of A can watch it?
Wurm 11 Dec 2012, 18:50
I found a Japanese cartoon episode that deals with glasses fetish. Warning: it alludes to explicit situations between two teens (the series is set in a high school) although there isn't any nudity that I can recall.
The plot is pretty funny and really it's a bit of a microcosm about trying to navigate life as a teen with a fetish or discovering that a partner has one.
The show is "Girl's High" and the episode is called "Glasses! Glasses! Glasses!". I watched it on Hulu although that's probably US only:
http://www.hulu.com/watch/100981
GL 15 Nov 2012, 06:26
To the other Glasses Lover; send me an email. dyersiever@gmail.com
Glasses Lover 15 Nov 2012, 03:59
Glasses are very sexy!
Glasses Love 15 Nov 2012, 03:57
Hi! I can't believe!
Glasses Lover 27 Aug 2011, 12:14
Sorry, the email address is; dyersiever@gmail.com
Typo.
Glasses Lover 27 Aug 2011, 12:03
Just last Wednesday I got my latest glasses...
They're -12 and are magnificent. I measured the edge of the lenses and they're 15 millimetres thick! I won't be wearing them, that's for sure. I didn't buy them for that. As a true glasses fetishist I bought them for licking. I even made a video of my first licking. I may post it one day, but not now.
I offer no apologies for what I do to thick glasses. After all, I'm not hurting anyone. Nor is it my intention to cause harm.
For those who are interested, the site I ordered the latest glasses from is; greateyeglasses.com
If you have a glasses licking fetish, then please feel free to email; dyersiver@gmail.com
All emails will be treated with the most strict, private confidenciallity.
Astra 25 Aug 2011, 05:12
For those who would like to see how bad your eyesight is.
You can see the uncorrected image out of your frame. quite eerie to compare with the corrected image. It's like a haunted image.
All4Eyes 10 Aug 2011, 01:11
Looks like ppl are starting to get the idea. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgOf6BXsUPY&NR;=1
Astra 02 Aug 2011, 15:19
trend setters... Clare can be a trend setters if she wish to.
Astra 02 Aug 2011, 15:17
Ha, I can rarely get relaxed enough to observe people around.
But I have an impression , most people looks trendy to me . So I couldn't really care about that as I would run out of time.
ehpc 02 Aug 2011, 14:17
Previous post from me.
02 Aug 2011, 14:16
That's East from here, Astra :) In British terminology 'the Far East', which I suppose is a slightly old British Imperial term.
Astra 02 Aug 2011, 11:04
ehpc,
come West is not a bad idea. Chinese/Japanese are trendy.
Melyssa 02 Aug 2011, 10:34
ehpc,
Maybe the original name of the town is "Glass-go". There is a Glasgow in Delaware, but I figure that glasses there are still small and mostly not plastic.
ehpc 02 Aug 2011, 08:37
I think the last post was from Clare. Curiously, my observations are the complete reverse.Maybe you should come North:) The trendy glasses scene is very much alive here in Glasgow, I am delighted to say:) Pete
01 Aug 2011, 14:16
Kat - thanks, I may be heading back that way towards the end of the year.
Melyssa - shame. I used to work in a European investment bank and all of my French/German/Dutch/Scandinavian colleagues were real trend setters. We don't get such a sense of style/accessorising generally here in the UK but they certainly knew how to. Seems like NY is a bit like us too.
Melyssa 01 Aug 2011, 07:04
Clare,
I'm glad you survived your trip to Gun City. (Okay, it was that way before Rudy G. cleaned it up.) Don't be surprised about the lack of trendiness in glasses -- it's like that in the Philadelphia area too, and probably most of this country.
Kat 31 Jul 2011, 21:02
Clare 20 July 15:03....
I reside in HK. If you would like to chat about the glasses scene/suggestions for stores to visit then send me a message...
kathchisolm@yahoo.com.au
Clare 31 Jul 2011, 11:13
I'm just back from New York. Absolutely no trendy glasses scene there whatsoever! Or was I just working too long/too hard??
varifocals 21 Jul 2011, 04:40
Yes as well as the city I visited the amazing new territories & rode the light rail there too.
People very friendly & helpful.
Astra 21 Jul 2011, 02:42
varifocals,
Hong Kong is mostly an idyllic location with lush vegetation cover, variable landscape.
The highly uneven development in the city can be interesting for tourists. The market is heavily export-oriented. Very unusual in this aspect.
Glasses-wise, it's not much different from China.
Astra 21 Jul 2011, 02:22
ehpc,
you will definitely feel the warmth of glasses frame in cold conditions. nice experience.
Astra 21 Jul 2011, 02:20
Re varifocals, clare.
Hong Kong is fine, but don't expect it's an overtly affordable or extra-ordinary place for shopping.
It's formerly a colonial entrepot.
Now the island retains some features of an entrepot. It has never been a paradise for consumers.
It was a place for traders, now a place for corporate headquarters.
The local market size is too small, population 1,000,000 with a much larger population of tourists, is not the prime location for some sectors.
Soundmanpt 20 Jul 2011, 23:05
Clare
One word - Zenni
Clare 20 Jul 2011, 15:03
Varifocals - I was underwhelmed by the glasses in HK. I even dropped into a shop in Central to see if there was anything whacky and interesting enough to make me want to wear glasses more than contacts but came away disappointed. I'll be back later in the year, I wonder where I need to head for!
varifocals 20 Jul 2011, 09:53
Well I am back from Hong Kong glasses everywhere.- beautiful.
ehpc 19 Jul 2011, 17:22
I have swum off the Welsh coast when the air temperature was zero Celsius (32 Farenheit). There was ice on the beach. Now that was cold. Also I have swum off the North Coast of Russia, when I was up there giving concerts. Though I have not swum underneath the North Pole, as has been done, astonishingly.
Astra 19 Jul 2011, 00:31
ehpc, mild weather days are nice.
Body temp heats the frame. then ... it's warm and ...
Soundmanpt 18 Jul 2011, 18:16
ehpc
You do like cold swims don't you? That would be much too cold for me. Enjoy!
ehpc 18 Jul 2011, 17:30
The Scottish summer is hanging around 15 Celsius, Melyssa:)That is about 57 degrees according to the scale devised by Herr Farenheit. Not that this stops me swimming in the sea, of course:)
Melyssa 18 Jul 2011, 14:50
"Spankingly clean 'new' glasses are very seriously hot" -- I'll find out when drop-temple pair #14 is ready, within a week or thereabouts.
Clean? Should be.
New? The frame is about 6 months old, but the lenses will be new.
Hot? Oh, yes, seriously (even in the 98-degree heat).
Spanking? Nope.
Astra 18 Jul 2011, 11:32
ehpc,
yes.
that aspect...
I like especially when the lenses is reasonably thick (thicker than 5 mm for example), rimless frame, and the minificiation in the lenses is significant.
ah, i still have the copied image on my flickr.
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4141/4744412572_8feb7a8d67_m.jpg
ehpc 18 Jul 2011, 11:12
Spankingly clean 'new' glasses are very seriously hot:) Spankingly clean, and giving razor-sharp vision:) Pete
Astra 17 Jul 2011, 17:06
ehpc, you got the point . my previous comment was a follow up of a conversation on lenschat.
the steam can be evaporated, and the smudge can be cleaned .
ehpc 17 Jul 2011, 08:46
Spankingly clean glasses are where it is at! With razor-sharp vision!
Astra 17 Jul 2011, 06:13
Steamed up glasses are sexy ? yes, also a bit inconvenient at times.
Just like smudge on lenses.
Tom 08 Jul 2011, 16:04
Agree with you but only on secretly trying on women's glasses. I haven't yet had the possibility to borrow a woman's glasses for a longer period of time, and wouldnât dare walking around in them in public places...
I work in a little boutique hotel in a business district, also checking the rooms daily when our maids have made the up, and you'd be surprised how many ladies actually leave glasses "unattended" on their bedside table or in the bathroom while away.
From observing our female guests, I can say the stronger prescriptions belong to ladies wearing contacts but also (surprisingly often) to ladies wearing different frames during business hours or in the evenings/mornings. Lower prescriptions are mostly found on bedside tables, probably used to watch tv in the evenings? Frames have become much more stylish the past 2-3 years, while prescriptions seem to increase also. Will write more on my findings if interesting to you.
murky 08 Jul 2011, 06:24
Borrowing a woman s low prescription glasses, then claiming to see well, and asking to try them for a while ( as long as you can get away with) is a huge turn-on......wandering around the office with them, getting comments is SO stimulating, then ask her if she has an old pair at home you can try, wow that worked once for me, she had a gorgeous pair of feminine cats eye tortoiseshell plus one's , that I could see through well enough to drive, I had them for a week,even wore them in the evening, lots of comments when I went out about how they suited me. LOOKING AT them on the bedhead at night was so exciting.
Now I rummage through op shoppe for last seasons female glasses, and the best I get an online prescription ( I am plus 2 L and R ) if they are exciting, otherwise they get a workout at the supermarket, mall, where no one knows me.. whaT FUN, A HARMLESS FETISH..
Like lenses 08 Jul 2011, 00:52
Quinten
Why don't you surprise her and take her on a date to the optometrist.
Astra 04 Jul 2011, 09:20
Re: 01 Jul 2011, 11:05
I actually prefer to post my opinion in a public forum than via private email.
Because I can't trust strangers very well.
Soundmanpt 03 Jul 2011, 20:58
Quinten
Not sure how much you know of your girlfriend's vision history, but do you know when she last went for an eye exam? If it has been a several years she is certainly due to get an exam. However it could be that since they are both myopic most people's eyes actually like being somewhat over corrected. So feeling like she could see better with her friend's glasses would be rather normal. My guess is it could be a little of both, your girlfriend may need a slight increase but probably not as much as her friend's glasses. The general rule is if it has been more than a year since her last exam she should get one.
Quinten 03 Jul 2011, 17:50
Soundmanpt
I must say that after having tried the other girls' glasses and eventually switching back to hers, my girlfriend asked the strongest glasses for another try and then complained that she might in fact need stronger glasses herself. Her friend's were too strong she said, and the difference in prescription is material from I heard, but she felt she might still need a new eyetest.
I told her later in the evening that maybe her glasses are just fine for "very good and sufficient" vision, and slightly stronger lenses are always a plus but not strictly needed? Not that I don't want her to go for an eyetest, and maybe also change frames, which I look forward to, but she felt a bit let down by the fact she felt she had really better vision with someone else's stronger glasses than with her own.
Josh 03 Jul 2011, 11:15
Quinten
Yes, I can`t tell it better...
Girls who trying on other glasses are great.
Once I met a girl who tries on the glasses from a classmate and ask for wearing them the whole day. I think the RX were about -o,5 and both could saw good without or with glasses on. But it was great.
Josh
Soundmanpt 01 Jul 2011, 21:04
Quinten
I agree with what a turn on that can be. But as they say "the times they are a changin" not too many years ago what are the odds that you would be with 3 beautiful women and all 3 would be wearing glasses? But now that glasses have become much more of a fashion statement, for them it is not much different then comparing bags or shoes. Plus you must know they are enjoying trying each others glasses almost as much as you enjoyed watching. For example i'm pretty sure your gf was very happy that her glasses don't need to be as strong as her friend's glasses etc.
Quinten 01 Jul 2011, 16:46
Greatest turn-on for me is watching women trying on each other's glasses and then commenting on how well/bad they see through them.
The day before yesterday my girlfriend had two beautiful friends of her for dinner, the 3 of them in glasses. When one girl started complaining about her last eyetest and the need for her to have stronger lenses fitted into her frames, the glasses got off and on and passed around. Funniest thing is they talk and act about their glasses like they do about clothing, shoes, etc not knowing how special a subject it is for me!
I almost lost it when my girlfriend tried on the strong glasses belonging to her friend with the worst eyesight, a pair of deep burgundy-red slim plastic cateyes. They all tried to read small print, to watch tv, to walk around,... in each other's glasses.
GL (slight return) 01 Jul 2011, 11:05
I stand by my fetish for licking thick, myopic glasses. I sense that there are some who don't want to go into this on a public forum like Eyescene. Perfectly understandable. If anyone out there feels the same way about thick glasses and wants to talk privately, then drop an email to: dyersiever@gmail.com
All correspondence will be treated in strict privacy.
Abusive emails will be deleted and will not receive a reply.
Thank you.
Soundmanpt 10 Jun 2011, 18:05
Emily
Sorry I just re-read your post. If you don't want to talk about it I understand.
Soundmanpt 10 Jun 2011, 18:03
Emily
Do you mean he was shocked in a good way or a bad way? What did you tell him? You said you told him you had a glasses fetish, but did you tell him that you not only have a thing for glasses on others but that you wear kinda strong glasses yourself when your not wearing your contacts? Well now for sure since you have really broken the even more than I thought you intended to. I am shocked that you went so far as to tell him you have a fetish. It seemed your biggest problem in life was letting him see you in your glasses for the first time. I got to ask, if you have a fetish, why do you wear contacts yourself and not your glasses. Do you think now that you told him he will wear his glasses to meet you?
Emily 10 Jun 2011, 16:08
The big day didn't come yet. But for reasons I don't want to talk about, he now knows about my fetish and my phobia. He is pretty shocked and I will meet him the first time after telling him about it this evening. So I will see how it goes. It will be weird for me too.
And 08 Jun 2011, 16:43
Emily - my gf's contacts are disposables so sometimes she takes them out in the bathroom but sometimes she just removes them as she is getting into bed so she doesn't put on her glasses until morning. Just go for it.
Soundmanpt 07 Jun 2011, 20:14
Emily your glasses are strong but not to a point of extreme. I have seen much stronger than that and the glasses still look very nice. I think you are making this much worse in your mind than it will be in reality. I don't know if you have regular lenses but maybe if you are this concerned get high index lenses and they will be much thinner.
Emily 07 Jun 2011, 16:37
Thank you so much for all your comments :). The big day is still to come, it might be this evening. I don't know yet if I will really stay.
Of course I like the way he looks in glasses. To be honest I am getting crazy seeing him like this, and for sure all of you guys like girls/guys in glasses, too. All of us are here for the same reason ;). But I don't know if he is one of us, probably not. I am pretty sure that he feels self-concious about his glasses, so at least we have that part in common.
He knows that I wear contacts. At my home I sometimes go bare eyd to the bathroom, but I know my surroundings. Going bare eyed in an unfamiliar place might end up more embarassing than wearing glasses. So I will probably put the glasses on in the bathroom and face him with glasses. I know that only the first time will be weird and then it will be OK, hopefully. I will let you know how it goes.
And 07 Jun 2011, 16:00
Emily, my gf has a similar prescription to you and always wears contacts. We had dated for a long while before she took them out in my presence even though I knew she wore them. She would sleep in them but then eventually she did takke them out and now she's fine about it. She looks great in glasses at bedtime. Do you go around bare-eyed at home at all ? My gf doesn't reach for her glasses to visit the bathroom !
Adalle 07 Jun 2011, 13:12
Emily, you will see that deciding how you will handle the situation will depend highly on how things will go that night. Fate and destiny are chaotic in nature. You will know what to do when the time comes.
From my personal experience, I can tell you that surprise is one of the sexiest things. I remember some years ago, when I started dating an (old now) girlfriend of mine. We had gone out with common friends 2 times and then we went out on a date another 2 times. I had never seen her with glasses, nor had she said anything about them. Everytime we kissed it was dark so I hadn't spotted the contacts and to be frank I wasn't trying to spot them.
So one night she invited me to her place. When we got in, we started kissing ad undressing and after a while, she went to the bathroom. A couple of minutes later she came out with no clothes at all but with her glasses on!
I can tell you now, that glasses turned out to be a real turn on in that relationship.
I hope everything goes as perfect as you will want to remember it years from now.
Soundmanpt 07 Jun 2011, 12:13
Sorry Tom I re-read her post and she is in fact talking about what to do at bedtime. I'm sure she can get by okay for that.
Aubrac 07 Jun 2011, 11:41
Emily
I may sound a tad old-fashioned (and I probably am!!) but your relationship and enjoyment of things together is far more important than the subject of wearing glasses.
May I suggest that next time you see him wearing glasses, just say he looks great wearing glasses, would he like to see you wearing glasses.
I'll bet the answer will be a resounding 'yes' and you just pop your glasses and then see what happens!!!!!!
Light the blur-touch paper and retire immediately! Good luck.
Tom 07 Jun 2011, 10:36
I figure Emily to take off her glasses once in his bf's house, just before going bed. I don't think she would have major troubles even with -7. Don't you think so?
Soundmanpt 07 Jun 2011, 09:40
Tom
Not so sure that would be a good idea for her. If she was around -2.00 or she could probably do what you suggest but she is -7.00 / -8.00 so without her contacts or glasses she is very limited on what she can see. That would likely be far more embarrising for her to do than wearing glasses.
Tom 07 Jun 2011, 01:43
Emily: I'd suggest to take off your contacts and go bareeyed, with all the limitations these may have (getting closer, squint...) and see which is his reaction. On my own side I'd be really turned on by your way of doing bareyed. If it asks, just tell him you need some correction due to myopia and let him choose between glasses or ... nothing! ;-)
But maybe it is too late to give advices, perhaps the day was yesterday... just let us know!
Soundmanpt 07 Jun 2011, 00:20
Emily
I am sure he likes not just the you with contacts in, but the same you with glasses on. If he wears some correction he understands that needing strong glasses or weak ones like his is not something you can control. (well at least he doesn't know that some can) He may very well find you even more sexy with your glasses. I think you have nothing to worry about, besides you can't keep it from for too long anyway. Does he know you wear contacts? If he knows that he probably knows that without them you most likely would still need glasses full time anyway.
Do let us know how it goes.
06 Jun 2011, 22:07
We are always interested.
Put the glasses on and tell him about your fetish.
It will work wonders.
Emily 06 Jun 2011, 21:01
I am not exactly sure where to put this...maybe here. I am reading on Eye Scene for quite a while now. I am a girl with -7/-8 wearing contacts most of the time. I am feeling very self-concience wearing glasses. Now I am dating a guy and it's getting more serious coming to the point where I would stay at his home, taking off my contacts and have to face him wearing glasses. Uagh! The good thing is that he has glasses too, but with a very weak prescription, astigmatism with a bit plus. I saw him maybe three times wearing them for short moment. He would take them off eventually when he saw me. But he doesn't really need them to see, just to help him reading the computer screen. When I take my contacts off I don't see much more than a colorful blur.
We were talking about glasses once and he said "glasses are sexy". I didn't tell him what I am thinking about glasses *lol*. I told him that I have a fetish but not more specific about what is the "thing".
Tomorrow might be the big day. I will see. I don't know what to do yet. Taking the contacts off, going to bed blind or putting on my glasses. If somebody is interested, I will continue how it goes on.
nickgiovanni 24 Mar 2011, 05:40
I was born with it
Glasses Lover 24 Mar 2011, 05:09
GOCer,
In my case it wasn't 'nurture'. My fetish wasn't introduced to me by anyone. I'd have to say 'nature'. From as far back as I can remember I've always had a thing for glasses.
SZ6 23 Mar 2011, 09:24
I'm not sure what thread this should go on, but this one may fit it best...
Recently, I've had an interesting experience with glasses and online dating. A bit of background - I'm a -10 myope myself (mostly contacts, sometimes glasses) and very attracted to women with thick glasses/poor vision. In my online dating profile, I alluded to glasses/vision just twice. One part of the profile asks the user to share six things they can't do without. I put contacts/glasses as one of those, adding that I beat most people in the "worst eyesight" challenge. Another part of the profile asks the user what they are looking for in a match. Among many other attributes, I said that I like a woman who wears geeky, cute, thick glasses, even if it was just sometimes.
Well, after having my profile live for a bit over a week, I've been contacted by no fewer than five cute, highly-myopic women, asking my prescription and curious to know how our eyes compare. Most of them only had pictures of themselves in contacts, and make no mention of glasses, contacts, or vision on their own profiles. But apparently those two little innocuous blurbs on mine drew their interest.
I imagine those of you who do GOC could try a similar approach to meet women with bad eyes. It wouldn't be entirely honest, but it would probably work. By not being in-your-face about having a fetish, you make the topic of eyes and glasses easy and fun to discuss, which could lead to a steamier conversation if rapport and trust are present.
GOCer 23 Mar 2011, 08:56
Fellow glasses fetishists, I'm trying to figure out: Do you think our glasses fetish is a result of nature, or nurture? I can't imagine we are born with a glasses fetish (nature). If it's nurture, then, what kind of nurture, or experiences, created this glasses fetish?
Glasses Lover 14 Mar 2011, 06:01
gwgs,
Thanks for your comment. I'm not trying to 'diminish' anybody or anything, I'm just citing an example.
gwgs 14 Mar 2011, 05:25
Glasses lover - to me the glasses themself are the catalyst, once they appear on their wearer they then come to life, and fulfil their purpose for both the wearer, and for glasses lovers like us!
The right pair of glasses can look good on any number of women so I wouldn't diminish it's responsibilities to just one person!
Glasses Lover 14 Mar 2011, 04:03
Crystal Veil,
Interesting comments.
The story about the UK postie is intriguing, though I'd never attempt such a thing.
Like yourself, I also get a kick out of seeing women wearing very thick glasses. I've visited your blog several times. Alas, nowadays people wearing very thick glasses is not as common a sight as it used to be. The 1980's was to me the golden age of thick glasses. Frames were large and the lenses were so thick (in the days before high index lenses).
Beyond this, our interests diverge. I love the glasses themselves. Even as a child I had an attaction to women's glasses. A sexual attraction. My mother was myopic and wore glasses, which while not extremely thick, were what I called 'within range'. In other words, they turned me on. I also used to lick her glasses. In my teens my 'fetish' only increased. And it's still with me - big time.
All I ask is that while all this is unusal and some may say 'wierd', that people don't judge me too harshly. I believe that society 'makes' us to a point, but we're born the way we are.
Crystal veil 13 Mar 2011, 05:49
glasses lover@
for me the attraction the combination of a lady and her minus glasses, but admittedly there is something special about very strong minus glasses. Perhaps in my case rather curiosity about how the combination with their owner might have looked. As a child I beleived that glasses were something magic.
Your question reminds me of a short article in a newspaper, some thirty years ago, about the arrest of a postman in the UK. He ripped the glasses from the face of a pretty woman and ran away with them. It was his uniform that led to his arrest after half a dozen thefts.
Another remarkable phenomenon occurred some ten years back when I had a relation with a lady who was psychic. I think what she did was called psychometry. When she was handed an object she had never seen before - so nothing about its history was known to her - she "received" all sorts of vivid images related to the object and she was usually right! This worked in particular with watches and glasses, perhaps because of the skin contact that once existed with their first owner. Sometimes I handed to her some remarkable glasses from my collection. I knew nothing about their first owner and it was quite interesting to hear about the images that ran into her head. E.g. she could describe in full detail a dress that the first owner wore and that the lady had a passion for horticulture, especially roses. It was not a sexual thing in her case (she hated her own glasses) but a strong effect along different lines. Glasses are mysterious objects!
Glasses Lover 12 Mar 2011, 21:31
nzoptic,
These are the sort of glasses I love.
http://public.fotki.com/Micha/glasses/-glasses/trio_3.html
nzoptic 12 Mar 2011, 18:22
I know the feeling!! very nice
Glasses Lover 12 Mar 2011, 09:45
I'm in a small minority, even here, but I'm wondering if there are any myopic glasses fetishists out there. I don't mean those who just admire women wearing thick glasses, though I love that, but those who love the glasses themselves.
I'll spell it out: is there anyone out there who 'gets off' on thick myopic glasses? By 'getting off' I mean sexually aroused by thick glasses. By the glasses themselves. Personally, I love licking them. I also love doing other things to them (I won't mention this here).
Please don't offer abuse. After all, I'm only asking.
Astra 15 Jan 2011, 02:10
the previous post is by me.
15 Jan 2011, 02:10
Nova man 23 Jul 2009:
"My wife just got one of here pairs fixed and they had been in her car for a couple months and the sun turned the nosepads real yellow AAHHH I love it!!!"
yes ! everything ages if you left or use it for some years !
and it's lovely. i agree.
Does anyone here likes aged plastic frame that have change colors? I like that !
Glasses Lover 25 Dec 2010, 18:12
Astra,
I agree. Licking the back of myopic lenses is better. The higher the power of the lenses, the deeper the concave back of the lenses will be. Also, go for large frames which will make the lenses even thicker.
Licking the front of the lenses is good too if the lenses have some curvature. Nearly all the pairs of glasses I lick have flat fronts (plano I think it is called).
Happy licking.
Astra 25 Dec 2010, 16:13
or touch their lenses with their face or the outside of ear
Astra 25 Dec 2010, 16:12
Anyone here likes to touch their glasses-arms with their face or the outside of ear (not the part that you normally place the arms) ?
Astra 25 Dec 2010, 16:05
NJ,
definitely the back of lenses.
licking the front... if it's biconcave.
Astra 21 Dec 2010, 22:50
Glasses lover,
I was born in 1989,
so I didn't experienced 1980s.
and I was a small kid in 1990s.
I have 1 pair of lenses that has anti-reflective coating. purchased year 1999.
the newer pairs have no anti-reflective coating.
I hate such coatings.
Now they even have anti-stratch coatings, anti-UV coatings, etc. even infrared coatings, which looks like some sort of sunglasses.
I have seen many varieties of coatings they apply on lenses, so that the lenses have a variety of strange reflected colors when white lights are apply on the lenses.
red, green, blue; and anything in between.
The difference of having anti-reflective coating is apparent at night when the lights are dim around.
Glasses Lover 21 Dec 2010, 04:47
Hi all,
My post seems to have stirred a few of you up. That's okay. That's what debate is supposed to do. This is what humans do... communicate, discuss.
I'm not gunning for anyone. Life itself does that in its own 'lovely' way.
I maintain that glasses licking IS enjoyable. But, if it ain't your thing, then don't do it. Who's forcing you to? I only seek out those who are like-minded. No pressure, no fuss.
And for those who think that you can lick off the anti-reflective coating, then stop and think for a minute. If that were the case, then your glasses' anti-reflective coating would wash off during any rainfall you get caught up in.
A frightful world we live in, isn't it.
At any rate, I lick glasses from the 1980's - the golden age of thick glasses. CR39 = heaven + large frames. There wasn't any anti-reflex God-knows-what rubbish back then.
Stay well and live strong.
Astra 20 Dec 2010, 23:18
Flaine,
about poisonous.
The anti-reflective coating being so soluble?
You need organic solvents, such as alcohol to dissolve it.
The substance is quite similar to what you have in toothpaste or treated tap water (except in Western Europe).
Astra 20 Dec 2010, 21:58
alright I see some undesirable attack could be forthcoming. I won't reply to any of those. thank you for your interest.
Jessica 20 Dec 2010, 14:44
That previous post we do not need.
tasty 20 Dec 2010, 09:07
Or what if you licked a cock or pussy, whichever you prefer, before licking your glasses? That certainly wouldn't be poisonous.
Flaine 20 Dec 2010, 06:31
Omg,
What if u licked off the anti reflective coating?! Isnt it poisonous?!
Astra 20 Dec 2010, 05:32
Glasses lover,
Um... I don't know if it's often, there are no regular period for that.
But every time I do, I feel thrilled.
um, I lick my own lenses.
All of mine, are minus lenses.
After licking, the lenses are full of a little "personal scent" from my mouth.
I love to turn off the ambient lights, smell that scent with my nose, then slide the lenses over my nose. the scent is still there, lovely.
Along with smell with my nose, I kiss the lenses.
sweet feeling.
because they are normally right in front of my eyes, and i'm so dependent on lenses. love them. without them i'm about blind.
Glasses Lover 20 Dec 2010, 04:08
I agree with you, Astra. Glasses licking is very enjoyable. Do you do it often? What sort of lenses do you lick?
Astra 19 Dec 2010, 18:17
Anonymous,
glasses licking is actually quite enjoyable....
19 Dec 2010, 15:05
"glasses licking?" WTF.
Mike 19 Dec 2010, 13:10
Hi,
girls are sexy with glasses and without glasses I think. But my favourits are girls wearing borought glasses from a frien, her sister, her mother and wearing sexy clothes and heels...
Beer Bottle Spex 31 Oct 2010, 03:22
Sheer thick glasses licking heaven.
http://public.fotki.com/Micha/glasses/-glasses/trio_3.html#media
dioptrienchen 28 Apr 2010, 14:06
she is my miss world !!!!!!
i hope for a lot of conments :-) she is soooo beautiful !
http://public.fotki.com/dioptrienchen/high-myopic-girls/sandras-20-glasses.html
All4Eyes 31 Mar 2010, 00:41
Oh, Katy and VFL, I long for a moment like that!
Beer Bottle Spex 24 Mar 2010, 00:47
Lickable lenses...
http://public.fotki.com/Micha/glasses/-glasses/14_13_dp1.html#media
dioptrienchen 11 Feb 2010, 21:28
http://www.mitstil.com/5-grunde-warum-frauen-mit-brille-sexy-sind/68/
Hyperion 11 Feb 2010, 20:22
Sexy slobber specs.
http://public.fotki.com/Micha/glasses/-glasses/14_13_dp1.html
VFL 11 Feb 2010, 18:05
Katy, I have never forgotten that moment. The sheepish look in his eyes through the lenses of those glasses was magic. Of course he already had my heart before that, but after that moment he owned my soul. That was the beginning of a very slippery slope for me. I have only in the past few years realized the power that the "eyes behind the lenses" can have on me. It is an unfair advantage. Truly and totally unfair.
I don't know what that man (actually a boy at the time-early 20ish) thought he was going to see reflected back at him in my eyes when he looked up. Perhaps he thought I might reject him as deeply flawed? I'm not sure. I wonder what he saw reflected back? Surely something that no man ever saw there before or since. Any moment even approaching that is dim in comparison. Thinking back I assume that he felt he was revealing his deepest secret.
Katy 10 Feb 2010, 15:00
VFL, I always remember when I was in the 6th form at school and going out with a gorgeous guy who was in the year above. After we had been together a while I saw that he had contacts (I thought he had an eyelash in his eye and then realised), and I was incredibly excited about this, although neither of us ever mentioned it. Then one day he came to pick me up in the evening and when we got in his car he pulled out a pair of (-3/4?) glasses and said 'I suppose I better put these on so we don't crash'. Oh my god, I really wasn't expecting that as I assumed he still had his contacts in. It's amazing how those moments stay with you even after so many years.
Like Lenses 09 Feb 2010, 22:05
VFL
My vision without my -3.50 each eye glasses is as of my last exam 20/300. I do wear a daily over correction of -4.50 and when I do an at home vision test it is about 20/500 when I take the glasses off,especially after close work.
Are you a GWG,and if so what is your vision,and prescription?
VFL 09 Feb 2010, 07:43
I have always found it to be a very intimate moment when a man "confesses" to me what his uncorrected eyesight is like. The first time for me was back in college. My boyfriend and I had just slept together for the first time. He was a confirmed contacts wearer and I had never seen him in his glasses before. The next morning he came out of the bathroom wearing a pair of very strongish horn rims and sheepishly said, "Now you see how blind I really am."
Unforgettable.
Anyone else have any similar stories?
Guest 30 Jan 2010, 06:26
Sexy glasses seller,
That's not necessary to post everywhere on this board. People are smart enough to go in the right thread.
Thanks
sexy glasses seller 30 Jan 2010, 04:47
post deleted - wrong thread
SZ6 20 Jan 2010, 10:58
Hi reini,
I am curious about how you are able to get so many photos of young women modeling these thick glasses.
It looks like a lot of the pictures were taken in bars or clubs. Do you bring the glasses to bars and take them out as a conversation starter? What do you say to these people to get them to try the glasses on, and let you take pictures of them?
Thanks!
reini 20 Jan 2010, 09:55
http://public.fotki.com/reini23/dioptrienchen/highmyopcgirls/the-sexiest-high.html
SZ6 19 Jan 2010, 07:29
I just wanted to say that I am loving reini's pictures of cute girls wearing ultra-thick glasses - even if they don't actually need them.
Keep them coming reini!
lentifan 18 Jan 2010, 15:35
I'm not a fan of the James Bond movies, but if she really were the next Bond girl i'd certainl become a fan.
http://public.fotki.com/reini23/dioptrienchen/highmyopcgirls/next-bondgirl-2.html#media
-[((o))]-[((o))]- 18 Jan 2010, 14:43
http://public.fotki.com/reini23/dioptrienchen/highmyopcgirls/24-mm-thick-myodiscs.html
18 Jan 2010, 11:35
http://i45.tinypic.com/1zbfn0g.jpg
sourgrapes 18 Jan 2010, 11:28
I was just playing around with an image editor and came up with this
http://i50.tinypic.com/29vjarq.jpg
Hope you like
reini 18 Jan 2010, 10:31
hello girls !
i am looking for the most beautiful glassesmodel like this for ultrastrong glasses.
my e-mail is dioptrienchen@yahoo.de
http://public.fotki.com/reini23/dioptrienchen/highmyopcgirls/next-bondgirl.html
NJ 12 Jan 2010, 18:04
Cool, Pete. ;))))
ehpc 12 Jan 2010, 14:09
Not at all 'shit' man. Pete is who I am :)
reini 12 Jan 2010, 12:10
there are some of my glasses without frames.
is there a girl who love to wear strong glasses ?
my e-mail is dioptrienchen@yahoo.de
http://public.fotki.com/reini23/dioptrienchen/highmyopcgirls/some-glasses-withou.html
NJ 12 Jan 2010, 09:42
Fine, ehpc. I can live with anything. It's all cool.
But what's all this :)pete shit you put at the end of each post?
ehpc 12 Jan 2010, 09:09
No, I don't have your 'interest' NJ. I am just saying that wearing seriously stylish, huge, thick minus lenses plastic frames glasses is the hottest look a woman can have :)
NJ 12 Jan 2010, 08:21
Have I opened up a Pandora's box? Or have I opened a door?
ehpc 12 Jan 2010, 07:53
Huge, really stylish, heavy minus, non hi-index, seriously thick glasses. That's where it's at :) Pete
NJ 12 Jan 2010, 05:30
Oscar, that is good!
Here's a pair that would 'go the distance'.
If the link doesn't work, then please let me know.
Here it is...
http://public.fotki.com/Micha/glasses/-glasses/18_185_a_71_.html
oscar 12 Jan 2010, 04:34
NJ, my preference is for the thick lens edges.
NJ 12 Jan 2010, 00:02
High minus lenses (non-hi index) is the only way to go, since they are so much thicker. So much more enjoyable licking very thick lenses. I have a few pairs that are between 12 to 15 centimetres thick. The frames are very large too, which makes the experience so much more enjoyable. Heaven! It isn't the same with the piddly little frames that are all the rage now.
Let's hope big frames make a comeback. I mean big, like the early 1980s.
Guys, which is your favourite side of the lenses to lick? I personally prefer the back of the lenses.
ehpc 11 Jan 2010, 14:17
VERY COOL :) Pete
oscar 11 Jan 2010, 13:03
Thanks, ehpc :) She has two pairs, one hi-index that she wears to work, and the pair with regular lenses that she wears at home. It's a happy situation!
ehpc 11 Jan 2010, 08:16
Especially with non hi-index :) Very smart :)
ehpc 11 Jan 2010, 08:16
Nice minus 10 gf oscar :) Cool move :) Pete
oscar 11 Jan 2010, 08:06
NJ - yes, I do. They are my partner's (-10, not the thinned lenses, so quite thick), and she licks mine too, since it's a thing we share.
NJ 11 Jan 2010, 02:24
Thanks, oscar. It's nice to know I'm not the only one into this.
Do you lick glasses often? Are they yours or someone elses?
oscar 10 Jan 2010, 19:43
NJ: You're certainly not alone.
I don't know of a dedicated website, but here is as good a place as any.
NJ 10 Jan 2010, 18:17
The following is legit and I'm not taking the piss.
I have an unusual glasses fetish in that I like to lick very thick high minus myopic women's glasses. I am wondering if there is anyone out there who is like-minded. If so, do you know of any websites dedicated to this?
Thanks.
dioptrienchen 28 Dec 2009, 22:42
hello glasseslover (and girls !)
please write more comments on my fotki-side !
love regards
dioptrienchen 28 Dec 2009, 22:08
sexy optikian
http://public.fotki.com/reini23/dioptrienchen/highmyopcgirls/new-optician-1.html
dioptrienchen 18 Dec 2009, 03:22
thanks for 648 visitors yesterday on my fotki-side. thats greet !
Mug 444 14 Dec 2009, 00:26
Thick myopic glasses are so sexy. All those white rings and the think lenses - such a turn-on.
lentikularfan 08 Dec 2009, 09:35
a real high myopic girl !
http://public.fotki.com/reini23/dioptrienchen/highmyopcgirls/real-18-diops-girl-2.html
lentikularfan 04 Dec 2009, 17:22
look to "stark kurzsichtiges blondchen 4" on http://public.fotki.com/reini23/dioptrienchen/highmyopcgirls/page4.html
carlito 02 Dec 2009, 03:30
@anni
if you're from switzerland write to the following adress : carlitorivas@yahoo.de
just if you want to...we share the same interests and i do live in switzerland.
best wishes
c.
dioptrienchen 01 Dec 2009, 10:50
hello,
i have forgotten to say, i am a 28 jears old guy and i am from austria. I also love to wear glasses with high rx. I also have glasses with -8, -11, -14, -17, +15, +18 diops,
mostly i wear the glasses with -25 diops in my house, because they i can just about wear.
anni, they are realy interresting for you !
dioptrienchen 28 Nov 2009, 15:48
hallo anni
i have some very strong and thick glasses. I would like to represent to you. The strongest glasses are -37 diops and the thickest are 18mm and -25 diops.
i would like to meet you. Do you have a e-mail ?
love regards
OnLooker 16 Nov 2009, 01:14
I have just bought online and received two pairs of reading glasses, very "glamour" and sexy tfor my wife to wear and play with while preserving her prescription ones designer, expensive...she is all thje time worried to break them so...not very practicla for those moments!! The thing is that she's wearing +1 with -0.25 astygmatism and the readers i have bought are +1.5..just to add some power to the lenses...I hope she'll cope with them and be able to use them for reading other than for other stuff!!
Astra 10 Nov 2009, 02:44
Sorry for an error on my last post, the prescription should be -2.00.
Astra 10 Nov 2009, 02:44
Cool, actually I was typing the previous message using a TV screen.
I was wearing my old pair of glasses, -1.50.
That pair of glasses is now more than 10 years old. It feels really good to wear them.
Astra 10 Nov 2009, 02:39
I find wearing glasses can be stimulating.
Looking at a small TV screen with glasses on, under low ambient light conditions, cast me some thought.
The TV screen lighten up the lenses, causing the reflection of my lenses on their edges. When I look at the screen I can look at the reflection of the lenses as well. The reflection of the lenses is beautiful, also giving an idea the lenses are actually thick, thicker than it seems than when the lenses are not lighten up.
I find the phenomenon interesting, even though I have wore glasses for more than 10 years. The reflection looks like freely elliptical tracks, giving a feeling of fast-moving objects.
When the glasses are sliding down, you realise you are so lucky with your glasses on... that you realise your vision without is actually a blur. Do not being too rushed to pull your glasses back, have a look at the blur and compare to the corrected image, that is exactly stimulating as well.
kix 13 Sep 2009, 16:02
The September issue of Glamour magazine (US version with Gwen Stefani on the cover) has an article about what men and women find attractive. It's a pages-long spread and one of the side bars includes a list of top 20 turn-ons for both sexes. The men's column included "my girl in glasses" and the women's included "t-shirt, jeans, stubble and glasses".
I always love seeing public acknowledgments that many people find glasses attractive or sexy.
Aubrac 18 Aug 2009, 01:10
Anni
You could try glasses over contacts.
The German E-bay site often has cheap +lenses for sale.
Adalle 17 Aug 2009, 16:14
My girlfriend stayed at my place during the weekend and I had asked her to bring her spare pair of glasses with her. She knows I like seeing her with her glasses and switching between pairs and she could not say no. Last night she left and forgot her spare pair, so tonight I found the opportunity to try them on while being alone. Although they are only -3 I must admit it was a bit difficult after the first 5 minutes. I started to get a bit dizzy and even more when I tried to watch TV. Shaving was a problem too. And washing the remaining shaving foam off my face, ended up in hitting the glasses quite a few times and getting the lenses wet. But the feeling of the frames sliding down the nose and having to adjust them all the time felt so good...
Mike 17 Aug 2009, 15:44
Hi Anni,
I think it`will be quite better to get glasses with -5 diopters you start with. After wearing some weeks you change to glasses with -6 and so on. I think you have to wear them every day, every hour, every minute.
I have a friend who did the same to become nearsighted, and it works. But the difficult thing was to start. The way from non prescription to -1 takes over six month. Good luck.
Mike
anni 13 Aug 2009, 15:13
hey. i'm new on eye scene, i'm 23 year old girl and i love thick minus glasses. i have -3.75, but my wish is at least -8. right now i'm wearing my contacts (-3.75) and glasses (same diopter). i hope it will help to increase myophia. somebody knows what help to increase diopter?
my wish is also that i could wear a GOC with -15 or more, at least for a day somewhere, where nobody knows me.
sorry for my bad english, i'm from really small country in europe.
let X=Y 31 Jul 2009, 19:24
Yes, Moi, glasses are a sex toy. The thicker they are, the sexier they are. Thick minus glasses (lenses -8 and higher) deserve a good licking.
Moi 30 Jul 2009, 11:58
Let X=Y, we rather use them as a sex toy. My girlfriend keeps several older pairs in her bedside drawer!
let X = Y 30 Jul 2009, 07:34
Thick myopic glasses are so sexy. The thicker, the better. Anyone else out there like to lick them?
Nova man 23 Jul 2009, 11:44
Not just the lenses the nose pads and behind the ears too.!!!! My wife just got one of here pairs fixed and they had been in her car for a couple months and the sun turned the nosepads real yellow AAHHH I love it!!! I like to run my fingers across the lenses and feel how smooth they are ans feel the tiny bump in the middle
X 23 Jul 2009, 10:09
Thick myopic glasses are so sexy. Anyone out there like to lick them? God knows I do.
Clare 18 Jul 2009, 23:18
Apologies, this should be on the Going Without Glasses thread
Clare 18 Jul 2009, 23:16
And - I used to hate discussions about eyesight too but I seem to have got over that. Children are so unkind aren't they? What happened, did the girl get glasses while she was still in your class?
I got sort of fed up with people pointing things out and not being able to see them and I guess even as adults many people go through that if they are, like I was, in a situation where they start wearing glasses relatively late (ie in their 20s). That's the dilemma really - if you can see alot but not some of the detail, should you wear your glasses fulltime? I have a friend whos -2 max and he always does.
As to whether I feel okay in public if I'm not wearing my glasses, well yes because I'd never do anything like drive without them, and though finding my way in somewhere large like an airport would be difficult, most other things would be possible. Having said I always wear my contacts out so don't do it that often.
18 Jul 2009, 11:40
I have before.
Dongo 18 Jul 2009, 03:00
Thick minus glasses are sexy. I like to lick the thick lenses. Does anyone else?
Lunettes 17 Apr 2009, 23:38
http://www.mein-augenarzt-salzburg.at/leistungen.html
http://www.dejongopticiens.nl/bbsite/index.php?bbapp=page&var;=id%7C55&m;=BES
Lunettes 15 Apr 2009, 10:35
Myself i like pics when woman is at eye exam,behind phoropter or using trial frame.
Share links to that kind of pics.
Admirer 13 Apr 2009, 20:42
Lunettes,
Don't quite understand your question. Can you provide more detail.
Admirer
Lunettes 12 Apr 2009, 07:37
What would be the best pic of woman and phoropter or trial frame?
ehpc 13 Mar 2009, 21:01
You will NEVER be short of admirers, Marie :) Pete
chevyluv 13 Mar 2009, 19:50
sorry no singe brothers, I think she just googled "glasses fetish" and got some info
All4Eyes 22 Feb 2009, 12:35
Chevyluv: You're wife doesn't happen to have any single brothers, does she? 8;-) BTW, when you say she read some about the glasses fetish, would that reading happen to include my OO Primer on Bobby's site? This is exactly the type of situation I wrote it for. Anyway, congratulations on your supreme good fortune!
I ALWAYS make passes at guys who wear glasses, Marie
jojo 16 Feb 2009, 06:49
dont worry i wont post again im not fake though but even if i was, better to be a fake than miserable and stuck up like you james do you need a coffee or something mate ha ha life is very short you should get youself one
chevyluv 09 Feb 2009, 14:14
jojo its mor the secretary thing that does it for me but with the ight outfit they are the perfect accessory.
Melyssa 09 Feb 2009, 12:43
Just so the non-regulars understand, Chevyluv's wife is not me. I have 25 more pairs of glasses, 21 more years, and -2.00 more (or is it less?) diopters. :)
jojo 09 Feb 2009, 11:44
i hope so hes normally pretty cool about stuff but a bit of me feels a bit mean liking something that he finds a bit of a handicap. im sure having someone like you really boots your wifes confidence though so that has to be a good thing i guess. do you like the fact it makes her a little vulneranble or do you think its the sexy secetary look that you like?
chevyluv 06 Feb 2009, 15:36
yeah the wife can see her hand clearly about 6'' from her face but other than that its a blur. what you have to do is go out to a romantic place and get him half lit then open up about your fetish, I bet the result will suprise you!
jojo 06 Feb 2009, 09:33
oops chevyluv i meant maybe i need another trip to my optician!
jojo 06 Feb 2009, 09:32
wow cheery luv you are lucky to be married to someone who is such a perfect match. i havent got the guts to come clean to my hubby about my fetish but i aways tell him how sexy he is when he is wearing them so maybe he will guess. i didnt have to really encourage him to wear them in bed as he only goes uncorrected when sleeping he doesnt seem to manage atall without them, which is so cute.
chevyluv 05 Feb 2009, 18:03
My wife is a minus 7 she has been wearing glasses since she was 5 and now is now 31 and is pretty much a full time wearer. contacts some time for varity. The first night we were together I asked her to keep them on in bed she was a bit puzzeled at first ( no one hade ever made a request like that before) but now its just second nature.I asked her what she thougt about wearing glasses and she said whats the big deal? besides I have to see!! She currently has 5 pairs (to match outfits of course)3 of which have current prescriptions. At first she didnt understand the fetish as she had never known anybody with a glasses fetish but after reading about it a bit not only understands it but really has no problems with it either.We have goofy nick nemes for them as well, I must say i feel truly blessed to have a loving wife who understands this and willingly participates in it as well. Some times when she is feeling frisky we go to dinner and hit the local lenscrafters or wal-mart vision center so she can model for me. We have known each other since kindergarten. So I have to rub it in eat your hearts out!! :)
jojo 03 Feb 2009, 11:00
my husband looks so sexy in his glasses he wore them in bed the first night we slept together it was amazing i have never enjoyed it so much in my life! i wanted a boyfriend with glasses for years before i met him but was never lucky enough before he has recently switched from wearing contacts nearly full time to glasses so im in heaven right now as i never thought he would do this
lazysiow 01 Aug 2008, 03:28
Congrats, thats an amazing story! Usually the myopia people have their sweet story of needing to be closer to their bf/gf etc in order to see but it's good that see that farsighted people have theirs as well :D
pursuit of happiness 01 Aug 2008, 02:21
I still can't believe it. first of all, I'm a bit farsighted (+2.00 in both eyes with some astigmatism). I usually wear my glasses for reading, tv, computer, sometimes also the whole day, but usually not, because it's not like i don't see anything without glasses.
A few months ago I got to know my new girlfriend. she saw my glasses but never questioned why i woudn't wear them full time or anything. a few nights ago we were making out and between kissing she noticed that i had my eyes open but was squeezing because her face was so close that i couldn't see anything....(being farsighted)...i told her so.... so she suggested that i wear my glasses (!!!!)...oh my god! thank YOU, lord and thank YOU, girlfriend! you can imagine what happended after making out a bit....i never had sex in my glasses before...it was the best sex ever (ok, let's say top 10) and even she admitted (with a rather embarrassed but quite kinky smile) that she was totally turned on by it because she never had had a bespectacled boyfriend before and that my glasses would make me look so innocent...go figure! now every once in a while i'll be wearing my glasses during sex, i'll be able to see her beautiful face while kissing and i'll be having a blast. mission pursuit of happiness accomplished!
xuy 17 Jul 2008, 05:05
Girls with glasses!
If You like to wear your glasses or you have any glasses fetish, please write to me:
xuy@freemail.hu
eyespy 10 Feb 2008, 02:01
Anyone ever had someone tell them how lucky they are to need glasses? I remember an old colleague who was very open about wanting glasses and would often tell people how much she'd like them. I found it strange at the time but that was before I discovered eyescene ;)
Melyssa 09 Feb 2008, 08:17
Lentifan,
Thank you for the compliment. I have 30 pairs of plastic frames, in drop-temples, cat's-eyes, and other large frames. The lenses are 2-3 inches in diameter, and the thickness is from 1/4 to 1/2 inch, depending on frame size, and obviously thicker towards the outsides.
BeataPL 09 Feb 2008, 01:07
I've to wear -4.00 and -4.50 with -1.00 of astigmatism in both eyes, I like my glasses but my current glasses are to weak for me today. I have eye exam after 20 February, and I think so my prescription increase about from -0.50 to 1.00 diopters in each eye. I want thck lenses so much.
lentifan 07 Feb 2008, 16:50
Good for you, Melyssa. I'm sure you look lovely. What kind of frames do you have?
07 Feb 2008, 15:46
sitting over from me on the train were a pair of mid teens very much in love.he was stealing kisses.she was wearing a long peaked baseball hat and a hoodie and a pair of gold rimmed glasses.as she peeped out i could catch tantilising glimpes of her strong minus lenses and light flashing off the front of them.how jealous i was of her boyfriend
Melyssa 07 Feb 2008, 12:43
I never wear hats, only the hood of my coat if it's raining or snowing but not hard enough to use my umbrella. I have no problem showing my -9.00 thick-lensed glasses (with no tints) to the world.
OttO 07 Feb 2008, 12:31
Interesting observation about hats. It never occurred to me that hats would obscure glasses although I wear both hats and glasses. Either caps or brimmed hats are great for protecting glasses from rain and snow, and for keeping one from banging glasses against windows, door frames, etc.
There is something of a renaissance of hat wearing among both men & women. Everybody wears ball caps these days and some people just get tired of them and move on to regular hats. However, hat wearing will probably never extend to the majority.
lentifan 06 Feb 2008, 16:32
Jennifer, the ladies I have in mind have been much higher than that. Perhaps in the -10 to -20 range and at least one with tinted lenses. But it's hard to be sure because you can't see them properly - which is, I think, the objective. Very frustrating for OO's like me
Jennifer 06 Feb 2008, 15:47
That's interesting what you say about the hat trying to disguise the fact of strong glasses. I noticed this mostly in men. There is one guy, who happens to run the gym I go to. When I first met him, he was wearing a baseball cap to conceal the fact that he wore glasses (strong glasses had nothing to do with it). His baseball cap was pulled very low over his eyes. Later I saw him again, without glasses, obviously in contacts. I estimated his glasses to be around -4 range. I have seen him several times and every time he wears his glasses, the baseball cap is pulled low over his eyes. Very interesting....
lentifan 06 Feb 2008, 15:18
I normally reckon I have a keen eye for the flash of a strong lens, but I have been frustrated a few times recently by women wearing broad brimmed hats or caps which prevent you from getting a proper look at their glasses. Is this a coincidence? I think not. One (non-)sighting was in a supermarket; she wasn't likely to get wet nor the sun in her eyes. I assume it was to disguise some strong lenses. Anyone else noticed this phenomenon? Is it becoming a fashion?
I hope not
cut-in UK 13 Jan 2008, 10:09
Which all goes to prove that for we optic obsessives, there is always a glasses wearing boy/girl for them, whatever the prescription !
Those coming fresh to the group, will realise that if they are feeling uncomfortable with glasses or 'coming out' in them, they will receive nothing but support. Reading the posts, are a confidence-booster which will give them what they need to 'go for it'.
sourgrapes 12 Jan 2008, 07:30
Dave
I knew someone in high school that I would describe exactly like that. Quite strong plus lenses, in fact. I really liked plus lenses for a while, but I think now I tend to prefer strong minus lenses.
I also knew someone in high school, with very BIG and very STRONG minus lenses. I think I thought the plus girl was more attractive. Hmm...
One time my friend, being immature and silly as he was, took off this girl's glasses and ran around with them. She chased him around. She must have been at least -10.
Dave 12 Jan 2008, 04:31
Seems like we all have different taste and that is good. I prefer opposite, really skiny, small breasted woman wearing nice frames with very strong plus lenses
Kokopelli 11 Jan 2008, 09:16
Count me in!
Glasses Luva 10 Jan 2008, 21:53
Brent- I'm just like you. I love a cute, chubby woman with glasses. I too have wondered the correlation. I especially love a gal with a big butt who wears glasses. Are there any other guys lurking around eye scene with tastes similar to Brent and I?
Ivan 05 Jan 2008, 05:45
-a minus rx gets me every time- say -3/ to -8 my fav.Ladies-we are out there! You just have look out for the O^O signs (guys asking where you got your frames,what rx they are,how great they look on you etc)Also some guys ,imo, dont want to seem weird so you may have to do a bit of fishing, ie asking a guy,
"So-what do you think of my new eyewear"
at a social event say.
Guest 05 Jan 2008, 05:08
Same here I love girls with thick glasses, however I like both minus and plus lenses, probably I even prefer thick plus lenses
myopiarules 03 Jan 2008, 06:53
Let me add my support for girls who wear thick minus glasses. I wish all the girls knew how much they are admired.
Highmyope 02 Jan 2008, 16:55
I second Brent and Pete.... :)
Melyssa 02 Jan 2008, 12:39
Another thick "minus" prescription here, but not a "plus" size.
ehpc 02 Jan 2008, 06:10
Thick minus is VERY hot.....................:) Pete
Sue 02 Jan 2008, 00:15
Agree with Emily, as another ratheer thick glasses wearer.
Emily 01 Jan 2008, 19:57
Brent -- I'm glad there are guys like you, since my glasses get a little thicker every year.
Brent 01 Jan 2008, 17:18
I find women who wear thick minus lenses to be extremely sexy. I also prefer chubbier women. Any correlation? I don't know. Otherwise, I am a completely "normal" guy.
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ES-Visitor 03 Dec 2007, 00:03
Thanks mate, great advice, I'll definitely stick to it. The problem is that I have to keep a certain balance and not make compliments only when she wears glasses otherwise she'll start thinking I only like her when she does... It did happen before... Thanks
cut-in UK 01 Dec 2007, 14:37
ES Visitor, it's important you tell your wife how attractive she looked when she came to pick you up. Don't mention the glasses directly, but tell her every time you see her wearing them. She'll get used, subconsciously, to the fact that good things happen when she wears them. This may reduce the resistance to glasses that she might feel.
ES-Visitor 30 Nov 2007, 00:44
Oh yes she does especially when she atsrts wearing her glasses. She does have readers too, +1, which she only wears on the computer when her eyes get sore sometimes mainly when scripts are small. I'm really looking forward to a day she'll be full time wearer...
lazysiow 29 Nov 2007, 06:53
Oh Gwen, congratulations!
lazysiow 29 Nov 2007, 06:53
She sounds kind of like me. That was my first prescription and it hasn't changed much since. I was told "don't wear them all the time or you'll start to need them, just for reading or when your eyes get tired". However I was wearing them all the time soon enough just for the astigmatism part. Over time the astigmatism part has gotten worse and the + has gone up and come down again.
Your wife sounds hot though :)
ES-Visitor 29 Nov 2007, 02:08
A great surprise from my wife who just hates wearing her +0.5 glasses with a slight astigmatism... Yesterday she came top pick me up for a classical music show with her spex on and her hair held back...WOW it's been ages that I haven't seen her in glasses. I don't know if she wore them just for me or she did feel a need to... Will it last? I shall keep you posted...
Gwen 29 Oct 2007, 15:00
Thought I'd write a little under this thread because I realise now glasses ARE sexy. I've just been away for a week (on my own, sad I know but I like to get away by myself from time to time) and I've met a rather gorgeous man. Not only is he gorgeous but he's 8 years my junior. Anyway, it wasn't until near the end of my stay that we started sleeping together and I found out he wears glasses, incredibly strong ones at that, at least as strong as mine. I know I should have noticed the contacts in his eyes but I didn't, probably because my corrected near vision is very poor but these glasses have come as a revelation. I feel I've found a kindred spirit for one thing but more than that I find the fact that he needs these things to see very sexy indeed. I'm starting to see what you people find so alluring about myopia.
R Ed 25 Oct 2007, 14:02
LeAnne,
I've just read your seevral posts from July 2006.
For those unfamiliar LeAnne has told us she works for an escort service in London and has a client who asks her not to wear her - 9.00 & - 9.75 glasses or CL's. One of her posts was:-
"Leanne 27 Jul 2006, 12:39
Hi Lurking
I didn't want the guy to have my glasses because I feel very vulnerable without them. He was OK about it and let me keep them in my bag. I always carry my contacts with me anyway in case of emergencies with my glasses. He's a harmles guy I think, a wealthy business man who likes to tie up with me when he's in London. He usually takes me to fancy restaurants and lets me keep my glasses to read the menu, then I take them off and maybe leave them on the table, he loves to see me squinting at him but it doesn't really help me to see any better. When we leave he likes me to leave my specs off. We've been to a club and a casino and believe me I'm almost blind in dark places so I have to hang onto him. Then we go back to his hotel and the glasses stay off till morning. It is very hard and I do tend to get headaches straining to see things. I just have to remember it's a job and I'm getting paid extra to do this! Hope that answers your questions.
Leanne xx "
I was curious as to what your vision would be like. I went to the drug store ( Chemist to you?), removed my - 6's and peered through two pair of overlapping readers to simulate going without - 9.00 & - 9.75 glasses. Wow! To be trite that made people disappear! What a blur. I had no idea what was on the store shelves. And I did this only briefly not for hours on end as you did in an environment unfamiliar to you.
You are one gutsy lady; I'm happy nothing untoward happened to you apart from a headache.
Do you have other stories/experiences to share with Eye Scene readers?
ChrisB 26 Apr 2007, 14:20
Phil,
a couple of weeks ago I posted this:
ChrisB 18 Apr 2007, 15:34It has been commented before that there are some GWGs who's choice of frames and 'look' is such that they always hit the spot, or whatever we OOs have as our 'thing of desire', 'person of libidinous intent' 'fantasy fxx buddy' 'hearts desire' etc etc.
I have sometimes been thankful that close GWG colleagues did not 'hit the spot', so I didnt have to think about them as GWGs. On the other hand, I am driven mad, almost daily by a GWG colleague who always returns my smile .....
Jillian 26 Apr 2007, 00:15
I agree with the unnamed poster. But I see no reason to fret over it; he is entitled to think how he pleases.
25 Apr 2007, 23:07
not shallow? ... her denseness, her drippy voice, her utter lack of sex appeal.
Julian 25 Apr 2007, 22:32
Phil? shallow? shame on you!
25 Apr 2007, 15:39
Phil,
You sound very shallow, no matter how deep your fetish may fester.
Phil 02 Apr 2007, 05:20
I think Clare sounds lovely, even though I've never met her-not for want of trying! She's intelligent which is an absolute "must". And perceptive. And the fact she's a gwg (when she lets herself be) and an OO is the icing on the cake.
You are right that specs mean a lot to us OOs but they are plainly not everything. Take my secretary. She's a fulltime gwg but that's the end of it. Admittedly she's a hyperope with a heavy rx, not my preferred variety of gwg. But it's the rest that makes her entirely unappealing: her denseness, her drippy voice, her utter lack of sex appeal.
Next door to her sits an angelic secretary: tall, vibrant, sparky, smiley, pretty with lovely long hair and very mild plus glasses which are just perfect.
I think that, while I am never attracted to a girl without glasses, I am certainly not attracted to every gwg. What do other chaps here think?
And what do the gwgs think about us migs?
lazysiow 02 Apr 2007, 02:24
Well as hard as it to restrain one's self sometimes lol, for me the first thing I always look for is other things before I hit on someone other than just their glasses. That's a line that OO's have to draw, would you be just as interested in them if they didn't have frames + rx that drive you nuts. If not thing to do is to pass.
IMO its a blessing to have *something* that excites you and also helps to draw your interest but liking someone just for their glasses or poor vision is the same trap as guys getting in just for a nice figure or rack. I'm conscious of that every day.
cut-in UK 01 Apr 2007, 23:58
I believe this is about how men see women, and (less frequently because of psychological differences between men and women), vice versa. O-O's consider glasses enhance ANY woman. They are a specific essential to the many facets that defines their perfect woman.
To some men, women are a 'package' of atributes counting towards desirability, the last word being the important one. Women however are lit by the flame of attraction first, and desire afterwards. Where would we be though, without the obvious insight of say Clare,(sorry to pick a 'name') but she seems to possess the intellect and understanding of a mature (yes I mean 'older') person. Clearly she wears glasses but having never met her I don't know whether she fits your 'librarian' stereotype. Is she deemed attractive only because she wears glasses or do we equally admire her intelligence as another of the many facets of her overall personality. This is the real test, not of the girls, but of the men that clearly seek to judge them. Interesting stuff eh !
lazysiow 01 Apr 2007, 11:20
Probably two trains of thought here.
I was thinking, there are a lot of guys they say they like the "sexy librarian" look but how many really like the librarian look or just girls in glasses. From what I've seen, a LOT of guys like gwgs, or maybe that's just on the internet ;) but it's always been more socially acceptable to like a sexy librarian than to say you have a thing for glasses. I know I've said sexy librarian a few times to avoid seeming weird.
Well I realised the other day that aside from the glasses I'm not much into the librarian look at all. I'm not a fan of the hair pulled up or bun thing and it accomplishes exactly what most women who do it aim for, looking less attractive and more "serious and professional" which is a load of bollocks really. The problem is with guys who take women less seriously or assume they're whores just because they would rather dress attractively. It's the responsibility of the guys to treat them with respect, not theirs to "dress appropriately". I don't get guys a lot of the time, imo it's a bonus when this happens so why discourage it, and worse make her feel upset about it. But anyway getting off topic. Nothing gets me more than hair down with glasses or "fuck me hair" RAWR! :D
Bob W. 28 Mar 2007, 13:12
Welcome Raphael!
Keep reading around here, especially in the archives. You've already picked up the term "bare-eyed", so you've been poking around some already.
Best regards,
Bob W.
Raphael 20 Mar 2007, 14:49
My first posting on eyescene.
I recall a girlfriend in college 15 years ago who insisted on keeping on her glasses while "in bed". At the time I didn't mind or pay attention to her requisite as the action was good anyway, and I liked her in her glasses too. However, as her eyesight wasn't that bad either (she often walked around bare-eyed), I wonder whether her requisite might have been ground not on the need to see well enough but on any personal enjoyment/stimulation from being stark naked aside from her glasses? Girls on eyescene: any comments from your side?
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Tim 29 Jan 2007, 21:53
Absolutely, ehpc! That's the trouble with quite a lot of Alain's HMG pics - they so obviously don't fit properly.
ehpc 29 Jan 2007, 09:12
They look much hotter fitting well Sue:) Pete
Sue 29 Jan 2007, 08:56
They should not slip down her nose if they are fitted correct, i would find that very annoying have to keep pushin up my glasses. If you are a high rx wearer, its important to have them fitting well. In my opinion anyway and i have worn glasses long enough
Glen 29 Jan 2007, 03:28
gloworm, In response to your wuestion, My girlfriend has a pair of glasses for work and sports that fit well and she isnnot bothered with them slipping..However they look very industrial. Her dress glasses are sexy black plastic ones but like I said they constantly slip. I realy think she likes it when I push them up for heror the feeling of helplessness when they slide off her face.
lazysiow 27 Jan 2007, 23:11
I can't remember definitively but I don't recall seeing much if any rx in them. Maybe they might have been just for looks.
There was a blonde girl a season or two ago, didnt seem that bright but had a low minus pair that she wore only just to meetings where she put on her "smart face" along with them. I shook my head whenever she did that ;)
apprentice fan 27 Jan 2007, 19:55
I missed the episode but found videos and pics online...if Stefani is just 32, what's the need for readers like that down her nose? In the video she was speaking on a script for tourists... this isn't heavy reading w/small print or anything like that... should not be too hard for a young farsighted person to get around without their glasses... unless...
maybe she is actually quite farsighted... then shouldn't she keep them on to help with distance?
or could it be that maybe presbyopia has set in with or without hyperopia?
Glowworm 27 Jan 2007, 12:19
Socks: As long as it concerns low RXs, I agree to you. Concerning high RXs I agree to what Brille said. With high RXs, it is important to have the glasses fixed properly to see well. The lower the RX, the easier the getting along with sliding glasses, I think.
Socks 27 Jan 2007, 12:04
I absolutely LOVE when a girl lets her glasses slide down her nose or wears them lower on her nose. Something extra sexy about it. I think it's partly due to the fact that the girl has to be conscious of her glasses, and with a little effort, could probably remedy it but chooses not too. I think that alone is really sexy and the sign of at least a partial OO.
Not one to advocate online porn, but a girl that was introduced to me on this site is a porn "actress" that goes by the name Eva Angelina. If you search a bit you can find lots of photos and video of her and her glasses are constantly either sliding down or near the end of her nose and she chooses to leave them there for the most part. This drives me crazy! (In a good way.) Sometimes she looks over the top of them, which I don't like so much, but for the most part in the video sequences I've seen, she'll simply tilt her head back a bit rather than push her glasses up. Hottest thing ever! That's the look that I tend to really go for, but it's rare. Any thoughts?
lazysiow 27 Jan 2007, 04:46
I should also add that Stefani has a very Sophie Marceau quality to her. To me she is the "older woman", but in a very good way. Definitely the type I like.
lazysiow 27 Jan 2007, 04:43
Hey guest,
Thanks for the gwg tip on the Apprentice this last week. They actually have the full episode online for this one so you can all see what he was talking about :)
http://apprentice.tv.yahoo.com/trump/06/episodes/week3.html
I've found that the best looking girls this season aren't the ones with the best headshots it seems. Stefani is definitely alluring and commanding with the readers. At the same time I kept wanting to see what she looked like wearing them properly as opposed to on the tip of her nose. There is Kristine, who is the only proper "out" gwg there, lots of frame styles. Seemingly a different one every week. She could be one of us! The other one is Nicole, she's a little more average looking but seems to be a full time gwg whenever she's not having camera closeups. Her glasses are well chosen and do a LOT ofr her.
There are also a couple of guys too for you ladies. There's a blonde chap by the name of Aaron who is seen in myopic rx ovals in the morning and I think I spotted some specs on that James bloke. Quite a lot of good looking girls this season (another one is Heidi), something which I think they've done delibrately because of ratings. Ivanka has also taken over Carolyn's job and she looks spectacular.
I was planning to skip this season but now I'm reconsidering :)
Brille 27 Jan 2007, 04:26
I have never understood this cliché of thick glasses sliding down the nose. Strong powers should be fitted correctly as close to the eyes as possible.
Glowworm 27 Jan 2007, 03:56
glenn: Isn't it annoying for her if her glasses keep sliding down her nose? Does she get along with that? Wouldn't it be better for her to get smaller frames with high-index lenses?
glenn 26 Jan 2007, 13:05
Hi Sue, my girlfriend wears about -20 glasses .She cannot see without them. I think they make her look even more attractive than what she is even if they are very thick.She has a hard time keeping them in place because they are so thick andthey keep sliding down her nose.I actually think it is sexy when she has to fidget with her glasses.
ipml 26 Jan 2007, 07:18
No cut off for me Sue. The higher the minus Rx the better. So don't worry about getiing more myopic, there lots of guys out there who love GWGs with thick glasses, especially as they are hard to come by these days, what with cls, lasik, etc...
lentifan 25 Jan 2007, 15:56
I cannot conceive any lenses that would be so strong as to make them unatractive. Lenticulars and myodiscs -so rarely seen in real life these days - are a particular turn-on.
Steve 25 Jan 2007, 15:14
Sue, for me the cut-off is not strength but thickness: about 6-7mm (1/4in). Frames are important also: as long as they "match" the face, different styles go with different faces!
RL 25 Jan 2007, 10:35
Sue,
I think your prescription is just about perfect, since it's almost identical to mine. I'm -11.50 R and
-15.00 L with a little bit of astigmatism. And I don't think there's any "cut-off" point at all.
Sue 25 Jan 2007, 09:55
wow, what a nice response. Makes having to wear strong glasses a lot easier, thanks guys xxx
Carl 25 Jan 2007, 08:25
Sue:
to answer your question, I love thick minus glasses on girls but I don't like myodisks, which turn me off. So go ahead and get as nearsighted as you like but please don't get myodisks. (I assume that at your relatively low prescription, your lenses are either plano or doubly concave.)
benn 25 Jan 2007, 07:19
The thicker the better, either plus or minus, love multi focus!
Galileo 25 Jan 2007, 06:06
No cut off for me either. It's the helplessness that comes with higher prescriptions which is one of the attractions. Another is the fact that glasses with well chosen frames and a high minus draw my attention to her eyes, but the lenses prevent me seeing what her eyes actually look like. Only when the glassses come off can I see what she really looks like. That transition is an extremely erotic moment for me.:)
Charles 25 Jan 2007, 05:29
Sue
There is no cut off point as far as I am concerned. But as a very high myope myself, maybe I am biased.
ehpc 25 Jan 2007, 05:18
As far as I am concerned the lenses MUST be minus (I find plus lenses positively unattractive),but providing the girl has perfectly healthy eyes and can see perfectly wearing glasses the thicker the better:) Although really I am very much a 'frames' man. Especially blondes wearing black rectangular plastic frames with wide sides:)Providing the lenses are minus, it doesn't make any difference whether the lenses are minus 1 or minus 20, though high minus has it's own attraction. But there is certainly no 'cut-off point'. Really thick minus lenses are soooooooooooooo cool - none of this 'hi-index' rubbish:) Pete
sue 25 Jan 2007, 03:35
Interesting question for you guys. At what rx do glasses stop being sexy. As a high minus wearer myself, (R-11.25 L-14.00 with -2 astig in both eyes) i get lots of comments from boyfriends about my glasses. Most are positive and once they know how helpless i am without them understand. But i have had others that have said, why cant you go out without them, or cant you get thinner lenses, (I have hi-index)
It struck me that lots of guys like girls in glasses, but there seems to be cut off point, when they reach a certain rx, their conceptions change. It may be just me, but any thoughts on the subject would be welcome
Steve 23 Jan 2007, 15:36
I came home early from work today.
My girlfriend was in the kitchen, she'd just come back from a jogging, had showered, and was still in her bathrobe. To my delight she wore her glasses, which she always keeps in the car, as she tried to follow a sitcom playing on the TV on the other side of the room while cooking.
The man-woman action kicked off quickly and for the first time we made love while she had only her glasses on. She didn't seem to mind or simply forgot to put them off? Anyway, she's only -2.50 in each eyes, but it was a great turn-on for me, which I'd never dared to tell her but often dreamed of! Maybe her eyesight is worsening as she never used her glasses for watching TV before tonight?
Guest 23 Jan 2007, 05:15
How hot is Stefani wearing her glasses on The Apprentice? She seems so comfortable wearing her readers for the whole show this week. With two other girls wearing glasses as well. It's turning into a GWG show.
Phil 18 Jan 2007, 10:07
Come, come no name. She does look nice in her specs, even if she is a racist loudmouth. Is she myopic? Any guesses on a rx?
Katy 18 Jan 2007, 09:26
Oops! Sorry Phil! :-)
18 Jan 2007, 08:12
No there's nothing whatsoever attractive about jade Goody
Phil 18 Jan 2007, 07:49
Does anyone agree that, despite her being so very very awful, there is something attractive about Jade in specs?
Slit 18 Jan 2007, 03:00
Naughty Librarian.... ah !!! i love that idea!!
There can be 3 possibilities,
1. Your girlfriend is Hyperopic:
In this case, she will find that the +1 glasses can be worn by her without discomfort. However, if you make her wear -1 glasses, what she see through -1 will be horrible and she will hate the idea of wearing them.
2. She is Myopic:
Here, -1 will comfort her while +1 will annoy her.
3. 100% Perfect sight:
She might resist both, but there is a good probability that she can be induced to wear +1 if you manage it with good skill and care.
Best thing is keep 2 pairs with you, one +1 and another -1, make her wear each on 2 different days while playing sexy librabian... ask her when she is relaxed which of the glasses made her more comfortable! Then you can guess what suits her the best.
Good Luck!!
DWV 18 Jan 2007, 02:53
Lovesglasses:
a couple of ideas... take her along with you when you go shopping for glasses for yourself, and suggest she try some frames on. If the store happens to have free sight testing, chances are incredibly good they'll write some kind of prescription, even if it's very low. Almost nobody has absolutely perfect eyesight....
Get a pair of +1 readers and persuade her to try them for reading or the computer when she's tired, or to play "naughty librarian".
Phil 18 Jan 2007, 00:45
Hell Katy, I was born and bred in Newport! Though I admit that I didn't get my first specs till I crossed the border.
lovesglasses 17 Jan 2007, 15:14
Hi ,Im a new poster on here,been checking it out for a few months now.Just a question for you regulars.My new girlfriend is not a gwg :o( How do I get her to wear glasses,even with fake lenses (for a start!) I do have a few pairs brought via ebay with prescriptions in them,do you think these would be a problem? some are only about -.75 so are very weak.what do I tell her? Any help would be a great help! ps.im a -5.5
Katy 17 Jan 2007, 15:00
Phil - I don't think you count as a Welsh Eyescener if you're English! I don't either, really, but I suppose I meant people that live here :-)
newglasses 15 Jan 2007, 05:54
well, as we seem to be at it, i'd be interested, where all you guys are from (country is enough, i don't want to invade anybody's privacy in snooping around...)
to continue after the welsh connection :-), the home bas of my glasses (and the rest of me..)is switzerland.
Myopeinhere 15 Jan 2007, 03:43
Wow,I'm a Welsh eyescener,we do exist!!!!
Phil 15 Jan 2007, 01:02
Katy, Do I count as a "Welsh Eyescener"? I thought you were a Yorkshire lass! I think that there are more myopic gwgs in London than elsewhere. Partly a fashion thing, partly the higher concentration of young educated types, and partly the need to be able to see to get around such a complex place! But when you do get a Welsh myopic gwg they beat others hands down. I know a lawyer in the Assembly, who lives near you, and is as close to perfection as reality allows: long auburn hair, a beautiful accent and black plastic frames with about -3 lenses. She is the thing of dreams.
cut-in UK 14 Jan 2007, 23:17
Oscar, at your first meeting, she didn't quite have that 100% confidence although she obviously suspected your leanings. She just needed to know that you adore the way SHE looks, but clearly her glasses are the icing on the cake. Now you have her full confidence and this relationship has clearly developed both the way she feels about herself and also she thinks, 'this is the way he likes me to look.' A good result for two kindred spirits and further evidence for my 'myope affinity theory'.
oscar 14 Jan 2007, 17:59
I thought it had taken me a while to convince my girlfriend that I thought she was at her sexiest when wearing her little gold-rimmed minus 10 (hi-index) glasses - and she's often said since that she's very happy about this (which is wonderful as far as I'm concerned) and she is even wearing them more now. But I hadn't fooled her: she said the other day that she knew from the look on my face the first time I ever saw her in glasses that I obviously found them incredibly attractive - and she didn't have any problem with that, in fact she was pleased. So in my case, it's worked out rather well. I guess the fact that we both have fairly abominable vision probably helped.
VFL 14 Jan 2007, 17:46
Canada? That's what he says... The smart money's on the Filthy-man. ;)
Katy 14 Jan 2007, 14:48
VFL - Oh god, I really hope he isn't an Eyescene visitor. Isn't Filthy McNasty from Canada? And is he -9.00??I'm in Wales - I wonder how many Welsh Eyesceners there are?... :-)
Galileo - I know, you're right - he wouldn't think anything of the question, it's me that has the problem with it!
VFL 14 Jan 2007, 13:36
Dear Cut-In, Thanks for the compliment. I take it as such!
Katie, I can guarantee that I could get him talking about the photo and have him taking off his own glasses and handing them to me and practically begging me to try them on within 5 maybe 10 minutes.
You know why it would be easy for me? Because I don't have anything invested in him. When it's somebody you are attracted to personally, it takes on a whole different meaning.
I've started complimenting people on their glasses. A great conversation starter is, "I really like your glasses. Where did you get those frames?" It's amazing how pleased of a reaction I get from people. Then I just go into, "I'm wearing my contacts now, but I'm due for a new pair of glasses and want something cool like those."
People just open up. I've found out about some really funky cool opticians that way.
Don't ask him about the picture if that is outside of your comfort zone. Everybody is different. Sometimes it's fun to have a little mystery...
But if he's one of the guys from this board I think he should "fess up" right this very minute!!!!
Maybe it's Filthy McNasty?! That's my best guess.
Galileo 14 Jan 2007, 08:55
Katy - you don't have to feel you are exposing your OO tendancies by mentioning the picture of glasses on the wall. How many people have a picture of glasses on the wall?!! It is unusual. Ask him. Just say "I'm curious, you have a picture of a pair of glasses on your wall, I've never seen that before. Why did you choose it?" You won't expose yourself as an OO by asking that question. Go for it.
Katy 14 Jan 2007, 08:24
VFL - very funny, but no chance! I would love to send you round there though - I bet you could get all sorts of juicy details out of him :-)
cut-in UK 12 Jan 2007, 15:30
VFL, I am prompted to remark that I admire anyone with a more than average command of the English language. I suspect that you could convert the terms and conditions on the back of a bus ticket into poetry.
Have you serious artistic leanings. I think this may account for the 'OO' in your personality.
More an observation than an attempt at flattery, but I always believe in highlighting interesting personality traits, as they tend to enrich the lives of those around them.
VFL 11 Jan 2007, 18:28
Oh Katy! What to do? Whattodo? WHATTODO?
Oh, girl, go for it! You must! If you have to pour an airline bottle's worth of Vodka into a small carton of OJ and slug it down in the ladies room before going to his office again then, so be it! You must ask the boy about the glasses picture.
Oh, I know...look at it and say (tongue firmly in cheek), is this your spare pair?
I dare you! Double...TRIPLE dog dare you.
ehpc 11 Jan 2007, 16:42
Katy and VFL - you girlies are so cool:) Pete
Katy 11 Jan 2007, 14:54
VFL - there is nothing else on the wall apart from a load of phone numbers and random bits of paper. That makes the glasses pic even more obvious! I can't risk the conversation getting round to glasses - what if he makes a comment about his? My head would explode :-)
VFL 11 Jan 2007, 14:00
Katy, dear, dear, Katy...
You don't have to say the word "glasses"... Is there other art on his walls? (The "art" perched on his pretty little nose doesn't count!) Comment on another piece of work and maybe another, then hone in on the glasses picture. Ask about that after you've asked about one or two others. You have to finesse this situation...
Okay?
Clare 11 Jan 2007, 13:56
lentifan - thanks I'll remember that next time I'm in company where it feels insignificant!
Katy 11 Jan 2007, 08:51
VFL - I would die if I had to mention anything about glasses to him, it is bad enough just trying to talk to him without going bright red :-)
Katy 11 Jan 2007, 08:48
Well, he has a picture on his wall - a print of a painting, of a black pair of glasses on a white background. Maybe he is an OO, in which case he might be an Eyescene visitor (oh my god), but I think it is maybe because he just likes glasses. He certainly isn't shy about them - his frames couldn't be more obvious :-)
VFL 10 Jan 2007, 16:29
Yes, Katy...do spill about the glasses picture on that dear man's wall. You must ask him about it...do it for all of us "oo" girls!
lentifan 10 Jan 2007, 14:46
Clare
Your Rx is just enough to avoid being boring! And I'm sure your frames are well-chosen.
Thank yo for your words of support, cut-in. I should add that I'd be delighted if I had the opportunity to wear a really high Rx myself. However, my share of the gene pool has cheated me out of that and my domestic situation allows me no opportunity for GOC. Maybe I'm yearning for the unattainable.
cut-in UK 10 Jan 2007, 13:49
Don't run yourself down Lentifan; what you describe are merely preferences, you are no more abnormal than those preferring blondes to brunettes. It's all matter of degree. As long as your preference is consistent and not extreme, you are not crossing the line from normality. We're all here because our obsession is related to optics rather than shoes, cars or leather clothing. Also, we're all quite different; if you read the threads, we're quite a mixed bunch. Remember, variety is the spice of life, and rarely , if ever, does anyone openly disrespect another persons opinion. Keep it coming, and all those 'lurkers' out there; be bold, go ahead and post! If you have a relevant opinion, your contribution is valued. That is what keeps the interest going.
Clare 10 Jan 2007, 13:43
Katy - tell us some more about the picture of a pair of glasses. Indeed, what can that be about? Freud would have a field day without doubt.
And Lentifan - high Rx, lowest possible index? Yesterday I remarked that my pitiful -2.75/-3 lenses appeared to show outside of the frame. I was surprised they did but clearly you'd find that quite insignificant!
lentifan 10 Jan 2007, 12:53
What you've all been describing seem pretty mild doses of the OO disease compared to mone. For me the ideal Rx is 'as high as possible' and, it will not surprise you to know, the lowest index possible.
I find high plus just as erotic as high minus. A lady who would otherwise not interest me can look highly attractive, to put it no higher, when wearing glasses with a really high Rx. I remember from many years ago a girl who was very tall and thin, with a stoop and no discernable bosom. She wore no make-up and didn't spend any time on her dark hair. But her long face was made gorgeous by black plastic frames with glorious myodisc lenses (she must have been well into the -20s). To me she was a fascinating creature.
I can't be normal, because I find models wearing plano or near plano lenses boring and no turn on at all. It takes a little imperfection to make them pretty but human, complemented by a well chosen pair of glasses with a decent prescription, to make a girl attractive.
Katy 10 Jan 2007, 09:19
All4Eyes - I love your logic! I have just had to go and see my old tutor, who would be 'interesting' without glasses, but wears something like -9s, so on your scale he becomes 'scorching', which is a very accurate description. He has just got new glasses with very similar frames (dark plastic - mmmm), so I am guessing his rx went up :-) I talked to him for a while but got all hot and flustered - I'm sure he can tell. Although I am happy with my boyfriend, I have had dreams of going to his house, which I feel a bit guilty about. He has a picture of a pair of glasses on his wall too - what is that all about? Sometimes I wish I could switch off my OO-ness for a while, and then I could go to his classes without getting all over-excited and spending half an hour choosing what to wear, and then being late.
lazysiow 08 Jan 2007, 16:37
shawnhoteyes - okay so she's attractive and she's obssessed with you. The problem is...? most of us wish we were so lucky ;)
All4Eyes 08 Jan 2007, 15:38
I've been thinking about a way to show how a persons' bespectaclednes (is that a word?) affects my perception of how attractive he/she is, so I made a sort of chart or scale showing how different specs affect me. As a baseline, I tend to look at everyone (the g-factor notwithstanding) as being, in ascending order-
1. Uninteresting
2. Interesting
3. Attractive
4. Hot
Now, a +/- 3 or under (on most anyone) or even (on someone whos face is especially well suited to them) just my favorite frames (big, black horn rims 50s style) moves one up a notch on my scale, everyone is at least interesting and an already hottie (without specs) becomes scorching.
A +/- 3-6 moves one 2 places up, so everyones attractive, the attractive-to-begin-withs are scorching and the hotties are boiling.
With a +/- 6-10 most anyone is hot to me, at least, going
1. Hot
2. Scorching
3. Boiling
4. Blistering
At +/- 10-20 we have
1. Scorching
2. Boiling
3. Blistering
4. Subnuclear
And from +/-20 on I am completely melted by the persons intense optical power and rendered helpless and stupefied (anybody else remember the Nickelodeon carton Doug where Doug had a superhero alter ego named Quailman who would give villains the Quail Eye?)! Well, actually, this last is strictly theoretical, as Ive never actually met anyone with this high an rx, but if I did, Im sure thats how Id feel. Ive come pretty close with a few Subnuclears!
Willy2 18 Nov 2006, 02:36
Oddly I'm having a "virtual" experience just like that on "Second Life". Weird but wonderful. See XXX thread.
cut-in uk 18 Nov 2006, 02:29
Who knows Shawn, you may find her posting on the 'sightings' thread here. It's nice to know that not all the stalking is done by male OO's.
shawnhoteyes 18 Nov 2006, 00:57
This may be a bit off, but i guess this is the best place to ask this. Have anybody had an occurance where they were stalked by a OO? There was this young lady who got obsessed with me, and I can't explain why. I'm pretty blind without my glasses, but I can't tell if it was my glasses or not. She was very pretty, but I did not know her. She would drive and park across the street from my friends house after I had been there for a while, and sometimes acoss the street from my own home. At times I would see her far off as if she was hoping I would not be able to see her that far away. Never got a chance to talk to her. The only way I caught on was my friends told me what she was doing!
Slit 25 Sep 2006, 08:57
Adalle,
Congratulations on finding a girl friend you like.
Well, try some over the counter prescription glasses with very low powers such as +1, because i also found they can be used for a long time without headaches and for me distances are also very clear.
It might work for the couple of you!
Adalle 24 Sep 2006, 03:52
I don't think I'll ever try to persuade her into doing GOC. She, like me, seems to like glasses because of the frames and not cause of the power of the lenses. We both love glasses because of the interaction with them. Of course a low minus prescription would be a plus, because she would be dependable by glasses, but I don't care much about it.
Furthermore if she purchases glasses with plain glass lenses, I can wear them too, without having headaches. And that's a plus, especially during sex...
22 Sep 2006, 23:38
I should think that would really turn her on.
Tim 22 Sep 2006, 23:17
Adale, you are a lucky devil! You will have to try getting her into GOC now.
Adalle 22 Sep 2006, 09:15
I've been dating a girl for about a month now. From the first couple of days of our relationship, I asked her if she wore contacts or glasses, just to find out if she was a GWG. Unfortunately for me, she told me she had absolutely no eyesight problem and her vision was perfect. Nevertheless I really liked her and kept on dating her.
After the first week, our relationship became more intimate and we really fell in love with each other. One day, half a month ago, we went for a coffee at the morning on a very sunny day. That day I found out she had in her purse two pairs of expensive sunglasses. After asking her why she had two pairs, I received the most intriguing answer. After hesitating a bit, she told me that since she was a teenager she had a fetish with glasses and that since she couldn't get prescription glasses, due to her perfect eyesight, she started buying sunglasses!
Of course I was really happy hearing that, but I tried not to show my full enthusiasm. After starting a conversation about her fetish, I found out she had a pair of sunglasses whose frames were meant for prescription glasses, but she decided to transform them to sunglasses. Immediately I tried to persuade her to put plain glass to the frames and restore them to their original purpose. I was really surprised when I heard her saying that she was thinking about that already! Of course I told her I looked forward to seeing her wearing her "prescription" glasses. That morning we ended up having the most amazing sex with her wearing the one pair of sunglasses after the other.
One week later we went on a small trip. While we started making love in the hotel room, she told me she had a surprise for me. She went into the bathroom with her purse and when she came out, she was completely naked and the only thing she wore was a pair of dark purple plastic square rimmed glasses with wide arms and plain glass lenses! I will leave out the details, saying only that we didn't go out of the room that whole day and she wore her glasses for almost all day. I persuaded her to wear them next day too when we went out and she really seemed to be enjoying it, playing tricks with her glasses... She lowered them with her fingers and looked at me from above the rims, she took them off and licked the side arms, etc. She even took them off and put them on my nose and dragged me to the hotel room to have sex!
Until now she still wears them when we meet, and she has told me she wants to buy another pair to switch between the two of them. That's a relationship I really love to hang on to. I like her very much and she has a glasses fetish. Fortunately or not she doesn't use the internet, so I can keep you posted about her glasses...
Visitboy 11 Aug 2006, 15:19
I might make it to London if the meeting's not in the next few weeks.
Glenn 11 Aug 2006, 02:03
baua, I do not tease her about her poor eyesight.if her glasses fall off she has a difficult time finding them. She usually only wears the more attractive ones that slip when she dresses up or goes out with me.They have falle of many times
aviator -oo- 08 Aug 2006, 15:04
Regarding the proposed a 'meet' for glasses lovers and collectors
So far, we have just 4 names: newglasses , Bobby , Phil and myself.
Its a start, but come on girls and boys, there must be more of you out there who could make it to London to discuss our favourite subject and maybe look at each other's collections of eye wear.
John 07 Aug 2006, 18:25
Specs4ever -- the referral to Bobby's site is definitely a good one for folks who haven't been there. But I've read all (I think) of the stories.
I respect Wurm's decision not to host stories, but it would be nice if willing writers had a convenient forum to post their work. I'd definitely be interested in reading.
Bobby - do you want to post more stories on your site? If so, how should people give them to you? If not, anyone have any ideas?
glassesforeveryone 07 Aug 2006, 00:39
Apologies, didn't know stories were 'not welcome'.
Bobby 05 Aug 2006, 11:25
Actually, there are 274 stories now.
specs4ever 05 Aug 2006, 10:21
Slit, all you have to do is go to Bobby's site. There is lots of fiction there, enough to interest any lover of GWG stories. Wurm has decided that fiction takes up too much band with, and requires too mucg time to edit for content, so stories are no longer welcome here.
Slit 04 Aug 2006, 20:35
hi,
its really great to see glasses stories coming up again on eyescene!
i was missing these amazing skilled people who write sotries on ES.
the more realistic the stories are, the more interesting them are to read.
keep it up guys & girls!
03 Aug 2006, 10:28
Ellies story. Part 2
Arriving back home her flat mate greeted her by saying wow, Ellie you lot hot in those glasses, can I try them on? Why did everyone want to try on other peoples glasses thought Ellie? Still, she duly obliged and let Sam try them on; My god Ellie, you must be blind, I think Ive got a headache already! was the predictable response.
Right Missy, you are not getting out of it tonight, were going out, said Sam actually, I forgot to tell you that that tall handsome guy, you know, the Brad Pitt lookalike, was asking after you last night.
Ellie smiled for an instance betraying her feelings for the guy that shed secretly been thinking about more often than shed like to admit. Thats it settled, there is no way I am going out if hes going to be there and Im wearing these. Protested Ellie. Sam put a stop to the protestation with a simple, Sorry gal, Ive told him youll be there tonight and youre looking forward to seeing him. Friends who needs them!
So it was, later that evening Ellie was dressed up and ready to hit the town. If you take away the glasses I dont look half bad, she thought. Her plan was to go to the club wearing her glasses and whip them off when she got there.
Waiting outside the club, Ellie was just taking her glasses off when she was tapped on the shoulder. She turned around and squinted, but she could tell it was her man. I didnt know you wore glasses Ellie. Do you mind putting them back on, I thought they looked great on you, but I want to check for sure!
Ellie put her glasses back on, ready to whip them off in an instant. Wow, you look really, really hot in those was the response, although Ellie could tell by the increasing bulge in his trousers that he liked what he saw.
They went into the club and had a fantastic night, at one point they separated to have a few drinks with their respective friends, at which point Ellie was approached by four different guys in the space of 15 minutes, a personal best! Later that night Ellie and her beau left the club and went back to his flat.
After an amorous hour on the couch, Ellie was led into his bedroom. He took his shirt of and Ellie could help but gawp at his torso, thank God Ive got the new lenses, I wouldnt want to have missed that sight thought Ellie. Ellie went to remove her glasses, but was quickly stopped by the request from the bed that she kept them on.
It was the most memorable sexual experience she had ever known. She loved the feeling of her glasses slipping down her nose and the experience of being out of control.
4 weeks later Ellie received a letter from the opticians to return for another contact lens check. She hesitated for a moment before throwing the letter in the bin.
The last 4 weeks had been the best of her life. She had never felt so sexy. Shed also never realised that she had a thing for glasses, wearing them and also seeing her new boyfriend wearing his low minus lenses: yes he too had a hidden requirement for lenses.
Ellie was a glasses wearer, and she was proud.
glassesforeveryone 03 Aug 2006, 10:27
Ellie was a party girl, she was never happier than when she was out on a Friday or Saturday night, dressed up and dancing!
Ellie prided herself on looking good, taking care with every aspect of her appearance - from her layered hairstyle, designer dress to her strappy sandals. Ellie would take time getting ready for the nights frolics, much to the annoyance of her flatmate. This was partly because she struggled to put her contact lenses in; sometimes taking a few attempts to get them in comfortably; it was also partly because Ellie was a single girl enjoying life.
Ellie's confidence had blossomed since leaving school. At school she had always been pretty enough, but Ellie's looks were overshadowed (in the eyes of the ignorant) by the fact that she wore fairly strong glasses all of the time.
Since leaving school Ellie had got herself contacts, 'the best fashion must-have since the worlds first Gucci handbag' she'd often joke. The transformation was instant; Ellie noticed that she was getting more than her fair share of admiring glances from members of the other sex. Buoyed by this, Ellies confidence grew to the point that she was even brave enough to go up to whoever caught her eye in a bar or club and strike up a conversation.
So, it was a shock when Ellies latest contact lens check up revealed an issue with her eyes. You cannot wear lenses for at least four weeks, maybe longer Aghast, Ellie was in tears as she left the opticians, she could hardly see a thing; in part because her eyes were streaming and, more significantly, because Ellie had not had new lenses in her glasses for a few years. The lenses in her current frames were, L: -3.25, -.75 x 175 R: -2.75, -.5 x 10, she knew she needed stronger lenses, but it had never been an issue before
After spending the remainder of the week in bed, Ellie ventured hesitantly out on the Saturday morning. Yes, a Friday night spent in, despite the efforts of her flatmate to get her out the door. Squinting when she had to read the passing bus numbers, Ellie thought she could make out a few glances from the opposite sex, although of course, these glances would have been men trying not to laugh at the sorry sight.
Arriving back at the opticians Ellie had her eyes tested and rightly enough the lenses in her current frames were too weak with a new prescription of L: -4.5, -.75 x 175 R: -4.0, -.75 x 10 prescribed. Fortunately the opticians did a 1 hour service, so Ellie selected a pair of brown cats eye frames and went next door to the coffee shop.
The hour lasted an eternity and Ellie was glad shed had the foresight to bring a large enough book to bury her head in so as not to be seen. With the time about right Ellie headed back next door to the opticians and picked up her new glasses. She was happy with the vision through the new lenses, although she hated the increased cut-in and felt sure that she might as well wear a sign around her neck saying ugly, stay well away.
baua 03 Aug 2006, 06:05
glenn did u ever take her the glasses off for teasing her or did u let her search her glasses of her own when the fell down?
aviator -00- 02 Aug 2006, 15:54
If others would like to suggest another city to meet, please say so. Perhaps we shopld all state where our nearest big city is and then work it out. Mine is Southampton.
newglasses 02 Aug 2006, 02:51
possibly also a fourth member, but in the same situation as bobby, travelling to the meeting from abroad...think about a date and let us know. all the best.
Bobby 02 Aug 2006, 01:39
If it is during a weekend, and if I knew the term enough time before ... there could be the third one, although not quite a Londoner. 8-)
Glenn 02 Aug 2006, 01:34
baua, yes, she loses her loose glasses when they slide off her face.She cannot see without them so has to grope for them or ask someone to help her find them.They have fallen off many times when we do sports or other active things .I retrivethem for her and slip them back on her face.
aviator -oo- 01 Aug 2006, 10:34
Thanks Phil. So, the planned London meet has at least two participants. Any more?
Phil 01 Aug 2006, 09:07
What a great idea Aviator-OO-. It would be great to meet up with those with a shared interest.
aviator -oo- 01 Aug 2006, 08:41
Has anyone ever suggested a 'meet' for glasses lovers and collectors? I live near London, and suspect that there must be enough glasses fans in or near the capital city to make a meet worthwhile - assuming there was interest. Whilst this site is a great way to communicate with other glasses enthusiasts around the world, it would be great to be able to meet a few. I for one have a large collection of prestriction glasses, some of which I'd be happy to consider swapping, if there are other collectors out there. What say you...?
Leanne 31 Jul 2006, 04:38
Kristen,
I know my choice of career isn't for everyone and I'm not exactly proud of what I do but neither am I ashamed. I'm 24, drive a Porsche and own a flat in quite an upmarket area of London. That's why I'm prepared to do what I do. I always said that when I make my first million I will change tack and do something "respectable", maybe even settle down and have kids but until then............
Slit 28 Jul 2006, 07:24
Hi Leanne,
It was really interesting to see that guys specify that glasses wearing escorts are prefered. I am pretty sure there are many more guys who want GWG escorts but too shy to express that fact.
In my country there is no escort system.
But i would love to post a marriage proposal on a news paper mentioning GWGs are preferred!
Kristen 27 Jul 2006, 13:47
Leanne.
It might be just a job but how do you do that!! I think to have such poor vision would drive me crazy.
myofan 27 Jul 2006, 13:45
Hi, Leanne -- What kind of interesting adventures have you had with guys that actually LIKE your glasses?
Leanne 27 Jul 2006, 12:39
Hi Lurking
I didn't want the guy to have my glasses because I feel very vulnerable without them. He was OK about it and let me keep them in my bag. I always carry my contacts with me anyway in case of emergencies with my glasses. He's a harmles guy I think, a wealthy business man who likes to tie up with me when he's in London. He usually takes me to fancy restaurants and lets me keep my glasses to read the menu, then I take them off and maybe leave them on the table, he loves to see me squinting at him but it doesn't really help me to see any better. When we leave he likes me to leave my specs off. We've been to a club and a casino and believe me I'm almost blind in dark places so I have to hang onto him. Then we go back to his hotel and the glasses stay off till morning. It is very hard and I do tend to get headaches straining to see things. I just have to remember it's a job and I'm getting paid extra to do this! Hope that answers your questions.
Leanne xx
glassesforeveryone 27 Jul 2006, 04:12
Apologies for double post. Got a bit carried awy with ES-loving!
glassesforeveryone 27 Jul 2006, 00:43
Hi there,
I'd just like to say, thank God for Eyescene! I have had a thing for girls in glasses ever since I can remember being into girls.
I also have always had a desire 1) to wear glasses and 2) wear stronger and stronger glasses.
I am not sure why this is the case? But, finding eyescene has made me realise that, maybe, I am not all that weird.
Glasses are sexy, I don't know why? It could go all the way back to my first crush who wore glasses and I used to try them on, or who knows? I was always okay at sport and always received a valentines card from someone, so I wonder if it is something to do with imperfection, or perceived imperfection. I just wish that I reaaly needed glasses myself. I have managed to get up to a prescription (a feat in itself) of -1.25, -0.5 175: -0.75, -0.5 15, so I don't need glasses at all. I suspect that this prescription is too strong for me too :o(.
I just wanted to say, I love glasses, the wearing of them, the looking at them on others, the whole deal.
Eyescene forever!
glassesforeveryone 27 Jul 2006, 00:43
Hi there,
I'd just like to say, thank God for Eyescene! I have had a thing for girls in glasses ever since I can remember being into girls.
I also have always had a desire 1) to wear glasses and 2) wear stronger and stronger glasses.
I am not sure why this is the case? But, finding eyescene has made me realise that, maybe, I am not all that weird.
Glasses are sexy, I don't know why? It could go all the way back to my first crush who wore glasses and I used to try them on, or who knows? I was always okay at sport and always received a valentines card from someone, so I wonder if it is something to do with imperfection, or perceived imperfection. I just wish that I reaaly needed glasses myself. I have managed to get up to a prescription (a feat in itself) of -1.25, -0.5 175: -0.75, -0.5 15, so I don't need glasses at all. I suspect that this prescription is too strong for me too :o(.
I just wanted to say, I love glasses, the wearing of them, the looking at them on others, the whole deal.
Eyescene forever!
lurking 23 Jul 2006, 18:15
Leanne: Interesting story about that guy. I can understand why you were reluctant to give him your glasses. But he does sound harmless. I mean, if he knows that you're helpless without your glasses and if he meant you any ill will, he could have just taken them. Were you afraid that he would not give them back?
specs4ever 23 Jul 2006, 00:58
Nope, no numbers, just personal experience. Of course, I do tend to search them out. And -10D is a prescrption that can usually be done in 1 hour at most of those 1 hour places, whereas -12 or above can't be.
Philosifer 22 Jul 2006, 21:06
Specs;
'Lots' is a very relative term
Over the last little while I have been trying to put together the statistical distribution that describes the fractions of the general population (in North America and Europe) that require different degrees of correction.
So far, the table below represents the best I have been able to come up with. It suggests that people needing -10 or above may be between one in 1000 ans 1 in 10,000 of the general population
If you have a better set of numbers, please share them, and the source of your data , with us
Stronger than +5 0.5%
+4 to +5 1%
+3 to +4 3%
+2 to +3 6%
+1 to +2 10%
0 to +1 14%
0 to -1 18%
-1 to -2 14%
-2 to -3 12%
-3 to -4 8%
-4 to -5 6%
-5 to -6 4%
-6 to -7 2%
-7 to -8 1%
Stronger than -9 0.5%
specs4ever 22 Jul 2006, 20:28
Hi Leanne. I notice I had gotten my interpretation of your prescription wrong. I got them reversed, so your right eye would be equal to -10.50D and your left equal to -10.25D. You are a high myope, but you are on the low end of the high myope totem pole. There are lots of people with worse uncorrected eyesight than yours.
Leanne 22 Jul 2006, 17:40
Well thanks guys, I can't pretend I know what the numbers mean but I know I cant really see much without my glasses. I'm guessing my short sight is pretty bad as I can't imagine anyone seeing worse than I do but maybe you know different.
Leanne xx
Specs4ever 22 Jul 2006, 14:47
Hey Leanne. Well, if you take your spherical correction, which is your first number, and add it to 1/2 of your astigmatism, you come up with about -10.25D in your right eye, and -10.50D in your left eye. You are right, you are pretty nearsighted. However, there are lots of people with far worse prescriptions than you have. I don't understand why the guy wants you to go around without your glasses. I would love to be with you if you were wearing your glasses. That would be a real turn on for me, not to have you stumble around half blind, wearing a nice looking pair of glasses.
Glowworm 22 Jul 2006, 11:58
Leanne, at least I can tell you the following about what those numbers mean: The first number in each row are the diopters of spheric myopia, the second are the diopters of astigmatism, and the third is the axis of the astigmatism. And of course, "L" means left eye and "R" means right eye. ;-)
If you want a more detailed explanation - ask someone who knows it better (and speaks English well enough to explain ;-)).
Leanne 22 Jul 2006, 11:36
Hi guys
I found my prescription if anyone is interested. There are boxes divided into two rows and 5 columns. The rows are L and R and the columms have sph, cyl, axis, base and add written above them. I'm sure you know what all this means but I'm sorry I haven't the faintest.
Anyway for my left eye the columns read -9.00, -1.75, 90 and the last 2 are blank. For my right, the numbers are -9.75, -1.25, 110, blank, blank. I assume this means something to you guys.
baua 20 Jul 2006, 05:23
glenn does your girlfriend sometimes loose her glasses and u have to search them?
lazysiow 20 Jul 2006, 05:04
Me too Brille
Brille 20 Jul 2006, 03:23
I have always found glasses well fitted to be sexier. I find glasses slipping down the nose a tired cliché and tacky. No matter how thick or heavy the lenses there is no excuse for an ill fitted pair of glasses. This is just my subjective opinion by the way.
Glenn 20 Jul 2006, 01:41
My girlfriend has to wear very thick glasses. She is -20 and they are always slidding down her nose. I find it a turn on anmd she knows it. Often she waits for me to push them back up which I enjoy. I know she cannot see well when they have slipped down.I actually hold them in place sometimes when we are intimate. Her frames are attractive but I don't think they were made to holld such thick lenses because the temples do not hook over the ears they just go straight back and the weight of the lenses cause the frame to slip forward.She has another pair of unattractive glasses she wears whewn she needs to keep them in place but knows I like the loose ones.
Glowworm 19 Jul 2006, 10:05
SweetStephine: I know a woman who finds sliding glasses on a man's nose sexy. However, for me - as well as for her afaik - it's not strictly the helplessness thing which makes it attractive (btw: I like frames with thin lenses sliding as well as those with thick lenses), but rather the inconvenience thing. I think it must be quite inconvenient to have the glasses slide down, push them up, having them slide down again, push them up again, and so on. Seems like a Sisyphus thing to me - trying countless times to adjust the glasses properly, but never getting them staying adjusted. How often do you push up your glasses ?
rich 18 Jul 2006, 23:16
Leanne, please email me at rich.handsome@gmail.com
Leanne 18 Jul 2006, 21:51
Hi
Sorry, don't know what my prescription is. I know I have it at home somewhere but I've been staying a friends house for the last few days, when I'm not working. My lenses are quite thick, I have to have the thinned down ones which cost a fortune. I can't see anything clearly unless it is almost touching my nose if that helps. Like I said blind as abat!
When I do the thing with the guy without my glasses it is very hard, I can hardly se anything and he really does have to lead me around. It was pretty frightening at first and I thought about cheating by wearing my contacts. I did go ahead with it though. I found my way to where we met with my glasses on and then wehn he introduced himself he had me take them off. He wanted to keep them but I wouldn't let him and kept them in my bag. H ewas OK about that and didn't argue. I've done it about 3 times since and it has got easier, plus I charge extra!! LOL
lazysiow 18 Jul 2006, 16:57
Leanne, what's your prescription if I may ask?
and what kind of glasses related sexplay do they usually request? Its a good opportunity to find out what "normal" closet people are out there and what they like lol
maybe you can refer them here
Cactus Jack 18 Jul 2006, 16:20
anon in new hampshire, jamie-uk,
If you feel uncomfortable discussing anything on Eyescene, you may contact me privately at cactusjack1928@hotmail.com
C.
lazysiow 18 Jul 2006, 15:27
London... bloody hell, wrong country again!
SZ6 18 Jul 2006, 13:19
Leanne, what is your prescription? Are your lenses thick?
Leanne 18 Jul 2006, 13:03
Hi Kelley,
Yeah there's a lot of glasses play that goes on. One guy wanted me to do the whole thing without my glasses, you know pretty much blind so that he could lead me around. I did of course oblige, the customer's always right after all!
Cactus Jack 18 Jul 2006, 12:17
Let me suggest this. You can order glasses on line from a number of sources without a prescription at sairly low cost, but it helps if yo know what you are doing.
If you have a recent prescription, we can help you order what you want including Glasses over Contacts (GOC). If you don't have a recent Rx. it is best to get one and use it as the basis for ordering whatever you want.
You can get an exam and not order glasses. Just get a copy of your Rx.
Let me know what you want to do, and I'll try to help, but i'll need to know your Rx.
C.
18 Jul 2006, 12:04
i have had glasses for a bit jack im 21
from new hampshire ive never worn contact lenses i dont know what my distance has been getting worse latley the glasses i have are for an astigmatism and ni am not actually sure of my perscription
Andrew 18 Jul 2006, 11:08
The quicker option might be ebay, but if you want something which suits you better, you might want to follow Cactus Jack's advice.
Cactus Jack 18 Jul 2006, 11:01
Yes, but not without some more information.
Age?
Have you ever worn glasses or contacts?
Have you ever had an eye exam?
How is your distance vision?
How is your close up vision?
Where do you live?
C.
18 Jul 2006, 09:28
hi there i wasent sure as to where to post this. I have been attracted to girls with glasses for many years now and glasses in general. I was hopeing someone might point me in the direction of where i can get a pair of strong perscription glasses without haveing to have a perscription for them
Kelley 17 Jul 2006, 22:59
Hi Leanne, do they enjoy doing anything to your glasses? My boyfriend enjoys playing with my specs during sex. They end up getting messy most of the time.
Leanne 17 Jul 2006, 22:29
Hi guys,
I work as an escort in London and have always been as blind as a bat without my glasses or contact lenses. You'd be amazed at how many clients request an escort with glasses and of course I have that corner of the market to myself, other girls just wear props. You never know maybe I've had the pleasure of entertaining one of you guys! Anyway just thought you might be interested.
SweetStephine 17 Jul 2006, 20:05
I guess I'll have to respond to such requests. No I don't see well when my glasses slide down, but that doesn't mean I'm completely helpless. Is it possible whats attractive to some gentlemen about glasses sliding is a vulnerabilty thing? Is such confined to one sex only? Could it also be stimulating for a lady to see a boy with hands full and inch thick lenses slipping unexpectedly? I bet they would assume that such alphafemales not only don't exist, but that such a lady would never take advantage of such a situation. For example some long fingernails just happened to pull the poor boys specktagles completely off his face? Or that the whole time he was patting the ground they were hanging from her cleavage as she watched? HMMMM.
Admirer 07 Jul 2006, 06:07
I wonderif any ladies with a very high plus Rx would like to contact Admirer on Plenty239816201@aol.com. I have so many questions would love ask about high plus glasses and your reaction when you meet people, how you deal when people notice your glasses and not you, ot socilising how few people seem to want chat to you, are you the lady that gets left in a corner and almost ignored, whats people in generals attitude to wearing thick glasses, going for a job interveiw do you think you have been turned down for jobs because of your glasses, do ou think your victimised because of your glasses
Whats been the sadess story you have xperienced about you glasses. Thanks in anticipation for your replies.
Benn 07 Jul 2006, 06:07
I agree. They are doing the survey with a bias. They want to prove their idea rather than "discovering" the root.
Most men have sexual fetishes. That is a fact. Why glasses are "strange" and boobs or asses are not?
I don't really care. I know what lights my fire.
AA 07 Jul 2006, 05:49
Glowworm, ans SweetStephine, I would have loved to have asked more questions to her, Sweet S would not be able to see if her glasses slipped down her noce with a - RX of 20, she probably wears myodisc glasses, if not Sweet S lenses will be about an inche thick, hi index lenses could not be prescribed for an RX as high - 20.Sweet S, it would be nice if you post a photo of your glasses I<m sure many poster would be very intereted to see your glasses> have a nice weekend both Glowworm and Sweet S. Look forward to your next post.
Bobby 07 Jul 2006, 03:31
I have just taken the survey. Yes, it is bland, the questions miss the point. I think the team created the questionaire with some assumptions, which are not quite appropriate. They seem to believe we love GWGs only because our parents wore glasses when playing with us, driving the family car, or watching TV. BTW, we did not have any car when I was a little boy and my Father bought the first TV set when I was 9.
Where are questions about teachers, schoolmates, movie characters, charactes in books that influenced our lives, people at a beach in swimsuits and glasses, etc, etc, "da capo al fine". The results will not show anything significant for a real research.
That is my opinion an a 47 years old eyeglasses fetishist, who spent years analyzing and contemplating - and of course sometimes fighting - my fetish, and who came to the stage of reconciliation, peace and harmony with the fellings. If any member of the survey reads this, listen: your survey will tell you nothing. If you want to make a real survey the questionare needs to be quite different.
Hyperfan 06 Jul 2006, 01:51
Would like to meet a lady wearing such glasses...
tortoise 28 Jun 2006, 20:06
I just now took the survey and I don't see any reason not to contribute to the study although it seemed pretty bland to me, missing the point somehow.
Anyone think it's not a good idea?
Glowworm 28 Jun 2006, 11:10
Dear SweetStephine,
like AA I cannot imagine that you can see well through your glasses when slided down your nose with an RX of -20. When the distance between the eye and the lens increases (and that happens when the glasses slide down the nose), the amount of correction done by the lens decreases. And considering your RX, I guess there must be a lot of correction getting lost when the glasses slide down.
However, I'd like to talk with you about that subject in the chat if you're interested. I'd like to ask you many more questions, perhaps too many to ask them in this thread. Would you like to suggest a day and time to meet in the chat ? Or would you like to "discuss" these things via mail ? If yes, please write to glowworm2004[at]hotmail.com, I'd very appreciate that. But if you prefer to "restrict" the talking to this board, it's OK of course as well. I'm just suggesting something, not demanding. ;-)
Anyway, I thank you for your interesting entries, and I'm looking forward to reading from you again!
Hanna Aronsson 28 Jun 2006, 05:49
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AA 27 Jun 2006, 17:58
Sweetstephine, I,m surprised you can see anything when your glasses slip down your nose, with a -20 rx you won,t be able to see anything, still if i,m wrong I do apologise.
Sweet, are you glasses myodiscs, are they glass lenses, have you considered hi index lenses if it possible, and plactic lenses surely they would be much lighter.
I remember when I was at school we had an art teacher who used to have her glasses half way down her nose, when she looked over the top of them she looked really sexy, I don,t know the reason why but glasses sitting half way down the nose on a lady is very attractive, maybe one day Sweet you could post a photo of your glasses down your nose and give us guys a thrill.
sweetstephine 27 Jun 2006, 09:56
Thank you for your input and oppionions guys, I've been a high myope for a while of over -20 if you call that high.I can't see very well without my glasses. When I'm home by myself I usually wear a lose pair to give my nose and ears a break because my usual frames sometimes gives me headaces. Yes I admit for the same reason I used to slide them down on perpose and squint back when I didn't have extra pairs.
Hyperfan 27 Jun 2006, 02:53
I agree GL... I want to meet a pretty lady wearing strong plus glasses... I live in Paris (F)...
gl 26 Jun 2006, 18:55
I find it sexy when glasses slip down my gf nose, does anybody else? Fun to push them up when we make love together
gregory 26 Jun 2006, 06:03
jenna,
i'am 32 and my myopia developed the last two years until -1,25 and -1,75. i read much and work with a laptop. My optician call us the new generation of myopes. thus jenna it's very good possible you needs glasses.
specs4ever 25 Jun 2006, 08:00
Yes, it is possible that you could be developing a little bit of myopia even at your age. Heve you been doing a lot of near point and computer work recently, as this can cause a little myopia
Glowworm 25 Jun 2006, 07:43
Hi Jenna, it's well possible that someone here can help you out, but you'd rather post your question in the "Vision" section because it's obviously more related to that than to the sexiness of glasses. ;-)
Jenna 25 Jun 2006, 06:40
Hi! I am new to this site. Recently I've been having a little bit of trouble reading signs when I drive or it is slightly blurry when I look in the distance. I am 29 years old, have never had any problems with my syesite before, and up until about a year or two ago my vision was 20/20. Could I possibly need glasses? I thought that nearsightedness was supposed to develop when you are much younger than I am. Can someone help me out?
Socks 19 Jun 2006, 00:19
Sweet Stephanie,
I too am interested in why you like to let your glasses slide down. I'm not sure why I find it so sexy either. There might be a couple reasons. One might be the necessitiy to continually touch them, which is an admission that "I wear glasses and don't mind fussing with them". I also like when a girl just leaves them low down on her nose and dosen't push them up. It's kind of like saying "I know I'm wearing glasses, I know they've slid down my nose, but I don't care because I like them there." It makes people notice the glasses a little more, I think. Especially if you have to tip your head back or squint to see through them properly, rather than just pushing them up. There's just something really sexy about seeing more of a girl's nose above the bridge of her glasses than below. So please elaborate on why you do what you do and why you like it.
lazysiow 18 Jun 2006, 10:59
For me, its a woman's beautiful eyes "bubbled" or protected behind some mysterious looking prescription lenses. Especially when she blinks or squints. It's like.. I dunno, something precious and luxurious behind a glass case. Very alluring and sexy :)
The fit on her nose is also sexy depending, although I quite suck at describing that atm. Best to use a recent example :) http://www.flickr.com/photos/faithtoh/72637523/
Glowworm 18 Jun 2006, 05:49
SweetStephine: I feel similar to Love thick glasses, Socks and Plusheavy. I find it very sexy watching glasses sliding down a woman's nose. For me, it doesn't matter whether they are heavy or light, plus or minus. The sliding is the fascinating thing. If you want to know WHY I find sliding glasses sexy, I cannot explain that in a rational way. It's a fetish thing. Perhaps it has something to do with the non-perfection and inconvenience which it signaled by sliding glasses. Perhaps it has to do with the fact that the glasses wearer is forced to DO something special with her glasses (push them up) instead of just having them sitting on her nose.
So I find it very sexy - and weird - to imagine you pushing back your sliding glasses or not pushing them back while doing dishes and having them fall into the sink. But I hope that they don't get damaged when things like that happen!
Would you like to tell us more about your sliding glasses? Which RX do you have, how often do you push them back, on which occasions did you lose them? Does it annoy you that your glasses slide down, or is it OK for you ? Please tell us everything you want to tell about your sliding glasses!
SweetStephine 18 Jun 2006, 02:25
Dear Plusheavy socks and Ilovethick:
It just so happens that I have a pair of glasses that are heavy and slide all the time. I intentionally wear them loose(my own reasons), and have lost them a few times before having a lot of trouble finding them again. Sometimes I just refuse to push them back up while doing dishes so soap won't get on the lenses, and they wind up falling off into the sink. Do you think this is sexy, weird, or what is your oppinon?
AA 09 Jun 2006, 07:54
I wonder what the ladies in here think that guys judge them on the thickness of their glasses. Like most guys in here I like to see a lady wearing nice glasses, but its no different to other attrbutes that other guys see attractive about ladies. Surely any lady worth her salt would rather be complimented about her personality and character and other attributes, such as her friendliess to and consideration for others, sure a compliment about her glasses will be acceptable but thats where it should end, if we really find a lady attractive wearing glasses they should be nothing more than part of her physical appearance.. I consider looks at the end of the day are not all that important, its respect for themselves and fellow human beings which is impotant.Guys your welcome to blast away. Ladies you more than the glasses you wear to any self respecting guy.AA
Plusheavy 09 Jun 2006, 05:23
Only thick plus glasses are really hot. They can really burn your nose, your eyelids (!!!) when exposed to the sun. Minus glasses may be only metaphorically hot. I do admit they can still be very exciting, especially when sliding down the appropriate person's nose.
Plusheavy 09 Jun 2006, 05:23
Only thick plus glasses are really hot. They can really burn your nose, your eyeleads when exposed to the sun. Minus glasses may be only metaphorically hot. I do admit they can still be very exciting, especially when sliding down the appropriate person's nose.
Socks 09 Jun 2006, 00:10
Amen to that, brother! Thick minus glasses sliding down her nose or just worn low on her nose is the hottest thing EVER!
Love thick glases 08 Jun 2006, 01:46
I loveto see women wearing thick glasses .In particular when then keep slidingdown their noses. Anyone else feel this way. I had a girlfriend who had to wear minus 20 glasses . If they fell off she could not see well enough to find them and they kept slipping all the time.
Frances 07 Jun 2006, 10:44
Sorry post below was for the attention of Anders
Frances 07 Jun 2006, 10:43
Read and digest what i have already written. I answer a post that had been posted in that section. Also read what Julian said, he understood how it come about. I am quite aware that their are other threads to post subjects on.
Ander 07 Jun 2006, 08:27
Frances, I am sorry.
But imagine posting in a topic
called "glasses are sexy"...
So I imagine you was ready to speak about "sexy".
Anyway, no trouble, and I understand the way you think.
But please, no confusion (Hyperopia... Multifocals... Vision...)
Thanks
Julian 25 May 2006, 00:27
OK Frances, I checked back and see how the conversation began - and developed in the typical EyeScene way. No need to bring your sex life into it - unless you want to, of course!
Frances 24 May 2006, 23:46
Julian, agree with what you say, but if you look back you will see i posted to this thread in answer to hyperopia, and further posts remained in the same thread.
Julian 24 May 2006, 23:11
Ander: I've been around this board a long time, and the community has always tolerated threads that go off topic, especially for a serious discussion like the one that's been going on here. I don't know why Frances posted to this thread rather then any other, but I don't agree with you that only porn is welcome here. I think you're right out of order.
Ander 24 May 2006, 02:05
Frances : the toic is "glasses are sexy". I like to read about you and your daughters, but il like to know (in this topic) if you like to wear glasses during love for example. If you wear your bifocals or your full prescription ? If your lovers like you to wear yor glasses during love ?
Please tell us more
Frances 23 May 2006, 07:51
Cactus Jack
Thenks for explaining it to Bob, you made it sound far clearer and simpler than i ever could.
Cactus Jack 23 May 2006, 04:02
Bob,
Julian is right. Myopes have too much plus in their internal lenses for the length of their eyeballs and hyperopes don't have enough plus for the length of theirs. Hyperopes need more PLUS for close work and taking off your glasses for less MINUS is optically the same as more PLUS.
C.
Julian 23 May 2006, 02:24
Come on, Bob, Frances and her daughters are hyperopes and need MORE corection for close work, not less. Your suggestion is fine for myopes like you, but...
Bob 22 May 2006, 23:58
I need bifocals at the moment but am managing by taking off my glasses for close up work. Have your daughters tried this, Frances. I also look over the top of my glasses quite a lot. I need the + prescription mainly for computer work.
Frances 22 May 2006, 23:16
Bethanne. No my daughter does not have executive style bifocals, but just the normal sort. She tried for over three weeks to wear progressives, but just could not cope, so the optician gave her standard bifocals, which she has coped with very well. As for the youngest daughter ever needing them, only time will tell, my optician has said its quite common for very long sighted people to need a bit of help with close work. I see the same has been stated on this site as well, but we will have to wait and see. Thanks for the interest Bethanne
Bethanne 22 May 2006, 10:23
Hi again, Frances. Does your older daughter have executive style bifocals too? My bf has them and seems to like them. What is the prognosis for an add for the younger one?
Hyperfan 22 May 2006, 07:01
Frances, you can wear the glasses of the younger for distance vision, and the glasses of the other for reading !
Frances 22 May 2006, 06:46
Bethanne. hi, my youngest daughter is R+4.50 L+5.00 she is 13 and eldest daughter is R+8.50 L+7.75 she also had an add for close work of +1.50 she is 16. Longsight runs in my family, my Mother and both my sisters are all the same, so are 3 out of 4 of their children.
Bethanne 22 May 2006, 05:27
Frances:
What are your teenagers' prescriptions?
Guido 21 May 2006, 14:24
AA, don't you have a meeting to attend?
AA 21 May 2006, 09:39
Frances, thank goodness you wear your glasses for you and not for men to google over, comfort is what wearing glasses is about, as you say to see better, and it your glasses are pleasing to you that all that matters, weaing glasses will not change you as a person, nor your character or personality, they won,t make you more or less attractive, and as far as looking sexy in glasses thats rather shallow to judge your looks by a pair of specs specs. At last someone has come in here to chat about the benefits of glasses rather than sexual inuendos. Good on you Frances. AA
Hyperfan 21 May 2006, 09:39
Frances, thanks.
I agree (once again) whit you : you like your glasses, your frame, and it is the most important.
Question : Hong Konge frames are all reading glasses ?
Anyway, you write in "glasses are sexy"
Who are you ? 42 old..slim, tall...
Do you are wearing glasses during... ?
Thanks (end kisses...).
Frances 21 May 2006, 09:09
hyperfan, I don@t think my rimless glasses are too thick with my rx, but as I said before, I wear them because I like them, not for other people. I am not the type of lady that worries about what I look like in my glasses, the most important point for me, is that I can see well and read well, thats why I like the executive bifocals, it gives me a large reading area and a large distance area. And as far as I am concerned, that is important. Maybe to some men this is not sexy looking, but as far as I am concerned, thats what i like and thats what I enjoy wearing.
Hyperfan 21 May 2006, 06:23
Frances, thanks for our reply.
The fact is : I am in love with a woman wearing strong plus glasses (+8 and an add). I live in France(sorry for my poor english), and I know the price of frame and lenses...
I like the way of choose glasses : not for the others but for you... But rimless with your Rx are not to thick ?
About your daughters, they have to know that a lot of men like girls with glasses (... I mean with plus glasses). And +5... are not very strong plus...
I hope your reply...
Thanks.
Frances 21 May 2006, 04:16
Hyperfan. Thank you for your nice comments. I do have a seperate pair with the reading scipt in, i find those better for reading in bed with at nights, or if i am reading a book for any length of time. As for my frames, the bifocals are in a rimless frame, quite large, which i like. It may not be every ones taste, but i am wearing them for me, not for anyone else. I also have progressives, but seldom wear them. I was in Hong Kong last year, and ended up buying about 6 different types of glasses, the price was far cheaper than you would pay here. It costs me a fortune at the opticians, i have two teenage daughters who also both have to wear them, afraid they take after their mother, both quite long sighted. Hope this answers your question.
Hyperfan 21 May 2006, 03:00
Frances, I agree : very nice RX. An the choice of executive bifocal with a such Rx is very sexy. A question : do you have also glasses with your full prescription (I mean around +8) ? And what kind of frame with your bifocals ?
Thanks Frances...
AA 20 May 2006, 14:11
Frances, I,m sure you a real WOW! in your glasses its so nice to see someone with plus glasses in here, I appreciate the common denominator in here is for minus glasses, I think plus glasses beautify the eyes I think Frances your RX is ideal for seeing your beautiful a little enlarged, the clour of the eyes can be seen more clearly, and there is a safty net for plus glasses, if for some reason you lost them or broke them in an emergency apart from reading you could safely find your way to the optician to have them repaired. you have my vote for plus glasses, and you seem to love your glasses which is really good. Take care Frances AA
Frances 19 May 2006, 23:08
Bob. My current bifocals are R+4.50 L+5.25 with a reading add of +2.75
I did not start wearing glasses until i was 18 and as stated bifocals at 32. Certainly could not function without them now.
bob 19 May 2006, 06:10
what srength are your bifocals. i am a similar age and i now need bifocals.
Frances 12 May 2006, 03:51
Thank you for the nice comment Eye Tri.
I have worn bifocals since i was 32, and had the executive type for about 6 years now, far better than progressives, for me anyway. But again it is a matter of choice.
Pete 12 May 2006, 03:02
I am with ehpc, my wife is blond and has black rectangular frames with wide sides, she is -2 with a + 2.5 add in multi focal, she looks so good, I am in love again!!!
Eye Tri 11 May 2006, 02:23
fetish queen:
My vote is for No. 2 (plus lenses). Lenses with a prescription of +3 or more are my preference.
Frances:
Executive bifocals are VERY sexy.
Tim 10 May 2006, 17:53
Alm - for me, about -10 to -12 and needing an increase, so squinting and peering beautifully through them. Definitely Fetish Queen's option 4!
hyperopia 10 May 2006, 08:21
frances, at 42 i'd consider you still young! as some smartass once said: you're always as young as you feel (no source is known, but i have to admit that he's right.) i'll refuse and never will grow up! way to go, frances!i already like your bifocals! good choice.
Frances 10 May 2006, 07:51
Hyperopia, I wear executive bifocals, have done for many years. I like the large reading and distant part they give me. And yes i am a plus wearer, but not young at 42
hyperopia 10 May 2006, 07:38
plus rx, something between +2.00 and +3.00 dpt, adds can go above this number, preferably bifocals, nowadays seldomly seen, but executive bifocals are the greatest! but which young woman is wearing executive bifocals....? none!
Festish queen 10 May 2006, 05:40
has to be above -4, rimless or semi rimless glasses are good.
Alm 10 May 2006, 04:49
Nice question fetish queen...
I'm a lover of girls with minus glasses if possible with a quite high rx (over -4)...so for me the best answers are n.1 and n.4 without any doubt...
I would like to make another question to everyone...With which rx do u find a girl sexiest? (or a boy for the girls)...any rx, minus or plus...
Tanya 09 May 2006, 15:28
Fetish Queen
Hyperopic people seem to be in the minority, some Chinese especially and other Asian races and some Europeans too seem to be predominately myopic, whereas hyperopia seems to be spread randomly throught the world
Hansel 09 May 2006, 10:55
Tongue firmly in cheek on that post ;-), apart from the question about your concert engagements.
All the best, Hansel
ehpc 09 May 2006, 10:34
Don't think I'm losing it Hansel, but thanks for your interest:) Pete
SZ6 09 May 2006, 08:49
Fetis Queen,
My answer is "all of the above."
09 May 2006, 08:42
Fetish queen,
my answer is a bit modified version of your question:
I find girls sexiest when:
1. They wear plus lenses
2. They don't wear their glasses while being hyperopic and squint desperately to read something.
3. They do wear glasses for hyperopia, but they still can't see very well, and have to squint
* But i do not mind seeing a myopic girl also, because in Sri Lanka hyperopic girls are extremely rare. (1 in a 500,000)
Phil 09 May 2006, 08:19
When I was younger it was No.1. But as I get older it is No.1 or No.2 or, indeed, progressives or bifocals. Don't know whether it's a question of age or just the acquisition of more catholic tastes. I still think that little beats a young gwg myope -3 ish though. Prefereably in a nice rimless frame. Yumyum.
hyperopia 09 May 2006, 08:16
well, number two of course, but i don't mind girls without glasses either! girls are girls after all!
festish queen 09 May 2006, 08:09
Noone else have an opinion?
Hansel 07 May 2006, 07:52
Frames in frames?
Methinks Pete is losing it - perchance?
Minus for me as well by the way, which is obviously the reason why my wife is in plus lenses!
Off topic, Pete, I have read that you grace the concert platform-have you anything up and coming in the North of England?
ehpc 07 May 2006, 07:40
Minus leneses,definitely, and, as I nefer tire of specifying, best of all on blondes in frames in black rectangular plastic frames with wide sides:)Pete
stefan 07 May 2006, 07:24
fetish queen - 1 and 4 for me.
blindschoolboy 06 May 2006, 22:28
Fetish queen,
5 all of the above can be hot, it would depend on the girl.
Thanks!
06 May 2006, 21:46
I LIKE GIRLS WITH MINUS LENSES.
Plusfan 06 May 2006, 15:47
fetish queen,
Girls wearing plus glasses are the sexiest!
hooked 06 May 2006, 14:14
Short answer:
2 is the right answer with a small addendum:
and I love it when a girl takes off her glasses and I can see at least a short turning in of one eye.
fetish queen 06 May 2006, 08:30
I've just bought myself a pair of reading glasses -+2.5. I am myopic but find plus glasses kind of sexy, especially since I can't see very well wearing them. It could be fun while making love.
I'm a bit disappointed on the myopia side as was just prescribed a weaker prescription. I can feel myself squinting, but if that's my prescription that's my prescription.
What I find sexiest now, is going out without my glasses on (very blurry) and I am also eager to try out these plus glasses (go to a bar perhaps, and see what guys make of them!).
Also can't wait to make love to my boyfriend. He's only seen me in minus up to now.
Would like to a little survey as well.
Guys, (girls too, if you're that way).
Do you find girls sexiest when:
1. They wear minus lenses
2. They wear plus lenses
3. They don't wear their glasses (if myopic) and squint
4. They do wear glasses for myopia, but they still can't see very well, and have to squint
Thanx for your contributions.
ChrisB 02 May 2006, 15:31
AA,
I think I would defend any author's right on ES to use the word 'Sexy'. I would not use it myself but for slightly different reasons than the ones you use - Fundamentally we consider people who wear glasses to be more attractive than people who dont (or when they dont). So its reasonable to use the word 'attractive'- hold on tho, the reason we find someone attractive is because consciously or otherwise we want to have sex with them. I have commented elsewhere on the site why glasses should increase 'attractiveness' and there are three reasons - one is malign because it is about fetish and wishing the subject to be in some sense helpless or different. Of the other two the easiest to explain is that genetics and evolution favour symmetry. All sorts of studies in humans and in animals show increased desireability when the subject image is manipulated to appear symetrical to the viewer. The third is harder to explain - and more contentious. The 19th - mid 20th century view of Eugenics, Evolution and genetics was that 'people' (i.e other people) should breed with and therefore be sexually attracted to increasingly perfect specimens of their own species/race/tribe. But that is of course a gross oversimplification of genetics and evolution and if/when followed to its logical conclusion leads to muscle bound oblivion for a species and as a byproduct, the third reich. What evolution and genetics require is a permanent cycle of miscegenation. (Interbreeding between races). The third and most contentious theory of GWG attractiveness is therefore that we, the optical obsessives, (more than 50% of the population??) see the glasses wearer as a different subspecies that we need to "xxxx the ass off," to improve our genetic mix for the next generation.
Just to conclude - let's return to the use of the word sexy. I fully agree with avoiding the use of this word as it has become totally devalued and debased, certainly in UK culture. (not have an in a national culture in the UK) The following example illustrates what I mean. I was in the pub a couple of days ago with friends and our respective teenage children. There were two girls in the pub dressed almost identically - very short skirts,fishnet tights (maybe stockings) low, open top that plunged to reveal cleavage. One was 19 the other was 12!! They were both trying to look sexy??
ChrisB
Sally 01 May 2006, 17:40
P.J.
My husband likes to take my glasses off and clean them and then slowly put them back on me rubbing the back of my ears as he finishes. Must say I do like it!! Sometimes they dont need any cleaning either
P.J. 01 May 2006, 17:10
Highlight of the evening,carefully cleaning my wife's glasses and watching her put them back on after she has been squinting at the tv!
AA 29 Apr 2006, 07:14
I agree glasses can add to a ladies attractiveness, sexy I think would be a rather insulting word to use and I think it demeans repect for our female friends, sexy in glasses seems inappropriate, I far rather like to think glasses enhances a ladies looks, to say glasses are sexy has a conitation in the word of something physical, I,m sure when a lady wears her glasses she does not want to be considered sexy in the physical sense, I have no truck when guys attribute glasses to sex or being sexy, yes I do the look of a lady wearing glasses, i,m sure many ladies far from being sexy looking in glasses have memries when young of awful name calling and verbal abuse because of their glasses, to use the word sexy about their glasses is a form of mild abuse, i would suggest it a form of name calling.
Lets appreciate ladies do look attractive in glasses, after all with modern technolgy, high index lenses and designer frames glasses have become part of the fashion industry, and ladies like to be fashionable.I wonder what your veiws are about calling attractive looking ladies, Sexy because they wear glasses. AA
29 Apr 2006, 00:00
My girlfriend scheduled the eye exam with the hope that I would need glasses and was thrilled when I came out and told her that the doctor had given me a prescription for being mildly nearsighted. She said that she feels much more confortable now that we both wear glasses, instead of just her.
28 Apr 2006, 23:24
Had she noticed you squinting, or did she just book you in for a test in the hope?
Bronwyn 28 Apr 2006, 14:52
Lucky her to find a guy with a wonderfully weak prescription like yours!
27 Apr 2006, 22:50
My girlfriend called me today and told me that our glasses were ready, so we went and picked them up. While they were adjusting my glasses the technician told me that I should wear them while driving at night, watching T.V and movies or if my eyes are tired. When we left the store my girlfriend told me to put them on since it was dark out and I would be driving home with her. When we got to her house she invited me in and told me to leave my glasses on since we were going to watch T.V. She then told me how handsome I was with glasses and asked me if I would wear them all the time. I told her if it made her happy I would. She smiled and then invited me into the bedroom.
Ted 25 Apr 2006, 07:28
and I've got some swampland....
lazysiow 25 Apr 2006, 01:20
congratulations :D
24 Apr 2006, 22:48
My girlfriend has recently grown confortable wearing her glasses in public since I showed her this web site. Today she asked me to go with her so she could buy an additional pair of glasses. We selected a nice oval rimless pair which she got with transition lenses. She then surprised me by telling me that she had scheduled an eye exam for me. During the exam I had differculty reading the bottom line on the chart and the Dr. prescribed a prescription of -1.00 for each eye. When I came outside and told her that I would be getting glasses as well she smiled and stated that it was wonderful that now we would both be wearing glasses. She helped me pick out a nice pair of black metal retangular frames. She can't wait till our glasses our ready so that we can both wear them together.
22 Apr 2006, 17:05
My girl friend recently went for an eye exam and was prescribed glasses with a prescription of -1.50 for her right eye and -1.75 for her left eye. I helped her select an attractive pair of black retangular Versace frames. She had been apprehensive about wearing them in public until I showed her this web site. She now has come to realize that men find women who wear glasses to be attractive and sexy. She now has no problem wearing them when we are out in public and has received numerous compliments about how good she looks with her glasses.
NEW TO ES 19 Apr 2006, 23:44
Bob
Congradulations on making love with your wife while she was wearing her glasses. I'm sure you were both quite happy with the experience. What type of bifocals does she wear, progressives or flat top bifocals? If she wears the lined
bifocals perhaps she should considering getting the progressive lenses as they provide you with an intermediate field of vision for computer work as well as the distance and reading vision areas. But no matter what type of bifocals she wears I'm glad the two of you enjoyed your sexual experience.
Slit 19 Apr 2006, 19:46
Hi Bob,
Congratulations on making your wife comfortable with bifocals.
How old was she when she started wearing bifocals?
What is her prescription?
What made her get the? Is it the headaches or blurriness when reading?
Bob 19 Apr 2006, 19:40
NEW TO ES
My wife has insisted that we make love while she wears her glasses. Says it is so much better as I am so clear now up close. Said it is one of the best things about having to wear glasses.
NEW TO ES 19 Apr 2006, 18:14
Bob I hope your wife has left her glasses on while you two enjoyed a sexual encounter together. Many women think that they have to remove them during sex, because they have no idea that their partners find them to be very sexy and attractive while wearing their glasses. Glasses have a way of enhancing a womens appearance and making her more attractive in addition to helping them see better.
Dom 18 Apr 2006, 07:12
After many months with my girlfriend Natalie I finally plucked up the courage to tell her how sexy I find her glasses the other day. To my delight she was very receptive to what I had to say and says she is happy to indulge me. I can't believe my luck. Why didn't I just tell her months ago?
NEW TO ES 16 Apr 2006, 16:48
Bob, I was glad to hear that your wife is happy about wearing her glasses while making love. Her wearing her bifocals while engaging in sex will make you much more relaxed when you discover that you need glasses whether they be bifocals or reading glasses. I hope you enjoy your experiences.
Bob 16 Apr 2006, 13:20
NEW TO ES
I said something to my wife today about wearing her glasses during sex and she said she was all for it. I never knew that her needing glasses/bifocals could spice up our sex life. Wonder what will happen when I need glasses?
NEW TO ES 16 Apr 2006, 11:03
Bob in response to your post about your wife getting bifocals. My wife and I both wear progressive bifocals and I love it when she wears them while we are having sex. She like to tease me by wearing sexy clothing, high heel shoes and putting her glasses on as she climbs on top of me in bed. She also like it when we both wear our glasses while making love. We both find it exciting, so next time let your wife leave her glasses on during your love making.
Bob 10 Apr 2006, 07:46
My wife has been wearing her first pair of glasses/bifocals for only a few days. She says they really help her and she does not mind being a 4 eyes at all. Last night she wanted sex while wearing them but I had her remove them first. Now I think maybe that was the wrong thing to do.
Plasticforme 10 Apr 2006, 06:27
Nothing like a big size pair of glasses on a beautiful lady so you can really see her eyes behind the frame.
Gino 24 Feb 2006, 06:15
Had a funny evening yesterday at my friend Lauras 27th birthday party. Shes a glasses wearer as are her mother and sisters. Laura relies on nice wireless frames, shes about 4 in both eyes and occasionally goes around the house without her glasses as she puts them on and off quite often and forgets where she left them. Yet her elder sister Kates vision is worse: shes almost never without her glasses, which are dark brown plastic frames cateyes with a prescription in the 6 area I guess.
At one moment in time yesterday the evening I stepped into the kitchen where both sisters were preparing some appetizers. Laura was without her glasses and squinting real hard to decipher a recipe written down on a piece of paper that lay about 3 ft from her. She asked Kate to borrow her glasses for a moment and her sister spontaneously slipped off her specs and handed them over to Laura while kneading dough. Laura gratefully slipped on and quickly adjusted the glasses, and thanked Kate for now being able to read from the paper. I observed the whole scene while refilling my wine glass and couldnt resist complimenting Laura with her sisters glasses! She laughed but also complained to me that shed soon have to get a stronger prescription as she felt her vision was much better with Kates glasses than her own.
I was only one hour later that night that both sisters came across each other on the dance floor, and found out that they were wearing each others glasses! I guess Kate badly needed some vision support when leaving the kitchen and forcedly resorted to Lauras weaker glasses. The swapped glasses again, leaving me with a huge boner on the dance floor!
Have you ever witnessed similar glasses exchanges and/or borrowings?
Specslover 15 Feb 2006, 17:27
Hi NEW TO ES
Thats fantastic news. It will make the experience a whole lot better for the both of you.
It will spice up your life as she can now leave you guessing which pair she will wear. And it can be a turn on for her as well, because family, friends or work collegues will "check her out" each time they see her to see which frames she has on, and I bet that being "noticed" on a regular basis will be a big boost to her self esteem.
My wife currently has 14 pairs of glasses, and it is a REAL turn on for me to see which pair she will wear for the day. (See my post on 29th Nov 2005) On some occasions she will even change from 1 pair to another during the day (without telling me) just to see my reaction.
So NEW TO ES, keep up the good work of enjoying your wife and her glasses, but more importantly, keep up the good work of improving her self esteem.
NEW TO ES 08 Feb 2006, 20:23
SPEXSLOVER, I took your advice and bought my wife two additional pairs of glasses.
One pair is a rimless oval and the other pair is a black retagular Versace frame with rhinestones on the sides of the frames. Both pairs have progressive lenses so she can wear them all the time.
She selects which pair of glasses she wears to compliment her clothing. No matter which glasses she wears I think she looks sexy and georgous. Thanks for the advice.
MQ 29 Jan 2006, 23:50
I work at a big airport and everyday (almost) i see this beautiful young security guard. She´s blond wearing a uniform with a beret and a gun. And shes also wearing something like -5 glasses. Its so sexy the way she looks strong and powerful but yet so vulnerable with those thick glasses. I wonder if she´s a good marksman. She´s probably great.
AA 22 Jan 2006, 09:44
Hi Hyperofan, thanks for replying, I,m not surprised you jealously guard your partners looks and I,m sure behind her glasses are the most beautiful eyes which only you are priviledged to see. I wonder if like me Hyperofan you find ladies who wear strong glasses seem to have lovely personalities, and are very loyal and genuine and are one guy women, if you know any other ladies who wear high plus glasses heres a guy who would be delighted to correspond with her. I,m so pleased you seem to be 100 percent for you partner, I,m sure she feels the same for you. Thanks once again for your reply much appreciated.
Hyperofan 22 Jan 2006, 02:19
AA, Yes I am lucky with this pretty lady, and her strong plus glasses...
She is in the middle forty, and she has the sames lenses for 5 years (with no add). I told her that she may change but, even if she used to wear strong plus for a time, she seems to be afraid of needing progressives or stronger lenses.
About me I would like to see her, wearing + 8 or more, wit and add. And my dream is o effer her glasses with full prescription, with classic lenses (no hi index), and to see her wearing these glasses (only with me).
AA 18 Jan 2006, 05:35
Hyperofan, you lucky guy to find a lady with a high plus, like you I love a lady in plus glasses, although I don,t think ladies think they are attractive, also not many ladies around who wear high plus glasses. I know my attraction for ladies wearing glasses dated back to my school days when our art teacher who was a bit punky wore the most outrageous plus glasses, she was a real gem of a person with the most wonderful personality, I always associate plus glasses with attractive personalities.
Hyperofan 17 Jan 2006, 01:11
My girlfriend is wearing strong plus glasses (around +7). I love her with these beautiful big green eyes beside the lenses.
Specslover 12 Jan 2006, 21:35
Hi "New To ES"
If you find that your wife looks really attractive and quite sexy with her new glasses on, can I suggest that you save up some money and go and buy her a few more pairs. That way she can put on a different pair every morning - its keeps you guessing which pair she will wear - just to spice up life a little bit more.
NEW TO ES 28 Dec 2005, 16:07
My wife bought a new pair of glasses today. They are Versace frames, brown in color, retangular in shape with rhinestones on the frames where the frame connects to the ear piece. She put Veralux transition lenses in them she can wear them both indoors and out. She looks really attractive and quite sexy with her new glasses.
Glowworm 28 Dec 2005, 09:46
Animal: If you love your life, please DO NOT let a person with -7 prescription drive you without wearing glasses or contacts. Driving a car with such a bad eyesight is near to suicide, let alone the risk of killing other people in traffic.
(And if your entry was a joke: Sorry, I don't find the funny point ...)
Girlie 28 Dec 2005, 08:18
Hi this is amazing. I never knew there were so many who liked girls with glasses. Im one of them so im really flattered and surprised. Ill look up my prescription and see what it says. I cant remember.
Animal 27 Dec 2005, 05:32
I had a crush on a girl a couple of years ago. She was really nearsighted and because of that needed some help in everyday life. I think she had -7 glasses but i dont remember exactly. The thing is she didnt wear glasses all the time as she should have. I remember her giving me a ride with her car to work one time and she didnt use contacts or glasses. Watching her driving (pretty fast aswell) and squinting and still hardly seeing anything was quite a turn on... Its not everyday an almost blind person drives me around.
Seeker 26 Dec 2005, 20:36
With the greater knowledge from following Eyescene, I sometimes recall wonderful opportunities missed from ignorance. A former girlfrined who was quite seriously short sighted went through the stage of getting the thick slightly tinted plastic frameless lenses when they were briefly the fashion. Hers had about 1.5cm thickness. We were talking one night and I asked if they were heavy. She passed them to me and they were not as heavy as they looked. I kept them for a while and put them on the table between us. Only recently have I realised that this was quite a trusting gesture on her part and pretty thoughtless on mine not to hand them back to her.
25 Dec 2005, 03:48
These ARE sexy
http://community.webshots.com/photo/472146231/472185087bGfZnW
Jay 22 Dec 2005, 04:24
YESSSSSSS!
Guest 21 Dec 2005, 10:48
Better now? ->
Went to the movies with my girlfriend the other night and she went in while i got on line to buy popcorn and a drink. When i walked into the seating area i saw her sitting in the last row. When i sat down next to her i mentioned that she always liked to sit closer to the screen, and she replied that it was no longer a problem as to where we sat. She then openned her purse and removed a beautiful pair of black framed versace glasses and placed them on her face. She then told me that she finally went for an eye exam and never realized how much better her vision was with glasses. I told her she looked beautiful and very sexy with her glasses. After the movie ended she left them on and kept them on for the remainder of the night. I loved it that my girlfriend wore glasses instead of squinting to see.
Poptician 21 Dec 2005, 06:45
It could have been worse- could have changed the font size as the post went on, to make it read like a Snellen chart....
Bekka 21 Dec 2005, 06:23
All upper case letters make it hard to read. Why not try it like the rest of us. No reason to shout.
UPPER CASE 21 Dec 2005, 03:43
THAT WAS A VERY INTERESTING STORY THERE!!!
20 Dec 2005, 20:06
WENT TO THE MOVIES WITH MY GIRLFRIEND THE OTHER NIGHT AND SHE WENT IN WHILE I GOT ON LINE TO BUY POPCORN AND A DRINK. WHEN I WALKED INTO THE SEATING AREA I SAW HER SITTING IN THE LAST ROW. WHEN I SAT DOWN NEXT TO HER I MENTIONED THAT SHE ALWAYS LIKED TO SIT CLOSER TO THE SCREEN, AND SHE REPLIED THAT IT WAS NO LONGER A PROBLEM AS TO WHERE WE SAT. SHE THEN OPENNED HER PURSE AND REMOVED A BEAUTIFUL PAIR OF BLACK FRAMED VERSACE GLASSES AND PLACED THEM ON HER FACE. SHE THEN TOLD ME THAT SHE FINALLY WENT FOR AN EYE EXAM AND NEVER REALIZED HOW MUCH BETTER HER VISION WAS WITH GLASSES. I TOLD HER SHE LOOKED BEAUTIFUL AND VERY SEXY WITH HER GLASSES. AFTER THE MOVIE ENDED SHE LEFT THEM ON AND KEPT THEM ON FOR THE REMAINDER OF THE NIGHT. I LOVED IT THAT MY GIRLFRIEND WORE GLASSES INSTEAD OF SQUINTING TO SEE.
Cactus Jack 11 Dec 2005, 12:00
Hansel - I would suggest that the "Vision" thread is a better place for your question. I will post an answer there
C.
Cactus Jack 11 Dec 2005, 11:51
Hype - More plus than she needs will effectively make your gf short or near sighted. At 42, she is probably going to need additional plus for reading soon anyway - if not now.
If you want to really do her a favor, encourage her to get an eye exam and then get her some glasses with her new Rx and maybe another pair for reading (which would have more plus) in a "sports" (unbreakable) frame for use in bed.
BTW, only one post is necessary, most members check more than one thread.
C.
Hansel 11 Dec 2005, 11:39
Do plus lenses help resolve seeing multiple images?
Adam 11 Dec 2005, 11:15
A great passion for thick pluses!
I have the same!
Hype 11 Dec 2005, 06:12
My new girl friend is a pretty 42 years married woman, wearing +6 glasses...
But she told me that she doesn't wear glasses during love. Just one pair, and she is afraid about broking them...
She told me too, that she had these glasses for 5 years.
At this age and with this correction, i am a litte bit surprised. Dont you think she needs a stronger correction (maybe some add ?). I think that +7 or +8 could be Ok, with +2 add ?
My dream : to offer her new glasses (basic ones with the thicker lenses : not high index), and see her wearing theses glasses only with me.
09 Dec 2005, 17:13
If you girls are looking for some new frames to model in the bedroom, a must look at is Roger Henley.
There are many pairs here which ALL men would resposnd to!
Such as
http://www.rogerhenley.com.au/catalogue/large/372.jpg
And these bizarre beauties
http://www.rogerhenley.com.au/catalogue/large/262.jpg
ES VISITOR 07 Dec 2005, 23:05
Never realized haw many couples enjoyed making love while wearing glasses until I visited this web site and read the posts.
George 02 Dec 2005, 05:00
I've always loved GWG and find them much sexier. Two years ago my wife had an eye-test and bought glasses with a low RX of +.75.
She wore them some of the time and has since gone up to +1.50R, +1.75 L. I love it when she wears her glasses but she refuses to go full time because she thinks it makes her eyes worse.
She does wear them now for work, about 10 hours a day but not at home, groan groan. However, I don't want to push it as I think she will go fulltime sooner or later.
Kathy 01 Dec 2005, 22:28
Michelle, I'm with you on that. My latest boyfriend enjoys making love with me when I am wearing my glasses. Sometimes, he will wear my extra pair. I enjoy having my lenses rubbed against me. I too will let him cum on my lenses every so often. I didn't realize that guys got turned on by gals in glasses. The one thing that I have to worry about is not rolling on top of them, so that we don't break or bend the frames. This is a lot better than the last guy I dated who hated me wearing glasses. He would always insist on me not wearing them. After a while, it got old, so I ended up dumping him.
visitor 01 Dec 2005, 06:20
I too had was fortunate to have a gf long ago wearing her glasses while at it. It was the time the huge plastic frames were in fashion, and her glasses kept sliding all the time anyway, and all the more when we got busy with her on top...
NEW TO ES 29 Nov 2005, 23:10
As I previously posted both my wife and I wear glasses and now that both of us wear progressive bifocals we wear them almost all the time. I particularly enjoy it when my wife approaches me while I'm lying on the bed and climbs on top of me while wearing her glasses. We really enjoy making love while both of us are wearing our glasses and find that we are leaving them on more often while doing it.
The other night my wife came out of the bathroom wearing sexy attire, with high heel shoes. As she got near the bed she put her glasses on and as she climbed on top of me she placed my glasses on my face. The sex was great.
ehpc 29 Nov 2005, 08:45
Hi Michelle I am Pete,51-year-old Scottish classical concert pianist. As someone who adores GWGs (especially blondes wearing minus lensed black rectangular plastic frames:))it is great to read about female reaction to GWG adoration:) I am really pleased you are getting into it so much:) Please continue your recollections:) Pete
Adalle 29 Nov 2005, 06:27
This has started to become a little XXX, but I like it that we share our stories.
Licking the lenses and the frames happens to me too. I like to start licking and kissing from the lips, move towards the nose, then around the eye and on the lens, then move towards the arms and putting my tongue between the arm and the skin of her face and finally reach behind her ear and from there move towards the neck...
Another thing that I like and I 've noticed girls like too, is taking off the glasses and touching her body with the lenses. Especially if the lenses are cold and as they are smooth, touching the breasts with them, gives the woman a great feeling, even better than touching them with ice cubes...
Michelle 29 Nov 2005, 06:14
Hello. I was browsing the net when I happened to come across your site. It is very interesting since I've only just learnt there was a glasses fetish.
I have worn glasses for 15 years, getting them as a young bride. (When I was finally able to see what I married, I got rid of him).
I thought wearing glasses was a hassle and would often wear contacts. I felt that no man would find a girl in glasses attractive.
I have recently met a wonderful man who has introduced me to the 'other side' of the glasses scene and, I tell you, I'm really enjoying it.
I had no idea that I could feel so sexy in them. I know a lot of women see them more of a hindrance but seeing the reaction of my man when I peer over the top of them gives me the confidence to continue wearing them.
Its a huge turn on that he finds me so sexy with my hair pulled back and the glasses perched on the bridge of my nose.
We usually make love while I'm wearing them. I sit on top of him and look down at him with my frames sliding down my nose. I sometimes let him cum on them while I'm wearing them.
We go shopping for new frames a couple of times a year. He is an expert at knowing what looks good on me and what suits me. He gets so hot right there in the shop. I cant help but flirt for him.
Keep up the good work on this site.
Specslover 29 Nov 2005, 05:32
Hi - I'm brand new to this site, and I thought I would tell you about my wife.
My wife had worn glasses for years before we met, but didn't know that there was a glasses fetish. I told her very early on in our relationship about my glasses "thing" and she wanted to know more. So I have been educating her about the fetish and culture.
She has accepted it totally without the slightest problem and actually goes out of her way to accomodate me. Ive bought her 14 new pairs which she can choose from on a daily basis.
She nearly always wears her glasses during sex. We practise many sexy things during our love making.
Some of the things we do are :- I choose which pair she wears. She wears them down her nose - just a little (not too stereotyped). I "adjust" them as I see fit. I touch them while she is wearing them - both frame and lens. She often takes them off and puts them on me, and touches the frame and lens in an erotic way. I quite often run my tongue along the frames and lick the lens while she is wearing them - sometimes she does it to me while I'm wearing her glasses. On occasions she will get another pair, and we have a pair each - touching and licking. On some occasions she will put both pairs on, one over the other.
She always peers over the top of them while giving me head and it drives me absolutely crazy. There have been a few occasions where I have cum on them as well - although I must admit that I still have a few "problems" doing this - its a respect thing I guess - I'm a bit old fashioned.
I'm off now, my wife is going to bed - with that glint in her eye - and a very sexy pair of black plastic frame glasses on.
Now that I've found you, I would like to come back regularly. Maybe I can even convince my wife to write a post... Good night, sweet dreams...
Re*specs*fully,
Specslover
kissmy 28 Nov 2005, 23:35
Hiya Lindsay!
"Well girls, any more stories from your side on the topic of spex and sex? "
I've been waiting for someone to come along and trade stories. I refer to my post dated 11 Oct.2005:
"...I'm not a similar boat to you! Have had my latest frames for about 6 months now and have used them to my advantage! They are Alain Mikli's and, like yours, are the half-rimless style. Across the top they are a thick brown plastic which stops at the bottom corner of the lenses leaving the bottom rimless. They have a slightly catseye shape which gives them an intriguing sex appeal. I chose this style because they epitomise the nerdy secretary look and are strikingly different.
My prescription is quite a weak one and my optometrist said for me to wear them when watching movies, driving etc. I love them too much and wear them A LOT more - including out to clubs! I get numberous guys approaching me and commenting on them. They are the ultimate pick-up accessory... and add to the excitement in the bedroom :) I've got some great stories! "
So! Who first?
So, how about it Lunax and others who indulge in this *spec*tacular, let's start some story telling.... I'm willing!!
SZ6 28 Nov 2005, 11:44
Lindsay, I think it's awesome that you use the thicker-lensed glasses as the "fun glasses." Is your guy one of us who gets an extra kick out of thick lenses, or did it just kind of work out that way, that the thicker ones were the "fun" ones?
Lindsay 28 Nov 2005, 11:27
SZ6, I got my first pair when I was about 11-12. Only needed them to watch TV and in the classroom then. When I turned 16, I needed my spex for almost everything I did (excepted reading I guess). I tried to go without on some dates but quickly surrendered! Over the last 2 years my prescription stabilized, hope I won't get any worse!
SZ6 28 Nov 2005, 11:09
Hi Lindsay. Did you get your first pair of glasses at age 16, or did you need them earlier, but only start wearing them at 16?
I'm the same age as you, and my prescription evolved in almost the opposite fashion. I got my first glasses when I was about seven, but they've only increased by .50 or so since I was 16.
Lindsay 28 Nov 2005, 10:32
Hey SZ6! my prescription is -7.25 left eye and -7.50 right eye, myopia "only"
SZ6 28 Nov 2005, 10:23
Lindsay, it's awesome that you share his fetish. What's your prescription now?
Lindsay 28 Nov 2005, 10:10
Too bad not more girls/ladies post here, but I can tell you my boyfriend has a real serious glasses fetish. Luckily for him, I am a full-time glasses wearer since I was 16. Now, ten years later, I hardly ever go witout my specs as I hardly manage to go through the house bear-eyed! The first time we went to bed together I didnt think of slipping off my glasses, and as he didnt ask me to take them off either, I just kept them on. Which I actually liked as I could at least see the action! Only after a few weeks did he tell me how much he liked me in glasses, which I really think was kind of his as I needed such compliment being conscious of the potential drawback of glasses! Since that day our relationship has been ever better! We even went to the optician together and he bought me what we call our fun glasses (cheap red plastic frames fitted with strong enough lenses though cheap, and thus thick!). Our greatest turn-on is his spraying my glasses while I am still looking through them. I enjoy to keep on the cummed-on glasses afterwards when going to the bathroom, kitchen, Well girls, any more stories from your side on the topic of spex and sex?
Dom 27 Nov 2005, 07:56
When my girlfriend and I first got together she asked me if she could wear her glasses during sex so that she could see me. I thought she was joking and didn't realise her eyes could be so bad. I've since found out what short sight really means and that people with her sort of prescription actually can't see much at all without correction. Since then she has usually worn her glasses for part or all our love making. I find it a real turn on but I also like the unfocussed, squinting look she has without her glasses. Can't really decide which I prefer
Adalle 25 Nov 2005, 06:16
I understand the feeling CityRK. An ex-girlfriend of mine didn't have a glasses fetish, but since we started to go out together, she started to wear her glasses during sex. At first she had only one pair of glasses, which kept sliding down her nose during sex and I would fix them. Sometimes she would make me wear them cause she liked making me feel dizzy.
Later on she purchased a new smaller pair of glasses. So either she would wear her new pair and make me wear her old pair, or she would wear both her frames, her new ones from underneath and her old plastic larger frames on top! Needless to say that although this was a big turn on for me, we weren't able to make many sudden moves during sex cause her glasses would be totally misplaced. Nevertheless it was very erotic.
But the biggest turn on was the following one. Some nights that we would go out at a club or bar, she wore her contacts. Afterwards we would go to her place a bit dizzy from the drinks. There she voluntarily wore her glasses on top of the contacts and put her other pair on me. So both of us were dizzy from the alcohol and dizzy from the eyesight and we would have the best sex ever. Needless to say that after that the glasses were all smeared and fogged up. Then she would take off her contacts and go on a second round wearing just her glasses. Sometimes she would wear her both pairs on top of the contacts.
Even when we went at a hotel, or at my place, she would bring both her pairs of glasses with her, even if she was wearing her contacts.
CityRK 24 Nov 2005, 16:27
I never really thought about making love with the glasses on until my wife and I both started wearing glasses. I got glasses about two years ago, and my wife started wearing them this past summer (my wife and two daughters got them at the same timesee Vision post). It all started as a spontaneous episode one night last summer, and it has been a common thing for us. However, there are times that we pull each others glasses off and place our glasses on top of each other. Somehow, we agree that the sight of our glasses laying on top of each others has a certain sexual appeal to it, as well.
Desert Trail 24 Nov 2005, 16:12
Ever since I recently started wearing glasses, my wife urged me to wear them during sex. When the woman is turned on, it makes it so much better. She just goes wild when my glasses start to fog up.
Guest 21 Nov 2005, 01:20
Ack - I had a girlfriend long ago who wore the large framed glasses fashionable at the time. I wished she would keep them on during sex, but she immediately took them off as soon things got serious. Probably just as well, as her glasses slid down her nose fairly easily, she would have lost them in the process anyway, but still...
18 Nov 2005, 15:58
I wish my husband would wear his glasses durning sex... Do you guys think I should just come out and ask him?? He has no idea about the love of the lenses that I have.
Katy 18 Nov 2005, 06:50
Fireball - Is she excited about the fact that you got stronger lenses or just that you are wearing your glasses now? I have to say, I would have had a very similar reaction :-)
LikeGlass 17 Nov 2005, 19:23
errr... Make that 40/20/40 split. It's late!
LikeGlass 17 Nov 2005, 19:22
Although results are usually not that dramatic (we could only wish), there seems to be a 40/10/40 split between Love/Neutral/Hate glasses. Of the people that love them, probably less than 10% would actually admit it (most keep it a secret.) And probably less than 1% would be bold enough to seek out a forum like this one. Although I focused on Girls With Glasses on my site ( http://www.geocities.com/likeglass55/ ), I suspect the female view probably shares a lot of common ground.
Fireball 17 Nov 2005, 14:56
It's a surprise to hear that others have experienced the same. Yes, she does wear glasses. She's only had them for a short time, but confidently wears them like it's been years. She wore them in that incredible sex session. Her glasses are definately a tool that enhances the sex for her, too. Yes, I did wear my glasses and will for every sex episode from this point on. I need to see what's going on and she reminded me of that. A hint to let me know that I should wear them. I wore them last night...it was awsome!
Adalle 16 Nov 2005, 16:10
Fireball, welcome to the forum.
Does your girlfriend wear glasses herself? Anyway, I think you will find a lot of people in here that can totally understand her passion and her obsession about seeing you in glasses. When my girlfriend bought her new glasses we had the best sex ever. And the funny thing is that since then, she wanted to keep her glasses on during sex, without ever having to ask her to. Did you have your glasses on during sex all the time or did you take them off at some point?
If you ever start having sex without you wearing the glasses, try putting them on during sex and, trust me, she will really be turned on. ;-)
Fireball 16 Nov 2005, 10:46
My girlfriend has a severe case of this glasses fettish. I needed new glasses after over 2 years of not updating my script. For weeks shes been asking why I never wear my glasses. I'm a full time contact lens wearer and found no need to keep my glasses script current. With outdated glasses I was able to stop her constant pleads to wear my glasses and give my eyes a break from contacts. We went to one of those 1 hour places to pick out new frames. She went wild making me try on every frame she loved. Before I knew it she had most of the store workers giving me their opinion. I have to admit I enjoyed all the female attention (but over glasses? That blew me away). After a long drawn out process, I ordered my new glasses. My girlfriend could hardly contain herself. She was disappointed that my contacts were still in and couldn't take them out until I got home. The glasses stayed in the case all the way home. What happened after that is incredible. Some the best sex anyone could imagine. Wow, what was I missing out on. Who would have ever imagined...
29 Oct 2005, 00:01
Look http://www.yomiuri.co.jp/dy/features/scene/20051022TDY13003.htm
ehpc 12 Oct 2005, 09:15
Post-script to kissmy (great name:)) I wear Alain Mikli glasses too.......they are sooooooooooooooooo cool...black rectangular plastic frames with side-pieces (temples in the USA) which get so wide towards the front that when they join the lens frame the sides are about the same as the height of the lens. Lots of women have made great approving coments:) Pete
ehpc 12 Oct 2005, 09:10
'51-year-old'
ehpc 12 Oct 2005, 09:09
Kissmy and others I am Pete 51-year-olsd Scottish classical concert pianist. I ADORE sexy GWGs (Girls Wearing Glasses)and I have had several girlfriends who wear glasses (the lenses must be minus for me to be attracted to GWGs).It seems to me that most GWGs have a good understanding of how sexy their glasses are (well, I always make a point of telling them, and they love to think they have this 'additional' attraction)and I could certainly share some stories if you want..................:) My favourite GWGs are blondes with minus lenses and black rectangular plastic frames...............drool:).............. Pete
kissmy 11 Oct 2005, 22:11
BTW, my first sentence to my original post should read... "I AM in the same boat...." OOPS :)
kissmy 11 Oct 2005, 22:10
Hey Lunax and others.
I'm not a similar boat to you! Have had my latest frames for about 6 months now and have used them to my advantage! They are Alain Mikli's and, like yours, are the half-rimless style. Across the top they are a thick brown plastic which stops at the bottom corner of the lenses leaving the bottom rimless. They have a slightly catseye shape which gives them an intriguing sex appeal. I chose this style because they epitomise the nerdy secretary look and are strikingly different.
My prescription is quite a weak one and my optometrist said for me to wear them when watching movies, driving etc. I love them too much and wear them A LOT more - including out to clubs! I get numberous guys approaching me and commenting on them. They are the ultimate pick-up accessory... and add to the excitement in the bedroom :) I've got some great stories!
So, how about it Lunax and others who indulge in this *spec*tacular, let's start some story telling.... I'm willing!!
Desert Trail 10 Oct 2005, 20:20
I must admit that I was intrigued when I found out about this website. The eyewear fetish thing is rather new to me, although I have been finding out a lot since Ive been reading through this website over the past couple of months (including the archives). This past summer, I discovered that my wife has an eyewear fetish ever since I realized that I would be needed glasses for a 2 prescription. Several years ago before I met my wife, I checked out at -.25, which was called uncomfortable 20/20 vision, and wearing glasses wasnt a requirement. I tried hard to take care of my eyes, and do exercises to improve my vision. Over the years, though, it didnt seem to help much, as the daily strain took its toll. This past summer, my wife noticed how I was struggling with my night driving vision, and advised me to get an eye exam. At worst, I thought I would only need glasses for driving. Nevertheless, my wife seemed to be surprisingly interested in helping me find some nice frames after I learned I was at a 2 prescription. A day later, I got a call on my cell phone from the optician lady who helped me out. I still wasnt convinced that I would need the glasses on a full time basis, but I recall her saying that I got some nice frames, especially since I would probably be wearing them most of the time. She then told me that once I start wearing them, I would see the difference. She noticed that I was a little apprehensive about my first pair of glasses. After she put the glasses on me, she later smiled, and pulled me aside, and whispered, by the way, your wife is REALLY excited about your new look, and when she sees how great you look, I think its going to knock her socks off! I later showed up at home with my glasses on (with the encouragement of the optician), and my wife was just walking in through the doorwall from the lanai/pool area. When she noticed me in the glasses, I saw the look of excitement on her face. Out of excitement, her right leg quickly flung back and her flip-flop flew off through the door wall area and into the pool. She then jumped out of her other flip-flop and skipped over to me, and exclaimed that she always looked forward to seeing me in glasses one day, as shes always been attracted to, and turned on by the look of men in sexy eyewear. She then said with a laugh that I looked so good that it blew the shoes off her feet. Since that time, our romance has sparked to a new level. Overall, I may have struggled for years with weakening eyesight in vain. However, the thrills of the current moments have been fantastic.
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New to ES 05 Oct 2005, 00:48
My wife and I both wear progressive bifocals and love the way we can see clearly at all distances. The other night my wife came to bed wearing her glasses and told me if we were going to make love I had to put my glasses on as well. I did, and it was great.
jer 04 Oct 2005, 21:25
Check out Lexi's sexy new eyewear pics
Nick DK 29 Sep 2005, 07:07
Absolutely, my GF, Susanne DK, who has contributed a lot at this site a couple of years ago, and I, can truly follow your hot feelings re. sex-n'-spex...
Enjoy!
lunax 29 Sep 2005, 06:41
I got a new pair of specs yesterday, half rimless so you can see how how thick the lenses are, it's so wonderful. Made love to my boyfriend last night and had an orgasm for the first time. He also made the wildest lovemaking to me. I think he finds my new specs a big turn on. I want to ask him if he'll wear his specs tonight while we make love, (or ask him if he'd like to wear mine perhaps!) his prescription is much weaker than mine, but he looks so much sexier with glasses. I think we both have a serious glasses fetish. Any couples in the same boat?
Mike 25 Sep 2005, 06:45
Hi,
I like woman who wear glasses. My girlfriend had not to wear glasses but I asked her to wear a spare pair of my sister. They are rimless with a litte bit blue coloured lenses. Great.
Sandy 25 Aug 2005, 22:02
Hi Mickey, my rx is -4.00 -2.50 x003
-3.50 -2.50 x180. I have quite a bit of astigmatism. Take care.
mickey 25 Aug 2005, 19:46
Sandy,
Your glasses really sound sexy.Can I ask what your RX is?
Sandy 25 Aug 2005, 19:33
Clare, I agree with you totally. I have a pair of Marchon Airlock 2 rimless drill mount frames and they are the greatest. With the a/r coating on the lenses,and edge polishing. I have gotten many complements on how sexy they look on me. Take care.
Clare 25 Aug 2005, 15:13
"The sexiest eyeglass frames, according to both wearers and non-wearers alike, are rimless lenses (49 percent)"
Result ;))
Russell 25 Aug 2005, 14:55
http://beauty.about.com/cs/maybeauty/a/revealglasses.htm
specs4ever 24 Jul 2005, 05:59
Don't know if I can try to explain Natalie's prescription well enough so you can comprehend what the numbers mean Dom, but here goes. In her right eye she needs a sperical correction of -12.50D, however on the plane that is slightly off horizontal(0 to 180 is horizontal, always working from right to left) she requires a further -1.75D at the 10 axis(or 190, which is not used), making her required prescription -14.25 on this plane. Then she requires 3 degrees of base out prism as well, to bring the focus of her right eye to the proper place. Then in her left eye she needs -13.25D, with another -2.50D on the 180 axis(exactly horixontal). Again she requires a base out prism to bring her eyes to focus. together. The prism could be because one eye is off 6 degrees, and they have just split the prism up to give her a little prism in each eye, rather than 6 degrees in only one eye - which really would add to the outer edge lens thickness of just one eye. If this were the case though you would notice that one of her eyes looked towards the wall when she was wearing contact lenses.
These lenses would be fairly expensive to make, and since just no rookie could do them, no wonder they will take 2 weeks.
I am sure that Natalie has the little bit of prism eqaully in both eyes. But, even with such a small amount of prism, it would create a lot of strain for her to see without her glasses. In other words, when wearing contact lenses, she would be straining her eyes a lot to try to bring everything into focus, and would be seeing double - more so when her eyes are tired.
Just a small suggestion, but if she wants to wear her contacts - or if you want her to wear her contacts, to avoid wearing her full strength glasses, get her a pair of transition lensed glasses, with only the prism correction in them. She can wear the prism over her contacts. Personally I would never tell her about this suggestion, and would treasure the fact that she has to wear glasses. And surgery is really not much of an option. They really can't remove the requirement for prism. Hope this helps you a little
Dom 24 Jul 2005, 00:25
Well Natalie dragged me around five different optical shops and tried on about 500 different pairs of frames. She was wearing her contacts so she could see herself but kept asking my opinion. I thought she looked great in at least half of the frames but she couldn't decide. Anyway everywhere she went they commented on how strong her prescription was and said that she would need the thinner lens type. They kept telling her that she couldn't have this frame or that frame because her lenses would be too thick and so it went on. Eventually we ended back at the first place and to my eternal relief she settled on a pair of smallish plastic frames. They were brownish tortoishell coloured and she did look fantastic in them. The woman in the shop then took all her details and measured the distance between her eyes. They said the lenses would take about 2 weeks to arrive and so she is still waiting for them. I was amazed at how much they cost too, about £400 just so she can see properly. I get to see properly for free, it doesn't seem fair. I probably sound like it was a bit of an ordeal but it was quite fun really and I was flattered that she valued my opinion.
Guest 22 Jul 2005, 08:12
So Dom - where are you and whats been happening with Natalie's new glasses ??
13 Jul 2005, 22:12
Dom,you're one lucky son of a bitch....
Dom 13 Jul 2005, 22:06
Thanks Guido, it's astonishing that Nat can only see clearly up to 2.5 inches away but it does tie in with what I have observed. The other morning while in bed she wanted to know the time so she picked up her watch from the nightstand and held it almost touching her nose. She didn't even bother trying to see the large digits on the alarm clock about a foot or so away.
By the way, what do the prism and base parts of the prescription mean?
Finally another thing to make you guys a little envious I think, Natalie has asked me to go and help her choose new glasses on Saturday. Any volunteers?
Guido 12 Jul 2005, 10:34
The numbers area convention for measuring lens strength equal to the reciprocal of the focal length in meters. If you do the inversion, it will tell you how far the person can see clearly unaided or the far point. Using a rough average of her script of -14, she would be able to see an object clearly up to about 2.5 inches. This does not condider vertex distance, or the distance of the lens from the eye, or the astigmatism correction or cylinder which accounts for irregular focus. The minus sign is a convention that designates a lens having its focal point in front of the lens, concave)( versus a plus lens having its focal point behind the lens, convex().
I am sure there must be a great site on the web that explains this more clearly.
Math 14 DIOPTERS= 1/ FOCAL LENGTH M.
FOCAL LENGTH = 1 / 14 M.
FOCAL LENGTH = About .071 Meters or
71 millimeters.
Dom 12 Jul 2005, 09:39
I realise I'm very lucky but perhaps not in the way you guys are referring to. Having said that I do find it very arousing when Nat removes her glasses. There's something I can't quite define about her eyes that shows she can't see much without them. It's a huge turn on to be honest, which surprised me as I've never had these sort of feelings before. It's an even more intense feeling now that I realise just how poor her eyesight is.
Would someone like to have a stab at explaining to me what the numbers on her prescription mean.
Slit 11 Jul 2005, 22:39
Thats right S4E, finding a girl with such high rx is a dream of mine...
Dom, you are so lucky, in my opinion.
specs4ever 11 Jul 2005, 19:28
No wonder she would rather wear glasses. With the 3 base prism her eyes would not be focusing together properly wearing her contacts. I take it that you are not a glasses affectionado Dom, but to one of us, you have found a treasure.
Bart 11 Jul 2005, 09:30
About -16 along the vertical meridian, sorry. And it's really a lot. I must say that it's quite impossible for her even to distiguish close shapes.
Bart 11 Jul 2005, 09:08
Her left eye is surely the worst, there is quite a lot of astigmatism due to the -2.50 added to the -13.25 sphere. That means that she has an rx of about -15 along the vertical meridian of her left eye.
The base prism means that she has some strabismus too.. Dom, if you have seen the online simulation with -10 well, we can say her acuity is much worse than that.
Have she troubles seeing from distance with her present glasses?
Dom 11 Jul 2005, 08:43
Nat's eye exam was on Friday and I did get to see her prescription. She was quite happy to talk about it and seemed pleased that I was taking an interest. She said her yes had got slightly worse and that she needs to get new glasses.
I wrote down the numbers while she was out of the room cos I'd never remember them otherwise. OK so there are column headings across the top as follows sph cyl axis prism base and there are two rows one for distance and one for near. The near row is completely blank.
The numbers for her right eye are respectively -12.50 -1.75 10 3 out and for her left eye -13.25 -2.50 180 3 out. I assume this all means something to you guys.
uest 10 Jul 2005, 11:19
Dom, has she had her exam? I think you said it was scheduled for last Friday. Did you get to see her prescription?
Slit 10 Jul 2005, 11:10
Hi Dom,
I guess that with such poor vision, your girlfriend will find very difficult to put on the contact lenses be cause she cant see any thing further than her nose.
How is she picking up the lenses when she is not wearing glasses?
But I must tell that you are extremely lucky to have such a cool gorl with such a strong rx. (I regret a lot about my country because there are very few high rx girld with glasses)
Dom 07 Jul 2005, 08:43
Apologies for sounding like a broken record. I just wondered if any of you guys had felt the same as me at any time. Anyway, I'll leave it there
Luke 07 Jul 2005, 05:21
Dom - or "don't get over it", particularly if it's a turn on. It's hard to imagine, yes, but you'd get used to it.
Interesting that Natalie feels more professional with contacts. At least in the U.S, most people associate glasses with intelligence and being "professional"...at least on *other* people (rather than themselves). Unfortunately, a lot of people, probably girls in particular, come to associate contacts with looking presentable and glasses with being laid-back, less dressed-up. "Slobby", one of my friends put it once, which was ironic, because her glasses looked awesome on her and certainly anything but slobby.
mickey 06 Jul 2005, 18:47
Dom -get over it and feel extremely lucky.I'm sure many of us here would love to be in your position.
Dom 06 Jul 2005, 12:40
Thanks again guys for your advice. Natalie does have contacts, in fact she was wearing them when we first met. She told me she wore glasses on our first date. On our second date she asked me if I minded if she wore glasses the next time we saw each other. I didn't mind either way so I said yes. When I first saw her in them she looked very different, I almost didn't recognise her and I did think the lenses seemed quite strong. However she looked fantastic and the glasses really suited her. She finds contacts uncomfortable and so prefers her glasses most of the times we are together. She wears her contacts at work quite a lot though, she says she feels more confident and professional without glasses. Actually she is away on business at the moment and I am really missing her. I won't see her again till Friday evening after her eye check up.
To be honest I still can't get over how poor her vision is. I keep imagining her waking up in the morning, being confronted this horrendous blur and not being able to see a thing until she puts her specs on and then having to keep them on all day till she goes to bed. It's so difficult for me to imagine what it must be like.
Luke 05 Jul 2005, 05:10
Dom -- I think, as others have said, that Natalie's *vision* probably isn't as big a deal to her as a part of you feels like it is. It's natural for you to dramatize it in your head, though, because it's hard to imagine seeing things with so much blur. But...she may have stronger feelings about her *glasses*, either because of teasing she might have experienced in school, or because of times she wasn't able to find her glasses, something like that. This could be interesting to talk about with her, if you're comfortable bringing it up.
I'm curious if she ever tried contact lenses? Not sure where you live, but most girls (where I've been) seem to feel a lot of pressure to wear contact lenses if their prescription is on the stronger side. It's wonderful if Natalie doesn't, though perhaps she found contacts uncomfortable.
AA 04 Jul 2005, 16:17
Dom, there is no need to worry about your girl friends eye sight, if she is over 21 her Rx will soon stabilise, if you want to know how well she sees without glasses try them on and what you can see with them is what she sees without glasses.
Dom I think your making it a big issue in your mind, she has worn glasses I guess since she about 2 or 3, they are part of her life just like breathing and to her its no big deal, I would dare to suggest in her own home she could take her glases off and still manage to make a cup of tea and find her way round the just as well as anyone with normal vision. Dom I,m so pleased you appreciate her beautiful eyes, so lovely when she takes her glasses off.
Lastly if your worried about any future increases in her Rx tell her to ask the optician if and when her Rx will settle.
I know a women who has an RX of - 11 and been the same for over 27 years, now she needs reading glasses for small print, or if she has forgotten her reading glasses, she puts her distance glasses down her nose to read.
Dom there is no need to concern yourself about your girl friend RX she as she has told she,s fine.
Emily 04 Jul 2005, 14:20
Dom, what's important is how well you see with glasses. My glasses are similar to Natalie's, and I can't see anything but shapes without my glasses, but with them on, I have 20/20 vision. That's what really matters.
Dom 04 Jul 2005, 14:11
Thanks for your replies guys. The consensus seems to be that Natalie's eyesight is very very poor. I must admit that I'm quite shocked by this, I really thought that maybe she saw things a little blurred and it was more comfortable for her to wear glasses all the time and maybe essential for watching TV, driving etc. From that simulator it appears that she would be almost blind without her glasses and would have trouble walking around without bumping into things. This is having a strange emotional impact on me. On the one hand I feel quite sorry for her having to go through life with such awful vision and I want to protect her and keep her safe. It's a weird feeling. One the other hand I'm in awe of her at how she takes her short sight in her stride and just gets on with it. Maybe I'm over dramatising this, I don't know.
Anyway, she has an eye test booked for Friday so this should give me more opportunity to talk about her eyes and maybe I'll get to see her prescription. Another thing, as we lay in bed the other morning, Natalie without her glasses, she asked me what time it was even though the digital clock was on her side of the bed very close to her and the digits on it are huge, like 1 and a half inches high. So I think your estimates of what her vision is like are probably pretty accurate. Finally AA I've seen Natalie without her glasses many times and she does indeed have very large and very gorgeous eyes, in fact I've commented on them on a number of occasions. I've also told her that her glasses look great and really suit her and I'm being perfectly truthful when I say it too.
AA 04 Jul 2005, 06:11
Dom, I think your a lucky guy to have meet someone so nice and with lovely thick glasses,I don,t think you should ask you girl friend to take her glasses off, once you see those beautiful eyes behind the glasses you will not want her glasses back on. People with a very high - RX have the most gorgeous eyes imaginable, they almost seem as pure as crystal and sprakle like diamonds they are so beautiful you will constantly want to see the eyes and not the glasses. Dom also at least you know how beautiful her eyes are, and other guys who would not give her a second look because of her glasses don,t know what they are missing, its so true never judge a book by its cover.
I appreciate Dom part of the physical attraction of your girlfriend was her glasses, I,m a non glasses wearer, I,m opposite to you I love high plus RX,s, athough high plus glasses wearers eyes arenot as beautiful as high minus wearers.
Well Dom you seem to have a lovely girl friend I hope this secures your future happiness, most off all take care of her.
Adalle 03 Jul 2005, 17:13
Dom, with a -12 prescription she can see almost nothing, unless it is right in front of her nose. Does she always wear glasses or is wearing contacts too occasionally? If she always wears glasses, I think she would feel really good if she hears you say how beautiful she looks with them on.
Now if you want to get her to take off her glasses and tell you what she can see, wait for a moment when you will be sitting on the sofa and are hugging, kissing etc and ask her if you could remove her glasses. That way she won't feel bad, because it will be important for her that she will feel your presence. An old girlfriend of mine used to tell me that whenever I was holding her and I was taking off her glasses, she was feeling really nice, cause, besides the blur, she knew I was there and that was reassuring for her. She felt like I was there to protect her.
Bart 03 Jul 2005, 13:23
Hi Dom, your is surely a very cool situation, though I'm really sorry for your girlfriend eyesight that's very poor indeed. With -12 she can see only the shapes of quite close objects, distant things are almost impossible to see and even near ones are really blurry. For this reason it's quite hard to focus on a pair of glasses on a table, because for their limited dimensions there is not enough acuity to distinguish them. Even recognizing your own face shoud be quite hard for her except by putting her nose on your chicks ;)
Think that a friend of mine has some troubles to find his glasses being only -6 or so.... myopia in fact is considered high when it gets over the 6 diopters, that's the level by wich you cannot see anymore the biggest letter on a doctor eyechart.
In the end, you could easily imagine what she can do without her glasses...
Anyway, say you like her with her glasses, she will surely appreciate much... :)
Smudgeur 03 Jul 2005, 01:15
Try this German vision simulator:
http://www.vsdar.de/english/virtualeye/index.html
It only goes up to -10, so type this in the box where it says "sphare" and go through the buttons by guesswork from there.
You'll get an idea of how much she sees without correction (not a lot)
Dom 03 Jul 2005, 00:33
Hi. I had a good look at Natalie's glasses last night. The lenses are quite thick, probably I would say about 10mm at the outside edge although the frames are quite thick too and cover a lot of this. The lenses from the front do take quite a chunk out of her face too as you described Luke. I also had a bit of a conversation with her about her glasses. She said ahe has been wearing them since she was 5 years old (she's 26 now) and that her eyes have got steadily worse since then and she can't see anything on the opticians eye chart without glasses. I asked her what her prescription was and she said she wasn't sure but remembers it being about -12 a few years ago but she is due for another check up. I wanted to get her to take off her glasses and tell me what she could see but couldn't pluck up the courage in case she thought I was a little weird. This -12 doesn't really mean anything to me to be honest (other than it is obviously stronger than -11) in terms of how a person sees without glasses. Could any of you explain to me how things might appear to Natalie without her glasses on. What would she be able to do? could she recognise me? that kind of thing. I know for instance that she has never learned to swim and has quite a fear of water and I'm guessing this might be because of her eyesight. Thanks again for your replies.
Dom 01 Jul 2005, 12:45
Thanks for your quick responses Luke and Tortoise. Ive largely been oblivious to glasses until recently and hence have little idea of how people see without them. To try and answer your questions. My gf is definitely nearsighted; she can only see things very close to. Her glasses make her eyes appear noticeably smaller than they actually are and she wears plastic oval shaped frames which I would say are smallish. Beyond that I dont really know Im ashamed to say. As for the thickness of her lenses, Ive never really noticed and nor do I have the faintest idea what her prescription is. My gut feeling would be that her glasses are strong due to the amount they reduce the size of her eyes. She is coming to my house in about 10 mins so I will try and make some more detailed observations and maybe ask her things about her eyesight and so on. Ill keep you posted. By the way she is called Natalie and is absolutely gorgeous, with or without her glasses. One thing which surprised me was the erotic feelings I had towards her just from watching her grope for her glasses. Ive never experienced this type of thing before and find it a little disconcerting. Thanks again for replying to my post.
Luke 01 Jul 2005, 07:52
Dom -- Are her lenses thick at all? How thick? And how big/small are the frames/lenses? And if you look at her from the front, does the edge of her face seem to be "cut in" a little bit? Is it a noticable amount, or hardly at all? If she ever looks at something with her glasses off, how close to her eyes does she bring it? These things will give clues to how bad her vision is. Also, do her glasses "look strong" to you (just as far as your gut feeling)?
Generally, people who are nearsighted - and I'm guessing your girlfriend is - can have vision anywhere from only very slightly off from normal to almost complete blindness. It's actually possible to be so nearsighted that even something very large is just a blob...imagine having to get within 1 foot of a stop sign in order to read it. But this is rare. In your girlfriend's case, she's probably "moderately" myopic, with a prescription between -5 and -9. Weaker than this, and she probably wouldn't have groped for her glasses. Stronger than this and you'd probably have pointed out that her glasses are really thick. If this is right, then she can see a lot without her glasses, but nothing detailed without it being pretty close to her face. And, in most cases, it is no problem at all for someone who's nearsighted to function normally with their glasses on. (Yeah, losing one's glasses is a potential problem, but not usual.)
tortoise 01 Jul 2005, 07:22
Hi Dom, is your girlfriend nearsighted or hyperopic, I wonder? Do her glasses make her eyes appear smaller or larger? You might want to discuss her vision with her in a supportive way and ask what her prescription is. Her vision may be that poor without correction of course, even though she functions well with her glasses. It seems to me that her glasses would be noticeably strong, though. On the other hand some people feel "blind" without their glasses even though their vision is not terribly bad. It's sort of a psychological dependency I think.
Cheers
Dom 01 Jul 2005, 05:30
Hi I'm new here. I would appreciate some advice regarding the following. My girlfriend of three months wears glasses and always claims to be "as blind as a bat" without them. I have always assumed she's exaggerating and to be honest haven't really given glasses much thought until recently. However the other night we were sitting on her sofa and started kissing and stuff (as you do). I took off her glasses, which she's always quite happy for me to do and set them down on the nearby coffee table. After the intimate stuff was over I went into the kitchen and as I returned I saw my gf reaching to pick up her glasses. However she quite obviously couldn't see them because she groped around on the table for a few seconds nowhere near where I had placed them before her hand eventually knocked into them and she was able to put them on. I was quite astonished that someone's sight could be so poor as the glasses were quite obvious to me from much further away. I also have to admit that I watched her for a few seconds and found the whole incident rather a turn on. Whenever we sleep together she always puts her glasses on before getting out of bed even just to pop to the bathroom but as I say I never really gave it much thought.
So really my question is how bad can her vision be, what would she see without her glasses. Is she really that blind? To be honest it has really shocked me and I wonder how someone with vision that bad could function properly even though it is correctable. Thanks in advance for your answers/comments.
28 Jun 2005, 05:23
minic 23 May 2005, 19:07
AA, I've experienced that situation and unfortunately it did in fact ruined my relationship. Perhaps for me it is not only added attribute, but maybe one of the main ingredients. Sorry, maybe you can find it weird, but I really always see girls with glasses very attractive and sexy, I always wanted girl with glasses and to me it is like getting skiny sporty looking girl who would baloon into 250 pounds and sorry attraction is not there any more. Maybe it is hard to understand, after some time everyday life and relationship will change and it is up to each other to find out what that other person finds attractive to get it going rather than looking somewhere else. Believe me, I"ll go miles and bend backwards for girl with nice sexy frames and nice lenses, but of course we are all different...
PN 21 May 2005, 07:03
My girlfriend had Lasik a couple of years ago. She was the sexiest ever with her -4'ishs. She still is the sexiest girl for me, even though I miss her looks with the glasses. But her personality is still the same. I have never told her about my obsession, and I never will. She develloped an obsession for sunglasses instead. Cheap, cute, funny looking etc. She said now she can buy as much as she like instead of only 1 pair percription sunglasses at sky high prices. So I guess I have to stick with that instead.
AA 21 May 2005, 06:02
mimic, I appreciate we all choose a lady for various attributes and like you I do date ladies who wear glasses, I do not find glasses sexy rather an added attribute which I find gives a lady a type of look I find attractive, I think if we find glasses sexy what happens if the lady you maybe dating suddenly decides to have lasik and stops wearing glasses, do you still find her sexy or does your sexiness diminish, you see its not logical to say glasses are sexy, then again as you say its how we perceive sexiness, and me your right to challenge me of what is considered sexy, and good for you to hold onto your opinion. AA
minic 20 May 2005, 20:39
AA, let me ask you, since you can't understand why some people here / me included / can find 2 pieces of glass and plastic sexy. Why other people can find silicon inserted into other body sexy, some guys like braces sexy, leather clothing, big breasts, legs, big butts, some guys like skiny, some fat girls ..We are all different and we all get turned on by different things, my very good friend got divorced 10 years ago and since that he only dates black woman / he is white /, but he finds that sexy and it was always his secret dream. And I do understand what you mean about personality and looking for real person behind glasses which is certainly important for future relationship, but if I like girls with glasses I would definitively try to choose girl wearing glasses, because it is something, what turnes me on and I found sexy and I don't see how I could possibly degrade that person.
AA 20 May 2005, 17:07
Hi Mile Bottles I find it sad you can use language such as you do to describe your glasses, surely this instills in your thoughts an image which maybe totally false to those who meet you. I think its simple glasses aid you to see better and thats the end of it. Anyone judging you as a person on your glasses is ignorant and emotionally dead. I don,t wear glasses myself, with nice designer frames and high index lenses glasses can look good on the wearer, I must say I have tried to understand why so many posts say glasses are sexy, how can something made out of glass and plastic be sexy, surely looking sexy or attractive is the individual, the personality, and their charcter, I think making reference to glasses being sexy devalues the person who wears them.
so be accepting of your glasses, don,t use language such as milk bottles to describe them, it will distroy your confidence when wearing them. Take care AA x
-- 20 May 2005, 05:27
Like the love of a good single malt scotch - the appreciation of girls in plus glasses is the result of an educated and developed palatte.
milkbottles 20 May 2005, 01:32
I am amazed to find this site with people saying they find glasses sexy. I have worn specs since i was about 3 and from the age of about 10 was teased so much at school that i would wear them in lessons and take them off at playtime and to go home. Everything was a blur. It affected me so much that as soon as i was 17 i bought contacts and have never looked back. I refuse even now at age 40 to wear my glasses in public. By the way both eyes are +8 prescription. Hmmm nice!
6 eyes 20 Apr 2005, 13:57
I have always found women in glasses (plus or minus) to be extremely sexy! I have never dated anyone who didn't wear glasses. And my wife, well . . . she has a +3.25 in both eyes, and I keep buying her more glasses to add to her collection of ten plus! I too wear glasses- RE: -6.25 + 3.25, axis 95, 4.0 BI; LE: -4.50 + 1.50, axis 60, 4.0 BI; add + 2.00 in both eyes for reading and 4.5 BI in each eye for reading. I have a pair of glasses for reading, a pair for distance, a pair of rx sunglasses for distance,and a pair of readers that I wear at home in the evenings and on the weekends.
minic 19 Apr 2005, 22:49
Ever since I can even remember somehow I've always found extremely attractive and sexy girls wearing glasses. At first it was frames and lenses did not matter as much. Than minus lenses,gradually going into around minus 6 -9, suddenly I became expert in judging of prescription, I loved the look from the side seeing thickness of the lenses,and plus lenses was something I didn't care for as much, and I really hated those people in her fifties who would come to gym wearing reading glasses on their nose and than one dayI saw this girl with nice cool frames and with plus lenses. It was evening time and I could see The light reflection in her lenses and it was something I will never forget. Since that moment girls with plus lenses are my favourite, but I still like minus lenses girls as well. They are all beautiful and very attractive.
AA 18 Apr 2005, 21:18
All ladies wearing glasses are attractive, I love plus glasses, , I appreciate most posters like ladies wearing minus, but I think a lady wearing plus glasses is just as beautiful, I wonder how many guys who come in here prefer minus glasses to plus. I,m on the side of ladies who areplus wearers.I don,t wear glasses myself, so if a lady needs to wear glassesI accept them as part of her physical attraction, and would be proud to been seen dating her wearing glasses.
18 Apr 2005, 20:49
-5,00 who luvs gwgs 10 Apr 2005, 16:36
I do agree the frame is very important I have seen frames that just do not suit a girl .I personally do not find plus girls so attractive my own preference is for ladies with a decent minus prescription say -5.00 to -15.00 or so my favourite is say -12.00 to -15.00 enough to be blind without them but with correction should have 20:20 vision .However a girls smile and personality is paramount the glasses add je ne sais quoi (hope thats spelt correctly)I think glasses are like face jewellery and the lovely glint , power rings and cut in of a high myope cannot be beaten
Adalle 10 Apr 2005, 15:13
I agree with you Specsless. I believe it's the frames that counts and not the lenses. Also I think a pair of glasses alone is not enough to make a woman beautiful. Certainly a nice pair adds something to a woman's beauty, but it does not transform her.
I too prefer lower RXs but I prefer nearsighted women. In fact I mostly like glasses ranging from -2 to -8. Most times I find glasses with a stronger RX than -8 less attractive than those with lower RXs.
The perfect pair of glasses for me is black plastic rectangular with a -3 prescription. This frame style suits almost every woman. It can be worn during work time, or when going out, even for sex appeal. And the RX is high enough for the woman to be in total need of her glasses. ;-)
Specsless 10 Apr 2005, 09:21
I dont wear glasses, although have tried on a pair before- not for long though, Im not sure whether I need glasses or not,
I seem to have a differnt view to some people here, I prefer girls with lower RXs , id rather they be Longsighted than short, Im not that fetish towards glasses but depending on the Frames - they can make people more attractive!
What do other people make of Low RXs?
Hyperfan 31 Mar 2005, 02:10
A woman (from 30 to 50) wearing strong plus glasses...
pattie 12 Mar 2005, 11:01
You know what they say, no news is good news but not in todays situation Todays news will just shock and amaze you, I cant even believe what is happening in our town This will make you think twice about watching the news!!
http://www.hotpattie.com/links/news.htm
Smooches Pattie
Visitor 11 Mar 2005, 12:26
Niki - It's intriguing that you post about hating your glasses to a "Glasses are sexy" thread. Of course, lots of us here would encourage you to wear your glasses.
Your prescription is moderate myopic, and high-index lenses would be quite thin for you, so they wouldn't be obvious.
Do treat your frames as a fashion accessory: People wear necklaces and bracelets as self-decoration, and shouldn't feel different about chosing a nice pair of frames.
Most of us, if not all, have felt self-conscious when first seen wearing glasses, and that is a psychological barrier. I think it's easiest to get it over and done with, so after just a few weeks you're used to your glasses and so are your friends.
I hope you get to feel good about seeing yourself with glasses, and indulging your other half!
Niki 11 Mar 2005, 07:42
I recently had my prescription increased. I hadn't had my eyes checked in almost 5 years. I am now -5.75, -2 in my left eye and - 5.00, - 1.75 in my right. I can't wear contacts so will be forced to wear these hideous glasses. I feel so embarassed and still wear my old prescription at work as I don't want my colleagues knowing how shortsighted I am. While my boyrfried finds me very sexy, I'm worried about going out in public with my new glasses. Has anyone had the same experience?
Please help!
Katy 07 Mar 2005, 16:15
Has anyone else seen that hideous new Specsavers ad? A gwg (nice glasses) takes her boyfriend to meet her mum, who has just switched from glasses to contacts, and the bf decides he fancies the _mum_! I thought they were trying to sell glasses?
06 Mar 2005, 12:30
Filthy McNasty 02 Mar 2005, 20:44
In my view, it is no coincidence, or at least a very telling coincidence, that "Therapist" and "The Rapist" differ only by the insertion of a space. Mental rapists.
Steph 02 Mar 2005, 14:20
Sometimes i think that pschologists are just full of hot air. I know a few, and their views on life/people are so distorted and out of touch that they are regarded as 'wierd'.
My case in particular proved to be the opposite. I work in an office environment. After is got glasses (which are still fairly new) i was getting more attention than i expected from the male counterparts. I thought that they (the glasses) may 'repel' men at first, but the total opposite occured. In fact, i got prescription sunglasses yesterday. I wore them out to lunch outside, and two people commented that i wasn't wearing my (normal) glasses, 'could I see?'. I then told them that the sunnies are prescription. They nodded in amazement.
Clare 02 Mar 2005, 13:57
I post this for your delectation and delight because I think that the hypothesis is less relevant than nonsense, though the point about vanity glasses may endure ... I'm sure you'll have an opinion!
From Sunday Times Style Magazine, 27 Feb:
Intellectual's Guide to Fashion - Vanity Specs
If, as Dorothy Parker insisted, men don't make passes at girls who wear glasses, we can hypothesise that the wearing of vanity specatcles has more to do with women wanting to look intelligent than attactive. In this, they appear to accept the finding of GR Thornton, reported in "the effect of wearing glasses on judgments of personality traits of persons seen briefly" (Journal of Applied Psychology, 1944), that observers tended to score spectacle-wearers more highly in terms of intellect. Alas, they must have missed the belated rebuttal of Thornton by K Edwards, in his essaty "The effects of sex and glasses on attitudes towards intellengence and attractiveness" (PsychologyReport, 1987), in which female spectacle-wearers were judged as less successful when rated on task-specific scales, proving that such responses are gender-guided. Men, in short, assume that bespectacled women are stupid. Even more so, one would imagine, if they don't need them to see. The exception to his rule would be Diana Prince, who wore them so nobody would know she was Wonder Woman.
Professor Gideon Carter.
Bespectacled Professor 24 Feb 2005, 03:23
Clare,
He was probably looking back at you and wondering how you would look in glasses (he probably cam up with rimless also).
Clare` 23 Feb 2005, 11:48
In a meeting this week with an attractive, olive skinned, dark haired guy I found myself thinking how good he'd look with glasses. It wasn't that the meeting was boring but I was mentally 'dressing' him in different styles. I always came back to the rectangular rimless though. Bet people here do that all the time, but it was a new one for me!
LikeGlass 22 Feb 2005, 13:45
Try telling her that the contacts will be far more expensive in the long run, when you have to add in the Rx for Viagra to achieve the same results ;)
Richard 22 Feb 2005, 13:04
My wife having worn glasses for 25 years (-2.50) returned home yesterday, (having had a check up with an optomotrist ) wearing contacts (and 1.75 magnifiers). What do I do? How do I convince her to return to wearing glasses? Is there any evidence to suggest there are risks with wearing contacts? Any suggestions?
Luce 09 Feb 2005, 12:02
-2.75
Rich 09 Feb 2005, 04:22
Luce
What's your precise RX?
Lucky Man! 08 Feb 2005, 18:45
When I met my wife 14 years ago, she was 18 and had about -1.25D of astigmatism. She had contacts that she wore occasionally, but hardly ever wore glasses. She hated how she looked in them. While we were dating, I convinced her that she looked good in her glasses so she started wearing them more. After about two years, she started wearing them fairly regularly since she started getting headaches when she didn't wear them for long periods of time.
This mostly full time wear lasted for about the next 8 years or so, with almost no change in her prescription. She used contacts occasionally, but never made the adjustment to them fully. She wore glasses most of the time to prevent headaches and for convenience, but took them off when they were inconvenient - if it was hot out, if she was exercising, social occasions, etc. She knew I thought she looked good in glasses, but she never knew I had a fetish.
About 4 years ago, her prescription took a jump to about -0.75D of myopia along with -1.75D of astigmatism. She started to need her glasses for most activities and gradually became more and more dependant on them. I also told her around this time about my fetish. To my delight, although she thought it strange, she started keeping her glasses on during sex and indulging me.
Her latest prescription is about -1.25D of myopia along with the -1.75D of astigmatism. She puts her glasses on in the morning and doesn't take them off until she goes to sleep. She needs them for pretty much everything and considers them a part of her look. She currently has 4 pairs of glasses, including a couple of thick-framed black plastic ones that she bought at my request. She continues to wear them during sex and seems to get a kick out of teasing me with them.
What can I say, I love my wife!
ehpc 05 Feb 2005, 11:48
Hi Hollie..............you are clearly a very clever and independent and spirited woman...............if you don't like bf's attitude............get new bf! Someone who 'properly' appreciates GWGs:)Remember............you can get who you want:)
Wow that is something to have been one of the blonde hair and black plastic frames GWGs........the 'elite' :)
Take care:) Pete
Mike 04 Feb 2005, 23:10
Hmmmnn, sounds like he's trying to control what you do or wear, and i think that is a poor sign for the future. Tell him boldly that is the way it is , and if he continues tell him to take a hike, then it is not true love, but conditional and not worth fostering!
Matthew 04 Feb 2005, 20:19
Hollie - I don't think your bf's attitude is very sensible. Of course, it depends on a couple things, sort of. Do you have anti-reflective coating on your lenses? If you do, I don't see how glasses would obscure your eyes...I would think they would *frame* your eyes (that's why they call them "frames"). And, are your frames a really good fit for your face? If they are, I think they would enhance your appearance, not detract. It seems more like he's not interested in change, or he has some issues with glasses; aesthetically, there's nothing necessarily wrong with glasses.
Hollie 04 Feb 2005, 16:25
Hi ehpc,
I used to have black frames when I had blonde hair (that was a phase..I have naturally dark brown hair) but the brown ones looked better with my current hair colour. My bf is not that pleased actually. He does wear glasses fulltime himself but is not keen on me wearing them because he says they obscure my eyes and make me look less attractive because they are something on my face thats not supposed to be there....if that makes sense!!! (Not sure if it does to me....) His first comment when I decided on fulltime was that I had managed without them for all that time....not the comment I was hoping for....so why was I wearing them now? But lots of others have been complimentary....a friend tonight in the pub said I looked much better with my glasses because it looked like i could actually see! Not sure how to take that comment but hey..... it can't be that bad!
ehpc 04 Feb 2005, 11:01
That last post was from me. Pete
pete 04 Feb 2005, 11:01
You sound just great Hollie:) Rectangular plastic frames and minus lenses.................soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sexy................even better if the frames were black but I'let you off seeing as it's you:) Highlights in hair are great too:))))))))I remember you talking about bf. Trust he appreciates his excellent good fortune:)Pete
Hollie 04 Feb 2005, 09:59
Thin brown rectangular plastic frames, light brown highlighted hair.
ehpc 04 Feb 2005, 08:49
What style frames are you into Hollie? And what hair colour? Pete
Hollie 04 Feb 2005, 06:00
I hope so ehpc! There have been several positive comments, and its very nice to be able to look at the beautiful architecture and see it clearly!
ehpc 04 Feb 2005, 05:25
I am sure you are very attractive Hollie:) Oxford will benefit greatly from a new class act GWG such as yourself:)
Pete
Hollie 03 Feb 2005, 13:38
I hope we're attractive...I'm wearing mine fulltime now and feeling slightly self-conscious!
ehpc 03 Feb 2005, 07:58
Are Girls wearing Glasses attractive? Is the Pope Catholic?
ehpc 03 Feb 2005, 07:58
GWGs ignored by males Luce?????????????? You gotta be kidding:))))))))))Pete
Luce 03 Feb 2005, 06:48
I basically went blind in October...but refused to believe it. Because noone else in my family has ever worn glasses I didn't think it possible. My driving has improved so much since wearing glasses, my optician was scared when I told him I drove! I'm still not sure how my eyesight got so bad so suddenly. Maybe it had been deteriorating for a while, the last time I saw as clearly as I can see now was ages ago. I suppose living without glasses since October I'd got used to going around not really seeing things!
I asked another of my friends, who has been wearing glasses for a while, to try mine on. I wondered how strong/weak my eyes were in comparison. She was shocked because apparently my glasses seemed stronger than hers. Slightly worrying...
Bruce 03 Feb 2005, 06:45
Nope, not at all on the half-frames
/ 03 Feb 2005, 06:22
Does anybody finds women wearing half frame reading specs sexy?
Phil 03 Feb 2005, 01:17
Hi Luce, If you are -2.75 you might be struggling to get around London. I'm -3.25 and -3.50 and after years and years am still a bit self-conscious. But even I need to wear to get around London, at least if I have to go on tube etc. You rx is a bit weaker than mine of course though it's quite high for a first time gwg. How did you manage with driving, cinema etc. before you got the specs? Must be SO much clearer now. Bet you were thrilled when you left the optician's wearing them for first time! If a see a girl squinting round here, it could just be you!!
SMB 02 Feb 2005, 11:28
I think that glasses are very sexy. I always wanted to wear glasses but I always tested out at 20/15 for the school nurse and during physical exams straight through college. The best that I could do was to ask to try on one of my friend's glasses and wear them until she wanted them back. This was usually quicker than I liked. It always felt so cool to wear them. I became obsessed. Last fall, I had a physical exam and deliberately missed some of the letters on the doctor's chart on the 20/40 line. I got a referral to an optometrist. I was very nervous about being caught but also a bit turned on. Finally the day came and I again deliberately missed some of the letters on the lines that he put on the wall when the letters seemed to be small but not too small. The doctor started to test me for lenses and I was so scared that I was going to get caught with plain glass.
I was given a prescription to wear as needed for distance. I think that the doctor may have figured me out but I got the prescription and that is all I cared about. I didn't get it filled there and have to wait so I went straight to the mall and picked out a pair of frames at Lens Crafters and got my glasses that day. I love my glasses!
Luce 02 Feb 2005, 09:56
2 weeks...not very long. I wear them almost all the time, except when I was travelling around London today. Maybe there is still some self-consciousness there, lol. As I get more used to them I'll wear them all the time, I prefer being able to see!
Not sure about my Rx but I remember the number -2.75 being written down, if that's what you mean. I should find out...
Glad GWG aren't completely ignored by males, lol. It was a fear.
Speclover 01 Feb 2005, 02:35
Luce, Are you a new gwg? How long have you been wearing glasses? Do you wear fulltime? What's your rx? Don't be surprised that you get compliments. We men always prefer a girl with glasses. Hope you are enjoying wearing and getting extra attention!
Marc 01 Feb 2005, 02:12
I am trying to find an old ad from Ray-Ban back in 1995 I think. I was, if I remember right, "Bad guy, strong glasses" where a guy was wearing Ray-Ban sunglasses (obviously) and had a white shirt half open.
Anybody remember this ad? Do you know where I can find it again?
Thanks
marc@pidoux.com
Luce 30 Jan 2005, 09:58
Well I never had glasses until recently, but I think I look better with them than without! Totally the opposite of what I was expecting. My bf agrees and says I look sexier now. He treats me like I'm more intelligent...strange. But good :p
29 Jan 2005, 14:52
What about glasses and strings?
Mark 26 Jan 2005, 07:19
you lucky lucky man Theo.
I have bought some oval gold rimmed spex off eBay that have thick lenses but a weak prescription in the hope i can get my g/f to wear them.
I've noticed she squints a lot so hope that when / if she wears she'll realise she needs them all the time.
dhiru 26 Jan 2005, 06:49
Hi R U there
Theo 28 Dec 2004, 05:39
Yes, glasses are sexy, very sexy. And I have a new girl friend, but she wear no glasses. But I had a litte gift for x-mas! On ebay I bought a nice pair with only +0,75 diopters. She looks great in them, and she wants to wear them now because she could read better and her sight outside is the same as without glasses.
Wow, this is a good start to 2005!
Theo
Julian 26 Dec 2004, 01:37
Hi anonymous poster; nice that you have both discovered the delights of a bespectacled partner. Why did your girlfriend want you to have your eyes checked? Did she think you weren't seeing properly or was she hoping to get you into glasses? You don't say anything about your prescriptions - either of them - or even whether you're long or short sighted. people here like to know about things like that!
Love and kisses, Jules.
25 Dec 2004, 18:41
Have been going with my girlfriend for almost nine months and I have never seen her with her glasses as she always wear contacts. She went for her yearly eye exam and asked me to go with her to the optomitrist. After her exam she told me that he advised her to restrict wearing her contacts only for special occassions. I helped her select a beautiful pair of black rectangular plastic frames and a oval rimless pair. When she picked them up I told her I loved the way she looked in them. She insisted that I get my eyes examined and afer the exam I was prescribed my first pair of glasses. She helped me select an attractive frame and likes when I wear them.
We find each other quite sexy and attractive while wearing glasses.
jerry 19 Dec 2004, 12:41
sexy eyewear photos
http://www.southern-charms.com/lexi/fotos202.htm
Bobby 19 Dec 2004, 02:54
Yes, I agree with Pavel. The post 13 Dec 2004, 13:42 is really in Czech language, although the diacritical signs, I mean carons and accute accents, which are really typical for any czech text, are missing. Obviously, this website is read by much more people than we probably think.
Pavel 17 Dec 2004, 03:31
like naocari,
that post is in fact in czech language meaning that this girl you like is probably not real, but fake
16 Dec 2004, 14:45
and one dumb arse
15 Dec 2004, 15:54
there's always one smart-arse
14 Dec 2004, 14:54
There's no Croatian Language, just the Croatian Dialect of the Serbo-Croatian language.
13 Dec 2004, 17:19
hey...i speak that language (croatian)...so if the below was meant to be cro, not one word is. sorry,
13 Dec 2004, 13:42
like naoèari:
ta divka, ktera te tak zajima asi neni opravdova. mame vazne podezreni, ze tuto postavu nekdo jen hraje.
like naoèari 12 Dec 2004, 17:04
hi, i am from croatia. i like girls with strong glasses and i want find girl with thick glasses. i am 22 years old student of economics. i think silvia from italy is very hot and sexy because she want to increse her rx. silvia please give me your e-mail.
like naoèari 12 Dec 2004, 17:04
hi, i am from croatia. i like girls with strong glasses and i want find girl with thick glasses. i am 22 years old student of economics. i think silvia from italy is very hot and sexy because she want to increse her rx. silvia please give me your e-mail.
Slidingglasseslover 30 Nov 2004, 04:35
Nothing beats a girl with sliding glasses, even if they are more likely to take them off in err... intimate moments. Loved the eighties and the large glasses fashionable at the time (more sliding, of course). Hard to find these days with everyone wearing small thin frames. Must be heavens in Asia - I heard asians are more prone to being shortsighted.
SGL
J 24 Nov 2004, 06:53
Due an eye infection my girlfriend appeared wearing her glasses this morning. She never wears her glasses in public. I'll try to pursuade her to do it more often.
Pattie 06 Nov 2004, 22:23
Nothing could tame this wild mare, it wasn't long before I was at full gallup and ridin' hard!....giddeup baby! What a ride! I climaxed right into the sunset!
http://www.hotpattie.com/shoots/rideme/rideme.htm
Smooches Pattie
Alm 02 Nov 2004, 02:20
Dear KS,
thanks for answering to me, it's very nice from you...Im happy that you like wearing your glasses and that you are proud of them....
I have always liked girls with glasses because they have something that makes them more beautiful and more sexy than the others and I have always thought that they need some more protection (I mean it in a good way) especially if they have quite high RX...
As you do, I always try to think as well what a girl will look like without glasses on and what will she be able to see... I only have a low Rx (maybe my Rx is not interesting for you) so I keep wondering what is possible to see with higher Rx...
Any way Im a typical italian boy, I have got black hair and brown eyes and (if u are interested) I wear metal rectangular frames...
What about you KS? How old are you? What kind of frames do you wear?
I hope we can keep in touch, u are a nice girl....
Have a nice day darling
KS 01 Nov 2004, 23:12
Hi Alm, I love seeing glasses on a guy, as long as they choose the right type of frames. I enjoy wearing my glasses everyday. My bf says that I look naked without them. I feel that behind the right frames, glasses make the wearer look mysterious. We always wonder what they look like without their glasses on, and how they see with and without their glasses. These days, glasses are like pieces of jewels in front of eyes. I am from the San Francisco Bay Area. If lenschat gets opened again, maybe we can chat. Have fun.
Alm 01 Nov 2004, 03:54
Dear KS,
sorry i left on the bottom of my message your answer of the 15th october, Im really sorry this is what I was meaning to write:
"Dear KS,
how are you? Have you been trying what we were talking about in our earlier posts? If you did you probably made someone really happy....
Any way u seem a real nice girl.... where are you from? I think I read somewhere that your Rx is -4.75 (gorgeous Rx), do u like glasses on a man? Im absolutely in love with girls with glasses, Im 25 years old from Italy, I wear glasses -1.5, I have got black hair and brown eyes.... I hope i can get to know in here, please answer to me.....
Have a good day darling, I send you a big kiss"
Sorry :-)
Alm 01 Nov 2004, 03:49
Dear KS,
how are you? Have you been trying what we were talking about in our earlier posts? If you did you probably made someone really happy....
Any way u seem a real nice girl.... where are you from? I think I read somewhere that your Rx is -4.75 (gorgeous Rx), do u like glasses on a man? Im absolutely in love with girls with glasses, Im 25 years old from Italy, I wear glasses -1.5, I have got black hair and brown eyes.... I hope i can get to know in here, please answer to me.....
Have a good day darling, I send you a big kiss
Alm, I guess that it depends on the person. For me, the glasses are usually off or somewhere on the bed by the time orgasm hits. Also, the lights are dim anyway, so it doesn't really matter if I wear my glasses or not. But I will keep that in mind the next time a guy asks me to keep my glasses on. Thanks for your input.
KS 31 Oct 2004, 00:30
Roger, how did you manage to take someone's glasses without them knowing about it to try them on in secret. I think that most people would know that their glasses were missing. At least that you were nice enough to return them. Do you now have a pair of your own, or are you still playing around with other people's glasses. I used to try on my friend's glasses back in high school. The minus lenses were what I enjoyed trying on the most. I am in college now and my glasses are in the -4.75 range. I still enjoy wearing my friends' glasses at times, her prescription is close to mine, so we have traded glasses for hours at a time.
roger 30 Oct 2004, 05:38
J Ellis had much the same experience through out my school days just desperate for specs and jealous of those with,I would take them and try them on in secert hoping my vision would deteriate but it did,nt. Great thrill I always returned them all be it a bit later , but where this fetish comes from I do not know I was just relieved to find this site a fewy ears ago I realise I was not a freak.
J. Ellis 23 Oct 2004, 21:33
One other thought to add... I remember being so envious of these kids with their big, thick glasses that for a long time, when I was alone, I would just sit and cross my eyes for a few minutes at a time, hoping that they would "stay that way" (as the old saying goes) :-)
J. Ellis 22 Oct 2004, 20:14
>Anyone else able to trace there
>interest in glasses?
My glasses fetish goes back to about 5th grade. There was a girl I always saw around school who was in the 4th grade. She was chubby and wore large plastic drop temples with really strong plus lenses (I would estimate her prescription at the time to be somewhere between +8 and +10).
I used to love seeing her when we were all out in the schoolyard and how, as she was running and playing, her big glasses would slide down her nose. Then (especially in the Winter), she would always systematically wipe her nose and then push her glasses back up.
Also... I got really envious of one kid in my class who didn't wear glasses for so long, and then one day he showed up in a large pair of square plastic frames with, again, a prescription I would guess around +8 or so. His glasses were slightly too big for his face, and they were so thick and heavy that he had to have a strap going around the back of his head to hold them onto his face!
I just thought how cool it was that the lenses magnified his eyes so tremendously... From then on, I wanted my own glasses. I'm still waiting :-P
Silvia, Italy 22 Oct 2004, 17:17
I'm very disperated..for three years i've tried to wear glasses with stronger Rx. I'm nearsighted and my real Rx is -3.50, -0.75 cylinder (right) and -4, -0.50 cylinder (left), but my glasses for three years have been -6, -0.75 and -6.50, -0.75.
Unfortunatly my Rx hasn't increased...and i'm very very sad..
What i can do?? i'm disperated..i'm 30 y.o. ..tell me if the pilocarpine can really help me and how i can buy it..
my eyes don't want increase their Rx but i want to become really myopic girl (-7..-8).. plaese give me some ideas..i've tried plus contacts under my glasses..it's fantastic but is only an illusion...isn't reality..is a finction...i wonna be a really myopic girl !!!!
help me..!! (write in simple english..thanks)
gwgs 18 Oct 2004, 07:15
Melyssa, i have another pair of Dior's that you might find interesting but the host that i normally use is down at the moment.
Please email me at: heavyframez@hotmail.com and i'll email you the photos
Melyssa 18 Oct 2004, 06:36
Please do, GWGs. I still can't figure out why the optical business people don't understand that a lot of women want to wear drop-temples, and a lot of men want to see women in them.
gwgs 18 Oct 2004, 06:10
Wow, a wonderful story shortsighted, almost like a fairy tale.
Melyssa - i bought a pair of drop temples a while ago with a very minor prescription in (so you could obviously have it changed), but they are wider than normal, and don't fit well.
Would you like me to post photos/measurements as they are no use to me, and i doubt i would get much on eBay?
Melyssa 18 Oct 2004, 04:48
GWGs,
I have a pair of drop-temples like the one you showed, only brown. I should check out eBay more often. The problem with a lot of the frames I see there is that they are too small for my face. ("Thank your father kids!" "Thanks, Dad!") For me, the frames need at least another 1/2 inch wider and longer. Then I could have enough frames to change them every 2 hours. :)
shortsighted 18 Oct 2004, 02:48
Reading the post from Gordo reminded me of the time my school held eyesight tests. I was 13 at the time. Prior to the test, I had spent months trying to get together with the girl who sat next to me in school. Her name was Liz, and at that age, I thought this is love. Anyway, we both went in together to see the nurse for our test. She passed with flying colours, where I failed in a big way. This was not really a surprise, I had been struggling with the blackboard for some time. Anyway, the result was that I was told that a letter would be sent to my parents, suggesting they take me for an eyetest. A Week later, There I was in school with my brand new pair of glasses. There was no way I was going to put them on in front of everybody, more so in front of the love of my life. I was told that I was shortsighted and really needed to wear my glasses. As soon as I got out of the house, off they came, and went to the bottom of my satchel. I had not reckoned without my Mothers planning. She had been in contact with my teacher and informed her that I had now got glasses, and was to wear them full time. Would she please ensure that I did this. I will never forget that first morning, after the roll call was made, the teacher announced that as a result of our eye exam, one of the class needed to wear glasses. She said it was no big deal, and the rest of the class shoud not make rude comments, because it could happen to them at any time. Then she said "Francis, stand up and put your glasses on, and keep them on" It was one of the worse moments of my life. But the part that was really hurt was at the break, Liz came over to me in the playground and stated that there was no way she was going to go out with me now that I wore glasses. I had forgot all about this over the years, and now I was 22 and so used to wearing glasses, I never even thought about putting them on. The funny part of the story was when I went to a Schoold re-union around this time. I hadn't intended to go, but had fell out with my girlfriend and was a loose end.
The eveing went well, it was nice meeting old friends and swapping stories about our life. During one such conversation, I looked over to the bar area, and you can guess who I spotted. She had her back to me, but there was no mistake that it was Liz. The way she wore her hair and stood, left me in little doubt. The shock came when she turned around. She was wearing very thick magnified glasses, really one of the thickest lenses I had seen on a young girl. Of course, I made a point of getting into conversation with her and asked her what was with the glasses. I also made her squirm by reminding her of what she said to me when I had to wear them. She admitted that was the first thing she thought of when she was told that she was suffering from severe hypermetropia. Upon getting her first glasses, she said she thought how cruel she was to me. She said she had been wearing them for nearly 5 years now, and they just got stronger and stronger. Her eyes looked really large behind the lenses.
Sorry to have gone on so long, but the end result is Liz and myself are now engaged and are to be married in the sping of next year. I told her, she still looks beautiful with or without her glasses.
gwgs 18 Oct 2004, 00:46
Melyssa, there still large frames around;
I've just bought a pair of drop temples on eBay for $9.99!!! A bargain if you ask me.
There was another pair which didn't sell. How about adding these to your collection? If you're interested, i can give you the sellers email address.
The link to the pair i bought is;
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&rd;=1&item;=8137491738&ssPageName;=STRK:MEWA:IT
More photos of my pair are available at:
http://img96.exs.cx/img96/6972/mvc-001f.jpg
http://img95.exs.cx/img95/6594/mvc-002f.jpg
The other pair for sale is;
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&rd;=1&item;=8137493913&ssPageName;=STRK:MEWA:IT
Melyssa 17 Oct 2004, 07:15
KS,
Early on at my workplace, my coworkers were all surprised about my penchant for wearing so many pairs of glasses (one at a time, LOL), but in the past 10 years or so, they've been used to it. Only when I've worn a pair there for the first time do they seem to notice.
GWG's,
I managed to find a pair of "modern" cat's-eyes 3 years ago, and due to the lack of big bold frames available now, that was the last new pair I bought, so I'm "stuck" at 30.
gwgs 16 Oct 2004, 23:44
Wow, Melyssa, you just get better and better don't you. I also have a rather large collection, that my g/f used to wear in and out of the bedroom.
Like you Gordo, i can remember the first girl i found attractive was at school when i was about 16. She was about two years older than me. I found her stunning before she was a gwg but one day she turned up wearing "modern" cat eye glasses!!!
I couldn't take me eyes off her, and to this day am not still in awe of her, but am amazed at her choice of her frames.
Gordo 16 Oct 2004, 20:29
Recently I think I traced my glasses fetish to its origin. I remember in third or fouth grade during the school eye screening, this girl and I were sent to have our eyes checked togather. For some reason they sent us to the nurse in pairs. I went first and did fine, then she went and failed miserably. I still to this day do not know how she avoided detection from her familly and teachers. I recall one of her eyes only being able to see the top letter. The other eye was a little better, but not much. I remember feeling sorry for her when the nurse told her that she would call her parents. Since then, she has worn glasses evey time I have seen her. In retrospect, her eyes probably kept getting worse, because she got a new pair of glasses every year. I always thought it was cool that I was there when she was outed. Anyone else able to trace there interest in glasses?
KS 16 Oct 2004, 20:17
Melyssa, it sounds like you enjoy wearing your glasses a lot. What do you co-workers say when you switch to different pairs of glasses at work? One day, I will be as confident as you when it comes to wearing my glasses. have fun.
Melyssa 16 Oct 2004, 08:18
Yes, KS, they are all in my prescription, and I wear (eyewear?) 4-5 pairs a day, including 2 at work each day. Of course, the bold cat's-eyes and extremely large drop-temples are not part of my work glasses. Why am I mentioning work on a Saturday? LOL But I do enjoy wearing glasses because I have so many and vice-versa.
KS 16 Oct 2004, 08:08
Melyssa, 30 pairs, that quite a few pairs of glasses. Are they all your current prescription? At least you can wear a different pair each day of the month. I only have four different pairs, one being prescription sunglasses. I like your attitude, if one gets smeared, then it's off to the next pair. I didn't realize that so many people wear their glasses when making love. I thought that was an unreasonable request when I first heard it. Oh well, next time I will have an open mind on the subject.
Melyssa 16 Oct 2004, 07:39
You bet I find glasses sexy, having 30 pairs, and I've always worn them when making love. They help me see what's going on, and my husband absolutely adores me in them. And if my glasses get smeared, it's on to the next pair. :)
KS 15 Oct 2004, 19:47
Alm, I guess that it depends on the person. For me, the glasses are usually off or somewhere on the bed by the time orgasm hits. Also, the lights are dim anyway, so it doesn't really matter if I wear my glasses or not. But I will keep that in mind the next time a guy asks me to keep my glasses on. Thanks for your input.
gwgs 15 Oct 2004, 03:15
I can't really explain HOW i and others find it sexy, but i just do.
Add glasses to nearly ANY ordinary girl, and it makes them a babe in my eyes.
Quite a few girls i have known, or seen regularly, have looked very plain until they have sported glasses, and its just something that gets me going.
Alm 15 Oct 2004, 02:59
Dear KS,
one of my ex-girlfriends was quite a lot nearsighted (-6.50 -7, blonde, with brown eyes, plastic roundish frames with the lenses sticking out a bit) in the first couple of months we were together she used to wear contacts more than glasses, once she came round to my house she had glasses on, and I loved it, I love girls with glasses, to my eyes she looked even more beautiful than what she was already.
Any way I got turned on straight away, we started kissing and touching eachother everywhere and I asked her to keep her glasses on while we were having sex. She agreed, she was very happy to please me during sex, and i promise you that being in bed with a girl with glasses, is absolutely amazing, I used to love her glasses moving and sliding down her nose while we were in bed (I still love it now...).I had really great sex with that girl, amazing, she used to enjoy as well wearing glasses in bed for me and she wore them most of the times we slept together(we have been together 1 year and half). Any way now I need your opinion about a thing: my ex-girlfriend used to ask me to take her glasses off when she was getting near to the orgasm, because she told me that she wanted to go "blind" because she could feel the orgasm coming even more not being able to see? By the way I was happy to do that for her...
A big kiss to you KS and hello to everybody else
15 Oct 2004, 01:54
A women wearing her glasses while in bed making love is truely exciting. I love it and enjoy it even more when she lets me wear mine too.
Julian 14 Oct 2004, 23:23
KS: it really is true that "if people like that sort of thing that is the sort of thing they like". To me the sight of a good looking guy squinting up at me through his glasses...
Love and kisses, Jules.
KS 14 Oct 2004, 19:47
Gwgs, I never knew that glasses were so erotic until I stumbled onto this site. I guess to each their own. I still don't get the fascination of wearing glasses while having sex, the glasses eventually come off during the action, plus you are risking breaking them during the fun. Maybe you can tell me, why guys find glasses so exciting during sex. For me, I would rather take my glasses off and leave them off during the fun.
gwgs 14 Oct 2004, 07:12
KS - WOW, i've never heard of that before. Sure sounds erotic :)
13 Oct 2004, 23:40
I have no other love but my wife and I really enjoyed her wearing her glasses in bed. Will try to get her to do it more often. I'm sure she will.
KS 13 Oct 2004, 22:42
When she came in with her glasses on, did she leave them on or did you get your way. My ex used to insist that I wore my glasses to bed. Somedays, I thought that he enjoyed playing around with my glasses. When he was cheating on me, I found out that he had his girlfriend wear my glasses during sex. I finally got rid of him.
13 Oct 2004, 21:06
I asked my wife if she would wear her glasses while we made love. She said no, but when she came out of the bathroom and into the bedroom she had then on. She looked great.
09 Oct 2004, 12:25
Does she wears them during sex?
RK 08 Oct 2004, 18:15
I LOVE WHEN MY WIFE WEARS HER GLASSES AS I FIND HER VERY SEXY WITH THEM. I
AM HAPPY THAT SHE FINALLY GOT HER
FIRST PAIR OF PROGRESSIVE BIFOCALS.
NOW SHE WEAR THEM MORE OFTEN.
31 Aug 2004, 03:59
Only the menu?
29 Aug 2004, 13:19
Easy. Give her a menu to read.
? 29 Aug 2004, 10:52
And how can you persuade her to wear them during sex?
Slit 29 Aug 2004, 09:11
It will be a dream come true for me!!!
? 29 Aug 2004, 01:13
What about dating a lady using reading glasses to see the menu?
HallucinationLiz 14 Aug 2004, 10:16
Well there are pigs like Sexyboobs all around the world, maybe one is someone's neighbour! So all better watch out
leelee 13 Aug 2004, 19:36
oh no! not another clone!
Christy 13 Aug 2004, 15:36
Ahh - so there's another Christy!
Christy 13 Aug 2004, 14:57
Attaboy Sambo. Hard to beleive that Sexyboobs is so well liked by this crowd. She is a pig and you described her perfectly.
Guest $ Janepluseyes 13 Aug 2004, 14:15
Jane why don,t you tell us your true identy, your conning genuine chatters, sorry to say so.
Entisa 13 Aug 2004, 14:09
Try silver eyeshadow, hon. I find that it attracts guys more often when I'm wearing my glasses.
Jennifer 13 Aug 2004, 13:17
Enough with the racist remarks. All our ancestors came from somewhere else. No need to call anyone greasy or that they come from a banana republic. Go away we don't need your kind around!!!!
Tanya 13 Aug 2004, 12:22
Hey you lot, keep the sex and racism out of this site, people, including minors want to come here for support and advice, or just to chat, so keep it clean.
Janepluseyes
dont worry TOO much about eye make-up, your ideal guy will be more interested in the two pieces of glass covering it.....
still 13 Aug 2004, 10:34
I didn't care much for Sexyboobs' ad, but I care even less for the racist shit that you're peddling, Sambo. Why don't you keep that part of your mind safely locked away in your brain, and not share it with this group.
Sambo 13 Aug 2004, 02:15
Sexyboobs, You probably are HIV positive
Sambo 13 Aug 2004, 02:13
Sexyboobs, You sound like a real pig. We could care less about you and your greasey Latino self. Go back to Mexico, or whatever low life bananna republic you slithered in from.As for your glasses, were not interested in the hand me downs you most likly got from the Lions club, or perhaps some welfare program.
sexyboobs 12 Aug 2004, 12:19
glasses are sexy i wear them any guys want pussy email me at shadow42020042000@yahoo.com I'm 22 female latina and i stay in california i luv pussy too so if any ladies want some im here im beautifull too...
tip 12 Aug 2004, 11:14
sex
05 Aug 2004, 02:03
02 Aug 2004, 16:51
Janepluseyes 02 Aug 2004, 08:16
Lets hope all the fellows keep thinking glasses are sexy. As a 20 year old girl who has to wear glasses thats what i like to hear. Wear moderate to strong glasses for correcting long sight and weak muscle in one eye. Worn them since was 15, still don't like wearing them, but unable to go without for any length of time. Seen a few girls mention on hear that they have problems with eye make up with the magnifying effects of their lenses. Also have this problem, anyone found out the best way to overcome it. If so feel free to email me at janepluseyes@btinternet.com
02 Aug 2004, 05:02
But she feels geting older...
01 Aug 2004, 20:08
what's wrong with asking her?
01 Aug 2004, 13:41
My girlfrind started to wear readers (she is 41).
How can I persuade her to wear them during sex?
Stan 30 Jul 2004, 08:59
Fogger plus glasses are convex, minus are concave. At the extreme end that means a strong plus lens looks like a lentil (hence the word lens) and in the case of the character you are talking about, you can see this quite plainly.
Electra 29 Jul 2004, 03:52
Fogger, plus glasses are for hyperopia also known as farsightedness (or longsightedness in Britain). Minus glasses are for myopia also known as nearsightedness (or shortsightedness in Britain). If you go to http://www.glassesovercontacts.org you can see the difference.
27 Jul 2004, 13:51
Fogger 27 Jul 2004, 12:53
High plus?????
Minus????
Elaborate
Thanks
Filthy McNasty 27 Jul 2004, 12:48
The borderline moron on Trailer Park Boys wears high plus, not minus...
Fogger 27 Jul 2004, 12:30
Do you know where I can buy a cheap pair of Myopic glasses with thick round brown frames. It is for a joke, if anybody has ever seen " trailer Park Boys"
Thanks
Electra 27 Jul 2004, 06:44
I will, don't worry. Still not quite settled, and I do have my own myopic man now, so I'm a bit....busy...sometimes:)
Julian 27 Jul 2004, 05:32
Hmm. That's as may be; I don't expect we shall ever put it to the test ::) Anyway, now that you're back with us, how about finishing some of those stories on your website? We've all been in suspense here for months!
Love and kisses, Jules.
0^0
Spexy guys are sexy guys
Electra 27 Jul 2004, 04:54
Sorry Jules. But just to prove a point, if you and I shared a bed we'd be having a deep intellectual discussion, you wouldn't be reading:)
Julian 26 Jul 2004, 09:38
Well, that does kind of depend on the man, Electra.
Love and kisses, Jules.
26 Jul 2004, 09:30
24 Jul 2004, 10:25
I like the way you think..
Electra 24 Jul 2004, 09:25
If I was in bed with a man he wouldn't be reading:)
24 Jul 2004, 07:53
So lets think about it...
r a s 24 Jul 2004, 07:18
as in Mr. Big, from Sex in the City (a number of episodes where he is in bed reading)
readers are sexy? 24 Jul 2004, 07:17
just think big
Electra 24 Jul 2004, 05:42
Why not?
22 Jul 2004, 23:08
During sex as well?
Electra 22 Jul 2004, 13:09
Quite often, yes. Depends who's wearing them of course.
22 Jul 2004, 10:59
Do you find readers sexy ?
21 Jul 2004, 18:13
17 Jul 2004, 22:04
I'll take your word for it.
Guest 17 Jul 2004, 17:29
It's absolutely true!!!
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Dee 17 Jul 2004, 06:47
Guys can you handle the truth? From a conversation I had in chat I got an idea. Send me your photo to iloveyourglassesguys@yahoo.com and I'll be honest with you. Right/wrong choice of frames? Do you look good in glasses? Find out the truth.
Don 14 Jul 2004, 12:23
Hi, I would like to talk to ladys wearing Strong minus lenses.Minus 10 and higher,I think high minus lenses are very attractive.And the women that wear them.Look forward to reading your post. Don
Guest3 04 Jul 2004, 07:58
Hi Windy,I love the attraction of ladies wearing high rx glasses, most women can look attractive not wearing glasses and it does not alter their character or personality, yet theres something so special about a lady wearing very high Rx glasses, I would not loke to think high rx glasses wearers need them for other than short sight, I would be sorry if they had very serious problems with their eyes.I have never meet a lady who wears high Rx glasses, yet in a club, a dance hall, I have seen many ladies wearing strong glasses, they seem to have real handsome guys on their arms.its obvoiusly a myth guys don,t make eyes at ladies wearing glasses, and theirs many a beautiful lady wears strong glasses.
Windy 03 Jul 2004, 17:14
Frank, I'll bet you are sexy!
frank 03 Jul 2004, 15:42
i love glasses on women they look so hot i wanted to wear glasses so badly i when to the eye doctor and lied i said i cant see now i wear -3.00 it both eyes i love the way i see out of them i been wearing them for a 2 year now now i realy need them for diriving and stuff it like a dream come true now i feel like all the sexy women that have glasses.
Tod 20 Jun 2004, 09:39
Julie, where do you hang out?
Tod 20 Jun 2004, 09:37
Julie, wear do you hang out?
julie 20 Jun 2004, 05:54
i am 31 and wear lined bifocals and find myself to be sexy and so do other people. my mild distance rx makes my add very noticeable,but i don't care. i think of my image as a whole package(body, hair, makeup clothing)in the bars and clubs some guys like my specs. if they don't like my specs- well i give them other things to look at-short skirt-tight jeans -cleavage baring tops. if you look and feel sexy as a whole, wearing glasses or bifocals isn't a big deal at all
yyt 18 Jun 2004, 15:21
ttt
15 Jun 2004, 10:22
may 09 Jun 2004, 01:33
22 May 2004, 00:47
HallucinationLiz 14 May 2004, 08:30
Electra: Pardon my spelling of your name!
HallucinationLiz 14 May 2004, 08:30
Elextra: Yes of course. Very nice. But the more there are, the better. At least I think so :)
Electra 14 May 2004, 05:54
Someone slap me. Liz, you have looked at Julian's Gallery on my site, have you not?
Electra 14 May 2004, 05:52
Jules, you know where to send the application form!
Electra 14 May 2004, 05:52
Others have said I should too. It gets tricky though. On a Yahoo group there's a membership quotient and less chance of the "stranger" in question finding himself and objecting. And I would indeed need to steal the pics, because I simply don't have a collection of non-celebrity MIGs to put up. I keep asking the guys here to send their photos but they don't want to, and I can respect that, so I'm stimied. Really, only the famous are fair game, you know? Open to ideas.
HallucinationLiz 13 May 2004, 10:56
Electra, thanks. Actually I'm a member of that group, nr. 2, 3,5 as well actually. I agree with you - what is hot is hot. By the way maybe you could add some nice pic on your site?
Julian 13 May 2004, 10:56
Electra, HLiz: there is a fifth group now, but you have to ask nicely to be allowed to join!
Love and kisses, Jules.
Electra 13 May 2004, 09:22
Liz, check out the photos at the 4 Yahoo groups "Guys in Glasses" (links from my site: http://www.geocities.com/electra_the_migfetish_lady
These groups are really intended for gay guys I think, but a hot MIG photo is a hot MIG photo and they can't stop us gals looking!
HallucinationLiz 13 May 2004, 06:31
Hi!
I really like guys who wear glasses, the stronger minus - the better. So if you're interested drop me a line to HallucinationLiz@myway.com or contact me on yahoo messenger (Hallucination_Liz)
Don 11 May 2004, 09:26
I love women that wear strong lens glasses.I like minus 9 and higher.I don't wear glasses myself,But have always love the women that do.If you would like to E-Mail me.Please feel free to do so.Don20221@yahoo.com
Andy 25 Mar 2004, 02:19
Hi all,
I love girls and woman who don`t need glasses but wear plusglasses to make theirselfes a little bit shortsighted.
Andy
Michel 20 Mar 2004, 00:21
Hi, I search a story edited on an old forum (vision s forum maybe...). It was about a very myopic woman called Susan, but i m not sure. Her sight declining year after year and one day she can t wear her contacts. Her husband, Charles hate her glasses and he left her. If you find it, send me please at grand.michel@voila.fr
Many thanks
An optic obsessive
ehpc 16 Mar 2004, 09:05
I have had many gfs who I have encouraged to wear glasses during sex.With no exceptions each one has been very pleased to be asked, each one has worn them with great pleasure, and each one has known exactly what I find sexually alluring about her wearing her glasses.It' s great:) In any case, sex can be so spontaneous there is no time to take them off:)Pete
Electra 16 Mar 2004, 08:32
[Electra is all ears]
Glasses Luva 16 Mar 2004, 07:57
I am just curious. Do most full-time glasses wearers with somewhat significant prescriptions wear their glasses during sex? And I just wonder how many people out there who normally wouldn't wear glasses during sex, wear them because their partner likes it. Just curious.
hmmmmmm 11 Mar 2004, 04:51
my email is vassilka@mail.ru
Bobby 11 Mar 2004, 03:04
hmmmmmmm,
I came here some years ago (1999 I think). I am a fanof Girls with glasses and a glasses wearer myself. See, my website at http://sweb.cz/bobbygoc feel free mailing in Russian to bobby.laurel@seznam.cz, I am 40 something.
hmmmmmm 10 Mar 2004, 21:14
Bobby! dobre jitro. Achto zdes' delaet paren' is Chehii? I skolko tebe let?
hmmmmmm 10 Mar 2004, 21:12
Hey SZ6 where are you from?
carlos 10 Mar 2004, 15:11
To hmmmmm, im male, and i need glasses all time (sometimes i wear contacts, but most of it, i wear my glasses) my actual prescription at 25, is -7.75 and -8.50 with astigmatism of -2.00 and -1.5.
Bobby 10 Mar 2004, 08:33
Zdravstvuj hmmmmmmm, kak eto vozmozhno, shto zdyes dyevochka iz Rossiji? Vsego khoroshego iz Chekhoslovakii (Chekhii) Wow, the russian language looks rather strange when typed in latin language. I just wantet to tell you that here is one Slavic member with really thththtick glasses 8-)
SZ6 10 Mar 2004, 07:08
Hey hmmmmmmmmm,
I'm 25, male, and wear -9.75 glasses when I'm not wearing my contacts.
hmmmmmm 10 Mar 2004, 05:26
Mickey
I'm female, 20 in apr. Live in Russia. Don't wear glasses myself
mickey 09 Mar 2004, 19:03
hmmmmmmm
I think you're at the right place.
Tell us about yourself.
gender etc....
hmmmmmm 09 Mar 2004, 01:59
I just LOVE myopic guys with strong minus. Can anybody tell where to find one? lol
I love Myopic Girls 06 Mar 2004, 03:31
Hi im an italian boy working+living in england,I just want to encourage girls to wear them glasses because they make me go crazy!!!!!!!!!!
Eddy 10 Feb 2004, 14:39
A saying to the scientific demonstration of which Eddy has dedicated his twilight years......
Eddy 10 Feb 2004, 14:38
"There's no fool like an old fool". A venerable saw.
Electra 10 Feb 2004, 13:41
ROFL!!! Actually I know that feeling!
Eddy 10 Feb 2004, 13:22
More often than not when no less than two instances come to mind from as recently as last week
Eddy 10 Feb 2004, 13:21
Quite often when I come to think of it
Eddy 10 Feb 2004, 13:16
Actually, Leckie dearest, there's been more than one occasion when ample disposable cash has been the occasion for major net drains of wisdom...........
Electra 10 Feb 2004, 03:57
Poor old Eddy. Time marches on, huh. Just think of the wisdom you have to share (and disposable cash maybe). There's someone for everyone, or so they say.
Eddy 08 Feb 2004, 19:00
(sighs)
Eddy 08 Feb 2004, 19:00
"Nel fine del cammin di nostra vita" as the great man might have written 30 years later.
Eddy 08 Feb 2004, 16:54
Which opens up five million more general questions about female sexuality. A subject in which Eddy once had a less academic interest than is now sadly the case. And I've forgotten most of the conclusions I once came to........
Electra 08 Feb 2004, 16:06
Eddy, it could be, mature inside at least. Immature is a definite turn-off.
Now my OWN theory is that far more (exponentially more) women share my fetish than is generally known, due to the shame factor.
Eddy 08 Feb 2004, 15:30
Of course this is all consistent with the theory that women like a....... well..... more mature man. Or is that all just part of Eddy's current wishful thinking phase........
Electra 07 Feb 2004, 02:46
Yes, it was interesting, especially when it mentioned Tony Blair on women's magazines - it really does go both ways.
I'm trying to do a poll like this myself. The results are a much higher "yes" than I expected.
Glasses Luva 07 Feb 2004, 01:29
Here's a great article http://www.sagazette.com/glasses.html
Minuslover 06 Feb 2004, 05:29
5'2", can we see a picture?
Brian-16 06 Feb 2004, 05:10
5'2"-Hi there blue eyes!I have about 20/1000 and lucky to see 20/20 in one eye and 20/25 in the other.How well do you see with your glasses? My rx is a bit over -10...
5'2" 05 Feb 2004, 21:19
Hi, guys, i'm 5'2",with eyes of blue,that only see 20/2000, unless i'm wearing my -20 flat front, multible power ring lenses.Talk about cut in and double ears,mine are great!
Pluscrazy 05 Feb 2004, 20:13
Guys, Just think about the feeling U get when U enter the kitchen to see your wife reading the news paper wearing a pair of bifocals she never wore before! Oh my god!!!
me2 05 Feb 2004, 19:42
Electra, your so right. men are taking over here talking about myopic women. and i'm in love with HYPEROPIC MEN. *sigh* what makes them so sexy...maybe its a weakness factor...i dunno glasses add charactor, i love it when they take them off...my boyfriend's hyperopic 8-D sexy sexy
Glasses Luva 05 Feb 2004, 17:06
I know that I am probably in the minority here in the OO community, but I do not mind a woman who wears contact lenses occasionally. I used to be pretty anti-contacts, favoring a woman to wear glasses or go bare eyed 100% of the time. But the sighting of glasses is just that more intense if she doesn't wear her glasses all of the time.
I once without with a girl who wore her contacts everyday, and it was always special to see her in the parts of the day that she wore her glasses. I did wish that she wore her glasses more often though. Ideally I like to see a woman wear her glasses more than her contacts, but I've come to accept contacts. I even find them sexy. I find it really sexy watching a woman put her lenses in. I like versatility; glasses, contacts, bare eyed- Props to women with vision correction.
Batman 14 Jan 2004, 08:29
I wear glasses 100% of the time and so does my wife. And I find glasses very sexy on any woman!
Sometimes, though, I wish my wife would take hers off and attack me, but she never will because she says it gives her a headache not to wear them.
e ticket 06 Nov 2003, 22:41
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SZ6 06 Nov 2003, 08:49
Wow. This has to be one of us. On which site did you find this ad?
e ticket 06 Nov 2003, 07:55
Thought I'd pass along this personal ad I spotted on-line:
GUY WHO MAKES PASSES AT GIRLS WHO WEAR THICK GLASSES . . . SEEKS A PROFOUNDLY NEARSIGHTED BEAUTY TO MAKE A TOTAL MESS OF HIS OTHERWISE NORMAL LIFE. HER NEARSIGHTEDNESS IS SO EXTREME THAT IT'S TO THE POINT OF BLINDNESS. HE WRITES THIS MESSAGE TO HER USING THE LARGEST TYPE AVAILABLE HOPING SHE WILL BE ABLE TO READ IT. MAYBE SHE'S NEVER HAD A GUY COME ON TO HER QUITE SO INTENSELY . . . JUST BECAUSE SHE WEARS GLASSES WITH THICK HEAVY LENSES. IF SHE COULD JUST SEE HOW THIS HANDSOME GUY HAS DROPPED TO HIS WEAKENED KNEES. BUT HER VISION IS CRAP. HE WANTS HER TO KNOW HE WILL SACRIFICE EVERYTHING TO BE THERE - SO SHE CAN FEEL HIM KISSING HER EVERY INCH - AWAKENING IN HER A PASSION DRIVE SO INTENSE THAT NOTHING ELSE MATTERS.
plusforever 04 Nov 2003, 08:29
I love woman who wear plus-glasses, from +0,5 to +15. Sometimes I watched woman in drugstores who look for reading glasses. Often I saw young woman who try them on and sometimes buy them. Also I like woman who wear bifokals with a high prescription. They are very sexy.
LikeGlass 24 Sep 2003, 16:17
Yea, what is with that token lasik girl in every show! Come on, havent they figured it out yet?? And that one girl dumping her glasses in the recycling bin! Geeeezzz, hasnt she heard of Ebay?
Leon 24 Sep 2003, 12:37
Didn't know where to post this...
Funny little detail in the Dutch edition of 'Extreme Makeover': one of the female candidates was walking the catwalk, post-plastic surgery, and she was actually wearing cute plano glasses to emphasize her feminine qualities.
I thought this was particularly funny as many candidates in the American edition seem to undergo lasik, even if they have very low Rx's.
Leon 02 Sep 2003, 05:22
I read a nice little article in a Dutch paper the other day. It had a thought-provoking statement that I liked. It said soemthing like 'glasses are now considered hip, cool and fashionable because of the existence of contact lenses'. I think that's true. Contacts gave people a choice...
Another observation the author made: glasses used to be considered a 'flaw', but nowadays glasses, like red hair, are considered an 'asset'.
Electra 31 Aug 2003, 06:38
Did I miss somnething? When did this site become a shrine to highly-myopic women? I come here to talk about MEN.
SZ6 12 Jun 2003, 14:43
It is a known fact that people have posted to this site under the pretense that they were a high-myopic woman, when in reality, the person behind the computer was not high myopic or even female.
All people are saying is that they have gotten "burned" like this in the past, and that they are more cautious to accept people for who they say they are now because of it. Is it really so hard to understand why people act this way? Why such an indignant response?
Maggie 12 Jun 2003, 14:32
Funny site this. I mean it's basically a shrine to highly myopic women yet some of you clearly have problems believing that such creatures exist.
Scott(man) 11 Jun 2003, 17:00
Ah theenk you forrgot to mention tha' there would be a surprize for us scotsman tha' wearr kilts (skirrts).
Guido 11 Jun 2003, 03:30
Guest,
Watch ou for the "women" you are likely to meet on here, especially the high scripted ones. There might be a little surprise under that skirt.
Guest 11 Jun 2003, 03:07
It was nice to find this site. I really like just high myopic women. Women without thick minus glasses don't turn me on at all. I'm glad that I'm not alone in this sphere.
I'd like to meet high myopic woman here for any relations.
Myhopeinhere 23 May 2003, 16:28
Hi Maggie,nice to see a fellow GWG on here,enjoying your posts keep em coming!
Maggie 23 May 2003, 08:48
Alan,
I forgot the second part of your question.
I wear glasses for 100% of my waking hours (well very nearly).
Can't get contacts to satisfactorily correct my astigmatism.
I did try a (genuinely prescribed) GOC combination when I was about 18 to 20 years old. This involved wearing soft contacts to correct 75% of my spherical error with glasses for the rest of the sphere and all the astigmatism.
There were several problems with this, not least the glasses were still pretty strong and quite thick. They were about -3 sphere and -4 cyl and not hi index which looked a bit weird. Also I couldn't see the contacts at all to put them in (and I mean I could literally see no trace of them in their containers). Finally I just couldn't get along with contacts, I never reached a point where I wasn't concious of them in my eyes. Most of the time they were just plain uncomfortable. I gave in eventually and reverted back to full time glasses wear which I've done since I was 3 years old and I am quite happy to continue doing so.
Bye again,
Maggie 23 May 2003, 08:23
Hi Alan,
I got a new prescription a few weeks ago and was a little alarmed to see that my right eye had increased by 0.75 D after being stable for five or six years. This is when I started searching for information about vision and happened upon this site. Anyway my latest numbers are as follows:
Right eye -13.75 sph -4.50 cyl 100 axis
Left eye -11.75 sph -3.75 cyl 90 axis
I was also given the option of a +2.00 add for when using the computer which I've not had made up. I don't want to feel forty way before I get there! It would probably help though and I might give in eventually.
Hi Bob W,
I will respond to your question over in the psychology thread
Hi Filthy,
I 'm from the UK
Bye for now
Filthy McNasty 22 May 2003, 14:16
Of course, it's none of my business, so feel free to tell me so.
Filthy McNasty 22 May 2003, 14:15
Maggie,
Where do you live? A general location is fine.
Bob W 22 May 2003, 11:50
Welcome Maggie!
Your input here under psychology could be interesting, if not too uncomfortable. I'm thinking of what kinds of behavior did you notice? I find myself trying to look sideways thru the woman's lenses when talking, and very distracting things like that.
I'm also interested in, and fear, that this would make the woman even more self conscious about her glasses.
It's probably a bit much to ask, but I do have some odd interests aorund here.
Best regards, Bob W
Alan 22 May 2003, 09:56
Maggie - Do you know what your prescription is? (I'm curious what to imagine when you imply that your glasses are very strong. And do you wear glasses all the time, or split time with contacts?)
Glad to see your post....welcome!
Maggie 22 May 2003, 09:25
Hi. Didn't quite know where to post this but here goes anyway.
I found this site a few weeks ago have spent a while 'lurking' and reading lots of the old posts. It's been a revelation! You people have confirmed what I sort of suspected, that some folks are into glasses in big way. A couple of guys I have been with in the past appeared to have a bit of a 'thing' about my glasses (which to put it mildly are a bit on the strong side). I had never heard of OO's or a glasses fetish but looking back that's exactly what these guys must have been/had. Their slightly 'odd' behaviour (I don't mean this in a nasty way) all falls into place now. So thank you all for enlightening me.
I have always thought of my glasses as a necessary evil, something that I have to wear just to be able to see and function normally.
Anyway sorry for rambling on. The site's fascinating and there's loads more posts that I still have to read through read through. Thanks again.
3Ms 19 May 2003, 02:34
I have a plan to get my wife wear glasses finally at least from time to time...I'm having my eyes checked these days and as she'll be with me at the optician, I'l tell her to get a pair to wear from time to time, just for the fun or the fashion...I hope it'll work...It's risky though, as she might react negatively to it but she might take it very easily, one can never tell...I'll keep you posted...
Clare 18 May 2003, 11:52
My boyfriend of seven months [and with a -5 prescription himself] finally commented on my glasses and it was a complement! It was Sunday and I slipped them on to see the tv - I can happily do without them around the house - he looked at me and said "I really like you in your glasses ...". What could I say, I was shocked, he didn't comment the first time he saw me wear them.
minic 15 May 2003, 20:33
I just wanted to thank for all comments to my question, it really is something I was always interested to find out about and till recently it was really difficult for me to find a way to talk about glasses with a girl. My wife treats me like some nutcase because she found out about my preference for girls with glasses, so it is at least nice to know there are others out there. Thanks
Hearty 13 May 2003, 00:17
minic...we women are in the minority here, but you must have seen some of us posting of our passion for the lens/need for glasses! My theory is, that there are less women having fetishes of any kind. I think my hormones got a bit messed up during adolescence....because while I'm very feminine, I do have a few desires that seem to be typically male in nature...and I hate kitchen work! As a child, I'd rather play with frogs and snakes, than dolls. Maybe it's partly hormonal, but yeah, you guys do hava female counterpart!! Sisters in crime!!!
A1 11 May 2003, 14:36
Emily - Sorry I missed you, i was already checked out ... next time I hope.
Emily 11 May 2003, 09:08
A1 -- Exactly -1.00 for both eyes. Why don't you join me on Lens Chat, I'm there now!
A! 11 May 2003, 08:49
Emily - is his prescription -1 exactly or it is more than that? Im curious if he was he told he should wear them all the time or if he just needs to to see okay.
Emily 11 May 2003, 08:43
A1 -- He takes them off for reading, otherwise he wears them all the time.
A1 10 May 2003, 23:48
Emily - you said your boyfriend's prescription is -1. How often does he wear them, alot or not so much yet?
3Ms 09 May 2003, 23:41
It's really a problem with those ladies who don't get our point concernning our preference for gwgs...Yesterday though something really unexpected did happen...My wife being aware of my "obsession for glasses" had once bought a pair of props she used to wear at night in bed...it's been ages she hasn't worn them...Yesterday, then, I came into the room at night and found her in her night gown on the bed wearing the props and smiling "viciously"....Women are really strange creatures...Still I'm still under scrutiny and observation not to look at gwgs wherever they may be....
Emily 09 May 2003, 16:13
Hi Minic
Im a girl who likes glasses. Im 17 and my new RX is 6 (until 2 months ago it was 5). My glasses look great on me, both frames and lenses. I might not be typical because Im an optical obsessive, but I think glasses dress up the appearance of any good looking boy or girl. My boyfriend is 1 and his frames are cool but his lenses are very plain and they would look better if they were 4; I hope he goes up. I find stronger minus lenses visually more interesting because I like looking at the power rings, cut-in and minification that plus lenses or weak minus lenses dont have. Also, the front surfaces of my new glasses are starting to flatten out, which makes the reflections larger, which I also find attractive. A lot of kids in my school like glasses, especially trying each others glasses on. When kids try my glasses on, they are amazed that I can see anything through them, everything looks very small and moves from side to side when they turn their heads. But theyre perfect for me. I wouldnt want to go over 10, though, because the lenses would start to become too thick and overwhelming. For me, the sexiest zone is from 4 to 10.
Electra 09 May 2003, 11:20
It's been a l-o-n-g time since I visited ES, but I had to reply to your question. Yes, there are women out here who go crazy for a guy in glasses. I've had this obsession for over 30 years, and until I found ES while surfing for photos of celebs in glasses, I honestly thought I was a freak. I've since learned it's a very common thing. Yes, there seem to be more men obsessing over GWG, and most of the posts about BWG seem to be from gay men, but I don't mind sharing with them, we're all in this together!
minic 08 May 2003, 20:21
3Ms
Unfortunately I have to one more time react to your comments. Seems like I got married to your wife's sister. I get that very same line being "obsessed" by glasses, being closely watched every time we pass women wearing glasses everywhere we go, my wife even constantly checks history on our computer to see if I was visiting any GWG sites. And honestly I am not looking for any affair I just find women wearing glasses very attractive and real turn on but being honest with her didn't help that much, my only hope is maybe her needed glasses more or living as so far in my secret little world with at least now thanks to the internet being able visit ES and share my thoughts with others who may be little bit more little understanding. I just asways keep thinking is this just mainly male "obsession" or are there any females who would go through the same, like enjoying wearing glasses, wanted to wear stronger lenses, finding attractive guys in glasses? I was always wondering about it and I would really appretiate if I can get some comments, pref. of course from some girls. Thanks
3Ms 07 May 2003, 22:18
Micha thanks for the picture, really great...
Could you possibly pick up some interesting sections from the forum Die Brille and translate them for us or sum them up even? It'd be really sweet from you.
3Ms 07 May 2003, 22:12
The problem is that I was looking at Britney Spears' pictures wearing glasses and with the background of my liking of gwgs she took it as som kind of betrayal accusing me with being an "obsessed" by glasses...The thing is that she knows this has an erotic or even a sexual connotation, eventhough it's in fact beyond that level, hence she takes it for a betrayal when I'm interested in a gwg...
07 May 2003, 12:06
Nice lookin girl... too bad only this set with glasses:
http://public.fotki.com/coypixie/librarian/
yeah, I couldn't get into "Seen on the Web" either.
Lore 07 May 2003, 11:35
3M,
I'm a bit confused. Was the problem that you were looking at pictures of Brittney Spears, or pictures of her wearing glasses?
Because, quite honestly, while I would have no problem with my husband looking at porn online, his ogling barely-post-pubescent pop queens would skeeve me out a bit. But that's just me. However, the problem might have less to do with the glasses than with other things.
micha 07 May 2003, 11:29
Should be in 'seen on the web', but it is not possible to post there.
a goddess
http://f50.parsimony.net/forum200261/messages/2019.htm
3Ms 05 May 2003, 23:55
It's very sad indeed, eversince that row with my wife over Britney Spears wearing glasses, I've had a hard time trying to be careful about looking after gwgs even on tv...It's really a hard life, I'm so frustrated that she's taking it this way...Yesterday she was talking to a frined of ours about a dark place and she went: I can't see a thing there although I have no vision problems at all....I was crazy at this wishing so strongly she had vision problems...But I think it's still a long way to go until the time when she'll finally need glasses...8-(((
Puffin 05 May 2003, 01:04
Shame but life does go that way.
Bob 01 May 2003, 20:49
How's this for the way life goes sometimes.
For all the years we were married my ex-wife wore contacts. For most of the time, she didn't even own a pair of glasses. Well, now that we are divorced, she is wearing glasses all the time. I think after all those years, her eyes got to where they couldn't tolerate the contacts and now she always has her glasses on and they're pretty thick too. Almost makes me wish we were still married. ... Well, not really.
loonyettes 30 Apr 2003, 10:31
A fascinating discussion. How many of us have told our partners about our fetish? Mine knows - but she didn't take it seriously until I showed her Eyescene. She doesn't wear glasses but wishes she did. Meanwhile, she gives me daily reports of her sightings. I'm lucky I guess.
hooked 29 Apr 2003, 02:44
Where is the difference between glasses, earrings, high-heels, in the sense of fashion with the exception that glasses can be used (it is not necessary!) to improve your vision.
But I'm just talking from a standpoint outside because until know I have 20/20 vision.
Earrings, high-heels and robes are seen as fashion accesoires. In contrast high-heels are not healthy for your feet.
I'm sure that my wife has a better vision with her glasses than with contacts because I never heard her complaining of vision problems with her glasses on but sometimes this happens with contacts.
3Ms 29 Apr 2003, 00:26
Minic
I really don't understan why most women are making our lives difficult because of this preference of women wearing glasses. I think of the great effects it would have for my wife to decide to wear whatever kind of glasses, but she doesn't seem to share this point of view. Eventhough the row over Britney Spears seems to be over now, I remain sure that it'll pop up any time again...What is more is that she has me on a probe period, she's monitoring every single look of mine at any girl wearing glasses in real life or on tv...
This makes it really difficult, she doesn't want to give in to my liking of glasses and forbids me from looking away from her...I am frankly very keen to get older enough to see her finally give up to the need to wear plus glasses for close up vision as she reaches 40s or so...
Thanks folks for all your comments.
Sandy 28 Apr 2003, 22:36
Lore, I have to agree with you fully. I too am a full time glasses wearer that has never tried contacts. There are plenty of advantages to contacts over glasses. I have friends who swear by contacts, they don't have to worry about losing their glasses while playing sports. Also, in plenty of social situations, many prefer contacts to glasses. I choose to wear glasses everyday, I have several pairs to choose from depending on the occasion. I am lucky because my prescription is not thick as some of the others here. But between smaller frames and hi-index lenses, I don't mind wearing glasses everyday. The only time that I wish that I didn't have to wear glasses is while I ski or play beach volleyball in the summer. Wearing glasses under goggles in not fun especially if it is snowing outside. Also, being hit in the head with a volleyball is not fun either. I think that it should be up to each individual whether he or she wears glasses or not. Take care.
Daffy 28 Apr 2003, 21:42
While on the 'contact lenses' topic...I find that when people get to a certain age, they give up on contacts. Sure the contacts are predominantly marketed to the young adults and teens, what about the 'older' market. Is there a general age pattern where people just 'give-up' contacts and turn to glasses? They all eventually do...even I did (at age 31).
Lore 28 Apr 2003, 20:25
LikeGlass,
I totally get what you are saying. But, and maybe I'm just a stickler for the line between fantasy and reality, I do think there is a difference between admiring women who choose to wear glasses, fantasizing about women wearing glasses (whether they exist in real life or not, whether they are real-life glasses wearers or not), and actively working to discourage someone who wants to wear contacts from wearing them are very different things. The first two I'm totally fine with, but I really don't think anyone should try to talk a real-life woman who is choosing or has chosen contacts into wearing glasses, particularly if there is a compelling reason for her to wear contacts (i.e., having a small child, having a high prescription, spending a lot of time outdoors, etc.). It's one thing to discourage someone from LASIK, because it is potentially very dangerous. It is another thing to try to talk someone out of a decision they have made because of an aesthetic preference, but that's JMHO.
Ralph 28 Apr 2003, 20:20
You mean -48 diopters?!?!?!?
LikeGlass 28 Apr 2003, 20:00
Lore,
Few things that are "sexy" are practical. For example, is there any good reasons to wear six inch stiletto heels? Is a thong bathing suite comfortable? How about false eyelashes, make-up, or my own favorite, large hoop earrings? Truth be know, sexy and practical are usually diametrically opposed. Many guys would go bonkers over a pair of 48D's , but few girls would ever want to live with the back pain! You can add glasses to the list. Yes, contacts are more practical, but for some of us, glasses are just more sexy! Should girls who wear contacts get bashed here? No. But, this is a room populated by many guys who like girls in glasses, the reaction could be predicted. It would be the same as going to a site dedicated to high heels, and talking about how it is more practical to wear sandals.
Yesterday, I twisted my neck out, looking at a cute girl with glasses and wearing a pair of 4 inch hoop earrings. It still hurts! So, I guess sexy (sometimes) is not practical on either side. (But it sure is fun!)
Lore 28 Apr 2003, 18:43
You know, I often feel the need to stick up for contact lens wearers here. There seems to be a belief that women who wear contacts are doing it either 1) to be more attractive or 2) to frustrate OOs ;). But, while there is probably some #1 in their decisions, there actually are a lot of benefits to wearing contacts.
As someone who must wear correction full-time, I can tell you that there are a lot of very good reasons for choosing contacts:
For one thing, with even marginally high prescriptions (anything above -5 or so), you don't have to deal with minification with contacts, which makes reading easier. I imagine that only increases as you get older.
If you live in a sunny area, being able to easily put on sunglasses is a *big* plus, particularly if you drive a lot or work outdoors. I worked at a summer camp for years, and each summer when I worked there, I'd wear contacts, because I was outside a lot, and liked the convenience of being able to put sunglasses on and off without having to keep track of where my other glasses were. Plus, if you are prone to losing sunglasses, losing a $10 pair of cheap non-prescription sunglasses is a far, far less big deal than losing a $200 pair of prescription sunglasses. I actually have prescription sunglasses now, but it's kind of annoying to have to change between them and my glasses a lot, particularly when I'm just driving a short distance. Wearing contacts and putting on sunglasses would be much easier.
For women who have small children, or work with small children, contacts are very, very useful. Small children have a habit of pulling your glasses off of your face, or smacking you in the side of the head so they get crooked, or throwing balls at you that knock your glasses right off. While these may seem like erotic scenarios to some of you, if you are trying to take care of your own child (or several of other people's children), it is quite inconvenient. Plus, you have to have a pretty sturdy pair of glasses to make sure they don't break, since kids can yank at them pretty good. I have no doubt that the reason a lot of women wear contacts is because of this. Really, if you need your glasses to see, you do not want to deal with an infant or young child tugging at them all the time. Contacts are much, much easier. I actually think I'll probably be likely to switch back to contacts when I have a child, if it turns out my child is a glasses-yanker.
Contacts go with everything. Glasses, in general, do not. Of course, one of the great benefits of small wire frames (the bane of so many of you here), is that they do indeed match with most outfits. But, there are still times when you are wearing something that your glasses just don't go with (bridesmaid's dresses, anyone?), and contacts eliminate this completely. I don't think this is vanity. In many situations, a woman has to look professional in order to be taken seriously in her profession. For some jobs, like mine, glasses can enhance this, but I have no doubt that, in others, glasses can be a drawback. Contacts give a flexibility that is not available with glasses.
Contacts are almost entirely safe. Nearly everyone I know (both male and female) wears contacts. I have never known *anyone* who had a serious eye infection from them. They are safe. They are more secure than glasses, since they will never fall or be knocked off your face. They actually probably cost less than glasses, if you have a higher prescription and, like most people who do, opt for thin lenses and anti-reflective coatings or if you invest in more expensive frames. They do not get bent out of shape like glasses do.
Contacts in general also give better vision, in most cases (apparently not when you need prism correction or have a lot of astigmatism). But, for the nearsighted, contacts give you excellent peripheral vision, which glasses, even ones with large frames, do not. Contacts do not cause distortions like glasses do. Many people find that their vision in contacts is noticeably superior to their vision in glasses, and good vision is really what is important, not how attractive a woman looks, whether you like her in glasses or in contacts.
I am a full-time glasses wearer, but it's not because of any ideological opposition to contacts. It's because 1) I'm too lazy to deal with putting them in and out every day and, primarily, 2) I am a graduate student who is otherwise very un-scholarly looking (I'm curvy and have dark curly hair in a field where most women are stick-thin with long straight hair), so wearing glasses makes me look more academic, which, as a woman, I sometimes need, particularly when dealing with students or older male faculty. So, really, my reasons are just as superficial as reasons for choosing to wear contacts.
I can understand why you all might want to see more women wearing glasses, but contacts have a ton of benefits, and I don't think it would be in the best interest of all women to wear glasses. While I think there can probably be arguments made that LASIK is *not* in most people's best interest, and thus should be discouraged, contacts are not the same. It's important to remember that women who wear them have a lot of good reasons for it, many of which have nothing to do with wanting to look more attractive!
Alan 28 Apr 2003, 18:20
Ryan - Unfortunately, I don't think you can come up with any great medical case for not wearing contacts; if worn responsibly, they're quite safe and very rarely will ceasing to wear them fail to correct any problems associated with wearing them...Something could happen, but it's very unlikely.
I think you have to make your case on convenience and comfort and the positives of wearing glasses. Most people these days think many people who wear glasses look better with glasses than without - it depends on how well the glasses are chosen, but for the many people who have chosen glasses well, they look great in glasses. Whether glasses or contacts are more convenient, comfortable, or inexpensive kind of depends on the person and the glasses & contacts in question, but for a lot of people glasses are preferable in this regard and they only want contacts because of very misplaced vanity. I think you have to focus on this in a tactful way.
Mad Dog - This brainwashing really is quite ironic. It's the same as the case where so many women think they should be as thin as models, yet most men would find them *less* attractive if they were this thin (rather than at a more reasonable or healthy weight). How bizarre this is! I definitely wish people (and I guess I'm referring particularly to american women since I'm talking about people I would potentially meet be attracted to) were better at being reasonable in their sense of what others would find attractive.
mad dog 28 Apr 2003, 09:19
If a man or a woman is attracted to the wearing of glasses, do we have a way of dousing that interest? If I did not have a wife who wears minus lenses, I'd be in the doghouse a lot, cause I'd be looking at every glasses wearing woman that came by. I can't squelch the interest I have in women who wear glasses, especially myopic ones. I can still remember girls that I saw 15 years ago who looked good with their glasses on. Glasses are sexy; these women who think they are unattractive have been brainwashed somewhere that they are unattractive when they are forced to wear glasses.I guess my wife is a lot more tolerant of my interest in her glasses than other women are. It works out to her advantage and she knows it.
minic 27 Apr 2003, 20:37
3Ms,
I just noticed your older message and have to respond, because I can relate. When I started dating my wife she was just getting glasses, wearing them at first full time, than shortly after our marriage decided that she don't really need them. I was really dissappointed, secretly dreaming about another women in glasses, but never cheated on her. Than suddenly glasses came back and I honestly felt like finding young mistress, our sex life went up 100% and I was really happy, than at one point I told her about my fetish and glasses became our leverage tool, just a special treatment for good behavior, I found my magazine with Anastacia,s interwiev her picture completely scratched out, as soon that there is any fem wearing glasses on TV, my remote is gone and there is another channel, not to mention our old friends couple, both wearing glasses are out of our friends list. Just really crazy. I wish I could find some answer in this.
Ryan. 27 Apr 2003, 14:36
My wife came home the other day with contacts. She been a full time glasses wearer for 25 years but did wear contacts for some years. How do I now convince her not to wear them? Is there any info to suggest there are risks of infection in wearing them?
Bob W 25 Apr 2003, 15:44
3Ms,
You can check out my posts in Love of the Lens at the end of March. I can really appreciate my wife's tolerance of my severe deviations!! She has seen my distraction in public to GWG's, and I try my best not to, but it's a struggle.
I was never able to get into satisfactory relationships with GWG's because I was so distracted by their specs that they would be turned off. Good luck. I wish I could provide real advice.
Best regards, Bob W
mad dog 25 Apr 2003, 08:54
My wife and I joke around about Lasik because she knows I'm crazy about her myopia and her absolute dependence on vision correction. She too feels unattractive with her glasses on, therefore she almost always wears her contacts when in public. She will complain about the way they feel and when I suggest she wear glasses, I get a look and the same comment that Hooked said he gets. She's great looking anyway, but with glasses on she's just got that extra little spark that makes her 110 %. I always say that I don't care if she wears contacts and I don't care how much she spends on eyewear, as long as she does not get eye surgery.She tries to stretch her contacts out too far, I think. I'm trying to persuade her to get some new glasses soon, but she'll always come back with the statement that her old ones are still okay.Then there are the times each day when she is putting on her make-up and doesn't have contacts or glasses on and she comes into the kitchen to do something and I get to see her bare-eyed. She calls me a pervert sometimes because she knows I like to watch her, but I think she likes it.
specs4ever 25 Apr 2003, 07:37
Well, so the storm seems to have passed 3M's - or maybe you are in the eye of the hurricane. I only wish that my attraction to girls wearing glasses had emerged early in my married life, as it might have changed things. Now my wife has had laser surgery, and she wears reading glasses. Minus lenses are my turn on, and plus just doesn't do a thing for me - no offense intended for any of those that wear plus lenses, it is just the way my obsession developed.
However, if you don't care if she wears plus or minus, maybe you could suggest that she try a pair of low plus drugstore readers. Explain to her that you find her very sexy as she is, but wearing a pair of glasses would make her different, and would make her seem to have a new image.
hooked 25 Apr 2003, 06:57
M3s
Well, I do not understand why women find themselves mostly "not good looking" or however we may call it with glasses on.
I don't think my wife knows that I like women with glasses.
She has glasses and she also has contacts. At home she mostly wears glasses and outside it depends on the occasion/mood/season/etc. . I know that she has problems with her contacts often and then she asks me "I have problems with my contacts. They are itching" or something like that. Then I say to her "Just wear your glasses". After my answer she normally looks at me a bit as I'm crazy.
I can remember once she asks me (I think women need to get a affirmation if they look fine) whether she should go to what-event/party-ever with glasses or not.
I told her: "You look better in glasses".
She answered: "You are foolish!" and she went with contacts.
I'm wondering why did she ask me then?
3Ms 25 Apr 2003, 03:22
Thanks for the response
She seems to have clamed down but still fustigating me because of that, things like I'm not sexy enough for u, because in fact she doesn't wear glasses. Go look for a gwg, a half blind...I just let go of all this. I'll have to patiently wait for the day she'll have to wear glasses herself, I guess it will come sometime...She's nearly 30 and still "cursed" with perfect vision...
Frank 24 Apr 2003, 05:51
I think I can understand - in the '70s my girl cried once and said I just liked her to be ugly, when I asked if she would wear glasses during love-making; the first time I asked she pretended not to hear.
But to your situation...I guess you did break a promise but she has got to realise the OO thing goes way deep. She can hold you if she realises that, and that you want to keep hold of her for her own sake, not just her glasses.
1. Emphasise her glasses are just the icing on the cake -
2. But omit to mention, right now, that if she 'lets you go' - a British euphemism for the sack - you'd be straight after a GWG and preferably one who understands and is even turned on by the concept.
Seize the upper ground this way (1) - it's the only ground to win from. (2) would you losing, as she calls your bluff.
3Ms 24 Apr 2003, 03:42
Not funny Christy!!! I need more to cheer me up and advise me what to do!! In any case I'm still hooked on girls wearing glasses...
Christy 24 Apr 2003, 03:06
Yeah - if it comes to a divorce - do it through the courts and make sure that Britney Spears is called as a witness. With any luck she'll show up in specs!
3Ms 24 Apr 2003, 01:40
Hi all
I'm in trouble with my wife who has hust found a picture of Britney Spears wearing glasses on the internet browser...She's mad at me calling me "obsessed" with girls wearing glasses. In fact, she had already discovered my "obsession" years ago when she had found the ES page on the browser. But she had me promise not to look for this stuff on the web any more and in exchange she'd wear glasses from time to time. But now I'm caught red handed lol!!! She is really angry at me!! I did tell her that it was just an innocent curiosity due to this preference of mine for girls with glasses, but she's still insisting that it is some sort of deceit...Any comments folks??
mad dog 06 Jan 2003, 10:06
Those black plastic glasses that are posted under Glasses for auction or sale are hot. They take me back to that era when large framed plastic glasses were more prevelant than now. I'd love to buy them but my wife would never understand why I find them sexy.
mexican fan 25 Dec 2002, 20:26
hey, thanck my friends. merry christmas all people.,, H.M.G. is exelent site.
gracias teah, espero poder intercambiar platicas contigo,, seguiremos en contacto. bye.
and.........Girls with strong glasses are beautyful..
Teah 23 Dec 2002, 21:28
sure thing!
There are many people who like myopic girls. look at the old posts - there are many links with pictures to enjoy. there are also many personal web pages on the topic. welcome and join us. sorry about the accents, my computer is in a bad mood today :(
Alain 23 Dec 2002, 01:29
Hola mexican fan,
Si te gusta las chicas muy cortas de vista y con lentes gruesas, puedes visitar mi sitio web:
http://ad2412.free.fr/High_Myopic_Girls.html
Hasta Pronto y Feliz Navidad
Hi all,
I'am giving my url to mexican fan.
Alan 22 Dec 2002, 21:19
Teah - any chance you could share a translation with us?
teah 22 Dec 2002, 20:44
mexican fan - a muchas personas aqui le gustan hablar de chicas cortas de vista. mira las viejas paginas - hay un gran nombre de enlaces con fotos para disfrutar. tambien hay muchas paginas web personales sobre chicas cortas de vista. sea el benvenido a juntirte a nosotros y lo siento para los accentos, pero mi computadora parace estar de mal humor hoy :)
Teah 22 Dec 2002, 20:03
hablo español, pero no muy bien. puedo tener conversaciones, pero por favor, no uses palabres demasiadas complicadas.
mexican fan 22 Dec 2002, 11:02
hola, alguien habla español? busco chicas muy cortas de vista, ya que me parecen muy sexys, si saben de alguien que quiera hablar de este tema , adelante bye.
mexican fan 22 Dec 2002, 11:00
hi, exelent web my friends,it's my first time here, I love girls with strong glasses, I thinck that they are very sexy girls.some one have picturs with strong glasses? some one has seen one girl without her glasses in problems?
Teah 22 Dec 2002, 08:30
i agree with Alan that the glasses themselves are a big part of it. generally noticing glasses-wearers, i've found that people wearing ugly glasses, or glasses that do not suit them at all no more attractive or even in some cases less attractive then they would be without them. BUT a nice pair of frames changes EVERYTHING. like you said, it's all about design.
Alan 22 Dec 2002, 00:38
Teah and Musey -- I like Teah's suggestion of talking about 'what' and maybe getting some glimse of 'why' through that. But first, as an aside, one could think about 'why' in evolutionary terms -- I think we are sort of wired to find certain things beautiful, and this may well have been an evolutionary product. Bright colors, symmetry -- things like that -- they (I think) have always been indications of good health, which means these things might have been more likely to be good food or good mating partners, etc.
But about glasses and aesthetics... I'd like to talk to a design person about this. I think there are broad concepts in design that are used to make it much easier to come up with aesthetically pleasing designs. (I mean 'design' pretty broadly, applying to things like clothes, cars, buildings, products, and probably fine arts <painting, sculpture> too.) Concepts like symmetry, complementary colors, proportion, balance - in terms of color, light, proportion, 'weight'. Now, I'm tempted to point to the growing popularity of glasses and say that this is because current designs are much better balanced to wearers' faces than designs of yesteryear...but then a lot of people will disagree completely. But anyway, glasses can improve the balance between features on a person's face - as the glasses can be 'heavy' or 'light', round or rectangular, high or low. This is probably one reason that a lot of people can look better in glasses than without, even to people who aren't particularly interested in glasses. Glasses can also draw attention away from a face's flaws, or even hide the flaws directly (for example, a big nose often seems smaller with a pair of glasses sitting on them). None of this addresses the attitude that's common on this site, that glasses themselves are attractive, regardless of how they affect the beauty of the wearer, and the wearer is automatically more attractive by wearing glasses. This is where aesthetics clearly is impacted by feelings and attitudes that are distinct from the purely visual. I mean, glasses are fascinating to me, seem to mean something to me, seem to indicate something about a person - something amorphous and not really rational - and all this makes them attractive to me.
There's also a social element -- I think my interest in and attraction to glasses & glasses-wearers has actually grown somewhat since I found this site. It sort of gave me license not to limit my feelings on the matter, as if it suddenly "wasn't weird". So that's part of it too.
Alan
Musey 21 Dec 2002, 01:34
Yeah Alan, why DO we find certain things asthetically pleasing, I don't know if anyone knows for sure.
teah 15 Dec 2002, 18:41
alan - yes that last post was directed to me and not said to me. about attraction - people don't know why. the brain is just too hard to understand. sorry if i'm being all scientific and taking psych and all....maybe we should just concentrate on thinking about WHAT exactly makes glasses attractive because maybe we'll come up with a why through discussing the what.
Alan 15 Dec 2002, 17:10
Teah - (Was that last post with your name on it directed *to* you rather than being posted *by* you?) The limbic system is the part of the brain that controls attraction, but naming it doesn't help me understand anything about why I'm attracted by certain things. Do you relate to that? But maybe the way the limbic systems works (if we know anything about that) could actually shed light on why we like certain things. Do you know if there is enough detailed knowledge about the limbic system to suggest much about why certain things become attractive and others don't?
Musey - I think that weakness hypothesis has a lot to do with it for some people. I don't think it's the case for me, though; I don't really want a woman to seem "weak" or "needful". For me, it is based in emotions about vision problems, partly what I imagined (before I knew) what it felt like to have blurry vision without glasses, what it felt like to go to the eye doctor, etc. And partly my own feelings about discovering what it's like to walk around in a blur and put glasses on and make everything clear. I don't think it really "makes sense", though; I think the bottom line is that glasses and vision occupied enough of my attention at some point for a 'fetish' to develop; I think this is something that happens spontaneously, particularly for men. After being "interested" in glasses for a long time, I developed a really strong taste for the appearance of glasses, so now they are visually attractive to me even without thinking about the 'refractive part' (the wearer's experience, the strength of the lenses, etc). My attraction to glasses at this point, I think, is half the degree to which I focus on them automatically and half the fact that I think stylish, modern, well-fit frames really "work" aesthetically. This is something that designers and architects understand a little more than other people, but really I think it's a bit myseterious.
Musey 14 Dec 2002, 22:22
I just got a thought....hard to define but Ill try. Well when a woman makes love, she submits a part of herself to the man, she becomes weak and very needful of, well, all that man stuff. So couldn't possibly the needing of lenses be symbolic of all that, and evoke a physical reaction from a sensitive male (specifically an OO)? Just as ruby lips subconsciously remind a male of 'other' lips, so might the need for glasses remind a man of the needful state of love making. Ya think?? Now for my love of spexy men, thats another story completely, and one I think harder to explain...
teah 07 Dec 2002, 15:16
while this may be rooted in the limbic system...you may find tight shirts, jewelry, high heels, sandals....etc sexy...
why not glasses also. i think they're great!
teah 07 Dec 2002, 15:13
yeah...i'm a dork who takes pych in school. right soooo
you have this part of brain called your limbic system. what that controls is exactly what kind(s) of people you find yourself attracted to. this is explains why so many people are attracted to people who on the outside may not seem right for them, why some men like skinny girls and others like voluptuous ones. it also affects what kind of personality you look for in a significant other.
and of course it explains why you naturally feel so attracted to girls in glasses without even having met them before hand :)
there probably is a psychological explanation for why your limibic system reacts to certain characteristics but it's different for every person. sometimes it has a definate root (someone you once loved or admired had that characteristic for example) sometimese psychologists are just puzzled.
the brain's a complicated thing man
LikeGlass 07 Dec 2002, 15:05
Ok, lets get right to the heart of this matter. (Intended to start a new conversation) Just what makes glasses sexy? How can two little disks of plastic or glass, supported in some form of frame ADD to the sexuality of a woman? It makes no sense to me, yet, there it is! I find an extra jump in my heart when I see a cute girl in glasses, and thee is no question that the jump is sexual in nature! So, take a cute girl, add glasses, and what just happened? Why is she now more sexually attractive?
teah 04 Dec 2002, 06:15
SZ6 - i fence foil. i'd love to try epee but we don't have a team...i also note that the myopia-fencing correlation is stronger in guys then girls. about half the girls wear glasses whereas almost 90% of the guys are myopic.
SZ6 03 Dec 2002, 22:59
In my experience, fencing seemed to attract the "nerdy" type, and we all know about the correlation between myopia and intelligence...
I think just about every guy on my JV squad freshman year wore glasses or contacts.
Portia 03 Dec 2002, 22:36
My sexy high minus husband was a fencer in school and now my son is taking it up with the same coach! Have fencers got visual characteristics in common?
SZ6 03 Dec 2002, 22:32
Actually, Teah's post about fencing brought back memories of my freshman year of college, when I was but a newbie foilist on the men's team...there was a tall, very cute blonde on the woman's team who often wore large, roundish blue plastic glasses with a pretty high minus prescription. Unfortunately, the men's and women's teams didn't practice together and didn't socialize much outside of the gym...and by next year, she was gone, probably graduated. Alas.
SZ6 03 Dec 2002, 22:29
Teah,
What weapon do you fence? Ex-foilist here...though the few times I tried epee, I much preferred it.
Alan 03 Dec 2002, 21:40
Teah -- If you pick the right frame, guys won't be any less interested in you, even if they're not OO's at all. I'm quite certain about this. Plus, I think it's a turnoff if you can't see, which at your prescription is a genuine concern, I think.
I haven't seen any Sandler pics on the web, but perhaps I'll get a chance to look sometime.
Alan
teah 03 Dec 2002, 21:34
actually...the fencing gym would be a nice place for any oo to hang out....you guys would be surprised. at least 2/3 of us wear glasses! mostly minus, but some agstimatism and there's one kid with very high plus glasses.
teah 03 Dec 2002, 21:32
nibs: most of the time. since i'm a student, the board sort of requires them. sometimes i'll take them off to rest when i'm at home but since my rx is sort of weak my eyes really strain to see without my glasses and that hurts after a while. i also fence, and even though i'm not that nearsighted and distances aren't far in fencing, i find it hard to see the opponent's blade without them. also i usually don't wear them when i go out (unless it's a movie) because...well...not all guys are oo's and i don't like contacts.
Nibs 02 Dec 2002, 22:37
Hi Teah ... do you wear this prescription all the time, or are you waiting for an increase till you do so?
teah 01 Dec 2002, 16:08
oscar: OD: -2.25; OS: -2.00
but i think this rx is getting too weak for me...i'll udate you next time i go round to the optemetrist...probably around early spring :)
Christy 01 Dec 2002, 14:36
Heh heh - Dear Father Specsmas
All I want for Christmas is a nice and cuddly Girl with Glasses! Metal frames preferred - but tasteful plastic ones will do fine. Rx immaterial - but must be a full-time wearer. Good sense of humour and a willingness to get well off the beaten track a distinct advantage!
PS - If she has to go in a stocking - please make it those nice fishnet stockings!
Kix 01 Dec 2002, 14:28
OK, here's my Christmas Glasses Wish List...
Dear Santa Specs,
I have been a very good girl all year. There is only one wish I have for a spexy Christmas--a cute slightly myopic guy-with-glasses. One with a lowish Rx so he can squint around in the house but just strong enough that he needs them to get around while shopping, to see the tv in a bar and of course for movies and driving. Perhaps some rimless frames, a discreet pair as he may be a bit shy about wearing his specs sometimes.
It would help if he was smart, thoughtful, interesting and fun to be with...but I'm not picky :-)
Signed, Kix
Oscar 01 Dec 2002, 12:43
It was the least I could do. By the way, I'm sure you've probably told us before, but what is your prescription?...
teah 01 Dec 2002, 12:38
thank you :)
Oscar 01 Dec 2002, 09:07
Fair comment, teah. Apologies - and of course you're right.
teah 01 Dec 2002, 09:06
you say you'd like your ideal girl to be undercorrected but i don't know any girl who would want that. please take into account the well-being of the girl herself --- people like to see clearly you know
Oscar 01 Dec 2002, 05:35
OK, this is silly...
Christmas is coming...and we haven't had any posts to this topic for ages. So...what would be our perfect gwg from Father Christmas??
Obviously glasses...but what sort of frames? what kind of prescription? does this fantasy-gwg wear them all the time, or sometimes use contacts (makes the glasses days even nicer so long as they come along reasonably often). Bifocals might be nice, but they are very unusual on 20-30 year olds in the UK (and that's the age range I have in mind for the dream gwg).
And what else?
I love very slightly crossed eyes behind strong-ish minus lenses (say minus 10)...don't mind if they are high-index or regular - the script is obvious either way and though a lot of thickness is nice, so is knowing just how strong a gwg's glasses need to be by looking at minification etc. Ideally she would regularly use two different pairs - that's always fun - and maybe one would have thinned lenses and the other would be good chunky old standard plastic.
And maybe just slightly under-corrected so that distance vision is a slight problem even with very strong specs. That's always a lovely thing to see...
Other things which would help?...Personally, I do like to see a pretty girl with hearing aids, but the trouble is that most of the pretty deaf girls I know hide them very successfully with long hair - but then long hair (preferably brown) is certainly part of the magic mixture for me. Even so it would be nice to know that they were (significantly) hard of hearing and to get the odd glimpse of plastic behind the ears...
What else? How about a sexy lisp - or a slight stammer? And of course all of this needs to be wrapped up in a nice body (for me, that means she probably thinks she's a few pounds overweight and everyone that ever sees her in a good pair of jeans knows otherwise) - and, crucially, said gwg needs to be equipped with a lot of brains, a lovely sense of humour etc. etc.
OK. That's esentially what would go in my letter to Father Christmas. Anybody else want to do better?
16 Sep 2002, 14:04
S-type 15 Sep 2002, 13:09
Several years ago I was working in this small corner food store. It was raining cats and dogs outside. These two girls about 20 y/o then walked in. One had on fairly strong glasses. Once inside the store the glasses girl said "oh! I hate this and removed her glasses.Her friend turned to her and said, What's the matter ? The glasses girl said "I don't have nothing to wipe these off with. So her friend said "here let me see" then took the glasses out of her hand and came over to the counter and got a paper napkin off the counter and went about cleaning the glasses. (Paper is not good for cleaning glasses.) While clinging the glasses the friend walked a bit about the small store looking at things on the shelves. She then said "Cassey come here, look at this" Cassy without her glasses on kind of squints and walks over to her friend. Cassey said "what"? Her friend goes "Look at this. No! __ this!__ thissss here"! Cassey leans foward while squinting and says "I can't see anything". The friend then says "oh, here". and gives Cassey back her glasses. But Cassey didn't put her glasses back on right then. She turned for the door and I watched as she went back outside in the rain and put her glasses on. The poor kid. I guess she was so embarrassed. Now, this must have been Cassey's best friend but that girl was so oblivious or insensitive to her friend's vision without glasses on.
ehpc 15 Sep 2002, 12:16
I think it could be said that one recognises a woman's 'bedroom eyes' when one sees them.................I could go into details, but I think the best general adjective to describe 'bedroom eyes' would be 'invitational' :) Peter
dmbchick121 14 Sep 2002, 20:42
i know this may sound stupid but has anyone ever heard of the term 'bedroom eyes' what exactly are they??
smudged 18 Aug 2002, 15:23
There's just something about a girl wearing smudged or rain-spotted glasses. Am I alone in this?
minic 04 Aug 2002, 19:48
My vote goes for plastic and very dark and thick frames. Seems like lately, there is a lot of rimless glasses popular, the other day on T.V. this girl selling computers, I could hardly see she was even wearing glasses, because no frames and lenses covered with some anti- coating. I like to see and enjoy....
Greg 03 Aug 2002, 16:34
PEnnNP02 -- it doesn't make a bit of difference to me. I go for prescriptions, and the stronger lenses seem to be in plastic frames usually, not metal. But again, to me, the frames make no difference.
Greg.
PennNP02 03 Aug 2002, 15:40
I'm curious as to whether you gentleman who enjoy GWG-watching prefer plastic or metal frames? Or does it depend on the person's prescription?
johnnyb555 03 Aug 2002, 13:53
Larissa, I'd love the idea of being able to buy glasses for my wife if she had a strong prescription. Heck, I'd probably even order them stronger. In the meantime, I'm waiting to receive my -23's with a nice gold frame (my wife said she didn't like my black plastic frames). She better like the new ones, as they are costing me almost $300 with the lenses. J.
johnnyb555 03 Aug 2002, 13:52
Larissa, I'd love the idea of being able to buy glasses for my wife if she had a strong prescription. Heck, I'd probably even order them stronger. In the meantime, I'm waiting to receive my -23's with a nice gold frame (my wife said she didn't like my black plastic frames). She better like the new ones, as they are costing me almost $300 with the lenses. J.
Lazysiow 29 Jul 2002, 08:44
How about diamond studded glasses then? :D that's a good point that it could be misinterpreted by normal people, but you could point out that there are cheaper ways of making fun of their weakness. I'm spending a few hundred dollars and my time on picking out what I think would be the perfect frame for you just to be mean? not likely :)
minic 28 Jul 2002, 20:09
Lazysiow this is a great idea, which I thought about before, however this would be mainly gift for me and I would have to make my wife to accept it. Hard at least in my case to present it as gift for her.
Alan 28 Jul 2002, 19:24
Lazysiow,
That is a pretty interesting idea. I'd love for my girlfriend to get new glasses -- she hardly wears hers, partly because she doesn't think they look good. I'm not really sure how she would react if I told her I wanted to buy her new glasses though. Interesting question.
Larissa 28 Jul 2002, 19:20
Hear Hear (or is that Here Here?!?) I agree! But I guess that wouldn't be as flattering as a diamond ring though. Can't say why...Maybe I'd ( or other women too) would feel that they are saying that I'm (or we're) blind with our current ones and we need new ones. Not flattering. But I guess that if I had a guy for a while (or even married), if we went shopping for glasses he decided to pay for it, I'd go along with that.
Lazysiow 27 Jul 2002, 23:30
lol I had an idea, I know a lot of us would just love it if we were taken out on a date to buy glasses lol but how about instead of the expensive jewellery you were given expensive glasses. Smashing idea eh? I know Larissa would probably like it since it would cost a fortune to replace hers
RL 15 Jul 2002, 19:54
Alan,
The 10mm is on the 16 side, the -12 is about 8mm. No anti-reflective coating. Without the bevel they would be way too thick, probably 15 and 12mm so the bevel looks quite good. Yes, I have had myodiscs before and I am trying to get some in this prescription so I can have CR-39 plastic which still gives the very best vision, although these are very good. This lab said they don't do myodiscs so they did the pair I requested as myos in biconcave CR-39 and the -16 side is 18mm thick even with a pretty severe bevel. Those really need to be myodiscs! The quest continues. I have always liked the myodiscs because they fit really close to my eyes and probably give the best vision. I'll let you know how the search for the myodiscs goes.
Alan 15 Jul 2002, 19:33
RL,
Do they have an anti-reflective coating? And is the 10mm the -16 or the -12 side? (I'd think there'd be a fair amount of difference between the two eyes, given the difference in Rx.)
Do you think the beveling makes them look better or worse?
Did you have myo's before? Which do you prefer at this point? It sounds like these came out pretty good.
Oh, one other question: what do you think of the eye size? 50 mm sounded pretty big to me for this prescription -- do they seem to fit your face well?
Thanks for the update. Take care,
Alan
RL 15 Jul 2002, 19:10
Emma,
I am in the USA.
The edges are polished and look pretty good.
Emma 15 Jul 2002, 17:41
Oh - I meant to ask if you had the edges polished, and if so what you think of that. I'm still not sure about that myself.
Emma 15 Jul 2002, 17:40
RL,
Thanks for the information about polycarbonate lenses. They sound excellent from your description - and obviously a very good idea, since the cosmetic issues with standard plastic make those impossible except as a totally last resort, as you say. I don't know where you live? I'm in Britain and here they seem make myodiscs without any problem. Good luck with your search.
RL 15 Jul 2002, 17:30
Emma,
The polycarbonate glasses came in and are amazingly free of distortion. They are about 10mm thick at the edges even though they are very sharply beveled. But they don't look too bad and give good vision. The Myodiscs are another matter, this lab doesn't do myos so they did the plastic (CR 39) lenses in a biconcave and even at that they turned out to be close to 20mm thick in spite of very severe beveling. I am going to look for some lab that can make a proper myodisc. Hard to find.
specs4ever 15 Jul 2002, 02:52
I totally agree with you about the looks of a pair of very high index glasses in a strong prescription. The do indeed look to me like fine jewelry.
And, unless your prescription increases dramatically Sarah, your prescription will look lovely in a high index plastic. It is only after you reach the high teens that glass hi index really becomes necessary - but then you have increased weight, and a much higher cost.
Lazysiow 14 Jul 2002, 00:33
Yes high index go for it! :) They hold a special fascination for me because they seem like crystals and they look extremely strong and polished at the same time so they don't detract from your apperance (i.e. ew coke bottles) but make you even more mysterious and alluring :) Theres also an aura of mystery to guessing how strong your prescription is since they will look weak front on. Hmm what can she see...
Sarah 11 Jul 2002, 19:02
Specs4ever,
You're absolutely right -- I'd definitely be self-conscious wearing my current glasses out-and-about. Like a tacky shirt, a tacky pair of glasses is...well, tacky. Maybe even more attention-getting. I'm going to see about some high-index glasses, though. I think I wear my contacts more than is healthy, partly because I don't have a decent alternative.
Eddy 11 Jul 2002, 15:27
Hearty, I may have said this before but you are one very kinky lady. Woman after my own heart really.
Rufina 11 Jul 2002, 12:05
Me too Hearty - I just started fulltime wearing and I'm nineteen years old too. Do you know how strong your niece's prescription is? I'm now wearing fulltime and my first prescription three years was ago - is this the usual progression.
And are you wearing fulltime yourself too Hearty?
specs4ever 11 Jul 2002, 04:44
Well Sarah, I don't really know if the positive attitude about glasses has finally spread from this site to the rest of the world. I have noticed a definate increase in glasses wearers, both male and female, ranging in age from very young all the way up through the 30's. The folks with stronger prescriptions, such as yours, are still hiding behind contact lenses for the most part, and it is a rare day that I get a sighting of a nice lady with a prescription such as yours. That makes my day. I don't know if I would reccommend you going out amongst your frinds wearing your "super thick" glasses, as I think you would soon start to feel insecure, and that people wer staring at you because of your glasses. However, I really would suggest that you fork out the money for a nice pair of hi index plastic lenses in your new prescription. I think you would be pleasantly suprised at how thin they would be, and I think you could wear them proudly. Good luck, and let us know your progress.
Hearty 10 Jul 2002, 23:16
My 19 yr old niece just started wearing full-time...she started just for driving but now it's full-time...and she got some drop-dead sexy verrrry skinny black plastics with slighty pointed outer corners. Makes her look like a lanky cat!
My ideal man WAS my last BF, but even he could have been 'better' in my dreams. I like a big, muscular man who's putting on weight. I really need big heavy thighs (white skin is best, no tan!) and perky but plump buttocks is great (I'm being honest) I also LUVVVV a chunky belly, but it has to be kinda soft, not a hard beer belly, ewww....He has to have a shaved head, that along with narrow glasses for astigmatism...hmmm....my fantasy might be that he needs a brace or something like that. My ex did limp slightly from a past club foot....gosh he was almost perfect....white thighs like two swans or two birthday cakes! yumm...his face should have a rather somber tone, which breaks into a refreshing smile when he laughs. A longish, straight nose, and a squint in very sexy! He should be smart enough to be interested in science and things I am, yet not TOO smart...he should have a love of music, new music as well as classic, and he should have a mansion and lots of money, yet be unspoiled. My ideal.
Sarah 08 Jul 2002, 18:48
Specky-spice, you mentioned that your prescription is like mine...that's true, but I'm afraid that mine is going to get a lot stronger. My eyes are definitely getting worse at this point. I'm going to the eye doctor next week, finally~~I don't think I've ever seen things so blurry as I have the past month or two.
I've been thinking about trying to see if I can be comfortable wearing glasses. is the attitude of this site, so positive about glasses, really widespread in the rest of the world? I don't know, I guess it's probably not, but I like the idea of looking good in glasses. I see a lot of people whose glasses look great, it's like I wish I could too. I know it's going to take new glasses, ones much nicer than I have now. Not sure i can afford it. I bet my friends would sure be shocked if I just started wearing my super-strong glasses all the time.
Sarah
Lazysiow 08 Jul 2002, 06:19
I was going through the archives of the old ES that wurm posted somewhere today and found this
"Hi all, I haven't posted for a while due to a holiday in Holland and Paris.
On the subject of the glasses fetish and in particular + and - lenses
some of you may be interested in 'The New Metropolis' Museum in
Amsterdam. While I was visiting this museum there is an area in which
the public can try on pairs of glasses all ranging in prescriptions from
-15 to +15. You are free to experiment with the different combinations
and to experience what it is like to have various levels of eyesight. "
can you imagine what we'd do at a place like this? @_@ !!!! that'd be the only reason why I'd ever go to Amsterdam. They'd probably have to throw me out of there :)
Val 08 Jul 2002, 03:29
Interesting japanese article about the glasses fetish: http://mdn.mainichi.co.jp/waiwai/0203/020313specs.html
Julian 04 Jul 2002, 04:39
Michel: There is no need to post the same message under seven different topics; one would be enough. Most of us read all the topics anyway and it is tedious to read the same thing over and over again.
Love and kisses, Jules.
michel 04 Jul 2002, 00:56
Hello, I m a french man of 31 years old. I have always loved the girls, or women, with glasses, since the puberty, and especially with thick lenses... I m really crazy about high myopes, they arouse me when then take off her glasses, when they grope around to find their specs, when they squint a lot but cannot see nothing at all... For me, these girls are sexiest ! I m a fetichist and I ll be very pleased to correspond with one or several high myopes. I wear some glasses (+3,50) several hours by day, since few months, and I have almost some results : my eyesight begin to fail. If you have a very poor eyesight and if you understand my fetichism, I m waiting for you on my mail : grand.michel@voila.fr
Lot of kisses and I hope to read you very soon !
Michel
Leon 04 Jul 2002, 00:37
As a fan of GWG I can only say that a bit of mascara on a beautiful GWG looks fantastic!
Specky-Spice 03 Jul 2002, 17:34
Emma, I've been told more than once that my eyes look nice and sparkly when I wear mascara when I've got my glasses on...it's worth an experiment to see if that suits you. My prescrption is not as strong as yours (I'm -11 ish), but my eyes are still noticeably smaller when they are behind my glasses lenses, and the make-up really helps make them look less pathetic! But I agree with other people about getting the rest of your face just right if you're going to try going glammed-up in your specs. It can certainly be done, and on the evidence of recent posts, there will be plenty of people who will notice your glasses for all the best reasons.
RL 03 Jul 2002, 16:28
Emma,
Thanks for the info. I will let you know how the polys turn out. Should be in next week.
Emma 03 Jul 2002, 15:54
Thanks for all the great ideas and the support. Fairly obviously with my degree of short-sight I need to wear my contacts to put make-up on at all, so it's going to be weird getting really nicely made up and then taking my lenses *out* and putting my glasses on! RL, let me answer your question. My lenses are absolutely normal myodiscs (i.e. not the blended ones, which my optician told me were horrible to see out of). Since I don't (or at least haven't) worn them much in public, the cosmetic advantages of the blended ones are completely outweighed by the superb visual clarity of the normal ones. Incidentally, mine are made out of some kind of plastic, but I'm not sure what exactly, and the frames are quite a small oval shape (the ones for my completely normal lenses are even smaller, but the edges are still shockingly thick - emergency use only). I was told polycarbonate might produce problems of blurriness on the periphery with a high prescription like yours and mine, but that's possibly nonsense, and I'd be really interested to know what they are like - I gather they can make them really thin. Meanwhile, I'm off to buy some different eyeliner tomorrow morning!
Puffin 03 Jul 2002, 14:45
I do remember seeing a girl around a few years ago with thick plastic specs and lots of makeup. It just seems so lovely to see it all together. Like the woman in question is saying "I wear specs but in spite of that I'm still lovely."
Don't worry about the odd mm of edge thickness. It all adds to the interest and appeal.
RL 03 Jul 2002, 14:26
Emma,
I was wondering if your myodiscs are the blended or non-blended kind and what kind of lens material (hi-index, polycarbonate etc) you have in the non-myodisc glasses. My prescription is -16 actually -17 with the astigmatism and I have always had myodiscs but just ordered some polycarbonate lenses and I am wondering if they will be tremendously thick? Any thoughts?
Lore 03 Jul 2002, 10:55
Emma,
I generally don't wear make-up, but when I do, I do wear eye make-up. I usually go with a tan eyeshadow and black mascara. I think it makes my eyes look bigger, and as long as I'm happy with how I look, that's all that matters :)
ehpc 03 Jul 2002, 03:38
Personally I think beautifully made-up eyes behind glasses are just a dream......................the make-up amplifies the 'hey,aren't my glasses sexy' attitude I find very sexy in women.That is my reaction. Peter
Fathom 02 Jul 2002, 22:35
Emma, I personally do wear eye makeup with my glasses (-10 plus astigmatism). I really think it brings out a much better overall effect, and I like experimenting to see what type of makeup works better with different types (and colours) of frames. If you do the eye makeup right, you'll lessen the minification effect. If you do it wrong, you'll make them look even smaller! And I take ENORMOUS care in choosing my frames, plus my lenses are not at all thick. At 1.9 index glass, the edges barely peek out from the small metal frames.
I'm not sure what type of glasses you have or how much they minify your eyes, so I can't say specifically if eye makeup would be best for you. Alan has a good point, though. Concentrate on the rest of your face, especially your your lips. I'd choose bolder coloured lipsticks than you'd normally wear without your glasses, and try to wear one that'll complement the colour of your frames. If you tend to wear blush, I'd try to play up the cheekbones more then usual. And take care how you line your brows so that the shape complements rather than fights with the top rim of your glasses. (A good idea to keep in mind when choosing frames....)
There's my two cents...hope that helps!
Alan 02 Jul 2002, 21:52
Emma -- Portia brings up a good point; you may as well 'advertise' the glasses-wearing side of yourself, since any partner will need to be able to accept it (and hopefully will embrace it).
Big eyes might be the thing, but I think a pair of thick glasses are a lot more memorable than big eyes. And *how* you wear a pair of strong glasses will say a lot about you -- people will notice whether you seem confident, whether you seem to have a sense of style, etc.
I wonder if there are optical shops that specialize in strong prescriptions. Lenses can really change the way a pair of glasses looks, and I've sure seen a lot of frames that were really nice on their own but weren't well suited to a stronger prescription. If a place wanted to cater to strong prescriptions, they would go beyond pushing super-high-index lenses and A/R coating. They'd have some polaroid cameras on hand, they'd be able to advise people on the effect the lenses will have on how a frame looks -- maybe they'd even have some examples (frames with real lenses) on hand. They would take care to make sure thick edges were matched up aesthetically to a frame. And so on. I guess this would only work in a really large market (New York, etc), where there would be plenty of people actually willing to wear glasses with strong lenses.
Portia 02 Jul 2002, 21:26
Emma, get used to the fact that there are glasseslovers here and that there just might be glasseslovers out there for you too.
Take pride in wearing them and get used to the fact that once you are married, your husband will have to be a glasseslover or else your life will be miserable.
Think about the nights when your baby is up until all hours...not appearing in glasses to your love will be very far from your mind, as it should be.
If a man you are dating doesn't like the glasses, find another. They are out there!
Alan 02 Jul 2002, 19:59
Emma,
I know you were asking the girls, but I'll chime in anyway -- I'm not a big fan of eye makeup anyway (or any makeup, really), but I'd say if you're going to put effort into makeup, worry less about the eyes and more about the rest of the face. Glasses, though we all like them, do hide the eyes pretty well.
Alan
Emma 02 Jul 2002, 16:48
Hi again. I'm the Emma who posted a couple of weeks ago, partly about why I wear contacts most of the time. It's mainly because with my glasses (which are either myodiscs or very, very thick, around -18.00 - contacts are -16.00) it's hard to imagine how they could be thought of as "sexy" by most people. Well here we are with lots of posts which seem to say that they are (or at least can be -- but in my case we're talking seriously strong lenses...). I always thought big eyes were the thing, and though mine are quite big you'd never know it from looking at me in my glasses, which make my eyes really tiny. There's one other advantage to contact lenses when I'm out and about: I get to see slightly more as everything is actually a bit bigger, and the peripheral vision is far, far better (though when I'm working at the computer I prefer glasses as I can focus better...and because I sometimes like a smoke - and that can make lenses uncomfortable). And now everyone here's saying "wear your glasses with pride". Well I think I just might try it, at least once... But before I do, here's one for the girls: with a prescription like mine is there even any point in thinking about eye makeup when I'm in glasses as opposed to contacts? I haven't thought about doing that for a few years, as it's usually contacts when I'm out socialising as opposed to 9 a.m. lectures...the contacts usually go in a bit after those, but then it's hard to feel self-conscious at that time of day - my usual routine being: wake up, specs on, shower, jeans and top on, make coffee, try to get there in time and - one I just have to live with - try to sit near the front.
ehpc 02 Jul 2002, 04:51
Clare.....................if you want to see the blonde/plasticframed glasses look that drives me personally absolutely wild, look up the link on Alan's post 1.7.2002 under Actresses. It is the combination of that cool icy blonde look, and the serious glasses that does it................it would be nothing with wire frames!!!!!!!!!!!! !!Actually wireframed glasses do absolutely nothing for me at all,personally.
Peter
ehpc 02 Jul 2002, 04:50
I typed 'Clare' in the wrong place(i.e.the sender's name:) ) in my last post...........apologies to Clare and apologies for being misleading!The post previous to this one is from me,Peter
Clare 02 Jul 2002, 04:48
Clare.....................if you want to see the blonde/plasticframed glasses look that drives me personally absolutely wild, look up the link on Alan's post 1.7.2002 under Actresses. It is the combination of that cool icy blonde look, and the serious glasses that does it................it would be nothing with wire frames!!!!!!!!!!!! !!Actually wireframed glasses do absolutely nothing for me at all,personally.
Peter
Pete 02 Jul 2002, 04:07
Clare,
when my wife(who is blond) started wearing glasses she opted for light metal frames, then she tried black plastics and looked a knockout with them, she has since added a pair of brown rectangular plastics to her wardrobe and they also look great. She said if I am going to wear glasses, then I want them to make a statement and be a feature.
Socks 02 Jul 2002, 00:56
My ideal women is caucasian, about 5'5" with a fit/athletic figure, not overly muscular or fat, but not too skinny. Supermodel slim is a total turn off! The perfect body should be strong and properly curvy without being fat. Hair color is not important, but I generally prefer a medium length, not too short nor anything past the shoulder blades. Her glasses would be slightly larger than what seems to be currently popular, 1 pair of metal and 1 of plastic, both dark colored frames not too square, rounded edges are better. About -8 to -10 in CR39 lenses without polished edges worn at the end of her nose. She would be athletic, smart and funny, but not moreso than me in any of those areas. Just as with her glasses, she would happily wear white kneesocks with all her outfits, whether casual, dressy, or athletic.
I feel EXTREMELY lucky as my girlfriend is SO close to what I just described. She could lose maybe 10 pounds, her glasses are only -1 and she could be a little more confident in her althletic abilities, but otherwise she's it!
Oscar 29 Jun 2002, 18:49
A few more thoughts on this topic. When I was at university (too many years ago...) I knew a girl called Kim with thick glasses but they weren't a lot of use to her: not only was she very myopic, but because of some serious eye condition she did not have much useful vision even with correction and I think she was officially classified as partially sighted. She didn't "look" blind at all (in fact she had the most beautiful deep blue eyes), but she had only peripheral vision and could only read huge print, even then with difficulty. I always thought she was very sexy to look anyway, and watching her struggling to see things was something I've never forgotten. I've often wondered what happened to her and I can still picture her now. She had a gorgeous body too (same general shape as yours, Specky-Spice! - despite what women's magazines might say, a girl with a pear-shaped figure in strong glasses is just about the best there is!)
Myhopeinhere 29 Jun 2002, 18:07
I know,terible are,nt I ,if you fancy a chat anytime let me know!!!
Specky-Spice 29 Jun 2002, 17:37
Why Mr Myopeinhere, what nice things things you say...
Myhopeinhere 29 Jun 2002, 17:29
Speckyspice,if you're ever in the South West giz a shout.love to see you in your lenses and pear shape !!!!!!
Specky-Spice 29 Jun 2002, 17:18
Sarah - your prescription is very like mine! For me contact lenses were a fantastic thing when I was in my teens, and for some purposes they still are. Like I said, most of the time when I was at school I didn't mind wearing my glasses (and a couple of guys I was close to said they really liked me in them which certainly helped) but I was doing quite a lot of things on stage (ballet, singing, acting) and being able to see more than a few inches in front of me was important, but glasses were just not feasible. So after a few years of being almost blind on stage, the contacts were something which did wonders for my self-esteem when I was performing. By the way, I wasn't amazingly good or anything, and I got a bit too big to be a dancer, but quite a few years of ballet classes are one of my favourite memories from childhood and adolescence. As for now, I don't mind glasses at all (especially not the new ones), but being involved in performances are times when I thank God for contact lenses! The rest of this discussion at the moment has a lot to make girls with glasses feel good about themselves in the latest posts: I've got rubbish eyesight and a slightly pearshaped figure, but now I've just been reading all these posts from guys saying your fantasy girl has strong glasses and a curvy bottom. That's cool!
Sarah 29 Jun 2002, 16:03
Specky-spice,
My glasses prescription right now (I found it) is R -11.5 -.75 axis 85, L -11 -.5 axis 110. My glasses are regular plastic lenses, in oval metal frames that aren't all that small. I think the frames are fairly nice on their own, but they're just overpowered by the lenses. i got regular plastic because they're a lot cheaper and I rarely wear my glasses. The way they look really makes me want to avoid wearing them if possible.
I was wondering why you had self-esteem problems (in your teens) because of bad vision and ballet, while you were also wearing contacts. How did this all play out?
Sarah
Lore 29 Jun 2002, 15:50
Clare,
I have a friend who is blonde and wears a pair of rectangular tortoise-shell plastic glasses (in a pretty high plus prescription), and they look great on her. The frames go great with her hair and coloring.
Alan 29 Jun 2002, 15:19
Clare,
The most beautiful "sighting" I ever saw was a blond girl with black plastic frames. The frames were a brilliant contrast to her fair skin and hair.
I really don't think blond hair means that frames should be "lighter" (thinner or smaller or a lighter color). And a lot of colors that don't do much for dark-haired people do work well on blonds...most non-neutral colors (blue, red, etc) for example.
Plastic frames look really good on women regardless of skin tone or hair color, as long as the size, shape and color match the wearer. But plastic frames are the boldest look, generally. Metal frames seem to say "try not to notice my glasses, please", whereas plastic frames say, "that's right, I'm wearing glasses."
Alan
Julian 29 Jun 2002, 11:30
Yes...for what it's worth the same combination on a guy is very appealing. To me at least :;)
Love and kisses, Jules.
ehpc 29 Jun 2002, 08:23
Clare.............Specifically on clours of plastic frames for blondes..................black,tortoiseshell, vivid red, very dark blue..........all good. I believe in the 1980s (here I am being generational again:) ) such glasses,with the big frames popular then, were called 'statement glasses' in fashion jargon. Peter
ehpc 29 Jun 2002, 08:20
Hi Clare................these matters are completely personal, of course.................for me the combination of rather 'heavy' black plastic frames and blonde hair is just one of those winning combinations....strawberries and cream,red chillies and coconut powder.....and so on........when put together the combination is electrifying!For me, I like natural blonde hair and preferably black (or dark coloured) plastic framed glasses, because that seems to be the 'total package'. As I said, I like successful extroverted women, and the combination of blonde hair and plastic-framed 'serious' glasses, seems to promise everything.........brains and sex appeal! At least that is the way I look at it. The combination of blonde hair and black glasses seems to promise everything one wants:) Go for it! Peter
Leon 29 Jun 2002, 02:29
Clare: http://home.wanadoo.nl/leon.geuyen/1december/ge1.jpg
Clare 29 Jun 2002, 00:35
Peter, as a blonde (natural of course!) I've always stayed away from plastic lenses, thinking they would be too 'heavy' a look, so your comments interested me. What colour plastic frames do you think suit blondes?
SZ6 28 Jun 2002, 20:41
You know, this is a really, really hard question to answer. I was thinking at first that, obviously, she would be a full-time GWG with around -20. But then I thought about how sexy it might be for her to wear contacts most of the time, so that only I knew she needed very strong glasses. And she'd know I found this sexy, and she'd playfully tease me with this power she has :).
Other than that. She might be about 5'8", in shape but curvy, ample breasts and a butt that looked great in tight jeans...she's probably have auburn hair with brown eyes, maybe freckles, a joyful smile, a really sarcastic streak, a twisted sense of humor, interested in science and technology, with an appreciation--but not an overappreciation--for art, into heavy music, but discerningly so...opinionated but open to debate...bright...sensual...I could go on and on.
lentifan 28 Jun 2002, 17:40
The glasses are about minus 50, or sometimes lenticulars,but she has no other vision problem, so she can see within the limitation of the lenses. She is hard of hearing but can hear with two hearing aids. One leg is deformed and very short,so she wears a calliper which ends in a built-up shoe like a club foot. Her height can be anything above about 4'10'' and her build can be anything short of grossly obese. I'm not fussy.
Well, you did say fantasy!
(Bye the way, is anybody else turned on by the extremely rare sight of a significantly built-up boot or shoe?)
GWG's Rule! 28 Jun 2002, 15:07
Great topic! In actuality, my dream-babe need not even wear glasses at all- just looking for a girl who is beautiful, intelligent, great sense of humor, sweet personaility, etc. But, IDEALLY, I seem to have a thing for Irish-looking lasses, redheaded preferably, lots of freckles are a plus, large, natural breasts. And, of course, she would be a full-time glasses wearer (including in bed!), with glasses in the -10 range (or even higher).
Leon 28 Jun 2002, 12:45
I must be so lucky, my wife's got it all :-)
Oscar 28 Jun 2002, 12:31
This is a bit of fun we haven't had for a little while so here goes with my fantasy gwg: strong correction for myopia (preferably at least minus 8, twice as much would be nice), somewhere between 5'3" and 5'7", with the sort of slightly full (but not fat) figure that looks sensational in tight jeans. And then there must be the brains. I very strongly agree with Mike and Peter -- extremely clever as well as extremely shortsighted is more or less ideal, and with a career as well as an independent mind. Dim is definitely non-viable. Literate, musical, art-loving, etc. etc. pretty well essential in this fantasy world. Not bothered about sportiness, though it would be a bonus (but a good dancer would be wonderful). As for hair colour etc., mousy or red-head does it for me more than blondes oddly enough. And a girl with a real sense of humour and irony.
ehpc 28 Jun 2002, 11:39
Any fun woman finding interest in what I have written can learn all about me at www.divine-art.com/seivewright.htm and always contact me at peterseivewright@hotmail.com ..........we all live in hope:))))) Peter
ehpc 28 Jun 2002, 11:37
It is interesting why people should have the preferences they do..............I am a Nordic (Orcadian) Scot and I must say that as well as stylish glasses for short sight the thing that really gets me going with a woman is natural BLONDENESS............it is unbeatable...............Aryan and Nordic looks generally just do it for me............tallish (about 5'9") strong,hugely confident and outgoing,successful,blonde,plastic-framed glasses for short sight,greatly into classical music, and INTELLIGENT women are where it's at for me........not overweight but a strong and healthy build.....quiet mousy types can stay under the floorboards,and DIM IS GRIM in all circumstances.........brainy females are such a turn-on..........and thick women can stay with thick men:)..........I suppose all of his have preferences which we could elaborate on for ever:))))))))as a generality I always go for successful career women and run a mile from the quiet homebodies.That's the way forward for an interesting life,I have found........:))))) Peter
Clare 28 Jun 2002, 10:58
Okay, I'll give this a try too. Slim male, dark hair or fair hair (style is more important than colour) well cut, short and maybe with one of those cute tufty bits at the front. Definately lots of hair (on the head!). Glasses? Yeah, that would be nice, perhaps a bit more than me so about -3ish, squarish frames (am I the only one who actually likes them?), BIG eyes, muscular type who looks good in jeans and white t-shirt, bit of a tan ... aahhh, where is he:( Oh, and positive outlook on life, quite laid back, lover of small animals and children ... okay, so he probably will remain a figment of my imagination!!
Mike 28 Jun 2002, 10:53
Glasses are very sexy indeed...but what else makes the "ideal" female (or male) for those on this site? I've been lurking for a while and thought I'd ask. My own ideal would be something like this: a girl about 5'4" with quite strong glasses for correcting severe short-sightedness, lots and lots of brains, a nice body (not too thin - particularly not on the thighs and hips) and an amusing personality. What do other people think? I thought about other things that might make a girl even sexier as well as her glasses (hearing aids? partially sighted? a minor speech imediment?) but I think the person I've just described would be more or less perfect. As it is, it's all a fantasy as I'm happily married to a lovely wife who is almost nothing like the woman I've just described. Which only goes to show something or other, but I'll leave the psychologists to work out what it might be!
ehpc 28 Jun 2002, 08:23
I mean "test":))))))))))))))Peter
ehpc 28 Jun 2002, 08:22
my last sentence should obviously read ".............and the eye tst for.........." Peter
ehpc 28 Jun 2002, 08:21
Actually (re Specky-Spice's posts)I have just got some excellent service from Boots as well,and also I do not own shares or anything in them,either:) I got a very trendy pair of reading glasses, some prescription sunglasses,and some professional-standard prescription swimming goggles and an the test for just over £200,which I thought was pretty good. Peter
Specky-Spice 28 Jun 2002, 01:20
Hi Sarah. I got small black metal oval frames - I hope they look quite chic! For the sunglasses I've got plastic frames which are a bit squarer (and because of the regular plastic lenses, somewhat thicker). I know what you mean about the self-conscious thing, but I have been wearing glasses since I was six, so it's not that big a deal for me. When I was in my teens I used to go through phases of hating my glasses, but enough people told me they were OK that eventually I (just about) believed them, though that was at exactly the same time they were getting stronger and stronger - that was a bad time from the self-esteem point of view as the thing I loved most was ballet, and by the time I was about fifteen I was helpless without my specs (not much good having a specky ballerina on stage!) so then the contacts came in useful. What is your prescription, by the way?
Sarah 27 Jun 2002, 18:26
Specky-Spice,
What kind of frames did you get? I mean, what shape and material, I guess. I can really relate to what you said a while back about not feeling very glamorous wearing your glasses. It seems like I see a lot of people who look great in glasses, but I definitely wouldn't say that I'm one of them...but I've never tried that hard to find ones I liked that much, since I hardly ever wear them. Once I 'noticed' my glasses were really strong, I pretty much gave up on the idea of glasses. I felt pretty self-conscious -- when I first got them I was anxious because I thought I would get picked on. And now I feel self-conscious just because they're SO thick. The first time my roommate saw me wearing them, she was like "whoa, you're really blind, aren't you?" I said, "no, I mean, I could see a motorhome if it pulled right in front of me, or maybe a jumbo jet."
Specky-spice, how old were you when you started wearing glasses?
Sarah
Specky-Spice 27 Jun 2002, 14:53
I got some free prescription sunglasses out of the deal, though with regular lenses in them rather than high-index ones. But the price for the whole lot was pretty reasonable. I was also impressed with the quality of their service and the care they took over checking the lenses etc., and - before that - the extreme care taken over the eye test itself. N.B. I don't work for Boots despite this reading like a commercial for them!
Myhopeinhere 27 Jun 2002, 13:31
Boots glasses Specky-spice,I heard they were doing 'blindingly' good deals,did you have to pay a lot more for the lenses?
Specky-Spice 27 Jun 2002, 11:48
I'm from England. Don't know if Boots operate in the USA - I doubt it.
Dr Bob 27 Jun 2002, 11:05
Specky Spice - I'm a coke-bottle fan myself but sounds like your new ones are very sexy. Do Boots operate in the US or are you a Brit too?
Specky-Spice 27 Jun 2002, 07:39
I said I'd write again when I had news about the latest glasses. Well, the new high-index glasses which I mentioned a couple of weeks ago have arrived, and I'm wearing them as I type this. The lenses are sooooo much thinner than my previous glasses and I'm really pleased with the way they look (they've also got some sort of coating on them which makes them less prone to reflections - a problem with my old lenses as they had flat front surfaces). The frames are quite small, so the glasses themselves don't look too bad at all. I've been looking at myself in the mirror for a while from every angle and I think I like what I see. The edges are far less thick, the coke-bottle effect is not so pronounced, and I'll be quite happy to be seen by anyone in these specs. Somebody asked about the prescription. I've got a thing from Boots Opticians with the new glasses which says (without the "axis" numbers): Right eye: -11.00, -1.00 Left eye -10.00, -1.75. I like them, but whether they're something other people will find sexy or not, I can't really say yet. I won't be wearing them full time (too many people know me in contacts) but I'll certainly put on my glasses more often than before.
Curt 25 Jun 2002, 14:00
Socks: Here is a great picture of her wearing glasses:
http://www.rexfeatures.com/cgi-bin/rppshimg0?i=380034E
I don't know that those frames really fit her face, but she is cute enough that it doesn't matter...
Socks 24 Jun 2002, 13:28
Hearty,
I saw that People while in my dentist's waiting room. An interesting note. I don't recall seeing Julie Delpy in anything recently, but a few years ago she appeared on People's 50 most beautiful people list. In her half-page bio it when on at length about how as a kid or teenager she wore "really thick" glasses all the time even though she didn't need them because she had a facination with an author who wore thick glasses. She said she wore thick glasses then when she didn't need them, and doesn't like to wear glasses now that she does need them. Needless to say there were no pictures of her wearing glasses, but a very interesting story.
Hearty 21 Jun 2002, 20:18
Puffin, thanks, someone here called me that and I liked it!
Socks, I am surprised that many mentioned glasses!! That's good news for me, I have the nasty habit of tearing mine off when the camera comes out.
My sis gave me an oldish People Magazine, oh I'll go look at the date....hold on??? ;)
OK, May 6th, 2002, pg.149, there is a 'style watch' titled Eye Openers, and shows 8 personalities wearing the dark, bold-ish frames. I don't know all these people but they are: 1-Julie Delpy, 2-Robert Sean Leonard, 3-Megan Mullally, 4-A.J.McLean (he looks CUTE!) 5-Allison Janney, 6-Philip Seymour Hoffman, 7-Drea de Matteo, 8-Linda Evangelista.
What I totally disagree with....the copy said "...Nor should they ever be paired with an evening gown." Humph!
Socks 17 Jun 2002, 13:33
To whomever asked about whether it drives my girlfriend crazy to wear her glasses at the end of her nose all the time, I think she likes to do it. She has never once complained about them sliding down her nose. Sometimes they're so low she has to tilt her head back a bit to see through them. I LOVE that! If they get too low she just pushes them half way up and then lets them slide right back down. She seems to enjoy it. As I've said, her prescription is only -1, so I think she can manage okay looking over them or around them if it's ever necessary.
I wish more girls would realize how many guys there are that like girls who wear glasses. About a year or so ago there was a little sidebar article in Men's Health magazine where they asked their readers what things a women could wear that turns them on. The resounding number 1 response was glasses by something like 50% of respondents, followed by some rather unexpected answers like baseball caps, running shoes and then the usual lingerie, high heels and stuff. No other item was mentioned by more than about 20% of respondents. More girls would wear their glasses out in the evening if they realized this. In Whistler, my girlfriend was the only girl in the entire place wearing glasses that night. Pretty sad.
Clare 14 Jun 2002, 23:23
I had dinner with some friends last night. The husbands quite cute, seems to wear his 1.75 round rimless glasses all the time, except around the house. I remember his first pair: 1.25s he said had to wear for driving. Soon I noticed that he would be wearing them in the holiday photos that they showed me, I was out shopping and saw him, they came to my house, they held a party - and always he was wearing them.
Last night Id have really liked to talk to him about getting used to them, wearing them more, how people reacted and whether he likes how he looks in them. But alas, the conversation didnt go that way and I couldnt steer it but never mind, therell be other times and Ill just have to plan better.
14 Jun 2002, 23:22
Puffin 14 Jun 2002, 14:33
Alan, I remember some of my favourite GWG sightings from years and years back, they are so memorable, much better than those I see now. But every so often there's a pair that is like, wow!
Specky-Spice 14 Jun 2002, 10:57
Specs4ever - thanks for that: I think you sum it up very nicely. I do wear my glasses with pleasure (and a bit of pride too - they've been part of my 'look' for years and years), and also contacts when they seem the right thing to wear. As you say, whether I'm wearing glasses or contacts is hardly going to make a difference to whether somebody likes me as a person. I don't know what my glasses prescription is, but I'm sure they'll give me it on a card when I get my new specs (I can't find the old one). These posts have got me thinking more positively about how men might see me when I'm in glasses. That's cool for any specky girl.
Pete 14 Jun 2002, 04:32
My wife is on medication that makes her UV intollerent and she has a higher chance of developing cataracts, she was advised to wear UV glasses, if she got an RX in them then we were able to claim them on our health insurance, she had an eye test and was +.25 with a -.25 astig and+.50 with a -.25 asig, once she started wearing them she found she liked the correction came to enjoy the fashion part of the glasses, she is now +.50 with a -.25 astig an=.75 with a -.25 astig and a +.75 add in both eyes and wears progressives. So it was not actually poor eyesight that started her wearing glasses but as a preventative measure, and maybe she just wanted to wear glasses but has never admitted that!! and I won't ask I just enjoy!!
Alan 13 Jun 2002, 20:01
"but come one, there must be other things you like about a girl as well as her specs! "
Of course...but they belong in a different forum. :)
specs4ever 13 Jun 2002, 18:08
Your glasses are likely in the range of -12 Specky Spice, as contacts are worn closer to the eye, and in a minus prescription don't have to be as strong as the glasses. Most girls don't realize that many men find them attractive wearing glasses, but glasses are not all that makes up a good long lasting relationship. For me, glasses might make you more attractive, but if I couldn't stand you as a person, I would be gone in a flash. So, wear the specs proudly when you want to, and wear contacts when you feel the need.
Specky-Spice 13 Jun 2002, 11:55
OK Alan, I'm hearing you. I'd like to be memorable too! My glasses must be about minus 10 (that's what my disposable contacts are) and the new ones should come through next week. I like what you guys have to say, but come one, there must be other things you like about a girl as well as her specs!
Alan 13 Jun 2002, 10:44
Speckie-spice -- For what it's worth, I once saw a really attractive girl wearing a strong pair of glasses (between -10 and -12, I think) at a Dave and Busters. (D&B;'s is a combination of a sports bar and video arcade.) This was a couple years ago. The glasses were nice, and suited her well. I can say with complete certainty that I wouldn't remember her if not for the glasses. Of course, I really like strong glasses; to me they're rare and interesting, and whether they look good or not really tells me what kind of sense of style the wearer has. Maybe you don't want to be *this* memorable, but I figured I'd share this.
Anyway, when you get your new glasses, do tell us what you think of them.
Pete -- I'm curious too; do you know how the medication indicated wearing glasses? Does she need glasses now, or just like them (not that there is anything wrong with the latter)?
Bergerac -- Great story. Congratulations!
Alan
curious 13 Jun 2002, 10:32
3 years ago she was advised to wear glasses or contacts due to medication she was taking,
Sounds very intersted to me can you tell more ?? what kind of medication, purpose and result in glasses RX ?
Thank you
Pete 13 Jun 2002, 08:29
I have been married to a beautiful girl for 16 years who had 20/20 vision, about 3 years ago she was advised to wear glasses or contacts due to medication she was taking, she always hated the idea of wearing glasses, so I presumed she would opt for contacts. We were shopping one day when she said " I suppose I should do something about this eye thing" as we walked past an optical outlet, so in we went and she started trying on frames, she said, " mm some of these don't look so bad" and after asking which I prefered she chose some brown metal frames, I must say I was in shock and highly delighted, couldn't wait for her to get them, a week later she picked them up and she looked fantastic, she recieved many positive comments from her friends. Well now she wears them all the time 100% She has about 7 different frames and she co ordinates them with what she wears. I must be the luckiest guy in the world!!.
Bergerac 13 Jun 2002, 08:09
I don't post much but I have enjoyed reading the posts on eyescene for a number of years. However, I must share my current state of happiness with you as it is very much glasses related.
About last October I met a fantastic girl who as far as I could tell had 20/20 vision. We started seeing each other regularly in January. One day I went to see her at work and discovered that she in fact wore contacts. I discovered this becasue she'd picked up an eye infection and was sporting a nice pair of black rimmed metal oval specs. I was already in love with the girl but discovering that she wore glasses was a huge extra bonus because I've always liked girls in specs. At first I thought she was a fairly low myope because her lenses are really thin with not much cut in. I didn't say a word but when we were out that evening she told me all about it and asked what I thought of her specs. IShe told me that her prescription is Right -4.75, -0.50 (axis 15 I think), Left - 6.25, no cylinder. I was quite shocked and would have to say they are the best made and thinnest pair of hi-index lenses I've ever seen.
Anyway, I'm pleased to say that the eye infection cleared up quickly but she now wears her specs about 50% of the time at work and when we go out and all the time at home (we now live together). She knows that I think she looks at least as beautiful with specs as without and today she had a new haircut which was made for a girl with her sort of glasses. She is a stunner, I'm very lucky and I hope you don't mind me going on about it at such length!
I'm certain that more and more attractive young women with moderate to high prescriptions are choosing to wear specs since hi-index lenses became popular and apart from the convenience I'm sure they realise that an awful lot of men find glasses very attractive indeed.
Don 13 Jun 2002, 07:59
Specky-Spice,
All I can say is what I truly believe.
As a high myope, when I was dating, I dated primarily girls with glasses, and then eventually married one.
Specky-Spice 13 Jun 2002, 07:24
Hi Don. You're the kind of guy to give a girl a confidence boost! I sort of hope that men will find me reasonably attractive whether I'm in glasses or in contacts (I mean there's a bit more to it than just the glasses thing). I'm waiting to get a new pair with high index lenses (I've got quite a strong prescription) and if they look as good as the optician says they will, then I'll maybe give them a try when I'm on the town...I wouldn't do it at the moment just because the lenses do get comments sometimes - and that's not really the conversation I want when I'm dancing till I drop. Don't mind it at other times, which is how/why I found this site. But I'm probably more likely to wear my new specs on a special occasion. Keep saying nice things about specky girls, Don! It's great.
Don 13 Jun 2002, 06:48
Specky-Spice,
Well, I'll take 90% of the time that you're wearing glasses to be OK. I'm certain, however, fashion statement notwithstanding, that there are generous numbers of men who would be just as interested in you WITH glasses as without glasses.
Your perception is probably harder on yourself than you are being perceived by others.
Specky-Spice 13 Jun 2002, 06:20
It's nice of you to say that Don! The trouble is that I don't feel particularly glamorous in my glasses (that's not quite the same as whether I feel/look sexy in specs). I like my glasses, I do actually wear them most of the time, but there are some occasions - and going clubbing is one of them - when they just don't seem like the right thing to wear - it's a fashion thing rather than not wanting to be seen to be a glasses-wearer. It's just as well for people like me that men find girls in glasses attractive - that's how they see me for about 90 per cent of the time.
Don 13 Jun 2002, 05:40
Specky-Spice,
It's too bad girls like you don't wear your glasses while clubbing. Like Socks says, the same girls will be wearing their glasses during the daytime, but for some reason, not at night.
I wish I understood why they won't wear their glasses at night going out. Glasses to me ARE sexy!
Specky-Spice 13 Jun 2002, 01:47
GwGs: as a girl, I have to tell you that it doesn't feel strange to put in contacts for a night out. With disposable contacts so easy to wear (and available for quite strong prescriptions) it's all just part of getting glammed-up. I like my glasses, but I don't wear them if I'm going clubbing, any more than I wear my favourite pair of jeans. Bare-eyed is not an option for me since I'm very short-sighted, but thanks to 1-day Accuvue contacts, that's no problem (they make them up to -12, which is very good news for people with dodgy eyesight like mine; my contacts are -10.00 at the moment). Take care.
GwGs 13 Jun 2002, 00:29
Hi Socks,
Yeah I've noticed that, when women get dressed up they tend to not wear their glasses, something which is annoying for us GwG lovers. Women on TV also do it, if they are going out or getting dressed up they tend to take their glasses off.
Strange?
12 Jun 2002, 21:55
gee socks, it must drive her crazy to wear those specs at the end of her nose all the time - can she see through them at all?
Sandy 12 Jun 2002, 19:15
Socks, I notice the same thing in northern Nevada. During the daytime, I see quite a few gals wearing their glasses, but at night, there aren't as many. I guess quite a few of them switch to contacts or go "bare-eyed". I wear my glasses when I go out at night because I want to be able to see. Take care.
Socks 12 Jun 2002, 00:13
Like I said, I'm glad that I shared my fetishes because I get to appreciate them so much more often than I otherwise would. We were in Whistler (very trendy ski resort / outdoor sports type town north of Vancouver) for 3 days. Walking through Whistler village in the afternoon with my girlfriend and her glasses at the end of her nose, t-shirt, short denim shorts, white knee socks, light blue suede Vans. She drew a lot of attention, mostly because of the socks, because tons of people wearing glasses but the knee socks are a little more rare. Later that night she wears a black mini skirt, black shirt, white knee socks, black platform loafers, and again glasses at the end of her nose. Still draws a ton of attention but what I notice is the same trendy people who wear their glasses all day don't seem to at night. Almost no GWG's after dark. Anybody else notice that it still seems uncool to wear glasses when "going out"? I was very disappointed by everyone but my girlfriend. I was THRILLED with her!
Puffin 09 Jun 2002, 05:14
I like your new name, Hearty
:)
Heaty 09 Jun 2002, 01:56
I also loved that my guy had had a club foot and his ankle was weak....sometimes he walked a bit different, I love him so.........but i wouldnt want to see white knee sox on him....maybe a brace but knee sox?? nope! ;)
Rimshot 06 Jun 2002, 07:46
Right on!
Socks,
Youre a lucky man to be unburdened by disclosure. When I first met my ex she was a confirmed contacts wearer. Imagine my delight when she returned from the bathroom on our first overnight wearing around 8s. She HATED her specs and was quite distraught when she couldnt wear her contacts. I just couldn't share my fetish with her.
Fathom 06 Jun 2002, 05:09
Article about Japanese glasses fetishists:
http://mdn.mainichi.co.jp/waiwai/0203/020313specs.html
Socks 06 Jun 2002, 00:32
I told my girlfriend (of 2 years) the morning after the first night she slept over about my two fetishes, one of which is glasses. She didn't even wear glasses at the time. She told me that she had gotten a prescription about 9 months earlier (before we had met), but never got glasses. She was very excited to get glasses and participate in this fetish with me. She nows wears her -1's full time when she's with me, including making love, and I'm guessing about 75% when I'm not around. We have had a few less than pleasant discussions when she begins to feel that her glasses are more important to me than she is, but I think she's generally very secure about how I feel about her and her glasses as I am very conscious to constantly make sure that she understands how strongly I feel about her. She even wears them down at the end of her nose almost full time now because she knows that I like it. It's very cool when she does this in front of her parents, sister and friends who for so many years never saw her wear glasses at all, then start to, then wear them at the end of her nose. A little off topic, but my other fetish is white knee socks. She's been equally good about that. Imagine how turned on I get when she wears white knee socks all the time in front of those very same people whom she never had worn them in front of before, or at least not since she was about 13.
She is great and I treat her like a Queen. It is indeed a fine line, but I was open from the beginning and I am glad that I was.
Sandy 05 Jun 2002, 22:32
Rimshot and Hearty, thanks for the kind words. This whole situation is a major heartache for me, but I'm a firm believer that tomorrow will be a better day. Take care for now.
Hearty 05 Jun 2002, 17:11
Sandy, 'ouch', that was LOW of him...like having another partner in ones bed! That must have been rough for you to go through. My guy always knew I preferred him to wear his glasses to bed, but I loved him so much that sometimes we'd just forget...but even if I didn't, I always tried to make him know it was HIM I loved, and the glasses came second.
Hearty
Rimshot 05 Jun 2002, 08:06
Sandy,
Sounds like you were violated. Having been through that Im glad you still find glasses sexy! Youre sure to find a good man out there who will touch your face as much as your glasses.
Bye for now.
Sandy 04 Jun 2002, 22:38
Rimshot, he would always want me to wear my specs while we had sex. He would always enjoy playing with my glasses and messing the the lenses up. Also, he enjoyed wearing my spare glasses around the house. Sometimes I wondered how he saw out of the glasses because of the astigmatism. The last straw was when he was having an affair while I was away, he had his girlfriend, wear my spare glasses while they were sleeping around. I didn't catch him in the act, but I had my doubts because of the strange makeup left on the frames. Anyway, after a while, it got very old. Take care.
Hearty 04 Jun 2002, 21:13
Doc Bob, sometimes I want that and then....does not a part of the delicious intensity come from some secretiveness? I am torn on this issue... I told my last (THEE last) boyfriend a large part of my attraction, little by little, but I never did divulge all the many ways in which it turned me on. I didn't want him to know I was secretly peering through his lenses while he worked at a task, or how much I loved that vulnerability....he always wanted to be so strong (and is) I mean I share with some, like my family, that I am attracted to glasses, but I can't reveal the entire sexual experience of it. OO bars though....could be interesting....
Doctor Bob 04 Jun 2002, 13:30
Interesting remark by Portia - are we all locking onto this site in secret? Can we not even come out to our loved ones? We should be hypermyophilic and proud of it! When will we all have a myopic bar local to us - or will we just have to hang around libraries?
Rimshot 04 Jun 2002, 08:55
Sandy'
No doubt you're sexy with or without!
What sort of things made his fetish strange for you?
Sandy 03 Jun 2002, 22:18
Rimshot, I still feel sexy when I wear my glasses. I still think that both guys and gals could look sexy wearing specs. I have a feeling that my ex had a strong fetish about glasses. It was a little too strange for me at times. Take care.
Portia 03 Jun 2002, 21:51
1 ex-fiance (engaged but no marriage)
1 ex-husband
1 current husband
myopes all.
I didn't go looking for myopes, but I am attracted to them. Can't tell them, though.
Doctor Bob 03 Jun 2002, 15:08
Portia - perhaps if you had found a husband into specs you'd have never have moved on
Rimshot 02 Jun 2002, 22:41
Portia,
Exactly how many fiances and husbands do you have?
Portia 02 Jun 2002, 20:40
Not sure about this fetish stuff at all, but all of my fiances and husbands have been serious myopes.
Rimshot 01 Jun 2002, 21:37
Sandy,
Yes, I had my reasons for not disclosing my fetish to her. One major reason, which I think youre pointing out, was that I couldnt rationalize finding pleasure in the object she loathed. After all it was her discomfort not mine. Furthermore, I didnt want her to think for a moment that I wasn't there for her unconditionally. With that said, there were moments I walked a very fine line.
May I make a correction? A fetish is not a fantasy. A fetish is a clear and distinct object of awe whereas a fantasy is a flight of the imagination. Maybe theres a common psychological root but I cant think that hard right now. Besides, this may not be the appropriate thread.
Can wearing glasses make you feel sexy or did your ex ruin that for you?
Bye for now.
Clare 01 Jun 2002, 16:56
London's hottest new extravaganza, the Bollywood epic 'Bombay Dreams' opened in the West End last night. Interesting to see that one of the male leads wears glasses throughout, the male star wears them in some scenes and at one point three intended Indian cuties are also wearing them. I wonder if it might start a trend.
Sandy 01 Jun 2002, 13:18
Rimshot, perhaps you should have told her early on about your fantasies, but you never know what her reaction would have been. To most gals, strong glasses are more of a problem, then a blessing. If she wanted to go bare-eyed, that would be a problem because everything would be blurry. Also, you would have to worry about thick lenses. In the past, I enjoyed wearing large plastic frame glasses, but they went out of style. My current pair is a smaller brown plastic frame pair. At least, I don't have to worry about the edge thickness that much. I know that there are people out there that like to see girls wearing thick glasses, but I like my lenses thinner. Take care for now.
Boscoe 01 Jun 2002, 10:53
I agree. My last two mates wore glasses full time. And the glasses were not the reason I was with them. Glasses definitely did enhance the relationship though
Rimshot 01 Jun 2002, 10:38
Sandy,
I must confess . . . I loved it when my wife wore her strong glasses . . . But thats not why I married her.
It would be flippant of me to say I prefer glasses the way some prefer blondes. A fetish runs deep in the psyche. I've nurtured mine over the years, too. Nothing gives it more life than having a bespectacled partner. Perhaps I should have shared this with her early on.
GWG'sRule! 01 Jun 2002, 01:19
Sandy, oddly enough, if I am dancing with a girl with glasses, I would prefer for her to leave them on! That especially holds true during private dances at "gentleman's clubs" although generally the GWG's there leave them on without comment from me! (What's interesting is at strip clubs the GWG's, not that there are many of them (GWG's, that is), unfortunately), generally seem to get a LOT of attention from the clientele, and not just me!).
Sandy 31 May 2002, 18:59
Rimshot, I just went thru a marriage where my husband was like that. It got old after awhile, not to mention that he was cheating on me while I was having personal problems. Somedays, I wondered if he was in love with my specs instead of me.
Doctor Bob, I usually will leave my specs on because I would like to be able to see when I'm out there dancing. I have had a few guys insist that I take them off after awhile. It wouldn't bother me if someone found my glasses to be erotic. My current man doesn't mind me in my glasses, he thinks that I look cute in them. Take care.
Dr Bob 31 May 2002, 11:20
Sandy - how do dance partners react when you put on your specs? Would it upset you if they found you madly erotic when you put your specs on?
Rimshot 30 May 2002, 22:29
Sandy et al,
How's it when a guy comes on to you diggin your glasses?
Sandy 30 May 2002, 20:55
Lore, you are right. My prescription is -3.75 and -4.00 and I wouldn't go out without any correction. I don't like hassling with contacts, so glasses are my only option. When I go out to the club to go dancing or out to the casino bar drinking, I will leave my specs on so that I can scope out the scenery. What I noticed around the clubs are that most gals leave their glasses on while they are surveying the situation and the glasses come right off when they run into the opposite sex. It's a pity because most look kind of cute wearing their glasses.
Lore 30 May 2002, 16:41
Doctor Bob,
I can't imagine any high myope (and I'm pretty close) going without any correction for any period of time. It is simply too hard to get around. Lots of people wear contacts, but I can't imagine that anyone who was very nearsighted would attempt to go to a nightclub and not wear any correction. I mean, if the whole point of looking cute is to attract a cute guy, you want to know what they look like, right?
My personal opinion is that most people with an Rx above -4.00 rarely take off their glasses when meeting someone, and that barely anyone around -6.00 or over would take them off for anything other than sleeping, showering, and possibly reading. Contacts is a different story, and I know a lot of people who will wear contacts when they go out to a club, but I don't know anyone who is very nearsighted who would go without glasses OR contacts for a night out. Totally impractical.
Alissa 30 May 2002, 14:38
I really never wore them when I went out, but always wore contacts, cause I hate not being able to see.
Go fig.
Alissa
Doctor Bob 30 May 2002, 11:23
Just a thought - would high myope GWG try not to wear their specs at a nightclub when hoping to pull a man?
Alissa 28 May 2002, 14:33
Two boyfriend's ago, I was wearing contacts almost full time and was dating a person who I swear was a gwg lover. It wasn't until our tenth date that he found out I was a glasses wearer and the romance peaked a bit. So, I'd have to say it would depend on the person. Glasses just adds to something already beautiful.
Alissa
http://texasdigital.com/alissa/cuteinglasses/
28 May 2002, 11:17
hola
Hearty 23 May 2002, 20:07
I believe Wurm met someone here, is that right?
As for making good girlfriends, if glasses turn you on, then the passion will be there for you, but as far as being loving or anything else, people are people, glasses or no glasses...my ex BF's specs didn't make his temperment any sweeter, nor did my former husband's....
Hearty
Bobby 21 May 2002, 17:18
my girl friend is GWG, and she IS a good girl friend. However I did not meet her here, it was a different server.
Doctor Bob 21 May 2002, 11:33
GWG are sexy but is there any evidence that contacts have been made via this site that have led to fulfilling relationships? Do GWG make good girlfriends?
Portia 17 May 2002, 14:56
Eddy, Jey, thanks for the info!
Eddy 17 May 2002, 14:35
Bangkok is indeed excellent and a lot cheaper than HK. Also Manila. Also just about anywhere in China. They're usually called Da Ming meaning Great Clarity, a wonderful name for an optical shop. It's not so common any more but they used to get people to try out their prescription by having them walk around the street in front of the shop with their test frames and lenses on; you know, the frames that they slip the lenses in during the test. I used to find the sight of twenty or thirty women wandering around the street looking like something out of "The Fly" strangely........ erotic.
Jay 17 May 2002, 02:34
I've been looking in on eye scene for several weeks since i came back from Thailand and i dont think anything compares to Bangkok. You can just show them a piece of paper with any prescripton and they will do it for you some examples i got were -13 +7, in one frame and they will give you a form with the prescription on if you ask. You can also get contacts just the same way. They will do most things in less than a few days. I have some great goc and i also got some good strong prescription glasses in the uk by just taking my "official " prescription to a uk optician and asking could they make me up some glasses to it.( this can work out cheap also if you shop around)
guest 17 May 2002, 02:19
Hi!
My advice: Invent any Mailadress at yahoo, suscribe with that
??????@yahoo.com and forget about it. But just don`t use your actual Mailadress. Your account will be spammed like hell, but as long as you don`t ad it to Outlook or similar programs, you don`t have a problem.
Cheers!
Eddy 16 May 2002, 23:48
Portia, you're singing my song. To answer your questions seriatim:
a) September October November and possibly December is the only nice time of the year in HK. Temperatures in the 80s day and high 70s night, lower humidity. Right now it sucks bigtime (hot humid and drizzly). First typhoon in June signals hot (90s day, high 80s night) and truly amazingly humid (80% relative) but with a fair amount of sun between the torrential downpours.
b) You can write your own rx on any dirty piece of paper you like and, as long as you are prepared to enter into an exchange of valuable consideration, they'll make them up for you. Money talks in HK. With due deference to our friends in the Other Place, let me repeat the old maxim that a HK queer is someone who thinks that women are more important than money.
c) Similarly with contacts. This is GOC paradise.
d) Cost of an average made-up pair with progressive lenses is aboutUS$ 300 - 400
e) As you would imagine in a very rich city where 70% of people are myopic (average -7!! Really!) there's a full range of whatever you can get anywhere in the world.
f) Of course credit cards, cash, electronic funds transfer, whatever you like as long as it's money-related. Barter is discouraged I supposed but people will always cut a deal.
g) and of course, with all of the above, how could it be anything but the best fun you can have standing up.
Hearty 16 May 2002, 11:46
Oops! That's exactly what I did (or didn't do!) Alain....and yep, I got all the e-mail of the Earth, for sure!! That's good to know, if I ever want to join again.
Portia, I believe Jey Ping travels there, and came back with some classy frames (great prices too) I don't know if he's around anymore, but if you have his e-mail, he could no doubt tell you all about it...too bad all that info was lost...
Alain-ad2412 16 May 2002, 10:35
just a precision, you have also an option to hide your email from the other users. You can also provide a false address.
Alain
Alain-ad2412 16 May 2002, 10:34
Hearty,
When you subscribe to any Yahoo groups you must precise in your profile (option to check) that you don't want to receive any email. You can edit your profile and change this option, sure you didn't take care and you let the default option which is to receive all the email of the earth! !-)
Good luck
Alain
Portia 15 May 2002, 22:51
I think Eddy can help me here, or perhaps someone else familiar with the local landscape.
We may be visiting Hong Kong soon. I suppose the climate approximates that of South China, but is there a time of the year when the weather is pleasant? High humidity and I do not agree...is there any time when HK is comfortable?
Really important is that I have heard that Hong Kong is a Mecca for glasses putchasers. Is this true? Are the prices good? Are the fashions the latest? Does one need a legitimate Rx from a doctor? Are there exams available on the spot? Will they fill ANY written Rx? Are rx's available easily? Do they all take credit cards or is one better off buying in HK dollars?
Net net, is buying glasses in HK fun?
Hearty 15 May 2002, 11:26
I can tell you what it adds to 'the ole spam burden', my God, I registered with Yahoo to join a friend's movie group, and right away I started receiving piles n piles of spam, thee worst kind too!! I got so upset, began reporting a lot, but finally unsubscribed to Yahoo. It's still coming though, not as much but....so I'm on some major lists now! Never ever had that problem with aol or anything else....just a warning...
Hearty
GWG's Rule! 15 May 2002, 08:33
GLASSEX is even a better resource center for GWG fans than Girls with Glasses used to be in its heyday.
myofan 15 May 2002, 08:08
Portia, you don't have to have a Yahoo mail account, but you DO need to join Yahoo groups. It doesn't cost anything -- financially. Don't know how much it adds to the ol' spam burden, though.
Kronus 15 May 2002, 04:46
This thread has the wrong name.
Glasses are not sexy.
It is the person wearing the glasses that is sexy.
The act of wearing glasses is sexy, not the glasses.
Val 14 May 2002, 23:36
Portia, I tried this link and it worked. But you must have a yahoo mail account to acces any yahoo club area.
Portia 14 May 2002, 22:35
Glassex, this link doesn't work. Can you post one that is functional?
GLASSEX 13 May 2002, 20:57
YES, I love the girls with glasses....
Do you know GLASSEX?
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/GLASSEX
See you
Fathom 07 May 2002, 03:19
Check out this UK poll, where "men do fancy lasses in glasses". It was commissioned by Specsavers Opticians, so the inherent bias is there, but they did ask (presumably randomly) a variety of men, from builders to office workers to police officers.
http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_517660.html
They're just now coming to this conclusion? I myself have never thought otherwise! ;)
Bobby 21 Apr 2002, 16:33
Good small album Maurice.
What a pity there are no new pix of girls with strong glasses.
Tina 08 Apr 2002, 20:46
Deine Foto-Album ist nett! Mein Deutsch ist nicht so gut, aber mit Hilfe babelfischen, es ist besser.
Haben Sie Foto Halteseile oder Männer, die können nicht so gut sehen?
Glückliche Grüße
Tina
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Your photo-album is cute! My German isn't very good, but with the help of Babelfish, it's a little better (ha ha).
Do you have pix of guys who can't see too well?
Cheers -
HeartOfGlass 08 Apr 2002, 20:10
OHHHHH Christy!!!! I will echo, WHERE did you find that essay?!! Guess that's a lesson in punching in just exactly what you want in the ole search box! Wayy cool, it kicks butt! (uh oh, that won't start another fish n chips thread, will it??)
Hearty~
Maurice 30 Mar 2002, 00:03
From the time when I saw your picture you are always on my mind and ...on my desktop.
http://de.photos.yahoo.com/bc/dptr_8/lst?.dir=/GwG&.view=t
ehpc 07 Mar 2002, 11:24
Thanks Nikki It will be fun to catch you there in Lens Chat sometime. Probably not in the next few days until my telephone line is fixed.
I hope everything is fine with you.
Peter
Nikki 07 Mar 2002, 11:02
Haha Peter! Message received!!! No need to apologise, the discussion yesterday really wasnt the norm...but many times they can be entertaining....hope to catch you in there another time.
Nikki
GwGs 07 Mar 2002, 09:23
Check this site out, their glasses are incredibly cheap and come with ready made prescriptions!
GwGs
ehpc 07 Mar 2002, 05:58
MESSAGE FOR NIKKI
Hello Nikki I must apologise for my abrupt departure from 'Lens Chat' last night. We have had even more atrocious weather than usual in Western Scotland, and my phone line keeps cutting out.There have been heavy thunderstorms three nights running.So my computer disconnected as the phone line cut off altogether.It was a fascinating discussion which was taking place!
Peter
06 Mar 2002, 13:20
Gweyn 04 Mar 2002, 13:47
Found it.
Check out http://www.npr.org/ramarchives/nc6m0801-6.ram
Gweyn
04 Mar 2002, 13:43
Christy - I remember hearing that exact same essay on a radio program called NPR. It brocasts on a classical radio station which i think is a college station. I know there are a few recording on the web of this program. Maybe there's one of the brocast of the "Women Who Wear Glasses". I want to say that they even interviewed the writer on the show.
Gweyn
Filthy McNasty 03 Mar 2002, 15:19
The Shields piece has been posted a number of times. One of our number even wrote it as his own once (although acknowledging that 'inspiration' or something came from Shields, it was almost a word-for-word lift).
Yes, that's a good, horny bit of glasses prose.
Christy 25 Feb 2002, 23:50
I just went to Google and typed "I love my glasses" (first without the ""s and then with them) and got a hundred or so sites. That was one of the better ones, but it's amazing how many times people have said "I love my glasses" on their websites.
Kix 25 Feb 2002, 22:23
Whew! Christy, where did you find that? What a fantastic piece of outright glasses loving prose!!
Christy 25 Feb 2002, 13:55
http://www.people.cornell.edu/pages/emp7/otherpeople/glasses.html
Portia 23 Feb 2002, 20:23
We haven't got the German tourists visiting New York in such great numbers now, so I am missing the latest trends!
Can anyone recommend websites that might show these interesting German-made glasses?
Bergerac 23 Feb 2002, 06:27
Those German frames are kind of cute though. I'm sure I speak for every (hetero) man here in saying that I'd rather kiss a girl with specs whatever the dangers...
Wurm 22 Feb 2002, 13:55
Entertaining description of the German frames, Christy. They are certainly distinctive and eye-catching! The term "face furniture" would seem to apply.
Christy 22 Feb 2002, 13:38
Yes glasses are very sexy indeed. I've just spent the past month observing the most gorgeous 'señoritas con gafas' and I'm still recovering from walking into lamp posts! There were also lots of German tourists wearing bizarre frames that seemed to be made up of bits of scrap metal welded together at odd angles. Getting into a clinch with one of these girls could result in some nasty lacerations to the face! Most memorable moment was high on a mountain in the middle of nowhere, coming across a very pleasant English GWG who just happened to be going in the same direction as me for the next 20 minutes.
Didi 22 Feb 2002, 08:37
Sorry, yes I wear glsses myself. I`m myopic and I most wear -4,00 glasses, sometimes I wear stronger ones with -6,00.
I love glasses very well.
Val 22 Feb 2002, 05:39
Didi, do you wear glasses yourself ?
You didn't mention.
Didi 22 Feb 2002, 02:27
I am from germany and I like woman who wear reading-glasses bought in a drugstore all time.
My girlfriend wear often such frames with plus 1 dpt.lenses. Her sight with this glasses are not very bad and she can read better as without them and I am very happy.
Last month we bought a plus 3 dpt.readingglasses for her and she tried to wear them for two hours. She looked very sexy but she could see only the next few meters clearly.
I love her to do this for me.
The guy 06 Feb 2002, 10:22
Glasses are definitely sexy. I wouldn't say I look sexy myself, but my glasses does do something about me I like.
Portia 04 Feb 2002, 22:05
Guta, your interests are very specialized. You are going to have to do a search at www.google.com for your particular area.
Searching by the names of the manufacturers of the items you wish to see illustrated could prove productive.
Let us all know if you find anything interesting!
Portia 04 Feb 2002, 22:00
Puffin, given your interests, I will have to take a picture of my husband and post it here. Mr. High Myope needs new glasses and ignores it every day by pulling them forward in an attempt to see nearby items. He has an add built into his current glasses, but it is no longer enough to do the job. In years past, he could get by buying glasses every 20 years or so, but now, when presbyopia rears its ugly head, new Rx happen more often.
How does one convince a partner that it is time for an new Rx?
guta 02 Feb 2002, 09:24
Does anybody like strong plus glasses cover with Fresnel prism. This is my favourute and i can not find picture of it anywhwhere.
They are used for strabismus and double vision problems.
Does anybody share this passion with me
Puffin 21 Jan 2002, 06:32
What I am most interested in at the moment are fairly high prescription minus lenses with bifocals, especially those with plano front (my fave)...
anyone have any photos of suchlike?
Russell 19 Jan 2002, 14:37
I just saw the new Lenscrafters commercial. I loved it!! It shows multiple people in different frames. The voiceover talks about how fashionable glases are. Then it ends with the question: Are you lucky enough to need glasses? I know they are just trying to sell a product, but this commercial speaks directly to us!!
spexalot 07 Jan 2002, 10:45
I think the styles of today's glasses are modern and sexy. I never much cared for the 1980's "upside down" look which with glass or CR-39 lenses weighed a ton. No wonder the switch to contacts. My favorite glasses on a GWG are small black plastic ovals or semi ovals. On some TV commericals you see women wearing them. To spot high index lenses just notice the number of power rings and facial indention with minus lenses. I also like seeing GWGs in strong glasses with an AR coating. At times her glasses look like they have no lenses in them but you just know that without them on she is a like a bat.
specs4ever 07 Jan 2002, 07:50
I have to agree Dockman that the glasses of the 90's dont look as great to me as the new hi index ones do. But, I have spotted an increasing number of people that are willing to wear glasses, now that they feel that their lenses are not so thick. And, to me that is a nice trade off. I get a real kick out of scoping a fine looking GWG out, and noticing that her prescription is a -10 at the very least. I know she wouldn't have been caught dead in public wearing a -10 in CR39 in a 54 eye sized frame from the late 80's, so I consider that a nice spotting.
Dockman 07 Jan 2002, 07:22
The oversize plastic frames from a few years ago were definitely sexy. I can remember another wearer of plastic frames who worked in the lab at the hospital I worked at. She used a microscope and as a result, she removed her glasses every time she looked through the microscope. She was myopic, although I don't know how much.The thin lenses of today can't equal the way those thick lenses looked back then. Especially when those lenses were encased in those nice thick plastic frames.
GwGLover 07 Jan 2002, 01:56
I had the eye test, it's not what i expected though. In short it's only -0.5 in my right eye. Do you think I should get it corrected or not? The optician thinks there is no need!
HalimM 05 Jan 2002, 15:50
<b>Hi all,<\b>
this is my first post to ES BBS, I've found it few days and I was surprised how many people is interested in wide range of optic and glasses topics. Let me join this gorgous communitty : )
I'am 25 years old male phD student at University and all my world turns about glasses.
<b>At first<\b>, I wear specs myself down to shortsightness.I was told to have vision problems when I was 10 and I couldn't read clearly the blackboard at school in all cases.Parents took me to eye doc and I was prescribed first specs -1.0D.I was so excited and frightned and I resist wearing glasses becouse of other kids reactions.I used to wear it only for lessons. When I grew up I understood matter of myopia and I stopped take care about other oppinions. Step by step I was impressed by those pices of glass that made my world clear and sharp.When I was 15 I became full time wearer with -2,5D, I realized to myself that I like watching other people with glasses.It was great time because I noticed that my younger sister (she was 10) also had vision problems.Once when I came back from school I saw her sitting very close to TV set and watching some movie.I knew what was going on and I gave her my old specs.She could see better. As you can imagine I told about it to my mom and, three days gone and my little sister appear to me wearing beautifull -2.0 glasses.she adjusted it quickly and wore all yhe time from the beginning.We used to talk about our specs and try it each other time to time, but I've never reveald my fascination about vision.Years went and our eyes have worsened sistematicall, we went to eye doc together usually and I put down all the moments. So our story was :
Age(Me,Lena) Me Lena
10,5 -1,00L;-1.00R ------
13,8 -1,75L;-1,50R ------
15,10 -2,50L;-2,25R -2,00L;-2,00R
16,11 -3,50L;-3,25R -2,25L;-2,00R
17,12 -3,75L;-3,25R -3,75L;-3,50R
18,13 -3,75L;-3,25R -4,50L;-4,25R
19,14 -3,75L;-3,50R -5,25L;-5,00R
20,15 -4,00L;-3,50R -6,00L;-5,50R
My myopia stoped then, and this is my current one
16 -6,50L;-6,25R
17 -7,00L;-6,75R
And when I was 22 I left my parents home so I stoped to collect detailed data, but Lena's myopia stopped about her 20 with about -8 lenses.
It was really amazing to grew up and watch how her prescription change.
<b>Second:<\b>I am totally crazy about girls with glasses, to be honest I am hundred percent glasses fetishist : )
There is nothing more sexy and attractive then preety, sensual girl with minus lenses.I love watching women touch glasses, put it better on nose if sllip down, clean lenses.Women can do it on very sensual and sexy way.well choosen specs make woman so hot, and eyes covered begind minus lenses are so mysterious.DELICIOUS :)
My favorites are: long black hair, brown eyes, metal frames choosen according to face and normal minus lenses from -3 to -10. I could jump into fire for that girl :)
So, it is a bit long as first post and I don't wont to be boring.
Apologize for all mistakes, but englids id not my first language( but I'am still working to make it more fluent and I hope to express all what I fell soon)
<b>BEST WISHES<\b>
Clare 05 Jan 2002, 13:38
Puffin
But don't you think rimless catch the light in a freakily tantilising way? A friend of mine wears them and I could eat him up in them!!
They're not a strong prescription and he doesn't depend on them, but he wears them alot and they look GORGEOUS ... :)
Puffin 05 Jan 2002, 12:31
Isn't it a shame these days that the "good old days" of massively oversize plastic frames are gone?
These modern rimless/thin lenses are a bit boring really. Not enough edge thickness, no coke bottles... booo!!!
GwGLover 04 Jan 2002, 22:38
I'm very sorry for the caps!!!! I didn't realize!!!
Sorry!!
GwGLover 04 Jan 2002, 22:37
A SEXY STORY!!
BEING A GLASSES FETISHIST AND GOING MAD ABOUT GIRLS IN GLASSES, I HAVE KEPT IT SECRET FROM MY WIFE WHO IS CURSED WITH A PERFECT VISION OF 20/20. BUT SH ENDED UP DISCOVERING ON THE COMPUTER THAT I HAVE BEEN BROWSING E.S. AND GIRLS WITH GLASSES, SHE HAD, AT FIRST A DAZZLED REACTION, BUT THEN SHE TOOK IT VERY EASY AND ACCEPTED THE SITUATION REPROACHING ME WITH NOT HAVING TOLD HER ABOUT IT BEFORE!
THEN SHE STARTED WEARING PROPS ESPECIALLY IN BED, SHE ENDED UP BUYING DIFFERENT PAIRS WITH DIFFERENT DESIGNS.
MOST SURPRINSINGLY, SHE ASKED A FEW DAYS BACK TO TRY ONE OF THOSE AND SHE CONFESSED THAT SHE FINDS IT VERY SEXY THAT I SHOULD WEAR GLASSES!! HAVING HAD EYE STRAINS THIS LATEST PERIOD, I TOLD HER ABOUT IT AND SHE'S VERY KEEN AND EXCITED TO HAVE ME TAKE AN EYE TEST. I THINK I'LL GET IT THIS AFTERNOON IN FACT AND LET'S SEE. I AM DEFINITELY EXCITED ABOUT IT HOPING I'LL HAVE TO WEAR GLASSES. I'LL KEEP WISHING THOUGH THAT MY WIFE TOO WILL HAVE SOON TO WEAR REAL GLASSES!!
www.GwGs.co.uk 30 Dec 2001, 01:33
Boy have I got some gwg tales, but htey are too long to go into, instead I'll just give a taster of what started it all off;
1. A girl i fancied at college for ages started wearing then all the time - this was the first time I started looking out for more girls with glasses.
2. A teacher at my next college started wearing strong minus drop temples, I'd never even thought of this woman in a sexual way, but once i saw her put on those drop temples, i couldn't stop thinking about her. These style of glasses became my favourites, they are incredibly hard to get as no-one makes then anymore which is a shame.
Also, one day a female friend of mine was having trouble reading the blackboard and the teacher (Stephanie) said to her that she should get her eyes tested, and even let the girl try on her glasses!!
The next day the girl came in to college wearing some nice gold rimmed large round frames!!
4 years on, and I still think of the Spec-tacular Stephanie, unfortunately she got preganant soon after so all I could do was dream of being with her.
If only I could have been so lucky to have closer contact with either of any of these women.
Visit my website for hundreds of Spec-tacular Girls With Glasses, who probably have a few glasses tales behind them @ http://www.GwGs.co.uk/
Dockman 28 Dec 2001, 09:49
I just remembered another sexy remembrance from a hospital I once was employed at. There was a girl who was a ward clerk who had the most enormous plastic framed glasses on that I ever saw. They were tremendously over sized for her petite face. They looked good on her and she was constantly pushing them up her nose. This was back in 1989 and I haven't seen anyone with glasses like that since.They were definitely eye-candy and it was always a pleasure to go up to that floor to do my duties. That girl and the other hot glasses wearing girls really made my housekeeping job bearable.
boringeyes 27 Dec 2001, 13:05
For those of you who feel like there is something "wrong" with you for liking girls with glasses, as somebody who is NOT into it, I have to say I don't see the problem with it. Most glasses these days are very flattering. I don't see how any thinking person could find it any more perverse than preferring a certain body type or hair color, etc.
ninic 26 Dec 2001, 01:55
I like your site Spec-tacular, very nice. Pick of the month Nadia is great, red heads are my favorite.
Eddy 25 Dec 2001, 21:34
Oh, be still my beating Hearty!!
Wurm 24 Dec 2001, 10:15
Hearty didn't quite get that URL right, try:
http://hometown.aol.com/moonmuse77/mikeward.html
Cute picture, Hearty! Maybe all us 'grown-ups' should all drag out some pictures of ourselves in our retro frames. I wish I had some of me in my big rectangular 80s specs with the gradient tint.
Don 24 Dec 2001, 05:06
I guess I'll share my story as well. Like most of you, I am attracted to women with glasses, especially minus powers.
Having worn a decently high power for many years (combined R -8.50, L -9.50), I always dated girls with glasses. As a myopic kid with thick glasses, it always seemed that I would pick out the girl in the class who wore glasses, and then date her. Finally married a high myope (her power even higher than mine).
In the last couple of years, the trend has been smaller frames with high-index or polycarbonate lenses, as well as Lasik and contacts, of course.
This has made it more infrequent to spot those with truly high powers, as they are not as obvious.
I continue to wear a regular plastic CR39 lens (lined trifocals, too) with a wire frame with 54 eye size. My lenses may be at least 8mm or 9mm thick.
Today, I enjoy wearing glasses even more than ever. I truly believe that my glasses are my distinguishing characteristic, and I'm blessed to have a high power and actually live my fetish for glasses.
My wife doesn't have a glasses fetish, but it's no secret that her glasses were one of my attractions to her, and we've been married 14 years. Fortunately, she has stayed with her thick glasses exclusively, too.
Would appreciate your feedback.
Spec-tacular 24 Dec 2001, 02:24
Glasses are sexy that's why my site is full of girls wearing them:
Hearty 23 Dec 2001, 22:33
Where to put this, well since I'm a lil fetishist, I'll post it here.
A VERY Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you all!! I have put up a pic (somewhat embarrassing might I add) of myself in the 80's, wearing my humungous aviators (at least large by today's standards) on my Mike Ward page. Ohhhh, dont make me recall the url?? ummm....http://hometown.aol.com/mikeward.html
Sounds right to me....I had the audacity to put it right next to the artist's ideal optix pin-up...aint I brave?? Anyway, all keep safe, you mean so much to me...Enjoy!!
Hearty 23 Dec 2001, 22:29
Michel,
I agree somewhat with you...I was never quite so attracted to glasses until I met the guy I see now....and one other, many years ago...yet I have been out with, and married, others with specs....so for me it's the whole package and yet...
I do enjoy collecting glasses and looking at them...but I dont take them to bed with me, unless they're attached to my guy. 8)
Michel Delving 20 Dec 2001, 21:33
I don't think that it is the glasses that most of the people in here think are so sexy.
Personally, I think there is nothing sexier than a female wearing glasses. Especially a very hot looking female wearing glasses full time that are anywhere from -1.5 to -6 in strength.
It is not the glasses that I love so much, but it is the sight of the woman wearing them
Bobby 20 Dec 2001, 12:17
I wish you a good luck Chino!
I still remember my "half-blind" date with my GF (lets call her April - it is a translation of her Internet nick). I was really nervous.
Chino 20 Dec 2001, 07:56
LOL!! Man, I wasn't expecting that!! Good one SZ6. She's not blind at all *heehee*. That's what I get for not being explicit...damn...smart asses ;). She wears specs, but I don't know her RX. My aunt says her glasses are pretty thick, but since my aunt is not an OO, I'm betting her specs aren't THAT thick...She's probably around my RX or something.
SZ6 20 Dec 2001, 07:44
How blind is she, Chino? :)
Chino 20 Dec 2001, 05:11
Bobby, sorry things didn't work out the first time you tried. Wish you the best with your new GF man.
Personally, GWG loving [as LikeGlass would put it :)] is a part of me, part of who I am, my personality...It's as inseparable as my head. I mean sure, you could decapitate me. Shit, I wouldn't be myself after that would I? It's the same with GWG loving. I could deny it, suppress it, just keep it to myself. But for what? I'd be a shell of the man I am...I wouldn't be myself. I wouldn't be me.
It's only fair that I let any future GF know this first and foremost. If she wants to be with me, she's just going to have to understand it, and live with it. If it's going to be a problem, then things just aren't going to work out. You just can't keep stuff like that secret, especially when you're so intimate with someone...you do that, and you're pretty much lying to that person every time you're with her.
If things are going to work out, she's gotta like me for me - in my entirety. People get this misconception that "Oh, it's OK, I'll change him." Bullshit!! Nobody can change me except me.
That's kinda my policy. I let her know about my fetish right off the bat, and if she's got a problem with it, then move on. There are so many people in the world...there's no point being with someone who doesn't dig you all the way. I don't want to do that - I won't do that - shit, I flat out refuse to do that!!
So GWG lovers of the world, unite and ROCK ON!!
Chino
p.s. I have a blind date I'm meeting in Milwaukee next week. I wrote her a letter last week and in that letter, I told her about my fetish. Heehee, I'm kinda interested in what she thinks. But as I said, if she doesn't dig it, OH DAMN WELL!! I'm only 20 years old. I've got the rest of my life to find the right person ;).
Dave 19 Dec 2001, 20:48
I would love to shout my obsession from the rooftops but my instinct has always been not to. I've always thought nobody would understand, and from Bobby's experience (sorry for you man) it was probably right to stay silent. I agree with Christy insofar as it would be nice to be able to play fair - but I think it would have to be early on, and if the relationship were to continue - great!
As an aside, I've been caught "staring" at GWG's enough times that I'm sure some of them must suspect. How about it girls with glasses? Can you tell when somebody you meet is obsessed with your specs?
Christy 19 Dec 2001, 14:13
Bobby - if you always play fair - I think things will work out best for you. You have my best wishes.
Bobby 19 Dec 2001, 14:11
1. Sorry for the typos in the previous post.
2. I thought my GF might understand because I found her over Internet. My advert read: "Slim, crazy man wearing glasses seeks a nice specsgirl."
Bobby 19 Dec 2001, 14:07
As you know I confessed I like GWGs to my wife many years ago. You also probably know I told my wife in summer I had GOC.
Now I know I it was a mistake. My marriage is broken. We split in fact although we still live in the same house. Now my wife knows too much about me.
I may have made the same mistake once more:
I told my new GF about my attraction and about GOC. I wanted to give her the possibility to end our relationship if it was a problem for her.
I could not help myself but telling her, becuase I prefer fair play.
Dockman 19 Dec 2001, 11:30
The number of GWGs who visit this site is only a minute fraction of all the GWGs worldwide. Just to think about all the girls who are probably wearing glasses and thinking they are the most unattractive females on the planet when in reality they are worshipped by the majority of the males here is amazing. There are tons of girls with that opinion; that they are unappealing with their glasses on. They have no idea that guys like us are out there. Gwg's make the world go round. I'd rather be married to a beautiful girl with glasses than to anyone that we see on our TV screen. I had to get that off my chest, I think GWG's are the coolest.
Dockman 19 Dec 2001, 09:44
At times, I wish I had never confessed my feelings about glasses and myopia to my wife. The pressure was enormous; I finally had to tell her how intense the attraction was to me. The difference now is that she knows I find her dependence very stimulating and she knows I like seeing her straining to see. Therefore, she rarely allows me the pleasure of gazing upon her bare-eyedness. She has remarked how she doesn't want to talk about her glasses. Obviously she does not find her need for glasses to be very interesting. Now, she can read me like a book. If anyone is into watching figure skating, there is a girl from Russia, Maria Buturskya, who used to have quite a problem seeing her scores after competition. I always tried to watch . Last Sunday, I heard that Maria was skating, in fact my wife told me, so I came to the television to watch, and my wife said," You're just trying to see if Maria squints" Absolutely correct, I thought to myself. The last few competitions have revealed that either Maria has contacts or she has had Lasik. It's great fun being married to a myopic wife, but now it's like she can read my mind.
www.GwGs.co.uk 13 Dec 2001, 09:49
I got into glasses when I was about 16, when a friend of mine suddenyl started wearing them, I didn't fancy her before she wore them but all of a sudden she would wear them all the time and not take them off.
The fascination with girls and glasses are grown since then, and I am the host to girls with glasses websites: http://www.gwgs.co.uk/ and http://www.gaws.co.uk
take a look at them - I think you'll like them!
Nikki 06 Dec 2001, 19:53
Both my parents didn't get glasses til into their 40's. My mother is first started wearing hers after her job became mostly computor based, she was shortsighted in one eye and longsighted in the other and also had a bi-focal element built into her lens somewhere as well, my Father was far-sighted and also diabetic which I think contributed to some of his eye problems...
leelee 06 Dec 2001, 19:48
My Mom has worn glasses since childhood, but I remember her pestering my Dad to get his eyes checked - stalking around after him him all over the house one day. I was just relieved she was nagging someone else for a change. At some point later we started to see these funky big black glasses come out with the newspaper, which is how it still is.
Julian 06 Dec 2001, 17:19
Nothing to contribute on this one - my mum was a full-time wearer (plus lenses with no cylinder) before I was born, and my dad had readers. I am pretty sure having a spexy mother has a lot to do with my optic obsession - deeply freudian, but am I complaining?
Love and kisses, Jules.
Christy 04 Dec 2001, 12:31
When I was a tiny kid I remember my dad coming home from work - and he must've had a medical or something - which no doubt included an eye test. Anyway - I remember him saying that he might have to wear glasses - and I thought this was so funny that I burst out laughing and said he'd look like Billy Bunter (a one-time popular fat and four-eyed cartoon character). It went down like a lead balloon! Anyway, my dad didn't get glasses and I only noticed he had a pair of readers on my most recent visit. My mum got readers about 10 years ago and I remember her making some comment about not being able to see without her glasses - but I couldn't help noticing that her distance vision was pin-sharp without glasses.
Lazysiow 04 Dec 2001, 10:17
I just had an idea, how did everyone react when their parents first got glasses, any stories?
I'll share mine later when I come back :)
Hearty 01 Dec 2001, 14:14
Hmm, substituting a guy for the girl, I have to say I get disappointed if he says he has perfect eyesight, even if he wants to wear glasses...I need that helpless aspect, one of these evenings Chino, I'll attempt to gel my thoughts on that....though it might set me too high on that scale we spoke of a while ago....8))
Leather-clad squinty, ooooh yea!!!
Julian 30 Nov 2001, 10:13
Yes, I suppose that might worry some people...I just went berserk at the thought of the leather-clad biker scenario when I substituted a guy for the girl.
Love and kisses, Jules.
Spexy guys are sexy guys.
Myhopeinhere 30 Nov 2001, 09:45
Trouble with Harleys is the reputation they have over here in the Uk,stereotypical Vilage people if you follow my drift,or 40 something poseurs,give me a good Triumph Daytona anyday,anyway,almost on the thread how about when a gorgeous leather clad biker girl takes off her glasses to remove her helmet,squints around then puts them back on,ahhh!
Chino 30 Nov 2001, 09:35
You're not the only one stud...I'd have to take her with me after saying something like that. Shit, she could wear my specs :)
SZ6 30 Nov 2001, 09:12
Does anyone else find it sexy when a very pretty girl says "I've always wanted to wear glasses, but I have perfect eyesight," or am I the only one?
Christy 30 Nov 2001, 05:37
Now you folks all know I love wearing glasses. My dentist wears glasses - and he'd be delighted to read some of the stuff you've posted below. He's a complete Harley obsessive. No matter whether he's drilling, pulling or polishing he always manages to steer the conversation round to Harleys.
"Been anywhere interesting recently?" he'll ask.
"Aaarhh krr rhhrggh," will be my reply.
"Ah yes," he'll say, "Rode my Harley through there!"
Randy4eyes 29 Nov 2001, 08:50
Chino: As I particularly liked your Thought for The Day posts, here's my tuppence worth:
Maybe a Buell is a dressed-up Harley (sportster), but no less of a bike for that. At least it handles, brakes and you've still got that low-down grunt - what more do you need?
I had the choice between a Buell and an M900. I got the Ducati as it was the same price new (in the UK) as a second-hand Buell. Get it! Enjoy!
Chino 29 Nov 2001, 04:55
A Ducati!! I'm not THAT rich!
Myhopeinhere 28 Nov 2001, 22:54
Surely a Buell is just a dressed up Harley,blow it all on a Ducati 916 Senna!
I'll suffer with my knackered old Gpz 1000!
Hearty 28 Nov 2001, 17:07
Chino, I've seen some very cool vintage bikes...be careful if you get one though (see, no biker chick here!)
Tammy and Nubbins, oh wouldn't i LOVE to know, as well! He has no idea and I don't know if there would be any way I could find out from his optician? He always had astigmatism and said he could see fine, he just wore them for eye strain because he got headches. After I began dating him, two years ago, and after assuring him he looked sexy in them, he started wearing them more, but still not in say, a club, party, or while drumming.
Soon he'd come over, wearing them in his shirt or on his head, it was like he was starting to keep them close to him...oh and once, ooh lala, he had to help me with my laptop, and he said he could hardly see the text without his glasses. Well anyway, I finally talked him into getting a more updated pair, we went together to pick them out, which was a highlight of my life! (the only way I would have missed his dr appt. was, I had surgery that day!)When I asked him if his rx was different, he said that he was having a bit of trouble close-up, so they 'gave him something to help that' and he said for distance, one of his eyes had to work a bit harder than before.
You know, they must have changed it somewhat, because there was much looking over them and then through, comparing his vision, and he'd take them off, often, only to put them right back on again. Oh gosh, that transition was soooo incredibly intense for me, yet I held it all in, kept my feelings to myself, because I didnt want him to feel inhibited about them.
And now, well they go on as soon as he rises, he makes his morning coffee in them, and he only takes them off to go to sleep. Sorry, this is a lot more than merely telling his rx, but I love writing about it...Oh and I just cant tell anything about the rx from wearing them, things just look very screwed up, kind of smeary....
Hearty
Hearty 28 Nov 2001, 16:50
LOL, noooo, I'm not a biker chick, but don't most of us have a bit of that inside? I'm sucha split personality I embarrass myself, I love sitting home watching bette davis movies and drinking tea, but then the rocker chick comes over me and....and.....I find myself puttin' on some tunes with my sis' band in leather hot pants. Rock n roll soul, yeah~ I LUV singing loud in my Ford 'Focus'! 8)
Tammy 28 Nov 2001, 15:37
Hearty,
I am wondering what his rx is too.
Chino,
I think you should go with the Honda!
Chino 28 Nov 2001, 08:49
Speaking of bikes, I need help deciding which one to get this spring. Should I go for the new 2002 Honda 919, or should I stick to the ass-kicking Buell X1-Lightning? So far, I'm still feeling the Buell. What do you guys think?
The bike-loving Spexaholic
Tikins 28 Nov 2001, 08:17
Hearty,
Are you a biker chick?
nubbins 28 Nov 2001, 08:05
hearty... what is his rx?
Chino 28 Nov 2001, 06:15
Hearty, explain the helpless aspect to me. I've heard people mention it before, but what's it really like? What drives you wild about seeing your guy helpless without specs? And what do you want to do when he's in that condition?
Hearty 27 Nov 2001, 20:11
It happened last night!! I guess it's a good way, yet almost TOO much for me, it drives me mad!!!! Well....taking a deep breath.....I told 'him'as we sat on the couch, "You are so beautiful the way you gaze straight ahead through your glasses, but it is almost too much for me, it almost bothers me..." To which he replied, "I'm sorry, but I need to wear them," and in a puppydog voice, "I can't see very well without them, I seem to be wearing them more and more." I had to hide my aaaaaaaaaahhhhhh, cause while he knows I have a glasses fetish, he is not aware of the vision aspect of it, or the thought of him helpless aspect.
I also go wild when he sighs and rubs his eyes and says, "Ohh, my eyes..."
oh help.....Hearty
Chino 27 Nov 2001, 12:57
That's an interesting point Hearty...brings up a new topic.
What "things" does your significant other do that's either adorable, or just drives you wild (in a good way)?
Hearty 21 Nov 2001, 10:00
That inspires me to build a...'Drummers who have shaved heads and glasses and smoke and have compulsive problems and perhaps a club foot and tend to put on weight and have big thighs site'! Whew, do you think I'd get any hits??
I love to see my guy with a ciggie in the center of his lips as he does housework or makes coffe, etc. I dont suppose that is anything like blowing up balloons....nah, that sounds more like a guy thing to me....gosh, we do have our 'things', like James Spader said in Sex, Lies & Videotapes. I think it's awfully fun though!!
LikeGlass 17 Nov 2001, 07:34
Subject: Crossover Fetishes
Most who know me, know that I like Girls with big hoop earrings as well. No luck for me on finding a Glasses / Hoops site yet :(
However, I also like pics of cute girls blowing up balloons. (Dont know why) There are many sites that are dedicated to that, so I guess its not that strange...
Now the news- http://www.mellyloon.com/news.html has now started filling this crossover nitch with pictures of Girls With Glasses blowwing up balloons! ;)
(not nude or porno, just cute)
Just thought Id post this in case I am not alone!
Hearty 16 Nov 2001, 18:00
Bobby,
Way ta go, I'm glad you are feeling happy, you deserve it!
Glasseslover,
I found it worked pretty well for me when i did as Bobby said, little by little, revealing a bit more now and then. However, while he knows know that I'm an out & out fetishist, I still downplay it and hide many of my feelings when I am with him, so he will know that it is HIM, the man, the soul, that I care for, primarily. 'Cause some can misunderstand and see us as shallow.
But, every now and then, I unleash all of my feelings. Only once did he become angry and tear his glasses off, so I knew I had to be sure to let him know it is the man I love...
Sorry this got so long! 8)
Hearty 16 Nov 2001, 17:53
Hi Marc!
Ooh, I know, I did have several great pics of Kurt with those thick lenses, but I just felt disloyal to have so many men's pics on a web page...lol, but yeah, I've wondered the same thing! It must be hard for him, unless he wears a contact lens....
Marc 16 Nov 2001, 16:18
Hearty,
Those eye patch pix of Kurt Russell are fascinating because he is also quite farsighted. (He frequently wears plus glasses). So, I wonder how it is for him to have see out of only one hyperopic eye??
Bobby 16 Nov 2001, 15:22
Glasseslover,
be carefull and go step by step. As far as my experience is the obsession as wide as we have is very difficult to understand to the others.
Bobby 16 Nov 2001, 15:19
Leon, my wife and me still live together, but we have been sleeping in different rooms for almost a year. No sex for even a longer time.
recently we made an agreement: Neither of us expects anything from the other, but we have a "business" together - the kids and the house. This "business" should run well. She has her own life, I even do not know 99% of her friends. A sad story, boy.
GlassesLover 16 Nov 2001, 00:14
I did manage to tell my wife about my fetishism for glasses and she did accept to wear glasses to arouse me during sex BUT I'd like to tell her more about my obsession with vision imperfections...I'm not really sure how she'd take it...Any suggestions would be most welcome...
Leon 15 Nov 2001, 22:55
Bobby, does the fact that you are dating women mean that you and your wife have split up?
Hearty 15 Nov 2001, 17:43
Hi Chino, always rockin', you'd better believe it! Lots going on and a new job, but I can't wait to do some luscious reading & posting soon. Ohhh, sniff, I took down my Guys/Glasses page, in respect for the drummer boy, but just HAD to keep up my pics of Mike Ward and a couple of Chester (Linkin Park) Somehow a couple eyepatch pics of Kurt Russell, found their way in there, too! 8)Can I put up the url? http://hometown.aol.com/Moonmuse77/mikeward.html I THINK that's it!
Am I remembering wrong, or are you the one in the armed forces? Hope you & everyone is keeping safe these days!
Hearty ~
Bobby 15 Nov 2001, 16:14
eh, Christy the lady was too old for me to date, but as you already know, and the other are just getting to know, there was ANOTHER lady, of a suitable age, who .... well, our second date will be on Saturday.
She is 38, slender, waist-long brown hair, brown eyes, slim hands with long fingers and ... yes ! glasses (-5.5 D)
I am in love. Old Bobby fell in love like a young student. She is so beautiful!
Christy 15 Nov 2001, 13:49
Bobby - I hope that when I'm old I'll still think glasses are sexy!
Bobby 15 Nov 2001, 12:57
While I was surfing a Czech website concerning dating (it is called rendens-vous) www. rande.cz, I found an advert were the woman says "glasses are sexy even on men". Unfotunately she is too old for me.
Chino 15 Nov 2001, 06:58
Hearty! It's great to hear from you again stud, missed you there for a while. How have you been? How are your websites going?
LOL! Oh, and just FYI, I was hoping to get SOMEONE started. So if that someone happens to be you, rock on sister.
Good to have you back.
Hearty 13 Nov 2001, 23:06
Ka-thump!oof! (squinting while wiping lenses) where am I? Ahh, I think i SEE now.....
What a grand idea, Wurm, a tasteful decoration on the frame or lens! Kind of perhaps like the French used lil jewels on a cheek-bone or brow....
Chino....ooooh, don't EVEN get me started!!! heehee....good to be back!! Hi guyz ~
Russell 30 Oct 2001, 10:04
Julian: I am very susceptible to motion sickness. I found that when I first starting wearing GOC, I was plagued by a queasiness that went away as the day wore on. I don't know if it was the new glasses (I went from -.25 to -6,) or if it was the combo of glasses and contacts. I did find that for a few days, I took Dramamine tablets in the morning. This stopped the feeling of being seasick. After those first few days, I quit taking the pills and I have had no problems. This might work for your friend. Has he just gotten these glasses? Perhaps he just needs that adjustment period, and the Dramamine might help. Also, if he is opposed to drugs, he might chew on ginger root or candied ginger. This is a well-known natural remedy for motion sickness.
Julian 29 Oct 2001, 04:41
I really don't know where this post belongs in the new scheme of things.
A young friend of mine (well, he's 38), around -5 including astigmatism, gets a 'seasick' feeling when wearing his glasses especially at a computer (and so at work). No such problem with contacts, but he can't tolerate them for long. The silly boy has decided to have laser treatment :(
We had some warning material on the old BBS and some URLs for serious articles on the subject; I'd hate him to spend all that money and perhaps be not better (and incidentally he is SOOO sexy in glasses)
Love and kisses, Jules.
Andy 24 Oct 2001, 00:25
Women in glasses are sexy and so I finished updating my site. All page have got their new pictures. The internal server error of the forum is fixed and the forum is up working again. Have a look at http://www.g-w-g.de/gwg/ and see the new pictures
Now4Is 23 Oct 2001, 21:45
A few more:
1. Carry lens tissues and offer to clean HIS glasses.
2. Sweetly ask him to copy the blackboard or read the menu for you because you lost or broke them.
3. If you have to take them off to clean them, say, "You look so good I don't want to miss a single detail!"
Wurm 23 Oct 2001, 18:17
just testing links...
Wurm 23 Oct 2001, 14:59
Blast from the past:
10 SEXY THINGS FOR A GWG TO DO WITH HER GLASSES
1.Coyly ask him to find them for you because you're "blind as a bat without them".
2.Glance flirtatiously over the top of them.
3.Take them off, then let your hair down.
4.Toy with the earpiece in your mouth.
5.Slide them in and out of their case while talking.
6.Refuse to kiss him while wearing them then put them back on later, saying you want to be able to see him better.
7.Have him polish the lenses for you on his clean, soft cotton shirt.
8.Add a small, tasteful decoration: a little heart, jewel or monogram.
9.Get a special pair just for feeling your prettiest.
10.Enjoy them, show them off and know that those looks you get are admiring.
Chino 23 Oct 2001, 08:25
Hee Hee. Kinda makes me think of the whole barefoot, bare-eyed situation....specs are especially sexy when the person wearing them kinda teases you. Taking them off, messing with them, letting you have a fleeting glimpse of her eyes.
Better stop before I get myself all flustered.
amyntas77 23 Oct 2001, 08:21
Well,i have to admitt they certainly work with me :-)
Wurm 22 Oct 2001, 20:47
Aren't they, though?